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I resolve to ……………. !!!

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On the Eve of the Eve of the Eve of the day we set resolutions I was feeling strangely uneasy and restless and I didn’t know why but later in the day I read something and I thought ‘Bingo’ and I knew what the root cause was.

I had been hearing and reading things about people setting resolutions and achieving last years and somewhere inside subconsciously it had hit a nerve but now that nerve was raw and exposed.

All this talk of Resolutions had reminded me that I had set high expectations about 2014. I felt it was my year and I was super optimistic but now faced with the reality there was no obvious change from this time last year …. ooops !!

I won’t lie. It wasn’t a nice feeling and two more words beginning with ‘F’ came to mind. Flat and Failure but then I thought ‘really has nothing changed? Seriously?’

OK my money, job and home haven’t evidently changed but I have written several blog posts, got lots of followers. Have started a book (finally, so that’s a success). I drive a gorgeous car that I only once dreamt about and have had a fantastic holiday. I have made new friends and I have helped people and have a fantastic romantic relationship. I am constantly able to remind myself there is a solution to EVERY problem which is backed up even today with amazing miracles manifesting which minimizes fear and for the foremost I am very happy.

I think that is progress and a success.

Another gift or miracle was receiving an email that Greg Kuhn had just posted a new blog post and it’s contents were just what I needed to read.

You can check the full version out for yourself which I highly recommend but in short Greg was reminding me that via Quantum Physics we learn that we are given a clean slate every second of every day not just in January.

I also saw some amazing pictures/quotes on Facebook that made me feel even better.

I have written previously that the Universe is sending us messages every second of every day like the opportunity to start a fresh and I ‘Feel’ the email and the quotes were sent for me to ‘Feel Better’ instead of a ‘Flat Failure’ and maybe that should be our only resolution to find the best feeling thought in any given situation.

So I resolve ………… !!

“I resolve not to resolve ever again on the Eve of a New Year but to live in the Present Moment”

Imperfectly perfect

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The other week I watched a Super Soul Sunday where the contributor spoke of how you can get anger out of your system in 60 seconds. Just breath gently and think of something else and you can get rid of anger. It’s our choice to feel angry and we can simply just decide not to be angry. I liked this thought and have been practising it.

Making a choice about a situation and labelling it good or bad echoes what I have learnt from one of my favourite authors Greg Kuhn and another bit of Greg I like to think about while I aim to do practices of learning to enhance my personal experience is that ‘I Am Growing a Greater me’ which happens aptly to be the name of his new book, well almost its “Grow a Greater You”.

Inspiringly Greg openly admits that he to practices the advise he is giving to others and that he is not perfect and has bad days. I felt good reading that but not in a disparaging way, just that it makes me feel OK to be human and not always being on top of my game too but my greatest shock was from another Super Soul Sunday when Oprah whilst interviewing a minister openly admitted to not being able to get a handle on not getting annoyed with people who do things that frustrate her and the peace-loving minister said “Me too”. I just thought if there are two people who would have this sussed one is Oprah and the other was a God-loving man.

I am far more sorted than I have ever been in my whole life in getting a handle on being frustrated or angry but feel I am not succeeding in other areas.

Sometimes it just helps to know that people who we may assume have it all worked out still have work to do on themselves as do everyone and you may be doing far better than you assume you are and it is OK to be Imperfectly Perfect

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Higher and Higher

I make it a habit now when ever I Am commuting or walking around the supermarket, running errands etc to plug-in and hook up with motivational material using my iPhone and Youtube app.

It’s all a bit random trusting that the Universe is guiding me to what I need to listen to. Yesterday it was the link below. I decided to listen to it again today when I had an opportunity to take notes but the last bit of material struck a chord at the time and struck me again when I heard Matthew McConaughey’s Oscar Speech that personally, blew me away.

The contributor to the podcast quoted T D Jakes “If you are the smartest person in the group you need to get a higher group.” Always have people higher than you, or smarter than you.  Look up to people who have been there, worn the T-shirt to encourage your continual growth.

As I said previously I personally was struck by the content of the speech but I Am also aware that it has attracted a lot of media attention, both positive and negative. If you haven’t caught it I have attached the best version I could find despite poor quality and lip-sinking issues all the content it there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nsR3SJMc8Q

I liked the fact that he thanked God for gracing his life with opportunities that he knew were not of his or any other human hand and proudly stating that it is a scientific fact that Gratitude reciprocates. The acknowledgement to his mothers amazing gift of self-respect and that his hero is himself in 10 years time which echoes the T D Jakes quote above.

This statement may go over the cynics heads and may have gone over mine 10 years ago but I so get this now and I AM definitely a calmer, happier, stronger, far less fearful person than I was 4 years ago let alone 10 thanks to reading “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne and numerous books on “The Law of Attraction” and “Quantum Physics”.

In 2014 I have made it a continual habit to say what I AM grateful for before I open my eyes, as I close my eyes and as often as I remember throughout the day and I thank the Universe for the opportunities that will arrive despite whatever my life looks like now as I practice the habit of ‘Faith’ not ‘Fear’ and I continually find things to grow the better version of me and eradicate negative thought patterns that I have created subconsciously that hinder my ability to manifest the life as I desire it and affect the ability to respect myself so whatever the opinion I raise my glass to you Mr McConaughey and everyone else who chooses to aspire to a Higher and Higher version of themselves or serve others to do the same.

Feeling honoured, feeling blessed and amazingly grateful

The other day I read, the easiest way to get to where you want to be, ask the question “what would my life feel like if I were free.”

This made me think of another question which I journaled, which was” what do I need to do NOW to ………”. And wrote down a persistent desirable goal.

Then randomly a post on Facebook by Ali Brown attracted my attention, I clicked on the link and downloaded a free audio. It made me come alive and I went to bed excited and inspired.

It activated me to listen to a YouTube clip of Tony Robbins on the way to work and I used my lunch break to re-listen to the free audio and take notes. My brain went into overdrive brainstorming all the things I needed to do. I even improved in my performance at work and when approached and was requested to do something for a colleague it flowed out of me instantaneously and I achieved the task in 5 minutes. I realised this is just the way I Am, this is my  “Aliness” working at her normal, well Aliness !! But it wasn’t until this moment that I recognised that I hadn’t truly been, being Ali.

Later I watched a Wayne Dyer Youtube clip talking to Anita Moorjani (author of “Dying to be Me”, a must read) and Anita had said what she learnt from her experience was that our purpose was not to be positive, our purpose is to be ourselves.

 

In the Ali Brown audio it reminded us that when you make a decision the Universe supports you and offers you opportunities and not to operate from fear operate from faith and I knew thus to be true because ….

it reminded me of times that I had made a decision and gone, ‘right that’s it enough is enough’ I am amazed at the seemingly ‘miracles’ that show up and I go whoa that’s a coincidence (Universe supporting me, no coincidences but naive me didn’t know that back then) then something negative would happen and confidence comes crashing down and fear sets in, all self belief flies out of the window … Back to same old same old until the next time – Fish Tank syndrome (check out Greg Kuhn)

From my new perspective and knowledge about the Law if Attraction I can see now why the “Coincidences!” showed up and know NOW I have to give fear the boot and walk on in faith because thoughts become things and as my desire is now my most predominant thought (Napoleon Hill), if I maintain the right vibration ‘I Am THAT, I AM, it is done, thank you !’ (Neville Goddard/Moses Code inspired quote say to myself more and more when I think about a desired outcome).

As if a gift from the Universe saying “well done, keep doing what you are doing.” I had written a blog post based on an experience I had just had and called it “Playing the Pam Game” and Pam Grout actually tweeted me and liked my post, hence – feeling honoured, feeling blessed and feeling amazingly grateful.

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For me if I was a 14-year-old girl, getting that tweet from Pam Grout was like getting a tweet from One Direction !!

Look for the blessings, look for the signs and look for the things to be grateful for because they are there and the more you look, ye shall find and the more you find the more things you will have to be grateful for …… remember we are all tuning forks really and we can only attract what we focus on ………….. FREEDOM PLEASE, THANK YOU VERY MUCH – I AM THAT, I AM !!!!

Manafactured Happiness

In the practice of “Growing a Greater me” (See Greg Kuhn books) and from advise from many, many, many books I have read, when I wake before I even open my eyes or even contemplate getting out of bed I say things (in my head) like ‘Today is going to be the best day of my life’ or ‘Thank you for such and amazing day’. I also give thanks for random things that pop in my head but another practice I have been doing more and more is sending LOVE out into the Universe particular anyone that tends to make my life more complicated than it needs be. Instead of getting frustrated or anxious about them or my day, I send the particular individuals LOVE, then everyone, then everything, trees, birds, plants etc and then the whole flipping Universe and talking of flipping, if my friends and family read this they would think I’ve flipped, but do I care?
 
Do I flipping eck’s as  like !! (English colloquialism meaning NO !!”)
 
Shortly after claiming today is the best day of my life as I snoozed the alarm on my phone I caught sight of an email saying good news about my lottery ticket, so there you go see not even stepped out of bed and it’s great. However my partner on the other hand sat on the edge of the bed and mumbled about how much he hated having to get out of bed. Me in my secret happiness (not knowing if we were millionaires, but being grateful if it was £2) said “That’s not very half glass full from Mr always Half glass full type of person” he replied “I don’t feel like being a half glass full person today”. Whilst he was in the bathroom and deciding not to be deterred from my happiness I went to my music player on my phone and found Nina Simone “Feeling Good” and pressed play. He poked his head out of the bathroom and looked around for the sound and shook his head at me in mock? disapproval as I made the bed ‘Happily’ but as the tunes continued to play his mood improved and made me laugh hysterically with his dancing to Curtis Mayfield ‘Move on Up‘ and he left the house in a decidedly better mood than when he woke.
 

The other day I came across the statement ‘Damaged Souls’ and I thought, NO soul is damaged, all souls are perfect, there are only ‘Disconnected Souls’. This helped me with people I found challenging. To look at them differently, know that behind the disconnectedness their formless part, the real, largest part of them, the 99.99% of who they and we ALL are is perfect. 

Earlier I read a bit of Wayne DyerYou’ll See it When You Believe IT” (revisiting old material) about some suggestions for personal transformation and the first recommendation was – Try to see yourself and others in formless ways and another suggestion was – Observe how others destroy their potential for happiness and success because they identify exclusively with their form. Completely reiterating my feelings the other day. 

When I came home I saw a perfect example of this and thought how or I wish I could help this person. They are having a really unpleasant time at the moment which they are cataloging on Face book day after day, and day after day the negative situations are snowballing as they focus only on these unpleasant events, they are completely unaware in line with The Law of Attraction they are self perpetuating their own circumstances. I honestly don’t know I could help as I feel they would not accept this if I spelt it out to them, so my only action at present was to post positive quotes via my wall in hope that they will be struck by one, or more.

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I then saw a long post by the formidable Wayne Dyer about a book he had recently ‘Felt’ and been invited to write the forward too. I have blatantly what would be in Face book terms, Fraped the post but it related so much to my mood. The book is called “Nurturing Healing Love” http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/140194423X/hayhousecom-20 but as it stated in the post that a portion of the proceeds go to a good cause I Am sure he won’t mind. This quote from Jesus struck me: “But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
 
Thinking about it I ‘FEEL’ so much better with my life as is stands today via always aiming to ‘Grow a better ME !!’ and sending LOVE where there could be darkness. Sometimes you have to just manufacture your own happiness and in the words of  Saint Francis of Assisi via Wayne Dyer in his amazing Face book post “Where there is darkness, let me bring light.” 

 

Little LOA’s

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Broke a dish and thought ‘I need a box to put that broken glass in’. A few minutes later walking downstairs and something sticking out from under the stairs catches my eye. A box of the perfect size. 

Watching ‘Strictly come Dancing’ and am having a conversation about a professional dancer who appears to be a very good choreographer. I explain that he has previously won the competition with his now personal partner but for the life of me couldn’t remember her name. The next morning come down stairs and she is on the TV program currently showing.

Leave the house to go to a Christening at exactly the same time as our new neighbour who appeared to be wearing a uniform and leaving for work. After the Christening we are invited to a village pub come restaurant for a meal. My partner informs me that he has just spotted out neighbour waiting tables. Out of all the venues etc etc.

I recently wrote in a previous blog about Ask, Believe, Receive theory and I have noticed that Ask, Believe, Receive has been coming into my awareness a lot recently and it made me think of the book “Ask and it is Given” by Jerry and Esther Hicks and how it kept tapping on my door and it took about three times until I thought ‘OK I’ve got the message’ and bought the book then yesterday I am reading a book that talked about it usually takes about three times before somebody acts on something then I read of a advised exercise in the same book and the author explains that the exercise was taken from ………… the Jerry and Esther Hicks book …… you guessed it !!!

Are there 7 billion different Universes plus?

Are the Strictly Come Dancing (Dancing with the Stars) judges proof of ultimate Universes?

The other day I considered, could my actual energy affect the physical world by my experiences I Am currently having or Am I actually just viewing my own personal individual physical world because of my current situations?

Sometimes because of my attitude to trust in the Universe, that things will always work out/get done (always has in the past) I Am guilty of from time to time letting things run away with me and not noticing I need to say “Stop …… Hammer time !!” But last Monday I threw my hands up (metaphorically) and said “that’s it, enough is enough!!” I emailed my boss requesting a chat as I felt like a subdividing embryo, first split in two, then four now six.

He agreed to a meeting on the Wednesday and on Wednesday driving to work the weather was miserable. Katy Perry song ‘Roar’ came on the car stereo which was uplifting and very apt because I was defiantly not going to bite my tongue and hold my breath. With my new determination to abolish ‘Fear’ ‘Doubt’ and ‘Anxiety’ and have total trust in the Infinite Field I would be brutally honest and what would be would be but subsequently everything would be OK.

 The meeting actually went amazingly well, my Line Manger was unexpectedly intuitive, hugely supportive and extremely proactive and I felt liberated and physically lighter for sharing the load.

As I left work the dreadful weather had transformed into an incredible evening with an unusual luminosity. Colours stood out from all sorts of nature that looked like it was physically shimmering and vibrating. That’s when it hit me. Could my mood have had a physical effect on my surrounding weather system or another thought could it just be me seeing dreadful weather prior to the meeting then a stunning weather after, echoing my physical feelings?

Could there in fact be actually over 7 billion different Universes being experienced all at the same time even if several people were in very close proximity? Could they, we all being seeing, feeling, experiencing something completely different? Even weather wise?

Lazy Saturday night in, take away and Prime-time TV. Not expecting anything taxing, just chillin enjoying light hearted entertainment and then ‘Bam!’ I may have evidence that Yes there are over 7 million different universe on earth alone. We had just watched what we felt was an enjoyable dance and one of the judges slates it. Then one of the other judges says “I don’t know what dance you were watching but I thought it was great, it had this, it had that …” Then I witnessed dance after dance whereby the judges (including us at home) appeared to be seeing different things (universes) and all at the same time.

 Via reading Greg Kuhn I have read several times an ancient philosophical question “If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there, does it make a sound?”  and Greg states (and I hope he doesn’t mind me referring to him?) The answer to this question is, that if there is no one there, there is no forest at all and honestly I do struggle to get my head around this but now my personal physical experiences have brought me closer to understanding this analogy.

 

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Quantum Man

Yesterday I was highly honoured to be connected to the amazingly wise Greg Kuhn. You could do a lot worse than check out Greg’s “Why Quantum Physicists” … series of books, all available on Amazon. He writes in a way no other author I have ever read literates. Check out His fish tank theory it will liberate you.

Connecting with Greg, reading his comment on my post and Pam Grout’s blog reminded me that I was back to labelling situations as ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’ and actually its just information and labelling situations blinkers me to ALL the options. It also reminded me of a “Live by List” I created for myself a while back but I was so busy living my current created physicality that I forgot to ‘Live by It’ and one of the bits of information on the list is “Tell NO stories”. If you read Greg’s books it will make sense.

Greg’s comment on my post also reminded me that I had forgotten some parts of the miracle of the Universe and the Quantum Field and that there are no accidents.

When I embarrassingly forget someone’s name I AM talking to and want to remember it and someone walks up and says “Hi Dave” that’s the quantum field.

When I remember I wanted to put a program in the TV planner but can’t remember which channel, day and time and it comes up on the next advertisement break, that’s the quantum field.

When I Am trying to lose weight and working really hard and its not working and I remember a time when I couldn’t visit the gym for 3 weeks and lost a kilo a week everyone of those 3 weeks and know deep down it’s got to be more about something other than diet and exercise and Greg Kuhn’s book “Why Quantum Physicists Don’t Get Fat” appears on the side bar of the email your reading. that’s the Quantum Field/Law of Attraction at work.

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