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Hi My Name is Ali In my late 40s I found myself in a dark place of disappointment and frustration. I took a step back and thought, ‘If this is how I’m going into my 50s, I’m going to be miserable!’ I didn’t want a gloomy life. I wanted a wonderful life of freedom and joy. I had worked all my life without much real joy at all. I decided that something had to change. I became aware that people with similar backgrounds to me were creating fulfilling lives, enjoying lifestyles full of success and happiness, doing what they loved and loving what they were doing. This inspired me to believe I could implement the skills I learnt from them and consistnently practice personal development. This belief and using The Law of Attraction and Positive Mindset I too have attracted my best life of freedom and joy – in my 50s! My life is only just beginning and I am so excited about the future, that I am now on a mission to help other women to use the same techniques I did, to feel fabulously fulfilled after turning 40. I can show you that there is more to the world to look forward to than menopause and an expanding midriff! If this sounds like someone you want to be, we need to connect so that you can learn how to open your mind to new opportunities. Message me and together learn how to Love the Law of Attraction. It’s never too late!

If You Are not Dead You’re winning

“If You Are Not Dead You Are Winning”


I was in privileged position to Listen to Rachel Hollis be interviewed by Vishen Lakhiani a few days ago and Rachel’s words are still rattling around in my brain ~ people are focusing on 2021 because 2020 was “so terrible” news flash shit happened before 2020 and it will happen in 2021 and beyond, sorry guys ~ we just have to deal with it ~ please be aware I Am paraphrasing because I can’t remember it word for word but I will listen again when it goes Live as a podcast 


The interview also discussed putting our real selfs out there regardless of the results and when I heard her say this I thought thank you for your honesty and maybe it’s time I should voice my opinion 


I am truly sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one or a job or a business during this time but people died and businesses failed and people lost jobs before the virus and maybe we all got a little numb to these everyday occurrences and we needed to be reminded of this fact and become more compassionate but put a label “Global Pandemic” over it and it seems like none of these events ever happened outside this situation and it has been wrapped in a blanket of fear and overwhelm and I am seriously concerned for people’s health and Mindset well-being especially when focused on the end of the Covid rainbow when we get to the other side and shit still happens but people’s mindset are even less able to cope ~ that’s the real tragedy here 


I thankfully had been passionate about personal development decades before the current situation evolved and carry out a morning routine practice that has supported me but I see people who have put skin in the game, or have accepted their cheese has moved and pivoted their personal situations and who also have experienced massive personal loss and disruption are feeling guilty to express they are ok or have succeeded even prospered during this time

Something you don’t know about me ~ I try to stick to a To Do list but often get wildly off course and a long time ago that would have riddled me with guilt and anxiety and negative self talk but these days I am a dichotomy of wanting to be more organised and stick to a list and more recently I am experimenting with surrendering to flow and acting on and tuning in to Intuition and when my copy of Rachel’s book arrived it brought back the interview and I felt an inspiration to write this post however it was quite late in the day and I decided I would post it the next day after transferring it from Evernote where I write everything first in to my blog platform

The original copy ended a few sentences back and was titled something else then but then :I didn’t see this coming happened …..

quick note: acting in flow creates a lot less stress and guilt when I diverge away from the ‘To Do’ list

So one of my facets is I have a weird and wonderful shop when I paint and sell hand carved wooden ducks and I also create bespoke orders and before I had time to transfer this copy a client came into enquire about personalised gift idea

When I took the client details I enquired if they had a daughter by a particular name recognising their’s and they asked what made me ask that and I explained who I was and they used to work with and be friends with my Mother and during my teens I had become close friends with their daughter until families came along etc and we lost touch

The lady then got emotional and apologised and said “I’m sorry, I still get upset when I think about them and it’s been 5 years now. Silly I know” Picking up on my confusion I guessed, they continued “You don’t know XXXX died 5 years ago of cancer”

Whoah ~ I definitely did not see that coming and now we are both moved emotionally

After the lady left the shop and I went to sit at my work station I guess instigated about current events and I thought about this post and how this beautiful kind soul lost their physical life 5 years earlier I literally said out loud “Well, if you are alive your are still Fxxking Winning”

Meaning what ever the situation if you have the luxury of breath in your lungs you are still winning because you can literally change your life by the quality of your next thought, and the next and next and the next

My book has recently arrived so I don’t know the exact contents but the subtitle tells me it’s just the antidote some people need right now so I have dropped the link below to preview it for yourself

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….

Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

If you are depressed you are living in the past

If you are anxious you are living in the future

If you are at peace you are living in the present

Statement 1 Me = Guilty

 Statement 2 Me = Guilty

 Statement 3 Me = Know to be true

 Intention to live in number 3 more and more everyday

 Someone reading this if they acknowledge it or not maybe thinking  “Yeah, but Ali is easy for you” 🤬

I heard the other day when you go after your goal people say you are crazy, when you achieve it they say you are lucky 🍀 

There is no luck involved it. It is just constant consistent action to evaluate what’s working and what’s not and keep doing what’s working and find ways to improve and remove what’s not working and ya know what I have lost count of how many times I have fallen back down the rabbit hole of doing what doesn’t serve me …… again, but that’s ok because acknowledging it and trying again eventually I retrain my brain to do what serve me more often 

Another great statement I heard the same day as I saw the above said “if you are still alive you have not failed, you just stopped ~ As long as you are alive you can start again”

How amazing is that and how liberating and empowering is that thought 😉

Read it again !!!

You have never failed. You just learn’t what works and what doesn’t. Wipe the slate clean and go again ~ Woo, Woo !! 🔥

Once of the most destructive actions in the world is guilt and the other is non-forgiveness. They literally poison your body and who do we refuse to forgive the most ~ if you didn’t already say it ill write it “Ourselves”

Question? Would you drink poison? ☠️

Of course not but that is literally what people are doing when they hash over and over in their mind something they think you should have said or done and feel guilty and refuse to forgive themselves for it and then they wonder why they feel rubbish 🤢

It is said well over 90% of what we fear never comes to pass or is as bad as we thought it would be yet we can ruin over 90% of our days by worrying about something there will never come to pass

 A bit sickening when you think about it like that ‼️Even more sickening is actually I believe those things will come to pass… why because that’s the energy frequency we are sending out like a radio tower tuning in to DoomFM so we resonate back to us more Doom, gloom, sickness, sadness, financial poverty and people say The Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  Oh it does Baby you’ll attract back anything you think about on a consistent bases. No-one said it will only work positively which seems a common misunderstanding in LOA circles

 People wonder why they are broke all the time? 

Because they must be focusing on lack of money more than abundance of money and if you think about lack what are you going to get more of? Answers in the comments section not a postcard please

 “OK, So how can you change the frequency Pollyanna” you maybe asking

 Breath, close your eyes and take 6 slow death breaths 🧘🏻

In through the nose and out through the mouth like breathing through a straw

You are now in the present and what is the Present? A Gift  🎁 

Where do you want to live? In the past, future or present and what do we all want? Gifts 💝 

When ever you feel overwhelm give yourself the gift of 6 deep breaths

 Why?

Because your brain cannot think rationally in a stressful state and solutions cannot be found in this state of mind.

Not to mention it is quick and free and people say they can’t afford or haven’t got enough time to embark on Personal Development

 Get out of that one Batman 

I have to admit this was advised to me a few months ago while in overwhelm, see I told you I’m not perfect. I keep going back there and the technique I mentioned above I learnt off of John Assaraf but now I remember to breath because I have seen the positive results of doing it and it makes more sense to do it than not do it

 If you have followed my advise, now you are in a calmer state, start thinking about things you are grateful for, no matter how small. 💭 

It’s good to start with someone you love because they will put you in a good frame of mind and it doesn’t have to be human. It can be a pet and then see what else comes to mind? 

For me I start with Gratitude every morning now from having a good nights sleep to the bed I am in and the roof over my head and hot and cold running water etc see we all have something to be grateful for even if we think we don’t and coincidentally this is literally how I started my journey of change with no greater task than that and why do I ask you to do this because you literally can’t think positive and negative at the same time so if you are in a negative thinking state either in the past or the future start thinking about the things you are grateful for 🙏🏻

Even better write them down in a journal and make this a practice every morning so you consciously start you day off right 

Probably most successful person I know either physically or virtually states Gratitude as their number one secret ingredient 

I wasn’t perfect at this either and kept forgetting but eventually I started to change my brain that it has become habit and what is a habit? Just a thought we keep thinking over and over again. 

Can’t change a habit? Let me ask you …..

Were you born knowing how to walk? Ah nope and you weren’t born thinking negatively either. You just learn’t it over a period of time like walking and like any other habit you learn’t over time you can learn to think more proactively for your well-being and who doesn’t want to be in a state of well-being 

Trust me. If I can go from flip flopping from A to B for yearsssssss !! to spending the majority of my time in C if you want to spend more time in C like me literally take a breath and say thank you

As I mentioned I am constantly working on myself and I am currently reading “The Untethered Soul” by Michael A. Singer which helps explain as I am seeing it how we are tethered to fear, how it is effecting us and how we can untether ourselves from itIt maybe a book you find useful to and if so I have added an affiliate link here for you to check it out 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

I have gone from the “Fxxx” word to the “Fxxxx” word in one week

I got asked an interesting question this week and it hasn’t left me and I know there are no accidents so it was perfectly placed there by the Universe because my brain was already dabbling with a similar situation 


The person was aware and a follower of the Law of Attraction and asked “why is it when I set my goals they don’t work”

Not knowing enough about this persons situation I admitted I can’t answer that question for you but what I can tell you is, which was a subject of a recent blog post which I titled “The Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work” is that we get what we are not what we want if there is a mismatch there and I briefly explained the premise of that post which I recommend reading to get the full story but basically I said if we use affirmations to say “I Am so happy and Grateful I am a millionaire” but your brain doubts that fact and says “no your not, you’re broke you are resonating broke. Not millionaire so you attract (Law of Attraction style) broke .com not rich FM as someone I love and admire calls it.


I found using lofty questions a better way to get around the statements that our brain may not believe and that sometimes in hindsight what seems so uncomfortable and separate from our desire actually has a purpose many years later as I had experienced only the day before when I could see the connection of something that happened 21 years ago and didn’t turn out as I planned only has its true meaning become evident now 


When I met this person I was already coming out the other side of a Frustrating situation that made me shout “Fxxxxxxxx” at the top of my voice in a public space.

This is so not me but I actually found the situation very liberating so I did it again a few times with this time, some fist bumping on the desk 
I was then able to breath and ask the question what is this situation trying to tell me?


I am far enough down the Personal Development journey to know enough now that bumps in the road are signs that we are a little off course but it can still take me some time in the mist of frustration to get to that point and that is because the brain shuts down to rational thinking in the state of stress or anxiety so we keep wading forward with our muddy thoughts with no possibility of finding the best possible solutions which taking some deep breaths will allow us.


Once I had taken the breaths I honestly didn’t have all the answers of why what was happening was but I had the realisation that because I had decided to Level Up I was finding certain things frustrating because they don’t fit in with my next level desired way of Living so I had Faith this was a sign of movement towards my desired goals were starting to take shape and manifest 


From that realisation I had a sense of peace and excitement all at the same time and the synchronicities started to flow again and I told this person how I had come across some of the material that inspired my blog post mentioned previously after seeing a conversation with Dr Michael Beckwith and him saying how we can learn through pain or we can learn through pleasure and they are called Kensho and Setori and one of the most profound, for me sentences I ever heard “Pain Pushes until Passion Pulls” 


I also learnt from Dr Michael about the 4 levels of Human Development and number 1 is victim mode ~ why is this happening to me and then level 2 is being done by us which is the mode I keep reverting back to and I aiming to live more in 3 and 4 which he expresses far more eloquently than me but 3 is through us and 4 as us and that if we are in level 2 by us maybe what is meant to be 3 and 4 is different than what we think we should be doing and that is why we bump up against obstacle because what we think we should be doing isn’t actually our purpose 


In my frustration mode then breathing state I thought “was the obstacles a sign to go a different path and stop this activity?”

A short time later I had 2 prior engagements that took me away from my then current thinking state and then later a sequence of events happened that made me think “Oh my days, that is what I call a sign and stop being a wingy little B and pull up your Boss Babe pants” It was a clear sign to keep going 


That’s also a good example of when things aren’t working out how you want to go, do something completely different and enjoyable and open up the good feeling thought channels again and allow the synchronicities to happen 
Later that day a situation that I decided to have Faith working out well did exactly that reminded me to always focus on the Faith F word instead of getting wrapped up in things that make you scream FxxK 


Last night someone warned that traffic was bad and I thanked them for the heads up and said looks like I need to get a podcast prepared for the journey then the podcast I chose wouldn’t play and it started to play a different one with Lisa Nichols and Lisa said something that really struck me. 


She said when people set a goal they focus on the goal and think it will be easy and then get surprised when they face struggle but just because you set an intention to achieve a goal and then focus on the goal no-one said the journey was going to be easy. What they should teach is to decide on a goal then focus on the journey to get to that goal and do what it takes”


See no accidents and talking of no accidents and as a final note to this blog post. After my own particular struggles and frustrations this week and my refocus on Faith I heard a Tony Robbins quote that said 

“Everything Happens for a Reason and a Purpose and it serves You”

I have consumed some incredible content this week and have ended my week on a massive high but what I also learnt. That many of the people I admire and who are massive thought leaders now went through massive struggles and dark nights of the soul and were still going through them when they started to get public acclaim but they just kept on going when the going got tough.

One person said when you go for your goal they say you are crazy and when you achieve success they say you are lucky 


They’re not crazy they have the same brain as you and there was definitely no luck involved they just kept showing up regardless what showed up on the journey for them, like an aeroplane that’s of course 98% of the time but eventually it still gets to it’s destination and so can you if you have Faith on the outcome


It might be worth mentioning since my realignment every morning I have been the first here since and the shutters have been down and I have had time to do the things I wanted to undisturbed ~ funny that 😉 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ....


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

“Don’t Die with your music with you”

Today 5 years ago was the Transition of the Man who literally changed my life Dr Wayne W. Dyer.

Reading one of his books on a bus on the way back from London after spending an incredible day in Tate Britain I read the words “Don’t Die with Your Music still in you” and the story behind it .

The next day I started my blog and if you have seen my website alisonkparsons.com they are featured on the home page and cover banner on my Facebook page of the same name.

Now that music can come in any shape or form but means just share your gift with the world 🌎 .

I was meant to be spending an evening with Wayne Dyer in London on the 1st of October 2015 at a Hay House event and I was in London when I learnt of his passing after a glorious bank holiday weekend and I was back there the next day for work and while in the hotel I watched Wayne’s film below “The Shift”.

I admit I cried, I cried for Wayne, I cried for not seeing him in person and I cried for myself because of a scene in the film as my heart ached because I was not fulfilling that part of myself.

I can thankfully say less than 2 years later that part was fulfilled and then some and then some.

I can thankfully say I know longer sense that loss and My Passion is for no one else to feel it and die with their music still in them and that’s why today in honour of Wayne I share the full version of the film with you and hopefully it inspires to share YOUR music with the world 🌍 xoxo

Arigato 🙏🏻

The Law of Attraction Doesn’t work

Stop Press “The Law of Attraction doesn’t work”


“What I hear you say !!” You are the Law of Attraction Lover” 


Yes I have been proliferating for years LOA this and LOA that but call it an epiphany. Wake up call (same thing Parsons)


If you know my posts I have been not only Law of Attraction Mad but I am passionate about Personal Development and devour content daily
Recently I was drawn to a certain area of study and effortlessly I am being brought to the perfect for Me content which is really relevant to what I am about to say


Sometimes you can be brought to the same information over and over but it only click in the perfect Divine Time you are ready to truly receive it.


I have heard about the Law of Resonance many times 


I have stated we are like giant energetic radio masts sending out a signal, vibration attracting back to us what we ask for “AKA” The Law of Attraction 


I have also heard from the amazing Abraham Hicks you can’t be broadcasting on for example in the UK where I am from Radio 1 and expect to listen to ‘Heart Radio’ because they are on totally different frequencies so you have to retune your frequency to whatever channel “Heart Radio” is playing on if you want to listen to a bit of Abba or Lionel Richie cos it just ain’t gonna happen on Hip Radio one which is a word that is totally out of alignment with that station. It’s probably more like “Sick”


I recently posted on my social media feed about my new best purchase. My UMI EarPods check them out below and I was listening to a podcast during a Social Distancing queue when my mind just popped ……..

I love, love, these !!!

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“Affirmations don’t work !!” Which is another revelation if you know me because I lovvvveddddddd an affirmation.


Now as I said previously. I have heard about the Law of Resonance many times but with the way it was explained in this podcast something just switched 


Maybe because of some of the information I have been ‘resonating’ with a light bulb went on 


Everything we ever want already exists right now. We have to start acting “As If, NOW” is also material I have recently heard over and over again and knew I had to actively practice. 


Trusting that everything we ever want already exists ~ like I trusted that everything is just vibrating balls of energy when I was first presented with Quantum Physics makes it a done deal and that’s what I realised is why The Law of Attraction and my affirmations worked for me “Faith”


I resonated the belief that those un-yet collapsed balls of energy would indeed collapse in to my desired outcome so I didn’t in fact resonate back to me what I wrote my affirmations about. 


“So you may be thinking. I’m confused. Are you saying the Law of Attraction does, or doesn’t work?”


Yes it does but not how I have been previously believing and pontification about 


When I desired something and resonated “Out” Faith in it I resonated or ‘attracted’ it back to me


When I desired something and didn’t resonate ‘Faith” in it’s manifestation I didn’t receive it.


I resonated back to me whatever the lack go belief statement I was subconsciously telling myself so its the Law of Resonance. Not the Law of Attraction at work 

I, you, we can’t stand as one thing and ‘Hope’ to attract something we currently are not.

We just attract more of what we are. Whatever “Us’ styley radio station frequency we are currently broadcasting at.

IE: If we are writing affirmations “I Am so happy and grateful I am a millionaire” but in reality thinking and therefore broadcasting “Why do I always struggle to pay my bills?” You are attracting back to you ‘Channel Struggling to Pay MY Bills” not Millionaire FM


The other day I remembered one of the most productive times in my life was when I heard about and practiced what I like called “Lofty Questions” and decided to adopt ‘Lofty Questions’ again and then I felt an inspiration to post about Christie Marie’s Lofty questions to inspire others so I am guessing here I am doing just that.


Lofty Questions are a bit like affirmations but instead of writing a positive statement you don’t truly believe in hope of attracting it and therefore resonating the lack of it you ask in a way like you already have what you desire and therefor grateful for receiving it and this fits with the “As If’ scenario 


If you feel ‘As if’ you already have something or situation, even for as little as a few minutes a day you are broadcasting you are already your desired outcome and therefore resonating to you the circumstances and situations for its fulfilment 


It’s science Baby. Quantum Science and many have proven it. Consciously and sub-consciously 


If you want to bend reality ‘consciously’ a Lofty Question could be something like this …


“Why do I always (always is a good word for LQ’s) “Why do I always have more than enough money than I ever need to pay ‘ALL’ my bills now and forever more, easily, effortlessly and on time”


I like to add a wow to mine “Wow, why do I always etc, etc” or “Wow, how is my life so amazing I always …..”


My advise is what to do you have to lose? Is Law of Attraction 1.0 working for you. Saying affirmation you don’t truly believe in and hoping for the best or have a play with Lofty Q’s and see what happens and if you want any more advise on how to construct a Lofty Q do not hesitate to head on over to my website alisonkparsons.com or email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com where you can also get a Freebie from me.

Yes I do still believe in LOA but this new 2.0 version 


Also why not check out those amazing earphones from Umi. in the link above .

They are so much more discreet than some other kinds I have had and connect instantly without having to constantly having to go back in to your settings to reconnect

Come in a great case and are perfect to pass the time listening to a Personal Development audiobook, podcast or YouTube video while you wait in a queue and train you brain at the same time 


Also depending on when you read this. Watch this space for my new podcast coming soon titled the same as my blog. Law of Attraction Lover where in the first episode I share my journey into LOA 


Until next time …. Get resonating a Life of Freedom and Joy xoxo 

NO MORE MRS NICE GUY

Learning the sad news of this beautiful soul feeling so overwhelmed she felt she had no choice but to take the drastic decision she made I ask you ???

Are you going to live an Ordinary or Extraordinary life from this day forward ?


I am no different than anybody else


I have felt so overwhelmed that I nearly made the same decision due to bullies but thankfully after giving the Universe an Ultimatum what I now know as The Law of Attraction kicked in and a whole series of events ensued

I am now living my best life and achieving a lot of my goals and setting more all the time and know they will all manifest eventually

And the only way they won’t is if I feel they won’t serve any expanded version of me any more

You may think it’s ok for her, she’s just lucky etc but I have not always been like this

I was the most negative person in the world


I would embark on a goal and at the FIRST sniff of a set back give up and feel poor me


But gradually with the assistance of Personal Development and using mindset tools I still get set backs but I just use them as set ups and now I just reassess and restart


I hear in business arenas all the time These two words “consistency” and “compound”


Meaning you have to do things consistently and eventually it will compound and you will see results but the same applies to Personal Development, Mindset and activating the Law of Attraction in your favour however I see people with lifetimes of negative programming try one Personal Development technique and because they didn’t see INSTANT results say “this stuff doesn’t work” and go back to focusing on “the lack of” and negative thinking


(Focus on lack ~ attract more lack)


(Focus on what you want ~ attract more of what you want)


I wrote above “in your favour” ~ you may think I am a total crack pot (I don’t care) you may think The Law of Attraction doesn’t work (it’s scientifically proven aka Quantum Physics)

It’s working Baby if you feel it or not ….. when? ….. now, now, now !!!


What ever you just focused on and thought about sent out an energetic signal to the Universe and you are now attracting that thought back to you ~ good or bad ~ that’s why I said “In Your Favour”

Was that thought attracting magnificence or lack to you? Pain or Joy? Your dream life or your Hell life?


The Law of Attraction works 💯 of the time All the time buts it’s like everything else. It takes consistent effort and over TIME those efforts compound and you see the fruits of your thoughts


I did not say labour on purpose because to me labour conjures up the thought of hard work and for me hard work has a negative vibration around it and negative thoughts and vibrations Block and Repel your magnetising power

Yes you are literally a human magnet 🧲 so please please please watch your thoughts and if you catch yourself thinking something negative “Thank it and Flip it”

Thank it for reminding you want you don’t want so you can remember and focus on what you do want and then …. imagine yourself already living/doing that thing … if possible add more things to it that you can see yourself doing … squeeze the joy out of it like it is an orange and even for as little as 30 seconds trust me you have set your self of the path of positive intention/attraction then …..

You have “Asked” now you just need to “Believe” in the “Yet” unseen and “Surrender “ and “Trust” you will “Receive”


Maybe not tomorrow !! maybe not next week !!! but if you keep those thoughts focused on positive not negative you will Attract that Extraordinary life !!!

Surrender, surrender, surrender and if you feel yourself focusing on the lack of ~ surrender some more and trust that it is coming


And as a Tribute to that beautiful girl who felt so much pain don’t waste another second “Get Shit Done”


As a foot note: I am seeing that Trolls may have contributed to her pain. As a victim of bullies I wish I could wave a magic wand and make them stop 🛑 but I know that won’t happen


The most liberating day for me was when I stopped caring what people thought and came out of the shadows to be my most

authentic self and when I feel myself caring I do something to work on my mindset and switch back


Yes I am human and I have wonky (character building) days but that’s where that consistency comes in

This is a Lifetimes work ~ not a one day thing if you wanna live life on your terms not somebody else’s

If you do not want to waste another day and want to start living life on your terms and need some support feel free to email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattactionlover.com or click on the link below to find out a new way of living a life of Freedom and Joy

bit.ly/waytofreedomjoy

Going For Gold

Don’t be like Me !! 

I must admit Today I am Living in regret !!! 😟

But it’s ok because it kicked me up the Butt and not going to make the same mistake twice 🤪

My Dream is to create multiple streams of income and a residual income to allow me to do what I love and love what I do, not be compromised and be able to live a Life of Freedom and Joy and I am on a mission to encourage and help as many others to do the same so why when I saw something I wanted to do did I talk myself out of it? 😢

That old conditioned part of me kicked in and rationalised my desire and all the practical reasons why I shouldn’t do it and unfortunately I listened without even acknowledging it. 

I didn’t walk my talk and have Faith in the Universe and the Law of Attraction and make it happen and now I am sad and extra motivated at the same time !!! 😳

What am I regretting ???

I am huge fan of the Life Force that is Marie Forleo and recommend her for motivation to any one who says I would love to do what you do but …. I can’t afford to give up my job, but I have people relying on me, I don’t know how to start my own business etc and I say it doesn’t have to be an all or nothing Thang !! Check out Marie …. She had multiple part time jobs while she worked on building her legacy and I would loveeeee to Meet Marie 😍

So the Universe gave me an opportunity to fulfil this as Marie was in London yesterday on her book tour for her book “Everything is Figureoutable” ironic when you think I didn’t figure it out 

When I heard of the Tour I checked out the link for Tickets and they were sold out (sad face) then I saw an announcement that surprised by the desire for tickets another larger venue was available and more tickets were on sale “Yeah” (not sad face). This time tickets were available but that’s when the rationalising, boring don’t live for today voice kicked in.

You’ll have to shut the shop for 2 days, travel costs, hotel stay for a very short time event and I let the boring voice win and I thought I was alright with it until I saw a post on Tuesday of Marie on her travels and how great it was and there was a small seed of disappointment 

But fast forward to yesterday and the massive kick in the Teeth and I saw all the B-Schoolers meeting up before the event and having a great time including someone I know and Love was there with them and I could have had the opportunity to meet them too and seeing their posts and the other posts I was like … WTF Girl (in Marie’s  voice)!! What have you done ?!?! You will never get that opportunity again and serious regret set in 😞 

Thankfully I did act on an Opportunity the Universe gave me when I rein-stilled by goal for residual income to Travel more and the Miracle the Universe gave me means I can actually do both and after an incredible Conversation just now I am using Yesterday’s regrets to fire me up 🔥🚀

Initially coming into this I thought I would start it small and build from there but now I am “Hell no, I am going for Gold” and looking for like minded people who want to Go for Gold and turn their Lives around and Live a Life of Freedom and Joy 

The Opportunity I found means you can run your business from anywhere in the world but also start while you still have your day job or paint ducks 😉 because there are no products, no targets or volume to reach each month so nothing gets flushed sooooooo no pressure 🙂 🙂 🙂 … if you know Network Marketing you’ll know what I mean and what a joy this means 🙂 

It is Service based with multiple income streams and a residual income opportunity and the Team Culture and Training is awesome. My Up Line is incredible and supporting me in a way I have never known and I intend to emulate her as a Leader


When I first heard about it it kept me awake at night I was so excited about the gift I had been given only a few days after setting my intention for more Travel and a Residual Income ~ The Law of Attraction is just amazing !!


Do you like I used to, feel sick on a Sunday, hate Mondays. Eventually start dreading Monday when I left the office on a Friday and calculate how long I had until I retired 


If you are ready to start living the Life you actually deserve and start Going for Gold then keep calm and drop me an email but don’t like I did let that rational voice talk you out of something Truly amazing and live in regret because all the best spots are at the Top 🥇


And ….. !!!!


Remember my belief that Age is irrelevant so none of that “I’m to old baloney” 


Entrepreneurs don’t retire. They don’t need to, they love what they do and do what they love. 


“My wish for you is that you truly live a Life of Freedom and Joy”

alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com


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Multiple income streams – Don’t put your Eggs in one basket ~ Part 2

Note: I suggest you read part 1 of this post first – I thought it was a long old dog and should be made into two parts as it actually naturally fell in to two parts

What’s your idea of multiple income streams ~ Have you heard the phrase multiple income streams before?

I would love to know your thoughts in the comments section 


I will tell what I believe multiple income streams are ….


You could have J.O.B (Just above the breadline) where you earn a salary/wage but you could also be passionate about vintage clothes and spend you weekends joyfully searching Flea Markets and charity shops for hidden Gems then put them on eBay to make a small profit and you post about them on your Facebook profile and or Facebook business page and resonate with liked minded people who may tell you of the best spots to pick up bargains or may ask to buy your latest find and you create a whole community around your passion on social media 


Then you could be on WordPress ( I recommend .org not .com and siteground.com as the host ) and blog about your passion and or have a YouTube channel and most of us have heard the possible beauty in that as another revenue stream 


This vintage clothes Queen may have a stall at Vintage/Craft Fairs etc once a month just for the pure joy of connecting with like minded people “Belly to Belly” and building her social network and making new friends while making a little extra money in to the bargain 
She may then meet or connect with just the right person who knows someone that is looking for someone else to come and speak at an event or write a regular article about restoring vintage clothes because she mentions in the evenings while watching telly the Vintage Clothes I am now going to call her Goddess sits happily ensuring despite being vintage these beautiful garments are restored to their former glory ~ it’s funny how the Universe presents these opportunities while you are living your Joy 😉


The Goddess is now having so much fun she doesn’t want to do her J.O.B any more but she isn’t earning quite enough money “YET” to leave it and she’s has also decided she would like to travel to other countries and cities and explore them and find different styles of clothes and share her adventures with her online fans but the J.O.B doesn’t give her the time and location freedom to do that but she is determined and committed this is what she wants to do at some point in the future and like my favourite quote says “Once you make a decision the Universe conspires to make it happen” and the very next day she bumps in to someone “literally” in a queue as she is searching for her purse to pay for her morning coffee fix on her way to , you guest it. The J.O.B and distracted she knocks into the their back . Full of apologies and in awe of the woman’s beautiful Vintage coat they strike up a conversation and they ask what each other does and Vintage Coat lady says I am in Network Marketing and I have just flown in from Milan to meet some of my team and attend an event we are holding to recognise the Leaders in our organisation. 


Learning the Lady makes a residual income while flying all over the world to meet and inspire her Team that just keeps growing and growing and so does hers and theirs residual income our Goddess is intrigued and they arrange to meet after the J>O>B and for her to attend the event ….

Now she has a business opportunity that will allow her the freedom to travel to those Countries and Cities if and when she desires whilst still earning from it and whilst still selling on eBay and attending Vintage Fairs and connecting with her like minded people on various Social Media platforms and writing her blog and now a regular article in a magazine and meeting with her Up line for coffee …. in Milan and oh did I mention the book deal and the TV show and the string of Vintage clothes shops that some of her friends she made via connecting over their passion for clothes love running for her whilst being part of her Network Marketing Team so they were able to give up their J.O.B’s but those income streams are in the future because even our Goddess doesn’t know that is coming and the J.O.B ? 


Oh that is history Baby. Our Goddess is now living her best life of Freedom and Joy 


That is to me one example of what a Multiple Income Stream looks like.


It can be connected to one passion but to me it is NEVER about having all your eggs in one basket and I didn’t even mention being an affiliate 😂


Before I finish did I tell you this Industrious Ladies age? No because it could be any age and it could be you !!!!


My personal Goddess I looked up to and sadly no longer in Physical form was Louise Hay who I learnt of 20 years ago and how she started probably the most incredible Publishing Company in the world, Hay House in her late 50’s 


I learnt of her as I mentioned 20 years ago and I am still not the age she was when she started building this incredible Company and oh by the way has now many, many, many multiple forms of income and is still going strong in her absence and her legacy still drives forward
I have always seemed to resonate to Idols far older than me achieving their dreams in later life (male and female. I am particularly inspired by Colonel Sanders story) proving to me and now hopefully you that “You are never to old”


So what are you waiting for ? As Jim Rohn so rightly says “work harder on yourself than you do on your job” Just don’t tell your boss 😉 


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Multiple income streams – Don’t put your Eggs in one basket ~ Part 1

Be aware … This is a Biggy content wise, Divine Download that just fell out of me unexpectedly but proof that I am on the right track with my new Venture because I haven’t written like this for ages so I must be tuned in, turned on, tapped in etc as Abraham Hicks would say and hopefully it will help someone.


I now thankfully have after writing out my “Bob Proctor” inspired Goal Card (see previous posts) where I really first learnt about Multiple Income Streams from his “Born Rich” videos and book a Bricks and Mortar business, an accompanying Facebook business page and an Etsy site. I also am building an Online Coaching Business based around The Law of Attraction now that I am a certified Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Training as a Life and Mindset Coach. I have recently created an Email list and YouTube Channel related to this and I have a 1-1 Coach/Mentor and part of several Mentorship Programs where I am learning the most up to date methods amongst other things in Network Marketing and Online Business as I am connected to a Network Marketing Company and just joined another and want to keep my ideas and methods Fresh and I am sure there is something I missed but Hey Ho …. Oh Yeah I have two part written books and I am intending to finish ASAP ~ I don’t say this to impress. 


I say it to inspire because I started appreciating The Law of Attraction several years ago but this part only started since writing the goal card in 2016 so I suggest always have Fearless Faith in the so called absence of something that it is on its way.


People come to me in my Shop and tell me how much they Love the shop, how lucky I am. How they wished they could do what they love and most of them think it is an all or nothing situation. All Job or All business kinda thang and I say Sister, or Brother and then the pen comes out and the Paper and I say you need to go on YouTube and you need to check out Marie Forleo and Marie TV. Marie started her business at 23 when she realised what she had just studied for what wasn’t Rocking her world but she was a Savvy Sister and she knew it wouldn’t happen over night so she worked several jobs bringing in an income to cover her bills and allow her time to work on her business and with her clients. She waited on tables, did bar work. Taught hip hop dance classes. It’s not an all or nothing scenario. You don’t have to leave your Job right away you can build up gradually.

 
All my life I have hated the thought of being boxed in to one thing and looking back this has been evident in the choices I made like my choice of Degree course bless it, because looking back it never taught anything I didn’t already have in me but I chose a course where I didn’t have to be tied down to one discipline or medium and I would shout at the Telly when I saw people who were in a Soap Opera getting slated for branching out in a singing career or someone with a singing career getting grief for bringing out a Perfume. Who do they think they are? Stick to singing, acting etc and I was shouting “Who said they have to stick to one thing?”


Honestly I witnessed this but thankfully now it is the norm for celebrities etc to have more than one business venture. Like my Girl Marie. It is just straight up Savvy to have multiple income streams but unfortunately there are still people who cannot think out of the box as I witnessed this last week.

 
I have been dabbling with the idea of venturing in to another Network Marketing Company and having another income stream for a while and I have been googling and researching certain opportunities and I have had people reach out to me but nothing had caught my eye product wise or the product was right but the Compensation plan didn’t resonate and randomly during a car journey a thought popped into my head about my desired outcome for my lifestyle further down the line and how I love the Network Marketing industry. The people they are my kinda crew. In to personal development, more and more I am seeing The Law of Attraction. Seriously understand the importance of mindset, reading etc. Low cost business start up opportunity but huge potential for growth. Unlimited income. No gender pay gap and actually women are Rocking it over men and many many more reasons but my Company was product based and I want eventually to travel more an be fully location free and as I buy in and sell a certain amount of product and my Bricks and Mortar is product based I am not moving towards that much at this present moment.

 
As I said it was a random thought. It popped up in my head and it was gone as quick as it came. It was just like a “Hello, this is what you want. You not there yet. Just saying, buy!”


I can see now the Universe was conspiring 


It had already been a weird kinda day. My Up line left shortly after I joined NWM and then my next Up Line left but for personal reasons.

I can see now that people can get sold the “bright shiny penny’ syndrome and they don’t see or treat it like a traditional business so if they don’t make a million pounds in a matter of weeks they say this is not working. I can’t do this (affirmations) and then they are off so I pretty much decided inspired by Eric Worre’s book GoPro to go it alone so I was surprised when someone I had known through Facebook for ages tells me they are my Up Line and adds me in to a group .


The next day a random set of events happened (but there are no coincidences – another post you will find on here) and the perfect opportunity came to my attention that is service based. Not product based and it get’s even more perfect than that but I’ll save that for another occasion but proving if your relax and allow the Universe can bring you what you want and far better than you can ever imagine.


I decide to join (money back guarantee but I don’t think I will need it) when I had a huge sign because in between painting ducks 😉 and voice messaging the person with the opportunity to check things out and having massive excited butterflies in my belly my phone said 11:11 and without them knowing I had seen it they messaged me to saying “OMG have you seen it is 11:11?” ~ “Yeah, it’s a massive sign. I’m in”


I was so excited about the perfection of what had just happened over the last couple days as the dust settled I started to think about my other NWM business. I know eventually I want location freedom but am I ready to give up the product based Company?

I listened to my gut and decided No. I love the products. I use them myself everyday. I don’t want to cut my nose off to spite my face. I have still a lot to build yet before location freedom is an option but it will be just nice to know that I can take more time off and travel more as I keep building and trust I will know when the time is right.


It hadn’t for a second occurred to me it would be an issue with anyone else (perhaps hands up naively) or to be in two Companies.

This purely suited where I saw my plans for my personal future going and I think it is sensible to have more than one income stream because realistically there are always going to be quiet times in one area or another and it is less stressful when you don’t rely on one sole source for your money to pay your bills when you are an entrepreneur. 


After all, as great as Network Marketing is and I don’t see it happening to my Companies because of their products and service I have heard stories of people building teams and like traditional Companies theirs going bust and they have lost there business and income overnight.


I have also heard people talking about their multiple streams of income but I know all they are talking about is the different parts to their Compensation plan within their Company and it doesn’t matter how many streams there are within that Comp Plan if the business goes bust so does every one of those streams .


To me Entrepreneurship and NWM is amazing and is the future as more and more companies go bust and more things go online but obviously it is not without risk so why not diversify a little 😉 .

Note: I suggest you watch Eric Worre’s amazing documentary “Rise of the Entrepreneur ” easily found online


However I was a little surprised and taken back when out of courtesy I messaged my newly acquired Up Line to say “I am not leaving the Company but I just wanted to let you know I have joined another opportunity and they said they would have to speak to someone as they don’t like people in the group who do more than one thing”

Like I admitted Naive but as I had no ulterior motive like cross recruiting (didn’t even cross my mind) I was shocked when I saw their response and later that day I saw a notification I had been removed (from the group, not company).


No problem. I had been running my business solely on my own for months. No great loss but it did make me think how many other people in Network Marketing etc think they have multiple streams of income and what they actually have is multiple streams under one umbrella so in effect just one and how do other people perceive multiple streams of income and how I perceive them. 


My perception I put down to thankfully to the great Teachings of Bob Proctor, Jim Rohn and Marie Forleo and it is probably because I am reading Marie’s new book “Everything is Figureoutable” and recent events that has posed this question 


See Multiple Income Streams part two to see my example of what I perceive MIS’s to be    ………………..

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The universe cracks me up

I love David Strickel’s work and the podcast The Stream of David which can also be accessed via The Law of Attraction Radio.

I recently listened to an amazing podcast where The Stream had a Roundtable with Gary Bodley and I took loads of notes.

I am not discrediting ‘The Secret’ because that book gave me my “ah ha” moment and a name to this thing I had been observing in my life for so long “The Law of Attraction” and gave me the impetuous to not just keep reading Personal Development books but put the information in to action but for some, I think they thought they would practice focused thought and everything would magically appear and everything would be happy ever after but what The Stream explains that there is always going to be polarity and contrast and that is normal.

I have to admit I don’t feel comfortable with polarity when it happens but I do like the analogy David/The Stream uses of a a Spiral and being up and down the Spiral and when we are in negative thought we are down the Spiral DTS and the most important thing is to be up the spiral UTS and it is my priority each morning to get in a UTS state however

The last week in particular I have been up and down so much it has made me dizzy. Do practices to take me up, something happens and I come crashing down. Work on my energy – up I go. Boom out of the blue – down I go. All this is exhausting and I have been more down than up but the Roundtable post I mentioned said we should appreciate the downs because they are highlighting areas we still need to work on and I wrote down 3 and put them in red circles.

Yesterday am I had a inspired action to message someone who I knew would help but I ignored it.

Early in life I made a decision to be a problem solver and not bother people

This Dear Friend does a Live on Mindset twice a week and I was on my laptop just before one of their Lives when a message unexpectedly popped up and in our brief conversation they asked if I had any topic ideas they would like me to discuss?

This never happens and I quickly tapped out “Ahh !!” not expecting the question and knowing they were about to go live. “I do but don’t know how to word it.

They said voice note it and I did.

I sent them a longer more detailed message following up and thanking them for the Live and they sent a beautiful encouraging voice note with some helpful advice

This morning when something negative happened in one of the 3 areas encouraged by my friends advice I approached it with Love and stayed Up The Spiral and shortly after whilst carrying out some mundane chores I had a thought and said to myself “that’s it I am committed to ….. “

I won’t write I committed to because that’s personal but the bit that cracked me up happened shortly after.

Yesterday morning even before my commitment and speaking to my friend I acknowledged I was trying to hard to fix everything and I would surrender and trust everything is working out and then despite ignoring my thought to message my friend I receive her message and her subsequent advise and support which I believe ignited my commitment thought this morning unusually circumstances mean’t I drove to my shop, which doesn’t normally happen and the audiobook I am currently listening to connects to the car stereo and the above quite came through the stereo

Acknowledging the coincidence I continue listening to the book in the shop and decided to find a picture version of the quote online as a reminder of my commitment and felt inspiration to find a card and write and date my commitment on it and place it an envelope and put it in the back pocket in my Passion Planner.

I look at the envelope and feel it looks a bit blank and needs decorating because of the significance of it’s contents and I as I pull open the pocket a Passion Planner sticker falls out that I didn’t know was there and I think. That will do what does it say?

“Just Start”