All posts by loalover

Hi My Name is Ali In my late 40s I found myself in a dark place of disappointment and frustration. I took a step back and thought, ‘If this is how I’m going into my 50s, I’m going to be miserable!’ I didn’t want a gloomy life. I wanted a wonderful life of freedom and joy. I had worked all my life without much real joy at all. I decided that something had to change. I became aware that people with similar backgrounds to me were creating fulfilling lives, enjoying lifestyles full of success and happiness, doing what they loved and loving what they were doing. This inspired me to believe I could implement the skills I learnt from them and consistnently practice personal development. This belief and using The Law of Attraction and Positive Mindset I too have attracted my best life of freedom and joy – in my 50s! My life is only just beginning and I am so excited about the future, that I am now on a mission to help other women to use the same techniques I did, to feel fabulously fulfilled after turning 40. I can show you that there is more to the world to look forward to than menopause and an expanding midriff! If this sounds like someone you want to be, we need to connect so that you can learn how to open your mind to new opportunities. Message me and together learn how to Love the Law of Attraction. It’s never too late!

The universe cracks me up

I love David Strickel’s work and the podcast The Stream of David which can also be accessed via The Law of Attraction Radio.

I recently listened to an amazing podcast where The Stream had a Roundtable with Gary Bodley and I took loads of notes.

I am not discrediting ‘The Secret’ because that book gave me my “ah ha” moment and a name to this thing I had been observing in my life for so long “The Law of Attraction” and gave me the impetuous to not just keep reading Personal Development books but put the information in to action but for some, I think they thought they would practice focused thought and everything would magically appear and everything would be happy ever after but what The Stream explains that there is always going to be polarity and contrast and that is normal.

I have to admit I don’t feel comfortable with polarity when it happens but I do like the analogy David/The Stream uses of a a Spiral and being up and down the Spiral and when we are in negative thought we are down the Spiral DTS and the most important thing is to be up the spiral UTS and it is my priority each morning to get in a UTS state however

The last week in particular I have been up and down so much it has made me dizzy. Do practices to take me up, something happens and I come crashing down. Work on my energy – up I go. Boom out of the blue – down I go. All this is exhausting and I have been more down than up but the Roundtable post I mentioned said we should appreciate the downs because they are highlighting areas we still need to work on and I wrote down 3 and put them in red circles.

Yesterday am I had a inspired action to message someone who I knew would help but I ignored it.

Early in life I made a decision to be a problem solver and not bother people

This Dear Friend does a Live on Mindset twice a week and I was on my laptop just before one of their Lives when a message unexpectedly popped up and in our brief conversation they asked if I had any topic ideas they would like me to discuss?

This never happens and I quickly tapped out “Ahh !!” not expecting the question and knowing they were about to go live. “I do but don’t know how to word it.

They said voice note it and I did.

I sent them a longer more detailed message following up and thanking them for the Live and they sent a beautiful encouraging voice note with some helpful advice

This morning when something negative happened in one of the 3 areas encouraged by my friends advice I approached it with Love and stayed Up The Spiral and shortly after whilst carrying out some mundane chores I had a thought and said to myself “that’s it I am committed to ….. “

I won’t write I committed to because that’s personal but the bit that cracked me up happened shortly after.

Yesterday morning even before my commitment and speaking to my friend I acknowledged I was trying to hard to fix everything and I would surrender and trust everything is working out and then despite ignoring my thought to message my friend I receive her message and her subsequent advise and support which I believe ignited my commitment thought this morning unusually circumstances mean’t I drove to my shop, which doesn’t normally happen and the audiobook I am currently listening to connects to the car stereo and the above quite came through the stereo

Acknowledging the coincidence I continue listening to the book in the shop and decided to find a picture version of the quote online as a reminder of my commitment and felt inspiration to find a card and write and date my commitment on it and place it an envelope and put it in the back pocket in my Passion Planner.

I look at the envelope and feel it looks a bit blank and needs decorating because of the significance of it’s contents and I as I pull open the pocket a Passion Planner sticker falls out that I didn’t know was there and I think. That will do what does it say?

“Just Start”

You Are Born Rich

I’ve got chills about listening to this new remastered version of “Born Rich”


Listening to the previous versions every day over and over again through headphones as I drove to work I believe is what literally changed my life.


It is through listening to these videos is what inspired me to make my goal card that I have shared several times, did manifest.


#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #bornrich #bobproctor

Success Leaves Clues

Monday Motivation


A Big shout out to the all the people that stepped out of their comfort zones and told themselves they were worth a different life.
As the quote says “Success Leaves Clues” You can spend your life building your dream or your can spend your life building someone else’s.


Tony Robbins says Success Leaves Clues and today more than ever those clues are so accessible via the internet etc.


You can watch a YouTube tutorial, start that online course, listening to that audio book while you commute etc.


Or as Tim Ferris suggests email that person you admire and ask them questions.


There is never a perfect time so why not start today and this time next year who knows where you will be.


Like Lao Tzu says “The Journey of a Thousand miles starts with one step” Take that step today and look for those clues ?


#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #entrepreneur#tonyrobbins #successleavesclues #laotzu #timferriss#mondaymotivation

Ask ~Believe ~receive

Ask and you shall receive 


Perfect timing Passion Planner


Once you make a decision the Universe conspires 


I am a ‘Time Chunker’. Planning out my To Do’s and Time chunking tasks in my 2 Passion Planners (yes I have 2 because I love them so much. One strictly business and one for creativity and everything else) 


But despite having a clearly written out daily To Do list yesterday I was aware I have not been chunking and planning recently  and I have been slipping in certain areas so I decided today I am going to plan out next week and start July but I needed some sort of timing system and instinct said I should use my Google Calendar more productively and plan out specific blocks of time per task so I incorporate missed areas 


I was always strictly digital apart from daily To Do list and Passion Planner but since joining the Femalepreneur Academy I have really started to find the benefits of going old school and writing ideas down and I loveeeeee ? a workbook now but I lose track of time so that’s why this video was answering my ask 


Perfect combination of old school and geek rolled into one and it made me aware of an app that sorts my timing requirement
Never discount these seemingly “coincidences”


This is the Law of Attraction in action 


The more you notice and acknowledge these occurrences in your life the more you will attract consciously and purposefully 


#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #passionplanner  #Pashfam 


If you want to know more about Passion Planners I have included a link below 
http://rwrd.io/v1j45u0


And you can check out the Femalepreneur Academy here to find out what all my fuss is about ?  https://alisonkparsons–femalepreneursacademy.thrivecart.com/membership/

Wave like Your Life Depends on It

I just noticed I have subconsciously started waving very enthusiastically when I greet people

The other day I heard the quote “women over 50 don’t wave, right” ?

I sat puzzled for a second. Then I waved. Went thoughtful and then got the lightbulb ?

Oh woman over 50 shouldn’t wave because of bingo wings

Really !!! Time doesn’t exist. We invented it so why do we buy into these stories?

Yesterday I noticed a lot of people’s subsconscious negative talk but that’s another story because I am investigating this at the moment and developing my own Law of Attraction Programs to combat such things

But my advice is “ check yourself before you wreck yourself”

Before you go to say something ask yourself is this a fact or belief system I bought into without realising? (And then forgive yourself for thinking it because if you berate yourself you are only setting up a negative energy)

Beliefs are not facts and a belief can be changed easily as this red hot second

You Can Change Your Life at any moment by Changing Your Thoughts

What about this one …. You are worthy for your best life

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #liveyoubestlife

Monday Motivation

I Love Monday’s and my wish for today is that I motivate 1 person to also Love Monday’s

Ask your self what it is you most desire and believe it is possible

Write it down as a goal and ask the question “what is the one thing I can do today to step towards it?”

Listen to any answer you receive (don’t dismiss it as to simple or that’s it I’ve finally lost my marbles I am hearing voices ?. No one but you need to know)

And then take any Inspired Action you “FEEL” will bring you one step closer to your desired goal

And remember…. set the bar really, really high

Happy Monday ?

Later I will be posting about the power of writing down goals

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #mondaymotivation #goals #dreams #dreambig #michelangelo

Who are they anyway

I started reading personal development books in the late 90’s

I learn’t about The Law of Attraction in 2010

I started listening to motivational videos in 2012

I started implementing Personal Development as consistently as possible then made it a daily practice

However I didn’t share these practices with others concerned of peoples reaction to my Woo Woo

Then in 2017 I came across an opportunity that changed my life

What I didn’t expect was to become part of a community of people that did all the same things as me.

?Setting goals, writing them down

?Believing in their dreams

?Watching motivational materials to start their day

?Reading Personal Development books

?Meditating

?Working on their Mindset

?Following the same inspirational people

?Believing in and Practicing The Law of Attraction

?Believing in a future where anything is possible

The difference was. They talked openly and confidently in what they believed in and didn’t care what other people said and followed their dreams in an unstoppable manner

Now thanks to them I am doing the same and it has opened me up to live my most liberated life, to even more incredible opportunities and meet even more incredible aspirational people

Never let the fear of what others might say stop you from living your most authentic, happiest most fulfilled life. You never know what’s out there waiting for you ?

It’s your turn to be Unstoppable ????

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo

Dream Day

I love a bit of Jakes energy in the morning and talking of energy in this video Jake explains how everything is energy and when I first heard this I intuitively knew it was right while all my other Peers were taking the mic (putting it politely) out of the lecturer that was explaining it to us so I stayed quiet but I could not shake this inner knowing that news I heard was true.

I now know it is scientifically proven but when someone tells us the chairs we are sat on and the table they are sat on is not solid and is just particles vibrating I appreciate it is “hard” to get your head around but I could not shake this feeling it was true

I am using this information to my advantage now since learning about The Law of Attraction and it seems so weird now how things have panned out since that day and that I recently qualified as a Practitioner in The Law of Attraction at the basic level and this weekend I will be taking the exam for the Advanced level

We are all born with an Inner Guidance System or Gut feeling which I experienced that day and I am so glad I did not dispel it. I do sometimes wonder what my Peers are doing these days that were so quick to laugh off the information

I am now living my Dream life and building bigger and better versions ever day talking of which. Jake gives a really good exercise towards the end of this video regarding ‘Your Dream Day’ so maybe it is worth not dispelling it and giving it a go. What have you got to lose? And like me that day when I heard about energy is everywhere and nothing is solid I just kept it to myself so no one needs to know until they see the results in your life and ask “What have you been doing? How did you get so lucky?”

Have a Fabulous Friday xxx

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #jakeducey #lawofattraction

Hustle v Surrender

A combination of two of my favourite things Vishen Lakhiani from Mindvalley and Tom Bilyeu and an Impact Theory interview

This excites me about the future

Listen to what Vishen says about Hustle v Surrender

Have an awesome day

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #mindvalley #impacttheory #vishenlakhiani #tombilyeu

Lesson & Blessings

 

“Oh Wow !! Boy am I humbled”

It’s either a blessing or a lesson and sometimes it is a blessing and a lesson.


I aim to do Personal Development daily to stay in the best possible, highest vibration I can but I am human and recently something was really frustrating me so I did what I normally do and remind myself how this like previous negative situations in a few days this will not have the charge it currently has and in a few weeks I will probably not even remember it. I also remind myself it is either a blessing or a lesson and try to see what the lesson is.


I made a decision based on this that felt good and then I was led to amazing opportunities that I would have never found if I hadn’t had the negative situation happen. So much so, yesterday I saw something that a few weeks ago that would probably have upset me but instead I laughed because I was in such a good place that I would never been in if it wasn’t for those previous experiences and I said thank you for the blessing.


Later in the day I was reading a book in where the author who I thought really has his sxxt  together told a story of having a conversation with a Monk in a hot tub (as you do) and the Monk told him “I know what your problem is, you have low self-esteem. He was defensive at first as it was explained and then he agreed that certain behaviour traits were indeed due to low self-esteem. He then described another scenario where he spent time with and excellent Leader in their field that highlighted a scarcity issue.


While reading this it struck me that the reason I felt frustration recently was because of low self-esteem and a story I was telling myself that probably wasn’t even true. 

Like the author. Because we make a conscious effort to deal with negative situations we thought we are doing a good job but we were not dealing with the underlying issue in the first place and I knew today I needed to do some inner work on my self worth and where to go to for this. For me, Marisa Peer (who coincidently was the person who highlighted the scarcity issues to the author but who I would have referred to anyway).


Now I wasn’t in the position to have a 121, Face to Face with Marisa today but I did the next best thing for me and YouTube Marisa and do some “I Am” statements and my favourite Marisa “I AM” “I Am Worthy”


Later I watched a Masterclass presentation and the speaker asked “do you think you are a victim of circumstance buffeted around by life and have no control over things?” I said to the screen “No chance” Knowing I am responsible for it all. Even the sxxt stuff because at some level I have attracted this with my thoughts but its ok because I am grateful for the lesson that my self-esteem obviously needs some work and with that a lady opened the shop door as said “I just have to say. I walk past your shop every week and I wanted to tell you, your work is truly incredible”


I think she was probably aware by my reaction how taken back I was by her kind comment and I told her how grateful I was and appreciative of her for taking the time to tell me.


We shouldn’t need validation from others but it seemed very coincidental that this person arrived on this day to tell me my work is good and I know there truly are no accidents.


Even the most successful people in the world look to others to help them become the best version of themselves they can become. 


I recently heard some advise I have taken to heart and determined to work on achieving and that was to attend every destination event you possibly can as you will come away invigorated and inspired to take your life to the next level by what you hear and learn. I know from his position this was actually aimed at NWM but it can be applied to any destination invent with incredible guest speakers and I am so glad that very soon I am will be attending an incredible Event with so many guest speakers and only a short distance away from me for far, far less than most events like this cost so now I am so super excited to keep working on my self-esteem even when I feel I have my sxxt together and take my game to the next level ~ whose coming with me? xx


I can actually hear Shania Twain singing in my head right now “You Go Girl”