Success Leaves Clues

Monday Motivation


A Big shout out to the all the people that stepped out of their comfort zones and told themselves they were worth a different life.
As the quote says “Success Leaves Clues” You can spend your life building your dream or your can spend your life building someone else’s.


Tony Robbins says Success Leaves Clues and today more than ever those clues are so accessible via the internet etc.


You can watch a YouTube tutorial, start that online course, listening to that audio book while you commute etc.


Or as Tim Ferris suggests email that person you admire and ask them questions.


There is never a perfect time so why not start today and this time next year who knows where you will be.


Like Lao Tzu says “The Journey of a Thousand miles starts with one step” Take that step today and look for those clues 🙂


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Ask ~Believe ~receive

Ask and you shall receive 


Perfect timing Passion Planner


Once you make a decision the Universe conspires 


I am a ‘Time Chunker’. Planning out my To Do’s and Time chunking tasks in my 2 Passion Planners (yes I have 2 because I love them so much. One strictly business and one for creativity and everything else) 


But despite having a clearly written out daily To Do list yesterday I was aware I have not been chunking and planning recently  and I have been slipping in certain areas so I decided today I am going to plan out next week and start July but I needed some sort of timing system and instinct said I should use my Google Calendar more productively and plan out specific blocks of time per task so I incorporate missed areas 


I was always strictly digital apart from daily To Do list and Passion Planner but since joining the Femalepreneur Academy I have really started to find the benefits of going old school and writing ideas down and I loveeeeee 💖 a workbook now but I lose track of time so that’s why this video was answering my ask 


Perfect combination of old school and geek rolled into one and it made me aware of an app that sorts my timing requirement
Never discount these seemingly “coincidences”


This is the Law of Attraction in action 


The more you notice and acknowledge these occurrences in your life the more you will attract consciously and purposefully 


#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #passionplanner  #Pashfam 


If you want to know more about Passion Planners I have included a link below 
http://rwrd.io/v1j45u0


And you can check out the Femalepreneur Academy here to find out what all my fuss is about 😉  https://alisonkparsons–femalepreneursacademy.thrivecart.com/membership/

Wave like Your Life Depends on It

I just noticed I have subconsciously started waving very enthusiastically when I greet people

The other day I heard the quote “women over 50 don’t wave, right” 🤔

I sat puzzled for a second. Then I waved. Went thoughtful and then got the lightbulb 💡

Oh woman over 50 shouldn’t wave because of bingo wings

Really !!! Time doesn’t exist. We invented it so why do we buy into these stories?

Yesterday I noticed a lot of people’s subsconscious negative talk but that’s another story because I am investigating this at the moment and developing my own Law of Attraction Programs to combat such things

But my advice is “ check yourself before you wreck yourself”

Before you go to say something ask yourself is this a fact or belief system I bought into without realising? (And then forgive yourself for thinking it because if you berate yourself you are only setting up a negative energy)

Beliefs are not facts and a belief can be changed easily as this red hot second

You Can Change Your Life at any moment by Changing Your Thoughts

What about this one …. You are worthy for your best life

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #liveyoubestlife

Monday Motivation

I Love Monday’s and my wish for today is that I motivate 1 person to also Love Monday’s

Ask your self what it is you most desire and believe it is possible

Write it down as a goal and ask the question “what is the one thing I can do today to step towards it?”

Listen to any answer you receive (don’t dismiss it as to simple or that’s it I’ve finally lost my marbles I am hearing voices 😉. No one but you need to know)

And then take any Inspired Action you “FEEL” will bring you one step closer to your desired goal

And remember…. set the bar really, really high

Happy Monday 😘

Later I will be posting about the power of writing down goals

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #mondaymotivation #goals #dreams #dreambig #michelangelo

Who are they anyway

I started reading personal development books in the late 90’s

I learn’t about The Law of Attraction in 2010

I started listening to motivational videos in 2012

I started implementing Personal Development as consistently as possible then made it a daily practice

However I didn’t share these practices with others concerned of peoples reaction to my Woo Woo

Then in 2017 I came across an opportunity that changed my life

What I didn’t expect was to become part of a community of people that did all the same things as me.

🔹Setting goals, writing them down

🔹Believing in their dreams

🔹Watching motivational materials to start their day

🔹Reading Personal Development books

🔹Meditating

🔹Working on their Mindset

🔹Following the same inspirational people

🔹Believing in and Practicing The Law of Attraction

🔹Believing in a future where anything is possible

The difference was. They talked openly and confidently in what they believed in and didn’t care what other people said and followed their dreams in an unstoppable manner

Now thanks to them I am doing the same and it has opened me up to live my most liberated life, to even more incredible opportunities and meet even more incredible aspirational people

Never let the fear of what others might say stop you from living your most authentic, happiest most fulfilled life. You never know what’s out there waiting for you 🤔

It’s your turn to be Unstoppable 👍🏻😉😘

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo

Dream Day

I love a bit of Jakes energy in the morning and talking of energy in this video Jake explains how everything is energy and when I first heard this I intuitively knew it was right while all my other Peers were taking the mic (putting it politely) out of the lecturer that was explaining it to us so I stayed quiet but I could not shake this inner knowing that news I heard was true.

I now know it is scientifically proven but when someone tells us the chairs we are sat on and the table they are sat on is not solid and is just particles vibrating I appreciate it is “hard” to get your head around but I could not shake this feeling it was true

I am using this information to my advantage now since learning about The Law of Attraction and it seems so weird now how things have panned out since that day and that I recently qualified as a Practitioner in The Law of Attraction at the basic level and this weekend I will be taking the exam for the Advanced level

We are all born with an Inner Guidance System or Gut feeling which I experienced that day and I am so glad I did not dispel it. I do sometimes wonder what my Peers are doing these days that were so quick to laugh off the information

I am now living my Dream life and building bigger and better versions ever day talking of which. Jake gives a really good exercise towards the end of this video regarding ‘Your Dream Day’ so maybe it is worth not dispelling it and giving it a go. What have you got to lose? And like me that day when I heard about energy is everywhere and nothing is solid I just kept it to myself so no one needs to know until they see the results in your life and ask “What have you been doing? How did you get so lucky?”

Have a Fabulous Friday xxx

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #jakeducey #lawofattraction

Hustle v Surrender

A combination of two of my favourite things Vishen Lakhiani from Mindvalley and Tom Bilyeu and an Impact Theory interview

This excites me about the future

Listen to what Vishen says about Hustle v Surrender

Have an awesome day

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #mindvalley #impacttheory #vishenlakhiani #tombilyeu

Lesson & Blessings

 

“Oh Wow !! Boy am I humbled”

It’s either a blessing or a lesson and sometimes it is a blessing and a lesson.


I aim to do Personal Development daily to stay in the best possible, highest vibration I can but I am human and recently something was really frustrating me so I did what I normally do and remind myself how this like previous negative situations in a few days this will not have the charge it currently has and in a few weeks I will probably not even remember it. I also remind myself it is either a blessing or a lesson and try to see what the lesson is.


I made a decision based on this that felt good and then I was led to amazing opportunities that I would have never found if I hadn’t had the negative situation happen. So much so, yesterday I saw something that a few weeks ago that would probably have upset me but instead I laughed because I was in such a good place that I would never been in if it wasn’t for those previous experiences and I said thank you for the blessing.


Later in the day I was reading a book in where the author who I thought really has his sxxt  together told a story of having a conversation with a Monk in a hot tub (as you do) and the Monk told him “I know what your problem is, you have low self-esteem. He was defensive at first as it was explained and then he agreed that certain behaviour traits were indeed due to low self-esteem. He then described another scenario where he spent time with and excellent Leader in their field that highlighted a scarcity issue.


While reading this it struck me that the reason I felt frustration recently was because of low self-esteem and a story I was telling myself that probably wasn’t even true. 

Like the author. Because we make a conscious effort to deal with negative situations we thought we are doing a good job but we were not dealing with the underlying issue in the first place and I knew today I needed to do some inner work on my self worth and where to go to for this. For me, Marisa Peer (who coincidently was the person who highlighted the scarcity issues to the author but who I would have referred to anyway).


Now I wasn’t in the position to have a 121, Face to Face with Marisa today but I did the next best thing for me and YouTube Marisa and do some “I Am” statements and my favourite Marisa “I AM” “I Am Worthy”


Later I watched a Masterclass presentation and the speaker asked “do you think you are a victim of circumstance buffeted around by life and have no control over things?” I said to the screen “No chance” Knowing I am responsible for it all. Even the sxxt stuff because at some level I have attracted this with my thoughts but its ok because I am grateful for the lesson that my self-esteem obviously needs some work and with that a lady opened the shop door as said “I just have to say. I walk past your shop every week and I wanted to tell you, your work is truly incredible”


I think she was probably aware by my reaction how taken back I was by her kind comment and I told her how grateful I was and appreciative of her for taking the time to tell me.


We shouldn’t need validation from others but it seemed very coincidental that this person arrived on this day to tell me my work is good and I know there truly are no accidents.


Even the most successful people in the world look to others to help them become the best version of themselves they can become. 


I recently heard some advise I have taken to heart and determined to work on achieving and that was to attend every destination event you possibly can as you will come away invigorated and inspired to take your life to the next level by what you hear and learn. I know from his position this was actually aimed at NWM but it can be applied to any destination invent with incredible guest speakers and I am so glad that very soon I am will be attending an incredible Event with so many guest speakers and only a short distance away from me for far, far less than most events like this cost so now I am so super excited to keep working on my self-esteem even when I feel I have my sxxt together and take my game to the next level ~ whose coming with me? xx


I can actually hear Shania Twain singing in my head right now “You Go Girl” 

Have I mastered my Money Mindset

As the name says I am The Law of Attraction Lover and I believe it , love it, use it, get it to work for me but Money or should I say Mega Money … Blaaaaa !!! That’s a discription of my stomach rolling over at the thought of it.

I literally told myself I am never gonna get this one to work out for me Baby

Well that’s a positive affirmation right there – Not !

But a few months ago I told myself I will overcome this one if it …. well you know the phrase.

I have read more books than I can calculate before making the decision to kick this sucker to the curb about money mindset but I knew to cure it I couldn’t stop there.

So I continued reading watching, listening, affing (affirmations if you are new to my blog and not aware of my terminologies)

And gradually I have started to feel the fog start to lift and become more and more comfortable around money but not only have I begun to feel comfortable, I have actually felt happy about it and literally eager to pay bills.

Some of it I have got to myself and some thank you Universe, I have been presented with the right materials at the right time.

What do I mean ages ago? For instance about 2 years just around now I heard of Christie Marie Sheldon and what she calls lofty questions. These were working for me well and I was getting positive results but then I manifested a business. See I told you the Law of Attraction has worked for me but that should all be documented in other posts so I won’t go in to it here.

The business was very busy from the very beginning (grateful) and I lost the luxury of having the time to write out my lofty questions but a few weeks ago I was getting a strong compulsion to restart them again and with 24 hours I started to see results

Around the same time I came across Denise Duffield Thomas and her book “Get Rich, Lucky Bitch” and immediately started implementing some of the suggestions combined with the lofty questions

I started logging money coming in, saving, de-cluttering, ditch the dodgy under-ware (you’ll have to listen/read the book 😉 )

I am aware a big part of attracting what you want is feeling and I am becoming better at taking time to read my feelings and I went I started saving it felt good. I also started seeing and increase in my business when I started logging the money coming in.

What was really liberating when I read “Lucky Bee” was Denise admitted she constantly works on her money blocks and we will always have money blocks to work on. Instead of being depressed at this prospect I thought Yeah, I am not broken

I always thought the reason I was never Mega Money abundant was because I was not cured of my money blocks. “I will never be wealthy”

Now I knew I would never be cleared of them and that’s normal and I will always have to work on them. I’m down with that. I can do the work now I know I always have to. I am a personal development junkie – Bring it on !!

Talking of doing the work Denise advises throw anything at it that feels right for you and it doesn’t have to be one practice over another.

Another positive because if you are told something that says you have to do this or you won’t get A, B, or C and you are not getting results with said practice you are going to feel a failure and negative feelings never get good results.

Probably because what I have digested previously I am not a total Dork around money and do have faith around certain financial topics working out ok. One of those is what instigated this blog post …. but first a couple examples.

I set myself a goal for 2019 but recently I was in two minds should I invest in it or not despite it bringing me at least one step closer to my next big dream so I decided to let it go and trust the Universe to show me the answer

Last Friday when I least expected it a series of events happened and then inspired action made me to do something and then I got my answer … and then some.

The ‘Then Some’ was a link to the very thing I wished to achieve this year. Doing a gut check and reading my feelings (Joy) I did it and it cost a lot less than I anticipated

But as Denise predicted I then I had a Blaaa !! gut role because I potentially have a bill coming up that I don’t know the final cost of however “STOP PRESS” my mind almost a second later formed a lofty question that it was ok because I was going to make the money back today. Motivated by this I thought I won’t stop there. Not only am I going to make this back I am going to double it. Wow, Wow, Wow !! Get me.

Not in a position to write it down I said it over and over in my head promising I would write it down when I got in to my shop.

However the shop was crazy busy and I didn’t get a chance to write my lofty question down

No worries because just by thinking it seemed to do the trick and I did in fact not only make the money back that I spent out but I did double it in takings in my shop.

This made me very excited not to mention happy and I swore from now on when I get a gut a role I am going to focus on my abundance and belief in attracting more than whatever it was I have to pay out.

One habit I have adopted for a while is saying/writing affirmations about gratefully paying for any service or product I desire or require and that I always have enough money for it, as if validation of this and my actions the other day, yesterday while trying to listen to a Podcast that wouldn’t play it instead started playing a podcast by Mindvalley when someone totally new to me Ramit Sethi was being interviewed.

Ramit very early in the podcast spoke of when someone boasts about finding a loophole not to pay for a service etc ie Taxes (bill with the unknown amount awaiting to pay) they are projecting a scarcity mindset. He said if you are in business you have things to pay out, taxes, pay an accountant etc. Get over it.

Because of material digested a long time ago I had shifted my mindset on getting a cleaner, paying someone to cut the grass, do your taxes etc because when you pay them for their services and skill set it frees you up to earn money doing what you are good at to pay them and create an income for them. Win, win so I totally got what Ramit was saying and it took me back to my behaviour and lofty question when I paid for the service this past Saturday morning where I overrode the Blaaa !! feeling with my abundant mindset action and then Ramit said a quote that made me go “I’m having that. That is going in to my journal.

“Abundant People Realise Their Future Is Brighter Than Their Past”    

I said previously that while not being a millionaire (yet) sometimes I can hold a belief something will work out and despite practically having zero in the bank when the subject came up (numerous times) my partner would keep reminding me “You’re going to need money in your account in January you know to pay your tax bill” (Thank you for reminding me Dad – again)

I have a small physical craft business while thankfully popular and keeping me afloat as soon as I build up a bit of money I would need to buy stock and materials so while a looming tax bill would look daunting for some reason I had Faith it would all be alright but I would just acknowledge my partners concerns not wanting to express my belief as he openly admits he doesn’t get my Woo Woo.

Well to make this long story longer Christmas was insane in my business giving me some surplus money that I have been keeping towards my taxes and potentially making everything indeed ok and this morning I got a telephone call from my Accountant asking could I meet to go over a couple things

Despite my belief that everything would be alright as Denise predicted I did gulp down an old money block feeling that wanted to say “Hello”

Right you pesky money block time we tango’d. So I put an alarm on my phone to stop and have lunch while writing lofty questions before the meeting to put me in a better frame of mind and I even used the quote above as I entered the reception (throw anything at it malarky)

Well the news was far better than I antisipated and when it was suggested to pay a contribution to an annual fee that I am not obligated to do in my current position but has productive benefits for me in the long run I found myself saying “Yes” and asking payment methods

I found the new abundant mindset ‘Me’ wanted to pay for the service provided ASAP knowing my future is brighter than my past

I even caught myself smiling as I went back to my shop, thinking well that went well and I actually feel happy.

Hang on, have I finally changed my money mindset

If I can do it, anyone can do it

Captain Joy

Today Matthew I Am Captain Joy, Over !!

Migraine, Stinking Cold (never get colds) fall down stairs on Monday (still see & feel the effects of the bruises) dodgy digestive system since Tuesday

I think mentally I feel fine but I believe physical conditions are connected to emotional unrest so today I am on project “Joy” and I am having what I call a LGLG Day … and thankfully I can have an LGLG day any day I want because I haven’t got a boss saying I can’t 😀😉

An LGLG day ? – I am not a religious person but cool if anyone is but in Wayne Dyer’s book “You’ll See it when You Believe it” he uses a phrase “Let Go Let God” and whenever I am overwhelmed etc I have an LGLG day because nothing gets solved down in despair . All solutions to problems etc are shut down in a negative state of mind

Solutions are only at the top of your spiral in a state of Joy where inspired action can come in.

I don’t feel I have any problems that I believe need solving but all of the physical conditions that have happened recently make me feel the Universe is saying “Hey, sister. Just chill !!” So I am just going to consistently check in with myself and ask what will me bring the most joy next before taking any action.

I love the ‘Over’ app and made myself the joy,joy,joy LGLG picture to save as a screen saver as a reminder just in case I forget today I am Captain Joy

I hope you remember to keep checking in with yourself today and whatever you are doing you do from a place of Joy

PS: Feel free to save the photo as your own screensaver if you need a reminder

#loalover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #LGLGday #chill #relax #joy #waynedyer