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I had a Vision but now what is happening? …

March 18, 2022 loalover Leave a comment

Wow, wow, wow !! What is happening in the world right now?

Should I be surprised?

I know everything is energy so why am I surprised?

One of the most important pieces of information I received in my life is by the late Bob Proctor and that piece of information was “Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income”

Just after I attracted my first income stream after creating a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card the Universe presented me with another opportunity and seeing this as multiple streams of income “no accident” I expressed and interest.

Wait for the eye roll 🙄

That Opportunity was a Network Marketing Opportunity however when it was first presented to me I had no idea it was a Network Marketing Opportunity and I had no idea that this kind of Opportunity had a negative connotation to it so the beauty of this was I went in with fresh open minded eyes and I found a wonderful Community of like minded people.

However gradually over time I found …

There were parts of the industry that didn’t resonate to me but because it was and still is, even more so now such an incredible industry to be in with literally the “Opportunities” it allows people for Personal Freedom to allow anyone and everyone to create an income whilst spending time with their children, not missing a sports day or birthday etc or partners can build together and earn while they travel etc but knowing of the True value from it but it’s tendency to draw a negative reputation I had a vision …

I had this version a while ago so much so I bought a specific domain name for it and this Vision was in part, a different way to build Personal Branded Passion Based Businesses with multiple location free assets with the Network Marketing Opportunity built in integrally but the real Attractor Factor is the Person being the brand and Their Passion and enthusiasm for a certain topic and if people decide to buy the products or join the Opportunity that’s Their prerogative if they see the benefit in it or not, whatever the choice maybe

There is more to it than this and My Vision that I, as yet I have really not seen implemented elsewhere but what I have seen as late is a table turning of some of the people that I follow who I resonate to but at the same time that who adopt through no fault of their own, some elements of the industry my gut just doesn’t sit right with and is out of alignment with my personal preference and why I wanted to work in a different way.

Don’t get me wrong. It is NOT illegal because let’s just get it out on the table here. Network Marketing is not illegal and some of the big Household name Companies are Network Marketing Opportunities and people don’t even realise it and some of the Biggest Household Personal Development names actively endorse Network Marketing as an amazing low point of entry way to start a business but some of the methods people adopt are methods I call “The Hit Em Up Method” and MY Vision was and is different.

I have been building infrastructures and various digital assets to help people identify Their Passions and see how they can monetize Them for several months if not longer but I haven’t as yet completed the full picture of how to move forward on my own Personal Area under the domain name I mentioned earlier.

That’s not to say I won’t because I have already created so much when at first I only had an idea but ‘no idea how’ and I have seen so many synchronicities happening to evidence to me it will manifest and these digital assets are already out there and can be purchased right now and people can already join my Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” but I haven’t at present found, for me the perfect umbrella how to market it all under that domain name that I purchased but what I have found at present is certain people seem to be moving in the same energetic thought process that the “Hit Em Up Method” may not be the way forward any more but instead of being frustrated that I have had this idea for such a long time and kept it to myself in “Faith” that it will manifest in perfect Divine Timing and these people who appear to being having a paradigm shift, because they are more in the public with a larger following and it may seem they moved their first. The Energetic Transformation excites me as a species.

When Edwin C. Barnes as discussed in Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich first had the burning desire to become business partners with Thomas Edison he was in no position to implement it but he was not willing to compromise on his vision and he was not discouraged about the potential amount of time it may take to fulfil his desire.

Seeing the change of outlook in these people and I am sure more will follow fills me with even more Passion for MY Vision. This evidences to me that this energy soup we are all part of is evolving.

Talking of evolving …

What ideas have you NOT acted on because You could not see how it could possibly manifest or it seemed so far out of reach in time, space and reality?

I tell You now. You don’t need to know how. The fact that you had the Inspired Idea is enough to know it is possible and if You act on Any inspired action step that seemingly “Just Pop’s in Your Head” I am convinced the ways and the means will follow but first

You have to start !!!!

How do I know …

A couple years ago (or more, I’m not counting but I knew I was in LoveDucks) I had this Vision of a totally location free automated way of doing business and Network Marketing in a non spammy authentic way with an added twist but when I expressed My Full Vision to some people they weren’t getting my ideas and giving ideas of their own that didn’t align with mine and weren’t able to help me in the way I thought they would and I admit I ‘was’ a little frustrating but it is ok because I heard an amazing quote since that said

“it is ok that other people don’t understand what you are doing because the vision was given to You and not them”.

I heard Bob Proctor make that Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income Quote Years ago when I hadn’t even made one income stream apart from my salaried job and had no idea how but …

Since then, when I wasn’t trying to force it synchronicity after synchronicity have lined up showing me how and a year ago I didn’t know how to create a sales funnel or a Lead magnet or Landing page and at first it took me months to learn these new skills but now I could do it in minutes and I have gone on to learn even more skills like how to start a Podcast, build a subscription platform, Membership sites including an exclusive one for the “Freedom Empire Builders” and though I am still building some of these assets and My own Freedom Empire, now I can teach others how to build Theirs in Their own unique way and style.

People talk alot about branding but I believe we are Our brand and everything else, colours logos etc are just gravy. People buy People not a perfectly executed Logo design.

When Frank W. Abagnale of “Catch Me if You Can” fame was asked how he managed to teach a class of University Students for a whole semester when in fact he was meant to be a student himself before getting caught his answer was “Simple. I just stayed one chapter ahead” he took the book set out for the curriculum home and simply read one chapter ahead of the rest of the class and taught it back to them.
My point being.

There is something “We Are ALL” Passionate about and because of it we are just one chapter ahead of someone else also Passionate about that subject and we can teach it back to them and they would be willing to pay us for our knowledge to fast track them ahead on their own journey doing what they love and loving what they do and why shouldn’t we be financially rewarded for the skills and expertise we have. We do it everyday ourselves to people like trades people that fix our boilers, repair our cars etc and when we find a really good one we hang on to them like goldust and even more. We recommend them to friends and family because we care about them and we want them to have, like us. Excellent service too. PS: This is just Network Marketing.

It’s time to know Your Worth and dust off those Dreams and Ideas and just take one tiny Inspired Action step and trust the Universe will Conspire to Make it Happen.

When we want to fly from London to New York or even travel from London to York we don’t need to see York first before we leave home. These days we trust our navigation systems to lead the way and the same is with Us. We are all built with our own Internal Navigation system ….

Our Intuition and that’s why my Vision is to be the “Intuitive Networking Coach” and Teach people how to do Network Marketing and Business a new way Using Transrational Techniques and move away from the cookie cutter DMO (Daily Method of Operating) and build our businesses from as Dr Hew Len would call it from a Ho’oponopono perspective ~ Zero.

If Your Intuition is crying out to know more about what all this is about? Do not hesitate to contact me

The easiest way to contact me is by grabbing my free gift at mywakeuphappy.com where you can get my Life Changing Morning Routine and join my email list (feel free to unsubscribe at any time) and just email me telling me you are interested in learning more about Intuitive Networking and starting Your own Passion Based Business or otherwise think that is a pfaff and want to know more asap just email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com

I look forward to learning about Your Own Freedom Empire Building ideas 💡 and hopefully helping You on Your Journey.

Either way

Have a Fabulously Attractive Day oxox

Law of Attraction, Passion Based Online Business

If it looks like a duck it may not be a duck

January 27, 2022 loalover Leave a comment

Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us

It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey

What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently

Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support

I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools

I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them

I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender

I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol

What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above

Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time

I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key

Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me

I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)

This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)

When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action

While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb

I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it

(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)

Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment

Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it
There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging

Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come

The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)

But this time I felt assured

I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day

I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic
I say unusually …..

It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously

I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask

I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all

Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”

Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean
Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock

But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing

In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business

Every night several things come to bed with me …

A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.

I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons

It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up

But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….

Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?

When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house
One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”

Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”

I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”

I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me
I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.

All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential

What’s my point to all this ?

When I tuned into my body the penny dropped

There was my answer to my financial questions

I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …

It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show

I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives

I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment

The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money

You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously

I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools

Thankfully using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago

Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise

I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”

As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor

“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”

That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift

Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts.
If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …

And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled …
Of course the international day of Love 💕

I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all

I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍

Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look

Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo

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Multiple income streams – Don’t put your Eggs in one basket ~ Part 1

September 15, 2019 loalover Leave a comment

Be aware … This is a Biggy content wise, Divine Download that just fell out of me unexpectedly but proof that I am on the right track with my new Venture because I haven’t written like this for ages so I must be tuned in, turned on, tapped in etc as Abraham Hicks would say and hopefully it will help someone.

I now thankfully have after writing out my “Bob Proctor” inspired Goal Card (see previous posts) where I really first learnt about Multiple Income Streams from his “Born Rich” videos and book a Bricks and Mortar business, an accompanying Facebook business page and an Etsy site. I also am building an Online Coaching Business based around The Law of Attraction now that I am a certified Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Training as a Life and Mindset Coach. I have recently created an Email list and YouTube Channel related to this and I have a 1-1 Coach/Mentor and part of several Mentorship Programs where I am learning the most up to date methods amongst other things in Network Marketing and Online Business as I am connected to a Network Marketing Company and just joined another and want to keep my ideas and methods Fresh and I am sure there is something I missed but Hey Ho …. Oh Yeah I have two part written books and I am intending to finish ASAP ~ I don’t say this to impress.

I say it to inspire because I started appreciating The Law of Attraction several years ago but this part only started since writing the goal card in 2016 so I suggest always have Fearless Faith in the so called absence of something that it is on its way.

People come to me in my Shop and tell me how much they Love the shop, how lucky I am. How they wished they could do what they love and most of them think it is an all or nothing situation. All Job or All business kinda thang and I say Sister, or Brother and then the pen comes out and the Paper and I say you need to go on YouTube and you need to check out Marie Forleo and Marie TV. Marie started her business at 23 when she realised what she had just studied for what wasn’t Rocking her world but she was a Savvy Sister and she knew it wouldn’t happen over night so she worked several jobs bringing in an income to cover her bills and allow her time to work on her business and with her clients. She waited on tables, did bar work. Taught hip hop dance classes. It’s not an all or nothing scenario. You don’t have to leave your Job right away you can build up gradually.

All my life I have hated the thought of being boxed in to one thing and looking back this has been evident in the choices I made like my choice of Degree course bless it, because looking back it never taught anything I didn’t already have in me but I chose a course where I didn’t have to be tied down to one discipline or medium and I would shout at the Telly when I saw people who were in a Soap Opera getting slated for branching out in a singing career or someone with a singing career getting grief for bringing out a Perfume. Who do they think they are? Stick to singing, acting etc and I was shouting “Who said they have to stick to one thing?”

Honestly I witnessed this but thankfully now it is the norm for celebrities etc to have more than one business venture. Like my Girl Marie. It is just straight up Savvy to have multiple income streams but unfortunately there are still people who cannot think out of the box as I witnessed this last week.

I have been dabbling with the idea of venturing in to another Network Marketing Company and having another income stream for a while and I have been googling and researching certain opportunities and I have had people reach out to me but nothing had caught my eye product wise or the product was right but the Compensation plan didn’t resonate and randomly during a car journey a thought popped into my head about my desired outcome for my lifestyle further down the line and how I love the Network Marketing industry. The people they are my kinda crew. In to personal development, more and more I am seeing The Law of Attraction. Seriously understand the importance of mindset, reading etc. Low cost business start up opportunity but huge potential for growth. Unlimited income. No gender pay gap and actually women are Rocking it over men and many many more reasons but my Company was product based and I want eventually to travel more an be fully location free and as I buy in and sell a certain amount of product and my Bricks and Mortar is product based I am not moving towards that much at this present moment.

As I said it was a random thought. It popped up in my head and it was gone as quick as it came. It was just like a “Hello, this is what you want. You not there yet. Just saying, buy!”

I can see now the Universe was conspiring

It had already been a weird kinda day. My Up line left shortly after I joined NWM and then my next Up Line left but for personal reasons.

I can see now that people can get sold the “bright shiny penny’ syndrome and they don’t see or treat it like a traditional business so if they don’t make a million pounds in a matter of weeks they say this is not working. I can’t do this (affirmations) and then they are off so I pretty much decided inspired by Eric Worre’s book GoPro to go it alone so I was surprised when someone I had known through Facebook for ages tells me they are my Up Line and adds me in to a group .

The next day a random set of events happened (but there are no coincidences – another post you will find on here) and the perfect opportunity came to my attention that is service based. Not product based and it get’s even more perfect than that but I’ll save that for another occasion but proving if your relax and allow the Universe can bring you what you want and far better than you can ever imagine.

I decide to join (money back guarantee but I don’t think I will need it) when I had a huge sign because in between painting ducks 😉 and voice messaging the person with the opportunity to check things out and having massive excited butterflies in my belly my phone said 11:11 and without them knowing I had seen it they messaged me to saying “OMG have you seen it is 11:11?” ~ “Yeah, it’s a massive sign. I’m in”

I was so excited about the perfection of what had just happened over the last couple days as the dust settled I started to think about my other NWM business. I know eventually I want location freedom but am I ready to give up the product based Company?

I listened to my gut and decided No. I love the products. I use them myself everyday. I don’t want to cut my nose off to spite my face. I have still a lot to build yet before location freedom is an option but it will be just nice to know that I can take more time off and travel more as I keep building and trust I will know when the time is right.

It hadn’t for a second occurred to me it would be an issue with anyone else (perhaps hands up naively) or to be in two Companies.

This purely suited where I saw my plans for my personal future going and I think it is sensible to have more than one income stream because realistically there are always going to be quiet times in one area or another and it is less stressful when you don’t rely on one sole source for your money to pay your bills when you are an entrepreneur.

After all, as great as Network Marketing is and I don’t see it happening to my Companies because of their products and service I have heard stories of people building teams and like traditional Companies theirs going bust and they have lost there business and income overnight.

I have also heard people talking about their multiple streams of income but I know all they are talking about is the different parts to their Compensation plan within their Company and it doesn’t matter how many streams there are within that Comp Plan if the business goes bust so does every one of those streams .

To me Entrepreneurship and NWM is amazing and is the future as more and more companies go bust and more things go online but obviously it is not without risk so why not diversify a little 😉 .

Note: I suggest you watch Eric Worre’s amazing documentary “Rise of the Entrepreneur ” easily found online

However I was a little surprised and taken back when out of courtesy I messaged my newly acquired Up Line to say “I am not leaving the Company but I just wanted to let you know I have joined another opportunity and they said they would have to speak to someone as they don’t like people in the group who do more than one thing”

Like I admitted Naive but as I had no ulterior motive like cross recruiting (didn’t even cross my mind) I was shocked when I saw their response and later that day I saw a notification I had been removed (from the group, not company).

No problem. I had been running my business solely on my own for months. No great loss but it did make me think how many other people in Network Marketing etc think they have multiple streams of income and what they actually have is multiple streams under one umbrella so in effect just one and how do other people perceive multiple streams of income and how I perceive them.

My perception I put down to thankfully to the great Teachings of Bob Proctor, Jim Rohn and Marie Forleo and it is probably because I am reading Marie’s new book “Everything is Figureoutable” and recent events that has posed this question

See Multiple Income Streams part two to see my example of what I perceive MIS’s to be ………………..

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Sometimes I need it like a hammer on my head !!

August 7, 2017 loalover Leave a comment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bb4SB2rCbGs&feature=youtu.be

I didn’t get it until I got this.

I’d read self-help books since the late 90’s but it wasn’t until I watched this film and read the book of the same name in 2010 I got it.

So if I got it why do I some times need a huge reminder to get it?

A long time ago I acknowledged if I saw something 3 times it was the Universe trying to get me to sit up and take notice so why oh why wasn’t I getting this message?

Plain and simple = Arrogance !!

Last week a like minded friend came round and we discussed books etc and the book “The Secret” came up. I’d recommended this book to so many people in and after 2010 when it came into my awareness but hadn’t thought or spoke of it in a long time.

I have habit of watching motivational material on YouTube and yesterday on ‘recommended’ the first thing that came up was the full length movie “The Secret”.

And today there is was again and I’d like to say it was the third time round trick that got my awareness ……. nah, in my head I was saying “I don’t need to watch that, I know all that. I’ve watched it read it years ago. I’ve moved on” but the Universe had other plans.

I swear I clicked off it to move on to another ‘Recommended’ that caught my eye however the film started playing any how and I am so glad it did.

Sometimes it seems we have to just get over our arrogance and say “Hey, why not. Let’s give this a rerun and see what it can teach us or remind us a second, third or even fourth time around”

What it the Universe trying to knock you over the head with that you are ignoring ? xx 🙂

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Bless the blessing

June 7, 2017 loalover Leave a comment

I had a habit of listening to inspiring information on my commute to work that I adopted from Ali Brown and made 21st century as Ali’s version was listening to Anthony Robbins cassettes via a walkman on the subway and mine was listening to YouTube video’s via the app on my smart phone.

Now that I work from home I am still listening to inspiring video’s but on my smart TV whilst dressing in the morning and this was one I was listening to the other day.

I love anything Michael. His voice is like hot chocolate sauce on your soul but this video I especially loved and it had an exercise in it that I stopped what I was doing to practice it. In the exercise your are asking questions of what the Universe is trying to express through you and my answers were as follows.

1. Love everyone

2. Practice tolerance

3. Bless everyone and everything that tests that tolerance

So every time I found myself making a judgement of any one or thing, however simple in my head and sometimes verbally I would say “Bless you”. Bless you, bless you, bless you, bless you.

Ok it did feel a little forced but it also helped me a) feel better and b) highlight how many judgements I make randomly without even realising it when I already think I am a loving, tolerant person.

What instigated this blog post was that in light of recent events I was finding a neighbour challenging. They have been knocking on my door daily as they are chasing the status of replacement item for their house.

My partner is a self employed trades person and our neighbour has adopted him as their personal handyman and knocked at our door randomly late on Sunday evening explaining that an item in their home has a slightly rusty fitting. It’s not broken, they just want it replaced for aesthetic reasons but they keep knocking everyday asking if he has sourced the part and when he is going to fit it.

I keep telling them that he is very busy and he is working daily away from town and when he returns the merchants is closed but he is trying his best but it falls on death ears and to them their whole world appears to revolving around this item and they keep knocking very anxiously.

They are not a client, he never asked to be their self appointed handyman but that doesn’t stop them acting like they are his number one priority yesterday when they knocked and I watched them walk away and then turned to reenter my home slightly bewildered that people have been mercilessly killed and families have lost loved ones and to my neighbour this is their number one priority in the world I found myself saying “Bless Her!”

I stopped in my tracks. I just blessed her subconsciously and didn’t have to remember or force myself to say it. It just happened naturally.

I liked that it came naturally. I like that appears to be becoming a habit and then I wondered is this situation the Universe testing me and my ability to be more tolerant and loving?

If this is the case the Universe also likes to joke as the same person that I am writing about just knocked on my door at 08:30am in the morning to ask if my partner is coming to fit the item tonight and I tried to tell them he is working very later tonight and can’t see them fitting it as when they finally get home they will feel done in and ready for their evening meal but they have asked to take my number so they can call me later to check just in case he is coming to fit it they will make sure they are home. Instead of getting frustrated I smiled and guess what ….. I blessed her.

Blessing people feels so much better in my soul than getting annoyed.

I felt compelled to pick up a Dr Wayne Dyer book up the other day and read it randomly (but there is no random in the Universe) and what I read was astounding but that is another blog post but it reminds us what loving people can do to the world and what being negative does to us. So I am blessing the blessing.

Have a great day guys 🙂

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I’m puppy (toilet) training ….. Me !!

December 4, 2016 loalover Leave a comment

The other day I was feeling a little off focus, disconnected and I knew I needed to charge my spiritual battery.

With this acknowledgement where do I go? What do I do?

One of the quickest, easiest ways I have found just to start making myself feel better is Pam Grout’s blog. Easily and effortlessly Pam has the ability to remind me how great this Universe is but on this day with at least 3 posts to catch up on, it felt like Pam was posting just for me. These posts were more profound than a quick shot of happy adrenalin.

Sometimes Pam posts examples of the emails she receives from people thanking her and telling her of the amazing things that have happened to them following reading Pam’s books and acting on the advise and one of them made me think that’s the next step to charge this my physical battery …. get some shape action or in other words reread Pam’s books.

In amongst the blogs and what I reread within a few hours I was reminded by Pam that in our human physicality we ALL, regardless of how phenomenal we think someone is who seems to have it all going on get wrapped up in our 5 senses and let doubt, worry and fear grab us by the delicate areas and shake us around.

This is what led me to the place of realising I needing to take things to a higher level. Something happened to me and I let myself become completely overwhelmed by fear.

What I also realised whilst reading Pam was all the magnificent information that I had highlighted and then completely forgot about. Pam said it herself that even she goes all 5 senses now and again and has to keep working daily to put herself first and remind herself of the power we have at our disposal 24/7. She described it like training a puppy not to pee on your slippers. You have to take it outside and show it all the incredible unlimited magnificence of the Universe it has at it’s disposal.

That’s when it struck me. I need daily reminders to go beyond the 5. It’s not a one time underline and forget situation. If I really want to rock my physical world with joy, happiness and abundance and remember the non-physical assistance I (WE ALL) have at our disposal literally every second of our waking and non-waking time space continuum I need to puppy (toilet) train my brain.

I have a digital journal running on an app I use called Evernote that I can access on any device and syncs to all my other devices so at the start of each day I have made a tick list of things I aim to do that day. I know I can be a little control freak on myself and then probably give myself a mental kicking if I feel I have failed to achieve something so I have created a balance for myself buy accepting that I am not going to tick all the boxes in one day so what doesn’t get ticked gets deleted for that day but I still have a track record of what I have achieved that put me and my personal happiness at the top of the tree.

The ticks are things like read something inspirational for at least 30 minutes, listen to a pod cast, meditate, read my goal cards, yoga, write things I am grateful for.

The list is evolving all the time because if I think of something that maybe beneficial but acknowledge I will probably forget to do it I add it to the list. The other evening I watched a Facebook Live with Anita Moorjani and Anita reminded us that the most important purpose in our lives is to love ourselves and when we think of an opportunity we didn’t take etc we probably berate ourselves but we should love ourselves. I had been thinking a lot what if’s recently but because of Anita’s words I have been loving myself. Not a habit I wanted to get out of so on the list it went.

I was listening to a YouTube video the other day with Bob Proctor ‘You Were Born Rich’ number 4 (amazing) where he discussed writing down what you really want and meditating on it and reading it everyday. I am guilty of doing that ages ago and now forgetting where I wrote it so I wrote a new expanded version and placed it at the top of my daily electronic journal and copied and pasted it in to all the other subsequent days for the months and will transfer it when I get to January 2017 which is already made up as it was one of my tasks to do the other day.

If I have something bespoke to do that day that isn’t on the generic tick list I place it under the heading Actions and these actions are in red. When I have achieved the action I change it to black and at the end of the day for what ever reason I couldn’t get it done and it was still red I just cut and paste it for the next day as a reminder.

I may listen to an interesting Podcast hands free whilst driving but not the next day so delete podcast but I may listen to Bob Proctor whilst shaving my legs and getting dressed instead. I most definitely read something inspirational for at least 30 minutes most days and everything seems to have some beneficial takeaway and I have become far more productive and happier and less fearful from my brain Training. I even wrote 2 chapters in a book I have been writing for a while that hasn’t happened in months so I was buzzing.

I could go on forever with all the other things I feel I have learnt or achieved since creating my list but I’m going now to tick ‘Blog Post’ something else I haven’t done in ages until I put it on the list 🙂

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LGLG Days

April 28, 2016 loalover 3 Comments

I won’t lie it has been really, really hard to hold my Faith the last few days as I tried even harder not to question why did such a terrible thing happen at the completely wrong time and during my time of trying not to reflect it did creep into my awareness that when I make a special declaration or work hard on changing old negative thought forms instead of things improving something majorly negative happens. I made one of these kinds of actions when my accident happened the very next day ironically shortly after saying the affirmation “I Am happy, healthy and wealthy” several times before raising that morning.

Acknowledging this observation made it very hard to want to focus on my dreams or goals and definitely not pursuing them. Accepting my lot seemed the only option and then I made a decision two days ago to have a ‘Let Go Let God’ day. I just wasn’t going to put any pressures on myself to do, be or have anything and just follow my instincts and follow any nudges.

At the end of yesterday as I went to sleep, I fell into a satisfied slumber. At one point in the day still feeling disbelieving but following intuition and reading a favourite authors latest blog post about seeing signs I had the thought “I want a sign” and not only that I wanted it in a specific way. I was still disbelieving in its ability and boy did I get what I asked for in a massive way in an amazingly short space of time. It seems so unbelievable I am not even going to detail it. I just know it happened and it renewed my Faith in the Universe.

Early in to the day today, I got the nudge to make today a LGLG day and I have followed the nudges and I have been led to even more amazing pieces of information and wrapped up within the information was the quote below.

“Every great work, every big accomplishment, has been brought into manifestation through holding to the vision, and often just before the big achievement, comes apparent failure and discouragement.” – Florence Scovel Shinn

I have been truly reminded that God’s delays are not God’s denials regardless of outside appearances and I have been infused with the idea to make every day a LGLG day.

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Happy (Accident) Song

April 10, 2016 loalover Leave a comment

I have definitely had a peak and trough week. No violins required but just a brief description of where this is going. I am at a point now that I am wet myself with excitement.

A few weeks ago I was watching the UK Voice TV program and Boy George made a comment on the lines of ‘pursuing music as he was literally unemployable’. That comment stuck with me. I have always wanted to be self-employed even as a teenager and at that point I had already made that decision to train for something that allows this possibility but it did make me think what is it about me that always goes into a job and shortly after needs to leave? Usually because I cannot tolerate certain types of people and their behaviours.

My first blog posts are about being a child and feeling the freak, the outsider. Having totally different aspirations than my peers. My first project at college where I returned to the class room with a totally different perspective than those peers.

I am at that point again where I am finding it hard to accept certain people’s behaviours and this week I was sat in a room where once again I felt completely alien to the majority of the participants.

On the day I got interviewed for this job I am in now it had a very strange turn of events as it usually does when you make a decision and the Universe conspires. My then boss who I had a good relationship with and who was also unhappy in their role asked me if I was looking for another job? I replied “I thought we all were?” (we, meaning our other colleague we shared the department with). They too then made a comment that stuck with me and has risen many times since “Don’t sell yourself short. You are very intelligent and amazing at what you do. I understand you need to look for a new role but don’t undervalue yourself that’s all I am saying”.

Unbeknown to them I had already turned down an interview for that morning which shortly after I found an email asking was it date and time and they could be flexible and I got interviewed that evening as the interviewers were down from London and had to travel back the following day.

At the time I was looking for a new role I was listening to Louise Hay every morning and I was imagining the types of jobs I would like, little details it would have and I received all of them but I clearly hadn’t thought about it detail enough looking back now and that is why I have often recalled the ‘Don’t under sell yourself comment’. I was so clearly desperate to get away from some of the 1970’s attitudes I was up against I didn’t think it through enough and I take full responsibility for where I currently am but at the same time I know it will be all ok and I constantly thank the lessons and the people I find arbitrary as gifts to ensure I do not stay in a comfort zone and keep moving towards my goals and dreams.

I mentioned that the week has had peaks and it has had a lot of peaks. I have been listening to Bob Proctors Born Rich program on YouTube that I have saved into my account from the Proctor Gallagher Institute channel. I have acquired the companion workbook and inspired by goal cards ordered some sleeves off of eBay of the like to create name badges for businesses etc and downloaded an app that you can add text to and found inspiring background pictures and added the text of my goals. I can now carry these cards everywhere and look at them often.

Last night I was watching the final of The Voice UK when Paloma Faith made an analogy that knocked my socks off. In the trough times I have questioned why do I so often feel the outsider? When I was at college that first project was to go out in to the environment and analyse what we saw and bring it back for a discussion group. As the Tutor went around the group I began to panic inside. I was un-confident and terrified to speak at the best of times but as I listened to my peers give descriptions of the devastation of man I was confused. I saw a different picture. I saw a picture of hope and despite whatever humans throw at the environment it finds a way to break through like moss on street signs and weeds through tarmac and there it was again that look from my peers as I expressed my findings, the outsider again. Eventually my whole finals at University revolved around us constantly rushing around and failing to see the simple beauty in the world and to try to encourage people to take time to stop and see that weed etc and appreciate it.

I have always been drawn to people like Boy George (who I thought had the most gorgeous eyes when I first saw him on Top of The Pops) Will i Am and Paloma Faith and what Paloma said that knocked my socks off was in describing an act that had just sung ‘In life in this concrete juggle we are all rushing through our lives all the time and some times you walk on the pavement and people are stepping over things growing out of the cracks and these things some people think are weeds butI will stop and look at them and think wow nature took over and those are beautiful flowers’ and Paloma felt the artist that had just sung was that beautiful flower sticking out the crack in the pavement.

Shortly after this heart stopping moment Boy George, my teenage hero took the same act to see Cyndi Lauper. I was transported back to being a teenager and reminded how much Cyndi’s song “True Colours’ meant to me as I sat alone in my room night after night.

This morning as I woke, I lay in bed and remembered that thing you have in smart phones where you demand it to do something for you when you are to lazy to use your fingers and stated find me True Colours by Cyndi Lauper. Without my glasses on I tapped at what I thought was True Colours and actually was ‘Time after Time’.

As I listened to the lyrics after such a long time I realised this could be an analogy of the Universe. No matter what you had planned that you didn’t follow through with. No matter where you are or what you are going through – “If you’re lost, you can look and you will find it. Time after time. If you fall I will catch you. I will be waiting. Time after time.

Realising my accident (or was it) I immediately downloaded “True Colours”

“You with the sad heart don’t be discouraged .It’s hard to take courage in a world full of people you can lose sight of it all and the darkness inside you can make you feel so small but I see your true colors shining through and that’s why I love you so don’t be afraid to let them show”

“If this world makes you crazy and you have taken all you can bear, you call me up because you know I will be there”

Listening to Paloma and Cyndi this is why I got pants wetting excited. When I can’t seem to find the right job, tolerate peoples ugly behaviours, feel like and outsider in a room full of people there is nothing wrong with me I am just in the wrong job for me and in a room of different types of people than myself that is not the right environment to show my true colours and if the decisions I have made in the past haven’t allowed me to show my true colours, it’s OK because the Universe is waiting for me time after time.

So I am calling up the Universe and I know that now I have made a decision it will conspire to make it happen

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Happy Song just because

March 25, 2016 loalover Leave a comment

I haven’t posted recently because I have been flat out investing in myself and using every spare moment.

I am currently employed but retraining to gain a skill and qualification to enable me to do something in a self-employed capacity and this is only a facilitation to the next step.

As long as I am breathing I shall be learning and growing.

I have been getting up early to study my books and to take my tests before embarking on my current paid job and meeting my Trainer in the evenings and at weekends.

My Trainer told me this week he had not known another candidate in his time of Training who had progressed as much as me at this point in the syllabus which just goes to show if you want something, anything bad enough it is possible.

On the drive home this song came on the car stereo. I was already buzzing but this heightened the intensity.

I thought ‘ahh this is a good one for a song list’ and it made me think. I wonder how much listening to Happy Music contributes to raising my vibration to a level that enables me to attract so much goodness in to my life?

If you have read my other posts you will know I have a habit of listening to YouTube and inspirational videos as I commute, travel, shop. An idea I stole from Ali Brown and I was listening to a Bob Proctor video the other day about becoming anything you desire and sometimes the information you already know packaged in a different way with a new eye catching bow, grabs you attention.

It was actually a guest speaker on the video who talked about this all prevailing energy that we have in this Universe which I have no doubt exists and the speaker said “This energy is everywhere 100% of the time and if it is everywhere 100% of the time it is in you 100% of the time.” Now I have read many times about going within, the power in you etc, etc but to hear it is in us 100%, 100% of the time. Really struck me. Yes, yes !! Available to call on whenever, where ever I need it to assist me in anything and everything I require. To facilitate the next step and the next and the next. What have we really got to fear? Really ???

What would give you such a good feeling of total ecstasy?

Have you asked yourself that lately. Are you living it? If not, what’s stopping you?

Remember 100%, 100% of the time – just saying 🙂

Have an ecstatic day !!!

Just me rambling

Dancing in the Street

March 2, 2016 loalover Leave a comment

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9G4jnaznUoQ

Dancing in the Street. Well not quite. As I mentioned previously I haven’t become that brave yet but I was laughing in the street today.

I listen to motivational material on my commute and the last two days I have listened to Les Brown. Not much else makes me spontaneously smile like Les Brown’s laugh. It is so infectious.

Yesterday Les suggested we keep a journal as we are given good ideas all the time but we don’t document them or act on them.

I resonated with this idea and as I keep my journals electronic via Evernote I immediately decided to make a special Evernote notebook for this purpose.

This morning Les said something that reminded me of an idea I had many years ago as I was graduating from college but never really ran with and then I had an idea that could potential reignite this the original idea. It was like popping candy going off in my head.

What Les said that gave me this feeling related to Les saying how we fail to notice the beauty in every day and step over it or literally crush it.

Later on I needed to walk into town and decided to pop in the earbuds and listen to more Les. Les’s infectious laughter and words often caused unexpected outbursts and I remembered to notice the beauty in our world as I stared up at the clouds and appreciate the blue sky in between. I spotted pigeons roosting in the rafters of a bridge that no one else probably saw, strange blobby things on the still bare winter branches. A beautiful ornate shop front I had never saw before and as I laughed unabandoned and smiled at every passer by that made eye contact I felt blissfully happy and I truly felt like dancing in the street.

As I graduated from University my final piece was all about taking time to notice the beauty in every day life as we rush around hectically and miss the lone poppy on a piece of waste land or a flower in the crack in the ground or an amazing vivid yellow van on a grey day.

As I listened to Les the weather outside my car was windy and wet as storm something or other whipped around my automobile but he reminded me as I walked to work once in equally inclement weather I saw written on the pavement the words “I’m Awesome” and I thought I should document these observations in photographic evidence on my phone and as I walked down the road, keeping my head down to protect it from the rain, still listening to Les there I saw it.

I was walking over the same stretch of pavement. You may think not odd. Same route to work everyday however parking is limited and out on the street. I haven’t parked on this street for several weeks but today there wasn’t any parking available where I have normally been aiming to park. Last night I was reading about do coincidences exist or is there more to it?

Hello Universe. This was no accident.

This is what I saw and thought no time like the present and back tracked on myself and got my phone out.

In reality we are ALL AWESOME but we forget the power within. Don’t forget to look for the beauty in everyday and remember your awesomeness 🙂

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