If it looks like a duck it may not be a duck

Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us

It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey


What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently


Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession  because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support


I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools


I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them


I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender


I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol


What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above


Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time


I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key


Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me


I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)


This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)


When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL  it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action


While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb


I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it

(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)


Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and  people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment


Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it
There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging


Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come


The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)


But this time I felt assured


I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day


I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic
I say unusually …..


It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously


I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask


I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all


Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”


Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean
Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock


But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing


In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business


Every night several things come to bed with me …


A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.


I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons


It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up


But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….


Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?


When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house
One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”


Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”


I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”


I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me
I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.


All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true  but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential


What’s my point to all this ?


When I tuned into my body the penny dropped


There was my answer to my financial questions


I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …


It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show


I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives


I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment


The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money


You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously


I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools


Thankfully  using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago


Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise


I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”


As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor


“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”

That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift


Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts.
If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …


And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled …
Of course the international day of Love 💕


I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all


I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍


Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look


Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo

Ok ! I admit it. I’m a fraud

Yep, I admit it …. I’m a fraud !!


Disclaimer: before I go any further I am not trying to recruit you


I am just expressing something that I felt inspired to express that may help you the reader but it does discuss in part network marketing something that I am part of and believe has amazing potentiality but yes I admit it has its flaws (usually the people who act inappropriately and give it a bad name but those dudes are in all walks of life right) so can have a preconceived bad reputation


So I am taking part in something called a 90 day run at the moment and we are being asked to carry out some tasks that are completely against what I stand for and what I don’t like about the industry and I feel are outmoded but Inspired Action caused me to join and one of my invested mentors Marie Forleo asked that we be open and NOT say “Hey I know this already” and because I knew I was closing myself off to what I felt uncomfortable about I was in actuality doing exactly that


closing myself off and saying I know this already when there could be something massive there for me but I am here to tell you now


I’m a freud


because as well as being open to the challenge we are suggested to just do what the Leader of the Challenge says


Ahh but I know in my soul that may not be the case with me


so I am a freud


A freud to being open and a freud to the challenge


Or am I


As well as being open we are not sheep and we are entitled to have discernment


Why


because we are all infinite beings with infinite soul missions so we can’t all fit into one box


All trying to do the same thing because “Simon says” is denying our true purpose


It is not coming from Zero


What is Zero


In Ho’oponopono we are taught there are three levels of state or consciousness


Consciousness

Subconscious

And Superconscious


Subconsciousness is where we store all our memories (data) and they are like records playing over and over again whispering were are not worthy, capable, strong enough etc etc etc. It is what creates our fears and doubts,  anxiety


but it is just memories playing on a loop


It is not real but it is a “Reel”


Our job if any, is to get clear or clean of these memories and get back to our superconsciousness or Zero where we are clear, perfect, our true selves and have access to unlimited possibilities


How does hearing having unlimited possibilities sound to you instead of playing old fearful memories of doubt and insecurities


Sounds amazing right !!!


Now who wants to get clean ????


In a minute I’ll give you a couple tips how to start but first I’ll tell you something miraculous about coming from or being at Zero


From that state without being encomboarded by our memories our soul has an opportunity to speak to us


To whisper inspiration in to our minds


That tell us what action step to take next


Tells us what is right for us and what action steps do not align with our true being


Discernment


Why do I tell you this and what does it have to do with a 90 day challenge and being a freud


Honestly when I heard about the 90 Day challenge I had fallen in to anxiety and overwhelm from something as simple as the Festive Season


Those few days had taken me out of my usual patterns and I felt lost and not sure which way to go


Totally unexpected 😱


I had spent a fantastic few days with my partner using the time to clear our house of clutter and in a way take our house back to zero which I feel intuitively is creating a vacuum for something I was desiring to manifest


And I went with the flow and enjoyed the process but at the same time when I went back to my normal daily routine or tried to those few days were enough to knock me off course and allow the subconscious fear based memories creep in and cloud my judgement




Thanks to Ho’oponopono I started trying to drown out the noise in my head and practice simple Ho’oponopono techniques and initially it can be a battle with the two states and we have to use the third state, the conscious mind to focus on the and carrying out the practices especially when the data mind seems louder and there is no evidence of being at zero


but Zero is always there


always with us


the key is no expectations


Just practice and try to listen to the voice of inspiration and I saw a post about an opportunity to join a 90 day challenge group from another Leader that was not my upline and something in me from zero sent and inspired action step to comment on the post


shortly after I received a message from the said Leader


Now I am in it I am catching up on all the videos being accountable and turning up or the trainings as much as Possible and taking notes on the actions steps to be followed


but honestly I will not be a sheep


I will be open and present and I have got some gold already that I wouldn’t have got if I hadn’t been open to join by saying I know this already and it is not my cup of tea and I will probably try some things that I am not a fan of purely for being open to new opportunities because I trust that Inspired Action nudged me to join


When I was taking my Ho’oponopono training the Trainer Joe Vitale said go to zero as often as possible and then follow those nudges however crazy they seem


I call this Inspired Action and following inspired action after reading the book The Secret coincidently where I came across Joe is what changed my life


And I am currently studying and reading Mabel Katz books that I came across via my ho’oponopono training and when I woke on New years day with an overwhelming sense of fear and dread and tooks some deep Ho’oponopono breaths and then laid quietly and tuned in and asked for guidance and the Universe spoke to me from the whiteboard and said listen to Mabel’s audiobook “The Easiest Way: Solve Your Problems and Take the Road to Love, Happiness, Wealth and the Life of Your Dreams”


While walking around physically clearing house with my partner unbeknown to him I had one ear bud in with my phone in my pocket and I was listening to Mabel over and over again for hours, days in fact and I still am but a different book now and that’s where I got the tips I am about to share with you that I used to quiet the chatter in my head and yesterday the 7th of January just as Mabel advised if we do this I had a major breakthrough and feel like the clouds have broken and sunlight has come flooding through and along with that I feel like a funnel again and Divine Downloads and ideas are like, the sunshine flooding through and I literally am writing this at 5 am after being awake since 1am noting down whatever is coming through


I am not saying it will work as quickly as this for you but what I would advise as Mabel was encouraged to do as she speaks about in the book I am currently reading is “release expectations”


Expectations raise fear and anxiety


Read on if you want to know what those tips are:


One of those downloads was the title I am a Freud


I may feel a bit of a freud because I have joined the challenge but know deep down I will not carrying out all the tasks to letter if at all and it may be that some will be a springboard to do the opposite or validate my reasoning why I feel some of the techniques while I am sure will work for some are outmoded because they come at a price and don’t resonate with my personal philosophy that hard work is bullshit and not necessary especially if you follow the Ho’oponopono ways and in that way it may seem inauthentic so I am a freud to the process


But I reiterate we are not sheep


We are Infinite Beings with Unlimited potentiality and only acting out in one way is stifling  that gift but I am not saying there are not gifts in the challenge so I am remaining open practicing zero and acting on inspired action and oh yeah documenting the findings in another Inspired Idea I had to write a book in 2022 following my progress and logging my results of aiming to stay present and detached aiming to minimise expectations and not setting goals so I can share with others my findings on that journey and show what is possible with Ho’oponopono


Talking of which those Ho’oponopono tips


In Ho’oponopono there is a Ho’oponopono Prayer that goes “I’m sorry please forgive me thank you I love you” as pictured above so feel free to save the photo and or save it as a screensaver so you can see it often and repeat it to clear you own house

When we say I’m sorry please forgive me we are taking full responsibility for what is in us subconsciously, those old memories playing on repeat and to forgive ourselves for not knowing they were playing and therefore creating the less desired outcomes in our lives


Sidenote: This does not mean guilt of Any, any kind !! See below ….


In my 5 step Program The G.R.E.A.T formula™️ created before my Ho’oponopono certification I talk of my love of Responsibility and is what the ‘R’ stands for because I believe when we take responsibility it gives us the power to take control back for our life and not be a victim where no power exists


By saying this we are clearing and cleaning those memories and saying “No more!!”


For me Thank You I love You is thank you to that uncomfortable situation like my anxiety over the festive season for showing me I still have some old memory data playing that I still need to clear and I love you because cleaning this gives me the opportunity to  get closer to Zero and a more peaceful abundant life


Years ago I read a book by my hero Wayne Dyer and in it he used the phrase “Let go and let God” if anyone was the eptimany of Ho’oponopono practices of detachment and no expectations it was Wayne and I always found by using this phrase I found peace even though I am not religious


I see God as the creator of all things with no denominations


It is the creator that makes trees grow and winds blow and our heart beating and our lungs breathing while we sleep and in Mabel’s books she uses Let Go and Let God and and Let go and Trust


and when I felt really overwhelmed I kept repeating the Ho’oponopono Prayer and “I let go and trust I let go and let God”


Above I mentioned the Whiteboard this was something Dr Hew Len who is featured in the Training I did and who was also Mabel’s Trainer and who Mabel took over from when he retired mentions and I love the analogy and I won’t discuss it here but by letting go and surrendering I feel I am allowing myself to access the possibilities of the whiteboard


All things far greater for Me than I could ever anticipate


Let me know in the comments if you have set your sights on a goal or set an intention after learning about The Law of Attraction and it hasn’t manifested and you have felt yucky and then when you least expect it something far more miraculous than you could have ever anticipated shows up effortlessly after a weird series of events or synchronicities ?


That’s what can happen when you remain open, coming from Zero and why I am not a fan of hard work trying to manufacture outcomes that are limited compared to what the Universe has in store for us


I hope these words help you when the subconscious try to take the wheel


Even just repeating thank you over and over again or thank you I love you will have a profound effect


The First and to me the most important part of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ is ‘G’ for Gratitude and there are scientific studies now advocating the benefits of Gratitude which coincidentally was the first Inspired Action step I took in 2010 when I read The Secret


Write 3 things I am grateful for first thing in the morning in a journal


It is so profound it was even mentioned in Grays Anatomy the other day and I love how Life has Transformed since I started my Law of Attraction journey in 2010 because of The Secret and was afraid to discuss openly my love of LOA to where such things are spoken about openly and advocated by social media influencers movie stars , musicians and Oprah


Let me know in the comments you successes and even non-success stories in the comments and I would love to share the success stories on my blog and help the people didn’t achieve the success they desired


I have just had another Inspired  Action idea …..


With Your permission these could be featured in my 2 books I am currently working on. The one I am mentioned earlier as I document my surrender goalless journey in 2022 and another book about The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono


If you want to share your stories with me and they maybe to private or to long for the comments and or want to be featured in the books drop me and email by clicking on mywakeuphappy.com

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Let Go of Expectations & Fall in love with Inspiration

Have you ever like me, felt like a freaky geek? A black Sheep? Never Fitted In ???


I have never sent on a chain message ~ 😱 Yep OMG !! It was me that broke it !!


I never accepted an ice bucket challenge


I have never bought matching Christmas PJ’s


Not saying there is anything wrong with these things .. it’s not just in my nature


I don’t feel inspired by these things


But what I did feel Inspired by were Goals ~ boy did I love a Goal and December 2020 I set some Magnificent Babies but …..


If you have seen some of my posts you will be aware of the Law of Attraction but for a long time I have been aware of something


Some Goals Manifest and some don’t and usually the ones that don’t have massive expectations surrounding them and when you notice something you expect isn’t manifesting you can become focused on lack


When you focus on lack, you manifest “The Lack of Something You Desire”


But this is easier said than done not to have expectations but thankfully in the latter part of 2021 I found something that I believe has the answer I was looking for


I know what I have instore for myself 2022 is different from many of my peers


I am now in 2022 trialling The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono


I have NOT set any goals, I am going back to Zero, I will aim to stay in the present moment as much as possible, act on Inspiration only and practice detachment daily


There is more involved to this but if anything I have said resonates to You and You feel inspired to find out more about The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono do not hesitate to leave a comment


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Why Pooh is a motivator to manifest

In this episode I explain why pooh motivates me to see what I don’t want so I can know what I do want and how contrast is natural and it is also good for us to focus our Intentions 


A year previously from recording this episode I was just dealing with my shop being vandalised and I was taking a Training by Russell Brunson called One Funnel Away Challenge and during that Training and with everything else going on I had an epiphany 


Despite going into OFA to learn how to build a Funnel for my Brick n Mortar business and to promote an Online Course I was building based around The Law of Attraction I suddenly saw how Funnels could be used for Direct Selling, Network Marketing product based businesses without the Spammy “Hit Um Up” method as I call it of trying to persuade Friends and Family to join your opportunity or adding complete strangers on social media in the hope they will join or buy from you 


I had come across a lovely lady while being a student of Marie Forleo’s B-School who had a stand alone business and brand of products and services and built her Network Marketing Opportunity products integrally into the fabric of her business who introduced me to the book The Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and from that moment on I was sold on how this type of business would be perfect to build a business in the “B” side of the Quadrant as Robert calls it and create recurring income and location freedom 


Only one issue. I had been in a product based Network Marketing Opportunity when the Universe presented me with one and following the remit from Bob Proctor that successful people have multiple streams of income when I was opening my Brick n Mortar business but because I was always trading time for money in my Brick n Mortar and I was encouraged to do “The Hit Em Up Method” which I felt very uncomfortable about and never seemed to get much time to get rejected again and again I gave up 


As if validation of my observation there was some bonuses Trainings and I am the type of Gal who hates to think she is missing out on vital information and unbeknown to me within minutes of having my epiphany I was watching a Training of how to use Funnels for Direct Selling Network Marketing Company however the Trainer said before you run off to recruit yourself make sure an Opportunity has these things!

So I downed the duck I was working on and grabbed my Journal and took down the notes he was suggesting. I won’t go into today, what happened next because that is just to Miracles to say in brief here but because I set an intention the perfect Opportunity found me but at that point in time I also wrote a list of other things I wanted to achieve and I used the circumstances I currently did have that were less pleasurable as the contrast for knowing what I intended to manifest and the not so pleasant, cold, dirty, badly maintained shared toilet for the shop owners is one of the them and feeling vulnerable to vandalism.

Initially when I made my contrast list I focused on taking one of the products in the range based around weight loss and building a funnel for that and perceived myself not facing another Crappy Christmas however I have had many obstacles that became detours in the right direction in 2021 and fuelled by my own experiences of having a physical time bound business where you are trading time for money and my passion for Digital Assets, Online location Free Multiple Income Streams and my love of the book The Cashflow Quadrant and the “B” & “I” sectors I am predominantly Coaching people in this area and my Funnels are actually based around this and how to turn Passions into Online Incomes despite still having my Brick n Mortar myself.

I am have surrendered to the outcome and am Trusting the Universe has a far better plan for Me than I could ever envisaged for myself and is usually the case however last Christmas did certainly make me reevaluate my business practices and only do the types of bespoke orders I enjoy and not do the types that were not bringing me pleasure and because of that I have had the most pleasurable, stress free Christmas season and the Youths ….. they disappeared !!

Maybe they only presented themselves as the Universe needed to knock me over the head with an unpleasant experience to make me stop and take stock and use the uncomfortable situations and the contrast as a springboard to my next level on Transformation and to this day I am eternally Grateful for all these experiences

In this year I have started my Brand Fabulous Freedom over Forty and I now have this podcast The Fab Over Forty Show, I restarted my blog The Law of Attraction Lover, I have created The Law of Attraction Lovers Club I have created some Digital Assets and Funnels like fabulousfreeom.live and I am building a community called The Freedom Empire Builders helping people create Their own location Freedom Passion based Businesses.

I am sure there is still some things I have left off And thanks to my Health & Wellness Business an unexpected bi-product finally finding something that helps keep things moving in the right direction … if you know what I am mean 😜

If this product sounds like something that may interest you please don’t hesitate to check it out here or if what I said about getting it wholesale as well as every other product in the range instead of paying retail check out The Freedom Empire Builders

Hopefully this podcast has encouraged you to sit down. Take a good long look at what is not working for you right now how you would like and use it as a contrast list and write on one side all the things you don’t want and then on the right hand side write down what the best case Scenario “opposite” of this situation would be and then look at that list often

Or even create a card called “What’s the alternative” and write down inside the things do don’t like and use these as fuel to keep moving towards you best Desired Outcome

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Love and blessings 🙏
Ali #theloalover
xoxo

Is it A Storm in a Coffee Cup

Is it A Storm in a Coffee Cup !!! Or a detour in the right direction ???

Do you know the story of Howard Swartz

Who Remembers Blockbusters?

Did You know the founder of Netflix approached Blockbusters with his vision of a video streaming service

They turned him down

He even went back a second time and gave them another opportunity

They still turned him down again

He went ahead anyway

Howard Swartz loved the Company Starbucks and wanted to work for them and at 29 his dream finally came true when he was employed as Director for Marketing & Sales

On a trip to Italy Swartz fell in love with the Cafe lifestyle and approached the then owners who at the time sold beans and coffee grinders and coffee related items but not skinny cappuccino

They decided not to deploy his vision so he left and opened his own cafe inlign with his Vision of people sitting somewhere leisurely meeting friends and family, watching the world go by etc

Starbucks went into decline and Howard Swartz bought the company for $3.8 Million Dollars and implemented his original Vision he’d pitched previously to the original owners but now as The actual owner

The other night I watched a film with Adam Sandler and my partner said “What happened to Adam Sandler? I saw somewhere recently he is worth over $700 but I haven’t seen him in any films lately. How is he worth that much?”

My initial response was “My guess is he has created other income streams like a production company” this initiated me to do a little research and coincidentally found he had signed a multiple million dollar 3 film deal with netflix and indeed does have a production company called Happy Madison

Many Years ago I approached my then bosses with ideas that I had and they were also turned down only to be implemented later and them taking the credit for them in a couple of my cases

Yes that was frustrating but now I see it as a gift

They implemented those ideas after I had left the Company’s

If they had taken me up on my ideas I may have stayed in those roles and not be where I am today

Where I am now today is believing that what these Gentleman above had is what is “Inspired Action” and the people who they pitched to couldn’t see or appreciate what was being pitched to them because it wasn’t given to them

It wasn’t their vision to see so they couldn’t appreciate the value being shared with them

Plus, by not appreciating that Vision set these Gentleman on a Journey to build what they were actually meant to build in the way they were meant to build it

By being turned down it was Obstacles in the Right Direction

Earlier this year I was building something I initially thought I was supposed to build and kept hitting roadblock after roadblock

I Am aware enough now to think “OK, what is this trying to tell me” but despite this it still took me a while to wake up to what I was supposed to be doing

I believe we ALL have these Divine Download Inspired Actions

I believe We all have gifts to share with the world

Regardless of Age

And now is no better time

For two reasons

  1. Now is no better, easier, cheaper time to set up a business online and multiple streams of income based around our gifts and inspired ideas (& I can even show people how to do it for zero).
  2. It is essential Now more than ever to create multiple streams of income because the world of work has shifted so much tomorrow is not guaranteed that we will have a job or traditional business

A few months ago I was unexpectedly visited by an ex-colleague who was on furlough. 

Only two days later I was contacted by another colleague who wanted to purchase one of my products and during that conversation they told me that that colleague and one of those bosses who had taken my idea for themselves had been fired.

The first round of furlough was coming to an end and they had both been laid off before it ended. The company probably seeing they would have to start paying their salary again and realising they actually managed without them I am assuming decided they were no longer required

In actuality furlough was actually extended but to late for them … boom 💥 no more job !!

Only 48 hours earlier my ex-colleague was discussing how they disliked their job and was not wanting to return with full belief there was a job to return to

My guess with the ex-boss from what I knew about them, they foresaw seeing their days out in that business. Imagine the shock they felt. Especially after furlough was extended. What a kick in the teeth 😱

We cannot rely on one stream of income anymore if we want financial security but also at the same time …..

This is an incredible time to leverage what is going on in the world

The message I was trying to share in 1999 as I completing my Higher Education in Art about taking time for yourself and appreciating life to minimise stress, people weren’t getting but since the Global Pandemic and Lockdown people more and more are evaluating life and seeing it is precious and don’t want to do the things they hate anymore and want more quality time with loved ones and wake up happy which “Not” Coincidentally is the name of the domain name to get a free copy of my life changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com because I Am Now on a Mission to help as many people as possible Wake Up Happy so that’s why I give it away

It’s also no coincidence my first subscription episode of my Podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show” is called “Tomorrow is Not Guaranteed”

I believe we All have something we are Passionate about and there are also others in the 7 Billion plus people on the planet that also love that thing but …….

You are a couple steps ahead of them and they would love to accelerate their learning and experience on that subject to enhance Their life Experience whatever it is and would love to learn from “YOU”

So my question to “YOU” is ……..

What Inspired Action Ideas have you had that the world needs to know about ???

Hey !! I mean it !! Write anything that popped in to Your head down right now !!

When “YOU” create a Product or Service based around something “You” Love and others Love to …. “YOU” are not selling ….

“YOU” are serving !!!

You are sharing Your Gifts that YOU are Destined to Share to the People You are Destined to Serve

Talking of which …..

I had so many people coming to me saying I was so Lucky Doing What I Love and Loving What I Do and that they wish they could do what they love and asking for advice and again

Wanting people to Wake Up Happy I was giving away loads of advice for nothing in return but I realised one day when ……

I was having all these roadblocks and obstacles …

That was utter madness and when I woke up to the fact that I am actually good at this stuff that I thought I was only learning to enhance my own skills and expertise for my business.

Why am I giving it away?

I had an idea to use a Training Tool I learned from a multiple 7 figure earners Inner Circle I am part of and adapted it to help my Network Marketing Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” to work out Their own individual Passion and Niche to build Their Freedom Empire Business on.

I could actually share it to these people who come to me for help to tap back into to what they love most and show them how they can monetise it for a small nominal fee (I’m also on a mission to Teach a different way to build a Freedom Creating Network Marketing Multifaceted Passion Based Business and Brand using intuition and The Law of Attraction to align, not Hustle)

That way I serve these people, utilise my time sensibly to be able to focus on my income producing tasks and make a small income at the same time from the skills I invested hundreds of hours and hundreds of dollars/pounds in

Then ….

I had the Inspired Idea to stop what I was building and create a whole Digital Asset around this Tool which I now call The Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder and I have still kept it at this nominal fee but now I have added hundreds of dollars worth of bonuses at no extra cost to ensure people have everything they need to work out what they Love to do most and then teach them how they can turn that into an Online Location Free Passion Based Business

Why I Am Focused on helping people particularly but not exclusively over 40 to create Location Free Businesses is another story for another time and posted elsewhere

Since those Inspired Ideas have come I have had so many others like creating a subscription model called The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and so much more and more ideas come in all the time but first you have to take one Inspired Action step and I trust more and more will come once You say yes to Your Universal Given Gifts

I AM Passionate about helping brainstorming out those Gifts but At the present moment I only give 121 Coaching even though I Am a Qualified Advance Life Coach and Advance Law of Attraction Practitioner to the people in The Freedom Empire Builders because my Vision is creating Digital Assets that help people do that for themselves, that I can set and forget and create Multiple Income Streams so I can have my own personal Location Freedom Lifestyle and Live Life on My Terms

I would love You to become a part of The Freedom Empire Builders and help You Brainstorm out what that looks like for You and believe it or not you can access that for around £29/$29 including my Coaching if You become an Associate or even zero if you sell a couple items of dead stuff on Facebook Market Place, Vinted etc that are laying around the house and have a business in as little as a weekend or less with a beautiful fully functioning website. Amazing Training and access to some incredible award winning Health & Wellness products for wholesale prices instead of retail

but if that is not something You feel is for You right now I totally get it but I would love it if you keep tapping in to my free content on my blog and other platforms or you could grab that tool I mentioned above for just $7 just to test out what You love to do most and set those wheels in motion for Inspired Ideas to start Divinely downloading and for possibly multiple streams of income to manifest and you can grab that no. Just click on the link fabfreedom.live

You maybe wondering what this post has to do with the Law of Attraction, after all I call myself #theloalover. Am I just trying to sell you something ?

Please read below and you will understand my true Purpose of why I post, podcast and write about stuff like this

At a very young age I wanted to become an Entrepreneur even before I knew what one was

Then in 2010 (in my Forties) after a series of spooky events I came across the book The Secret based on The Law of Attraction and in that book and the film version I resonated to Bob Proctor and encouraged by Bob I created a Goal card and manifested my first business

I also learnt from Bob the term Multiple Streams of Income

What I have learnt over the years even if not deliberately labelling it or even consciously knowing it the many successful people use The law of Attraction or Deliberate Creation to consciously attract and manifest the businesses and lifestyle most people dream about

Over the years I have also seen and become aware to have freedom and dream lifestyles, that won’t be obtained from 1 salary or one source of income and we need MIS’s or Multiple Income Streams as Bob mentioned and that’s why I Am Passionate about sharing a message of using The Law of Attraction to attract and create a lifestyle to Wake Up Happy for and create income streams based around what people most love to do to create time, location and financial freedom

After Years of People Pleasing because of my subconscious programming and putting other people’s needs over mine and feeling thoroughly miserable to boot by implementing Inspired Action steps gained from studying the Law of Attraction I finally created a life I woke up happy and more importantly excited for and because of this I know what is possible for other people aw well

But even more importantly to me is I see and hear so many people, particularly Women think that it is not possible because they are to old and again

I Am on a Mission to prove that is just a myth

We are NEVER to old and it is NEVER to late

I actually attracted my dream of Entrepreneurship and MIS’s in my 50’s and I have learned all the tech stuff and continue to do so nearing my 60’s and I see many, many, many women particularly in the Online Business Network Marketing space literally crushing it on TikTok etc which incidentally is actually intentionally gearing itself for business people so if you remain open minded and don’t dismiss anything for its potential the opportunities are unlimited

I started writing this blog post on a Saturday while attending an “Online Recurring Income Summit” enthused by the potentials out there and then because of some news that has convinced me we are heading for another Lockdown in the UK and wanting to help people see the possibilities of creating an online business and the need for MIS’s and then whilst doing some online Omnipresent Training I set myself some challenges to create a TikTok video and a podcast short every day

Once we step out of our comfort zone we soon stretch that muscle memory to become our new comfort zone but first we have to start

What obstacles are in Your life right now that are actually gifts in disguise saying “You are out of alignment with Your Higher Purpose. Go this way”

Grab a Journal and start free writing whatever comes to mind

Not in a position to journal right this moment? Set an alert on Your Smartphone to revisit this at a more suitable time and Journal when more appropriate

Purely setting the intention and the alert is an Inspired Action step within it self

You’re moving forward towards Your Dreams Baby !!!

Thanks for taking the time to read this blog. I know it is a bit longer than normal but that’s because I think it is such an important subject, especially at this moment in time to appreciate the importance of tapping in to what we love most and sharing our gifts with the world and protecting ourselves with Multiple Sources of Income based around our own personal Purpose

Have an awesomely attractive day and if you do check out my TikTok videos @alisonkparsons and, or post cast shorts at The Fab Over Forty Show I would love you to leave a comment and let me know that you came over because of this blog post and anything it inspired YOU to do ……. regardless of age !!!!

“3 Faith over Fear Tips”

“3 Faith over Fear Tips”


I love this quote and I heard it on Gabby Bernstein’s  incredible audiobook “Super Attractor” as I was driving this morning


That’s a tip in itself …


One of my Transformational tactics was instead of listening to the car stereo, music and negative news on my commutes was to set up my phone on YouTube and plug in one earbud and listening to motivational YouTube videos by legends like Louise Hay, Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins etc


Now it’s predominantly audiobooks and podcasts and one Bluetooth wireless earbud compared to putting my phone in the car door and plug in headphones and one earphone in


This leads me on to the  real tip I want to share plus a bonus if you read to the bottom


Fear & Appreciation CANNOT be in the same place at the same time and the best way I know to shift ASAP from Fear and Overwhelm is writing down all the things you are grateful for ~ start with the most what seems mundane basic of things like a warm bed, electricity to boil a kettle for your morning brew and the brew itself


The roof over your head that bed and where you appreciate that morning beverage and just keep rampaging everything that come to mind


Appreciation can be done at anytime anywhere because if you are not in a position to write things down you can just THINK Gratitude
Writing 3 things down in the morning that I was Grateful for is accidentally the Inspired Action step I first took that took me on a journey of Transformation


Don’t underestimate the power of just simply focusing on things you are Grateful for


Another simple task that must not be underestimated is the power of breath


When we are Fearful our breathing becomes constricted and our brain cannot operate at its solution based best


During my recent Ho’OPonoPono Certification I learnt a Breathing technique but I have simplified it down to be done anywhere in a few seconds


If anything I say helps and you would like any more tips including that breathing tip which I am going to drop next in the loalover.club type that address in to a browser or click on the link in my bio


Just to recap the three tips:

  1. Listening to Motivational Audiobooks on commutes, shopping etc
  2. Think About all the things you are grateful for, even better write it daily
  3. Take slow deep breaths when feeling overwhelm

If you haven’t already got a copy of the incredible book I mentioned above grab a copy here at Super Attractor

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware since starting this blog I have Qualified as An Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner  and I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice
You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

Our Passions are our Key to Success

Our Passions are the Key to Success ….


And following Inspired Action while Cleaning on Old Negative Memories that try to talk “You” out of following the Inspired Ideas ….


I have just been watching the new Film about Clarice Cliff “The Colour Room”  and she is my new Passion ….


I Am Going to Follow Inspired Action and research more about this incredible Artist like my Mentor in The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono Practitioner Certification Training, Joe Vitale did with P.T Barnum


Wow, wow, wow !!


While I am already a massive fan of Inspired Action and that’s why it is part of my 5 step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ my perspective on life has just taken a Massive Transformation in  the last few days since taking my Ho’oponopono Certification and taken my Formula to another level and I am excited for what’s to come in my Podcast Episodes and future  Law of Attraction Lovers Club modules even though I haven’t recorded it yet I can Feel something amazing is bubbling up


Watching this film I could see Clarice was tapped in to the Formula of Success even if she wasn’t aware of it and talking of Success Formulas I loved the last Episode I dropped in the LOA Club around this even if I do say it myself


What I have already felt for a long time and I have been building around has been confirmed to me like no other time in my existence and the T section of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ stands for Transformation and I talk about the Dot Method and I can see my own dots so clearly now it is as “Bizarre” and Wonderful as Clarice’s work


But it has changed my whole outlook on Goal Setting but thankfully I followed another Divine Inspired Action Download and Created a Cheat Sheet on what I Am calling Intuitive Goal Setting and I am giving it away. I just have to link the funnel I created for it and the Fun Sheet together and I am feeling Inspired to do that right now …..

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#lawofattraction #theloalover

I Believe we are All Geniuses

In Gay Hendrix’s book the Big Leap he talks of our zone of Excellence and our zone of Genius which I believe we All have and if you read on you will see why


A couple of days ago I was attracted to a MindValley Mentorship episode and they were discussing zones of Excellence  


They never referred to Gay’s book but the way they were discussing zones of Genius and and zones of Excellence I knew they were referring to the same thing


At first glance if you haven’t read the book you may be thinking they are the same


I know when I first read it I was a little confused


I know also, I need to read it again because my zone of Excellence has changed and I feel if I read it again I’ll see it in a new perspective and that’s partly what inspired me to write this blog post


Like I said I need to read it again so I am paraphrasing and I may have perceived it wrongly but I see our zone of Excellence as anything we are comfortable doing and can do effortlessly and easily therefore we are excellent at it


For me I think we may think of excellence as an elite skill but not the everyday things we do until this morning when I had a Divine Download and the words for this post started flowing through me


Unfortunately I wasn’t in a position to write them down as they flowed so now as I try to get back in to the flow of what I wanted to write it feels a bit clunky which is interesting for 2 reasons


I believe hard work is not necessary if we align and get in to flow or what I now know as level 3 / 4 of the 4 levels of consciousness  and if as evidence last night I was getting an evening meal ready and put something on TV to listen to while I was getting ready and I intuitively chose the Jonathan Ross Show and Ed Sheeran was live on Zoom
Jonathan made a comment that  Ed could write songs in about 30 minutes and Ed agreed that all the hits he’s written so quick, usually in under an hour and listed Shape of You, Perfect, and 18.


He added I remember them being so quick and barely having to think about it and just typing. If you speak to any writer some songs come out of thin air


I don’t believe they are thin air. As I mentioned earlier. I call them Divine Downloads and I believe we are all Geniuses or allocated our own specific Genius the trouble is we get wrapped up in earthly red tape and subconsciously also what was discussed in the MindValley discussion I mentioned above Brules short for Bull Shit Rules and we tune out of our Zone out of Genius


We also are Brulled into thinking it is wrong to blow our own Trumpet and be humble. Shutting us out even more of our predisposed given area of Genius for fear of standing out to tall.


We Give credit to others but believe we have nothing to offer


But I truly believe that is not true.

We just haven’t allowed ourselves the time to tap in to our own Level 3 & 4 as Ed described and come at life from Level 1 and 2. Level 1 the Victim mode, why Me? And Level 2 ~ By me, work , work mode or Action, action as I call it now instead of Inspired Action and the Level 2 work, work, action action blocks out those Inflow Opportunities


I know because I was there for so long and that is why I am passionate about sharing there is another way, there is still time and age is irrelevant  and I believe that it was no accident I was doing what I was doing and living in my zone of excellence and multiple people were complimenting me on being so talented and then immediately counteracting that with they wish they had a talent and me saying I believe we all have one and them they saying they didn’t or …..


People who had discovered a Passion or a Talent and or Hobby they loved and asking for Tips in to how to turn it in to a Business like I had done


I mentioned earlier I had a Divine Download but felt a bit clunky because of the delay in applying what was flowing through me and I believe there were 2 reasons for writing


Prior to turning on the TV Program I saw an alert for Evan Carmichael going live on Instagram and I seem to be aligning with Evan alot lately so I tapped the notification


Now I am assuming Evan was going Live on Several Platforms at once which is also relevant to the message I am trying to share but that’s very prominent in various places so I won’t discuss this here but when I jumped on he brought someone on to the Live and they were doing a Q & A


The gentleman was talking about following the Inspired Action to become a Motivational Speaker and Evan said “Great, where have you spoke so far?” and the gentleman replied he hadn’t as yet as he had only recently made the decision and then asked him about a dream talk and he said he would love to do a Ted talk


I loved Evans advise of deciding to make it a goal to speak on 3 platforms every week and explained how now, more than ever we have so many opportunities with Digital platforms and suggested things like speaking in front of a class of students and reaching out to people and asking to be a guest on their podcast or a live etc he also explained how easy it can be to do a Ted talk and how there are different Ted opportunities all over the world and various states in the US and if he was willing to Travel and contact the right people a Ted talk is very achievable in a very short space of time and for me personally this brought to my attention a couple things


We tend to focus on the Big ‘So called’ Goal before we have even started and not take in to account all the other achievable steps we can actually take now and that the big Goal is probably not so big or so unachievable or so far out of reach right now as we think so we get mired down before we even start and then most likely do not start full stop because it seems just to far out there in our zone of Genius


Evan also said something that I really related to because it was the very thing that got me mired down and delayed me from starting for several months and was the very same thing I discussed on the thing I delayed starting ….. my podcast The Fab Over Forty Show


As I was learning about Podcasting I got very excited and the higher state of consciousness aided me to brainstorm many, many titles of subjects I wanted to discuss about the Law of Attraction and turning Your Passion in to Money in Your Purse and then it discussed the editing and how crucial it was and I became completely overwhelmed


Now I am someone (now) who is used to stepping out of my Zone of Excellence and trying new things and turning them in to my new zone of Excellence but this really fuddled my brain despite several attempts and watching learning and implementing so I procrastinated and work on other projects and I tried to record with no fluffs and would fluff and delete and fluff and delete until whole afternoons and evening were wasted with no content at the end until one day I decided because of other things I was about to launch, in them I mentioned I had this podcast


And I did because it was all accepted on all the major platforms Spotify, Apple etc and the artwork was there but no episodes and because it was halting me launch these other items I had created to help other people find their passions and wake up happy from making a living doing what they love I just decided I had to go for it with no editing ~ fluffs and all and in the end I actually felt intuitively this might actually inspire people “If I Can, They Can” which is exactly what Evan said on that Live last night


He told this Guy just start speaking and recording stuff and “No Editing!” and the guy seemed a little stunned and he added “Seriously, NO Editing and the more you do it the easier it will get and the more comfortable it will get and the better you will get” ie: new Zone of Excellence anyone?


Ironically enough I actually mentioned Evan in a Podcast Episode, Episode #9 Tomorrow is NOT Guaranteed . I just recorded off the cuff a few days earlier, no editing and mentioned on a Virtual event I was attending at the weekend how he didn’t like his first few videos but just kept going because he knew he had a Higher a Purpose and People to serve but what I realised this morning is, if a Zone of Excellence is something we do effortlessly because it has become second nature to us because we have built neural pathways or brain waves around it or an even easier way of saying it “Habits” and if our Zone of Genius is what we are really Intuitively drawn to do and serve by AKA “Our Gifts” …..


When we were born, sorry to be brutally honest but pooping , crying, feeding and sleeping were our Zone of Excellence and walking was a Zone of Genius but we Intuitively started to walk because it was inbuilt in our DNA and then that became our new Zone of Genius.

Like feeding and dressing ourselves, riding a bike, driving a car etc was once “out there” in our Zone of Genius and became our Excellence or “Norm”


Why should it be any difference with our Dreams and Goals


I have mentioned it elsewhere about the thought of becoming an Omnipresent Passion Based Business on Social Media. There was a time we didn’t have smartphones and apps and Facebook but we learnt them so why can we master TikTok, YouTube, Pinterest, Blogging, Podcasting etc?


Less than a Year ago I didn’t know how to build a Digital Course or Digital Product and asset or Sales Funnels for them or a Membership site or Subscription platform and so many other skills I won’t list but now I have and I am nearly 56, because I watched, listened stopped implemented. Reached out for help if I needed it from someone in their Zone of Genius on the subject and rinse and repeat


But …..


I have heard it all.


I can’t change. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I’m to old. I haven’t got any talents etc .. etc .. etc


And that’s what motivated me to start my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show and my Facebook Page and Group Fabulous Freedom over Fortyand build my Products and Services Based around turning your Passions into income and businesses and using the Law of Attraction to deliberately create a Lifestyle You Love and Wake UP Happy for and a community called The Freedom Empire Builders 
Because you don’t have to be over 40 to be any part of this but because ……..


I was a Miserable Corporate Manager who thought she gave up on her Goals and Dreams a long time ago but my life didn’t start Transforming until I was over 40 and the book The Secret and the Law of Attraction came in to my life and I saw where I was going wrong ….


I realised I needed to take Responsibility and actually take some Inspired Action if I wanted my life to change so I took one small step of implementing a Gratitude Practice in the Morning and from taking that one small step and listening to my Intuition and took another Inspired Action step and another and inadvertently created a 5 Step Morning Routine that completely Transformed my Life (which I now give away) and  I actually have a Trademark Framework called The G.R.E.A.T Formula ™️  to help others on Their Transformational Journey and I get to wake up Happy everyday Doing What I love and Loving What I love which incidentally I wrote on a Goal Card Inspired by Bob Proctor who I resonated to from the Film Version of The Secret and which I talk about in a video I recorded for my Law of Attraction Lovers Club of why I Am so Passionate about and advocate making one


And Talking of Bob. He’s in his 80’s as I type and he is the quintessential example of someone who steps out of his Zone of Excellence on a regular basic and adopts all new ways of Marketing Zone of Genius so can serve as many people as Possible


So if you think you do not have Genius gift here are a couple tips to tap into it or in most cases dig it up because may be it has been buried so deep while working so hard on a building someone else’s dreams?


💖 If you could wake up tomorrow doing what you love all day what would that thing be?


💖 What 1 small step do you feel inspired to take today that would be part of answer to that last question


💖 What do you do in Your current Zone of Excellence that you really enjoy that you see would be useful if you were living in own Unique Zone on Genius


💖 Aim to make it a habit each day to spend a few minutes imagining yourself already doing what you would love to do most in the world


I am not writing this post to sell you anything … just to inspire You but if anything I have said Inspires You and You would like more hints and tips or my gift to you of my Freedom Making Morning Routine I would love for You to check out any of the places I mentioned above or just click on the link below to find out more about how you can Wake Up Happy

https://linktr.ee/AlisonKayParsons

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#theloalover #lawofattraction #goalcard #thebigleap #gayhendricks #bobproctor #edsheeran #mindvalley #tedtalk #evancarmichael #jonathanross #zoom

Turn Your Passions into Money in Your Purse

So Today’s the day I launch some Products and Services I have been quietly working on for several months because I felt mentally I had to do it this way for several reasons


A) So I could stay in my lane without distractions


B) Because I wanted to avoid negativity


C) I was using myself as a guinea pig so I could prove my methods were achievable  for others with little or zero money and little or what feels like Zero time and loving but half glass empty types of personalities around them


But I must admit that Physical Tainted by Societies BS Beliefs “Me”  felt a bit icky and deceitful at times even though my motives are good


At these times I reminded myself that the Higher Self non-physical part of me knows the fuller picture and never judges me but I have to admit ….
When I heard in an audiobook recently that Sara Blakely of Spank fame built her business in secret for a Year I admit I did shout “Yes!!” very loudly


I remember Dean Graziosi say last year when I took his and Tony Robbins Build Your Brand Challenge that when he stated what he was going to do his family created a kind of intervention to try to talk him out of it .

Some even flying across state and he admits there was a point they almost succeeded


If you don’t know who Dean is I highly recommend checking him out …. then you can see it worked out quite well for him in the end … putting it mildly


That challenge also really put in front of me Mr Russell Brunson who fundamentally changed my life and is the main reason I am here writing this post today and building the business I have built and launched the products I have launched today


If you are reading this post today The 3rd of November 2021 aka Humpday  I have some special Launch Day Bonuses and if you are someone who loves the Law of Attraction and like me deliberately creating Your Life and would also like I have done. Turn the things “You” are Passionate About into an Online Business I highly recommend checking them out


However ……


If you are reading this post after that date …… do not worry !!


These are launch day bonuses but the Products and Services themselves are NOW post launch, always available and Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder has a stack of bonuses worth literally hundreds of dollars built in to the offer for the crazily insane cost of only $7


Why this nuts price …… ???


Because my first business was a Brick n Mortar business I literally manifested from writing “I Am Successfully Self-employed Doing What I Love & Loving What I Do” on a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card, people could access me throughout my opening hours and would say ironically “You are so lucky, I wish I could do something I loved” and because I knew all too well what it was like to be doing a job you hated and I knew the potential to be able to turn a hobby into an income using social media and other online platforms I was giving away lots of free advice of how to turn a Passion into money in their Purse


The problem with that was ……


All that time invested in giving advice away for free meant it was taking me away from my own IPA’s or Income Producing Activities until …


Until I had the lightbulb that this is what I was meant to be doing and not what I thought I should be building


So I literally shelved everything I thought I should be working on and started from scratch and then once I made that decision as always “The Universe Conspired to make it Happen” and as usual when I get in to Level 3 and Level 4 of the 4 levels of Consciousness synchronicity after synchronicity lined up


And what started as an adaptation of a tool I was taught to use to Identify Your Passion turned into Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder with a `Ali  twist as I have added how to monetise that passion with the latest Online Social Media Omnipresent techniques which is the $7 product I mentioned above so now not only could I help those people that seek me out for advice I get to create an income from it


Has morphed it to many, many digital assets


💖 From my Gift of a Morning Routine which is literally a free(dom)  gift to you reading this 😜


💖 The Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder + bonuses to support creating an online business “You Love”


💖 My Mini pop course version of my now Trademarked 5 Step Framework ~ The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ and the full indepth version is in the making


💖 My Law of Attraction Lovers subscription service where for another amazing $7 a month you get everything I have learnt and will be learning about all things LOA and Online Passion Biz Based Building


💖 My Podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show”


💖 My Fabulous Freedom Over Forty Brand and Community (check out Facebook if this sounds like a place you would like to be)


💖 The Freedom Empire Builders Community where I give 121 Coaching on building a Location Freedom Multifaceted Passion Based Business to that Inner Circle

And all this was birthed from a moment of clarity of who I am here to truly serve


So you maybe wondering what these extra special Launch day bonuses are and how to I turn my Passions into a business I love …..

So the bonuses for early adopters today only until Midnight UK time are
These include:


💖 Early Adopters Same Price for Life to the LOA Lovers Club


💖 10 people picked who Purchase Passion Finder before Midnight to have an exclusive 121 post Training to help Brainstorm Monetising Your Passion


Plus these 10 people get ….


💖 An Exclusive Whatsapp Group and


💖 A signed copy of Smashing Through The Glass Ceiling
But that’s not all ….


💖 10 Bundle Buyers will be picked to have 2 x 1 Hour Brainstorm 121 Zooms with Me to maximise Their chances of Creating a Business They Love Online from Their Passion
All they have to do is ….


Join the LOA Lovers Club and Purchase Passion Finder and the Law of Attraction Biz Book Swipe File together to receive entry to the draw but don’t delay this offer is time bound and despite the Bonuses staying in the purchase of Passion Finder I am seriously considering removing one of them because I actually think I am nuts for giving it away because
I know I could easily sell it full price as a stand alone product


Ok, Ok, Ok 👍 I hear you say …. but how to do I get my hands on this great deal?


Check out the link in my Insta bio @alison_k_parsons or alternatively go to https://linktr.ee/AlisonKayParsons

Happy Hump Transformation Day

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I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

#theloalover #humpdaymotivation #lawofattraction

No Need for a Palm Reader

“Once you make a decision the Universe Conspires to Make it Happen”


Perfect timing and interesting conversation and maybe a bit ironic after the day I’ve had 😜


So I am just stretching out a little stiff but very very satisfied


After an amazing onboarding conversation today with a member of Rob Moore’s Progressive Team as part of their Ambassadors Program I am highly honoured to be a part of


I then rewatched the Launch Model Training in Rob. Team and Contacted Clickfunnels to iron a few tech issues


Both excellent customer services and I think that’s it. All finished. It is actually All Done !!!


After months of building and everything has come together I envisaged and sooo much more and …..


A lady opens my door who I think is a customer and asks if they can have cash to read my palm


“Thank you for the offer but I don’t need my palm read. I believe in the Law of Attraction”


Confused and abruptly  replies “what’s that”


“I use my thoughts to deliberately create what I want”


“Well if you just let me take your hand, I can tell you your future” she says reaching forward uninvited and trying to grasp my hand


I pull back and reply “Thank you but As I said, I don’t need you to read my future because I take responsibility for my thoughts to create it myself”


I think that was the most unusual “No”, she had ever had and I would have loved to be a fly in a her brain as she thought what was that all about


Anyway back to launch mode and talking of being an Ambassador I am absolutely Spellbound how all my dreams are coming together and honoured to have been accepted to be an ambassador for some absolutely gorgeous products that will be beautiful Christmas presents and perfectly align with my Brand and Vision

Interested to know what they are and what I am launching pop over to the Fabulous Freedom Over Forty Facebook page to be first in the know


#watchthisspace #believeinmiracles #theloalover #thoughtsbecomethings

On a mission to help others create a life of freedom and joy using the Law of Attraction