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“Oh Wow !! Boy am I humbled”

It’s either a blessing or a lesson and sometimes it is a blessing and a lesson.


I aim to do Personal Development daily to stay in the best possible, highest vibration I can but I am human and recently something was really frustrating me so I did what I normally do and remind myself how this like previous negative situations in a few days this will not have the charge it currently has and in a few weeks I will probably not even remember it. I also remind myself it is either a blessing or a lesson and try to see what the lesson is.


I made a decision based on this that felt good and then I was led to amazing opportunities that I would have never found if I hadn’t had the negative situation happen. So much so, yesterday I saw something that a few weeks ago that would probably have upset me but instead I laughed because I was in such a good place that I would never been in if it wasn’t for those previous experiences and I said thank you for the blessing.


Later in the day I was reading a book in where the author who I thought really has his sxxt  together told a story of having a conversation with a Monk in a hot tub (as you do) and the Monk told him “I know what your problem is, you have low self-esteem. He was defensive at first as it was explained and then he agreed that certain behaviour traits were indeed due to low self-esteem. He then described another scenario where he spent time with and excellent Leader in their field that highlighted a scarcity issue.


While reading this it struck me that the reason I felt frustration recently was because of low self-esteem and a story I was telling myself that probably wasn’t even true. 

Like the author. Because we make a conscious effort to deal with negative situations we thought we are doing a good job but we were not dealing with the underlying issue in the first place and I knew today I needed to do some inner work on my self worth and where to go to for this. For me, Marisa Peer (who coincidently was the person who highlighted the scarcity issues to the author but who I would have referred to anyway).


Now I wasn’t in the position to have a 121, Face to Face with Marisa today but I did the next best thing for me and YouTube Marisa and do some “I Am” statements and my favourite Marisa “I AM” “I Am Worthy”


Later I watched a Masterclass presentation and the speaker asked “do you think you are a victim of circumstance buffeted around by life and have no control over things?” I said to the screen “No chance” Knowing I am responsible for it all. Even the sxxt stuff because at some level I have attracted this with my thoughts but its ok because I am grateful for the lesson that my self-esteem obviously needs some work and with that a lady opened the shop door as said “I just have to say. I walk past your shop every week and I wanted to tell you, your work is truly incredible”


I think she was probably aware by my reaction how taken back I was by her kind comment and I told her how grateful I was and appreciative of her for taking the time to tell me.


We shouldn’t need validation from others but it seemed very coincidental that this person arrived on this day to tell me my work is good and I know there truly are no accidents.


Even the most successful people in the world look to others to help them become the best version of themselves they can become. 


I recently heard some advise I have taken to heart and determined to work on achieving and that was to attend every destination event you possibly can as you will come away invigorated and inspired to take your life to the next level by what you hear and learn. I know from his position this was actually aimed at NWM but it can be applied to any destination invent with incredible guest speakers and I am so glad that very soon I am will be attending an incredible Event with so many guest speakers and only a short distance away from me for far, far less than most events like this cost so now I am so super excited to keep working on my self-esteem even when I feel I have my sxxt together and take my game to the next level ~ whose coming with me? xx


I can actually hear Shania Twain singing in my head right now “You Go Girl” 

 

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Have I mastered my Money Mindset

As the name says I am The Law of Attraction Lover and I believe it , love it, use it, get it to work for me but Money or should I say Mega Money … Blaaaaa !!! That’s a discription of my stomach rolling over at the thought of it.

I literally told myself I am never gonna get this one to work out for me Baby

Well that’s a positive affirmation right there – Not !

But a few months ago I told myself I will overcome this one if it …. well you know the phrase.

I have read more books than I can calculate before making the decision to kick this sucker to the curb about money mindset but I knew to cure it I couldn’t stop there.

So I continued reading watching, listening, affing (affirmations if you are new to my blog and not aware of my terminologies)

And gradually I have started to feel the fog start to lift and become more and more comfortable around money but not only have I begun to feel comfortable, I have actually felt happy about it and literally eager to pay bills.

Some of it I have got to myself and some thank you Universe, I have been presented with the right materials at the right time.

What do I mean ages ago? For instance about 2 years just around now I heard of Christie Marie Sheldon and what she calls lofty questions. These were working for me well and I was getting positive results but then I manifested a business. See I told you the Law of Attraction has worked for me but that should all be documented in other posts so I won’t go in to it here.

The business was very busy from the very beginning (grateful) and I lost the luxury of having the time to write out my lofty questions but a few weeks ago I was getting a strong compulsion to restart them again and with 24 hours I started to see results

Around the same time I came across Denise Duffield Thomas and her book “Get Rich, Lucky Bitch” and immediately started implementing some of the suggestions combined with the lofty questions

I started logging money coming in, saving, de-cluttering, ditch the dodgy under-ware (you’ll have to listen/read the book 😉 )

I am aware a big part of attracting what you want is feeling and I am becoming better at taking time to read my feelings and I went I started saving it felt good. I also started seeing and increase in my business when I started logging the money coming in.

What was really liberating when I read “Lucky Bee” was Denise admitted she constantly works on her money blocks and we will always have money blocks to work on. Instead of being depressed at this prospect I thought Yeah, I am not broken

I always thought the reason I was never Mega Money abundant was because I was not cured of my money blocks. “I will never be wealthy”

Now I knew I would never be cleared of them and that’s normal and I will always have to work on them. I’m down with that. I can do the work now I know I always have to. I am a personal development junkie – Bring it on !!

Talking of doing the work Denise advises throw anything at it that feels right for you and it doesn’t have to be one practice over another.

Another positive because if you are told something that says you have to do this or you won’t get A, B, or C and you are not getting results with said practice you are going to feel a failure and negative feelings never get good results.

Probably because what I have digested previously I am not a total Dork around money and do have faith around certain financial topics working out ok. One of those is what instigated this blog post …. but first a couple examples.

I set myself a goal for 2019 but recently I was in two minds should I invest in it or not despite it bringing me at least one step closer to my next big dream so I decided to let it go and trust the Universe to show me the answer

Last Friday when I least expected it a series of events happened and then inspired action made me to do something and then I got my answer … and then some.

The ‘Then Some’ was a link to the very thing I wished to achieve this year. Doing a gut check and reading my feelings (Joy) I did it and it cost a lot less than I anticipated

But as Denise predicted I then I had a Blaaa !! gut role because I potentially have a bill coming up that I don’t know the final cost of however “STOP PRESS” my mind almost a second later formed a lofty question that it was ok because I was going to make the money back today. Motivated by this I thought I won’t stop there. Not only am I going to make this back I am going to double it. Wow, Wow, Wow !! Get me.

Not in a position to write it down I said it over and over in my head promising I would write it down when I got in to my shop.

However the shop was crazy busy and I didn’t get a chance to write my lofty question down

No worries because just by thinking it seemed to do the trick and I did in fact not only make the money back that I spent out but I did double it in takings in my shop.

This made me very excited not to mention happy and I swore from now on when I get a gut a role I am going to focus on my abundance and belief in attracting more than whatever it was I have to pay out.

One habit I have adopted for a while is saying/writing affirmations about gratefully paying for any service or product I desire or require and that I always have enough money for it, as if validation of this and my actions the other day, yesterday while trying to listen to a Podcast that wouldn’t play it instead started playing a podcast by Mindvalley when someone totally new to me Ramit Sethi was being interviewed.

Ramit very early in the podcast spoke of when someone boasts about finding a loophole not to pay for a service etc ie Taxes (bill with the unknown amount awaiting to pay) they are projecting a scarcity mindset. He said if you are in business you have things to pay out, taxes, pay an accountant etc. Get over it.

Because of material digested a long time ago I had shifted my mindset on getting a cleaner, paying someone to cut the grass, do your taxes etc because when you pay them for their services and skill set it frees you up to earn money doing what you are good at to pay them and create an income for them. Win, win so I totally got what Ramit was saying and it took me back to my behaviour and lofty question when I paid for the service this past Saturday morning where I overrode the Blaaa !! feeling with my abundant mindset action and then Ramit said a quote that made me go “I’m having that. That is going in to my journal.

“Abundant People Realise Their Future Is Brighter Than Their Past”    

I said previously that while not being a millionaire (yet) sometimes I can hold a belief something will work out and despite practically having zero in the bank when the subject came up (numerous times) my partner would keep reminding me “You’re going to need money in your account in January you know to pay your tax bill” (Thank you for reminding me Dad – again)

I have a small physical craft business while thankfully popular and keeping me afloat as soon as I build up a bit of money I would need to buy stock and materials so while a looming tax bill would look daunting for some reason I had Faith it would all be alright but I would just acknowledge my partners concerns not wanting to express my belief as he openly admits he doesn’t get my Woo Woo.

Well to make this long story longer Christmas was insane in my business giving me some surplus money that I have been keeping towards my taxes and potentially making everything indeed ok and this morning I got a telephone call from my Accountant asking could I meet to go over a couple things

Despite my belief that everything would be alright as Denise predicted I did gulp down an old money block feeling that wanted to say “Hello”

Right you pesky money block time we tango’d. So I put an alarm on my phone to stop and have lunch while writing lofty questions before the meeting to put me in a better frame of mind and I even used the quote above as I entered the reception (throw anything at it malarky)

Well the news was far better than I antisipated and when it was suggested to pay a contribution to an annual fee that I am not obligated to do in my current position but has productive benefits for me in the long run I found myself saying “Yes” and asking payment methods

I found the new abundant mindset ‘Me’ wanted to pay for the service provided ASAP knowing my future is brighter than my past

I even caught myself smiling as I went back to my shop, thinking well that went well and I actually feel happy.

Hang on, have I finally changed my money mindset

If I can do it, anyone can do it

 
 

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Captain Joy

Today Matthew I Am Captain Joy, Over !!

Migraine, Stinking Cold (never get colds) fall down stairs on Monday (still see & feel the effects of the bruises) dodgy digestive system since Tuesday

I think mentally I feel fine but I believe physical conditions are connected to emotional unrest so today I am on project “Joy” and I am having what I call a LGLG Day … and thankfully I can have an LGLG day any day I want because I haven’t got a boss saying I can’t 😀😉

An LGLG day ? – I am not a religious person but cool if anyone is but in Wayne Dyer’s book “You’ll See it when You Believe it” he uses a phrase “Let Go Let God” and whenever I am overwhelmed etc I have an LGLG day because nothing gets solved down in despair . All solutions to problems etc are shut down in a negative state of mind

Solutions are only at the top of your spiral in a state of Joy where inspired action can come in.

I don’t feel I have any problems that I believe need solving but all of the physical conditions that have happened recently make me feel the Universe is saying “Hey, sister. Just chill !!” So I am just going to consistently check in with myself and ask what will me bring the most joy next before taking any action.

I love the ‘Over’ app and made myself the joy,joy,joy LGLG picture to save as a screen saver as a reminder just in case I forget today I am Captain Joy

I hope you remember to keep checking in with yourself today and whatever you are doing you do from a place of Joy

PS: Feel free to save the photo as your own screensaver if you need a reminder

#loalover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #LGLGday #chill #relax #joy #waynedyer

 
 

Light Bulb Moment

When I started this blog, I felt compelled to (burning desire that wouldn’t go away) for a start, I wanted to share my observations of The Law of Attraction in action in my life and called the category “Just Me Rambling”

And I suppose in an arrogant type of way I wanted to try and say “Hey, this is happening in my life and it is happening to you in yours and hopefully generate a thought that would make people question both the good and the bad in their lives and see there are no accidents (blogged about that) and then start using deliberate creation to attract life’s circumstances intentionally

What I didn’t mention was that when I started I was terrified. Terrified of pressing the publish button. Terrified about my content (despite being from the heart) Terrified of telling people I know and love that I created this blog. I would tremble, my heart rate would rise so much I swear it was going to fly out of my chest and take flight like one of those moths above

I literally didn’t know one single soul who talked about The Law of Attraction. Practiced daily Personal Development. Watched Video’s on YouTube. Read Personal Development books and books on Quantum Physics. I got a lot of stick about my books from my partner. How it was all rubbish and I should throw them away but still I felt compelled to read them but just tried to be more discreet. iPad and iPhones are great for that with YouTube & iBooks, Kindle apps 😉

It did always stick with me what Jim Rohn says about being the sum of the 5 people around us and I thought “Ok, I’ll have to create my 5% virtually” but still I stayed in the shadows and practiced my Woo Woo in secret.

It has always been a dream of mine to be self-employed and in 2016 whilst off work (from a job I hated) due to a broken leg that I broke the day after making a Bob Proctor inspired goal card saying “I Am Successfully Self-Employed Doing What I love and Loving What I Do” and I know, extreme way to get time away from it and making me miss my daughters wedding in to the bargain (more blog posts) I started writing a book about experimenting attracting things via the path of least resistance, however hands up I still haven’t finished the book because I returned to work quicker than diagnosed because I decided to self heal inspired by Anita Moorjani’s book “Dying to Be Me” and every morning on my return I placed the goal card in front of me by my PC screen and after a very strange series of events when I least expected it in a path of least resistance way a business opportunity arose almost 2 years ago doing what I love and loving what I do but that’s not the point of this post (just a little back story that fell out of my brain)

The point is about something that only just occurred to me today …….

Whilst doing what I love I listen to a lot of podcasts, ebooks, YouTube Video’s etc and as well as the physical business (Painting Wooden Ducks) in the summer of 2017 another business opportunity arose in Network Marketing and learning from the previous situation that to get anywhere you have to take risks and do the things that other people aren’t willing to do to get where you want to be

Now, I knew nothing about NWM and I have probably been the worlds worst NWM because I followed the advise I saw from the ‘Lives’ and Training video’s and despite the products being amazing and Training material contributors getting amazing results I got none. Before implementing them I felt icky in my gut (and despite always aiming to be a gut listener) I tried their way because I didn’t know any different and talking of trying and my gut recently something said stick with it but aim to be more authentic and come from a place of alignment and not a sheep. Thanks Universe, no soft soaping there Baby.

This morning I listened to an incredible Ali Brown Podcast about how we hide our important messages in our safe space and challenging us to get our true message out there in full public view and of course it resonated with me with my new desire to be completely authentic and aligned in ALL things regardless of the consequences but to be perfectly honest …….

Network Marketing has given me the confidence to do that for a long time in regards to my own personal offers about myself but I just wasn’t doing it in my Networking practices with my products because I didn’t have the confidence in my own abilities in that business arena

I have other aspirations now in business for 2019 and I am 100% assured I only move forward doing something for this venture when it is authentic and aligned (and gut checked) and the authentic and aligned in all areas is getting more natural now

Wow this is longest Blog post I have written in months … thank you so much if you have stuck with it this far. I appreciate you so much

And while I have been doing the authentic and aligned in recent days I have attracted more friends and followers than I have done …. ever !! And most of them have been in the business and MLM environment and this is where is shows authentically complete honesty …..

I had the thought …. I really hope they don’t try to spammy pitch me their opportunity and try to poach me because I love my company and it’s products and I am staying put (and we are NO.3 in the top Ten MLM Companies to work for in 2019) and we have a no spam policy but usually when I get business followers this happens (Yuck) so I checked my messages …. no eggy spam – Hoorah !!

And then I thought the light bulb thought …. I maybe wrong but maybe they added me as a peer, or they liked my (authentic) content and genuinely want to follow me because I put out my Woo Woo on my wall and they relate to it.

See, I am not terrified who knows the real me any more so it is all out there for everyone to see

I love Frazer Brookes, seriously check him out because he is all about the authentic message in Network Marketing and the other day Frazer posted “Be so positive that negative people delete you on Facebook”

And the negative partner who said throw the books away …. now he’s all positive, positive and eradicates the negative. No News in our house or Negative people on his social feed

And the 5%? I have to admit it still surprises me and I don’t know why. When I joined my NWM Company I joined because I felt it was a great opportunity but I never expected a community of people who like me, watch motivational material every morning. Read Personal Development books all the time and openly talk about The Law of Attraction on their Social Media platforms

I secretly wanted to be self-employed with as Bob Proctor advises ‘Multiple Streams of Income and I secretly wanted to connect to like minded people who would stimulate me and I attracted both it almost feels like, by accident or should I say “The Path of Least Resistance”

 

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Don’t need hump days

Today I am going with the Tom Ford because…..

Just because it felt like a Tom Ford day and it’s my favourite

Don’t save your favourite things for special occasions

Tell yourself everyday you are worth it.

Go first class in your life and the Universe will respond with a first class life

#dontneedhumpdays #loalover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo

 
 

You are not an impostor, you are awesome

The last couple days I have been getting excited that B-School is coming up soon and I get to take it again for the third year running and forever. Once you are in your in but if you don’t want to be a B-schooler do yourself a favour get yourself on Marie’s MF insiders email list or follow her on YouTube. 


Not only if she is hilarious she is so insightful and if you have that Monkey Mind voice that’s is constantly beating yourself up check this Video out ……… is also shows you that people we think have it all figured our have self doubt and lack in confidence.

Let’s take Maries advise and Big each other and ourselves up. We are ALL AWESOME xx

 
 

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What would you achieve if you didn’t quit?

I was listening to an audiobook yesterday by #sarahrobbins and in it she tells a story of someone that recruited an individual into their Network Marketing company and the recruiter gave up shortly after and the person they recruited  went on to be a top earner in the Company and this made me think of this question.
“What would we achieve if we don’t quit?”
Yes we always think of quitting sometimes. Feel overwhelmed etc. It’s easier to think of a million reasons not to do something than one reason why we should continue but maybe this is the question we should always apply when we feel like quitting –  “What if”
What if I give it one more day?
What if I give it one more try?
What if I act on that gut instinct (which is always our Higher Self guiding us to the best possible outcome)
“What would you achieve if you don’t quit’ The outcomes are endless and I believe far more rewarding that quitting
Let’s not regret anything in 2019 and make it our best year ever which is also just prequel for 2020 which will then be our best year ever
#loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction #alip
#dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo
 
 

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