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Thank you Louise Hay for all that you have given me x

I did try to find a blog post I did that included this video to re-share as a tribute to Louise Hay but it doesn’t want to be found so this is a new post and an opportunity to say Good Bye from this earthly plane to a woman that inspired me so much and changed my life for the better.

Louise was my go to lady for so many situations, positive negative (definitely negative), health wise and inspirationally.

I used Louise’s book to help visualising me passing my driving test. I referred to her books when I had pain to establish what it was telling me and the youtube video  belowI listened to over and over again via the youtube app on my phone while I drove to a job I hated to inspire to attract the life I desired but what inspired me the most and kept me going when times were hard was the age Louise was when she started her publishing house because I haven’t reached that age yet so anything is possible for me.

I am grateful that while you are physically gone Dear Louise we have the technology today to access your wisdom anywhere at any time.

 

 
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Posted by on September 1, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

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I’m puppy (toilet) training ….. Me !!

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The other day I was feeling a little off focus, disconnected and I knew I needed to charge my spiritual battery.

With this acknowledgement where do I go? What do I do?

One of the quickest, easiest ways I have found just to start making myself feel better is Pam Grout’s blog. Easily and effortlessly Pam has the ability to remind me how great this Universe is but on this day with at least 3 posts to catch up on, it felt like Pam was posting just for me. These posts were more profound than a quick shot of happy adrenalin.

Sometimes Pam posts examples of the emails she receives from people thanking her and telling her of the amazing things that have happened to them following reading Pam’s books and acting on the advise and one of them made me think that’s the next step to charge this my physical battery …. get some shape action or in other words reread Pam’s books.

In amongst the blogs and what I reread within a few hours I was reminded by Pam that in our human physicality we ALL, regardless of how phenomenal we think someone is who seems to have it all going on get wrapped up in our 5 senses and let doubt, worry and fear grab us by the delicate areas and shake us around.

This is what led me to the place of realising I needing to take things to a higher level. Something happened to me and I let myself become completely overwhelmed by fear.

What I also realised whilst reading Pam was all the magnificent information that I had highlighted and then completely forgot about. Pam said it herself that even she goes all 5 senses now and again and has to keep working daily to put herself first and remind herself of the power we have at our disposal 24/7. She described it like training a puppy not to pee on your slippers. You have to take it outside and show it all the incredible unlimited magnificence of the Universe it has at it’s disposal.

That’s when it struck me. I need daily reminders to go beyond the 5. It’s not a one time underline and forget situation. If I really want to rock my physical world with joy, happiness and abundance and remember the non-physical assistance I (WE ALL) have at our disposal literally every second of our waking and non-waking time space continuum I need to puppy (toilet) train my brain.

I have a digital journal running on an app I use called Evernote that I can access on any device and syncs to all my other devices so at the start of each day I have made a tick list of things I aim to do that day. I know I can be a little control freak on myself and then probably give myself a mental kicking if I feel I have failed to achieve something so I have created a balance for myself buy accepting that I am not going to tick all the boxes in one day so what doesn’t get ticked gets deleted for that day but I still have a track record of what I have achieved that put me and my personal happiness at the top of the tree.

The ticks are things like read something inspirational for at least 30 minutes, listen to a pod cast, meditate, read my goal cards, yoga, write things I am grateful for.

The list is evolving all the time because if I think of something that maybe beneficial but acknowledge I will probably forget to do it I add it to the list. The other evening I watched a Facebook Live with Anita Moorjani and Anita reminded us that the most important purpose in our lives is to love ourselves and when we think of an opportunity we didn’t take etc we probably berate ourselves but we should love ourselves. I had been thinking a lot what if’s recently but because of Anita’s words I have been loving myself. Not a habit I wanted to get out of so on the list it went.

I was listening to a YouTube video the other day with Bob Proctor ‘You Were Born Rich’ number 4 (amazing) where he discussed writing down what you really want and meditating on it and reading it everyday. I am guilty of doing that ages ago and now forgetting where I wrote it so I wrote a new expanded version and placed it at the top of my daily electronic journal and copied and pasted it in to all the other subsequent days for the months and will transfer it when I get to January 2017 which is already made up as it was one of my tasks to do the other day.

If I have something bespoke to do that day that isn’t on the generic tick list I place it under the heading Actions and these actions are in red. When I have achieved the action I change it to black and at the end of the day for what ever reason I couldn’t get it done and it was still red I just cut and paste it for the next day as a reminder.

I may listen to an interesting Podcast hands free whilst driving but not the next day so delete podcast but I may listen to Bob Proctor whilst shaving my legs and getting dressed instead. I most definitely read something inspirational for at least 30 minutes most days and everything seems to have some beneficial takeaway and I have become far more productive and happier and less fearful from my brain Training. I even wrote 2 chapters in a book I have been writing for a while that hasn’t happened in months so I was buzzing.

I could go on forever with all the other things I feel I have learnt or achieved since creating my list but I’m going now to tick ‘Blog Post’ something else I haven’t done in ages until I put it on the list 🙂

 
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Posted by on December 4, 2016 in Just me rambling, Law of Attraction

 

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The Biology of Belief

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When I woke up this morning I spotted a post about Noel Edmunds getting back lash about suggesting that negative thinking can create cancer.

I was pleasantly surprised to read the comments under this post were mainly positive and in agreement and if anyone has read or listened to anything by Bruce Lipton or read Anita Moorjani’s book “Dying to be Me” you would totally understand where Noel was coming from.

I’m not sure if it was before or after reading about Noel that I saw the picture above posted by Skye Dyer but later in the day I recalled it and thought it’s contents were relevant to this situation.

As soon as I read it, it reminded me of when I read “21 Days to Master Success and Inner Peace” by Dr Wayne W. Dyer when Wayne suggested ‘Be open to everything’.

It is most likely because I have read and listened to material by Wayne Dyer, Bruce Lipton and Anita Moorjani I am stood in the reality I have created today.

After I had a recent accident I was determined to think positively. It wasn’t until a few weeks later I recalled the thoughts I was having in the hours running up to the accident. I had one working week left before travelling to enjoy a luxury holiday and a joyous event but instead of thinking about this I was feeling overwhelmed by all the things I had to achieve in that working week and the lack of belief that I could achieve it all. I had allowed fear and doubt to occupy my thoughts instead of belief and trust that as always everything would work itself out.

My accident immediately wiped out all the things I was concerned about but it also wiped out the opportunity for something blissful and joyous. I take responsibility for my actions and my thoughts and realise that if I had acknowledged my anxiety I could have changed that chain of thought and none of this would have happened but am proud that I haven’t chosen to adopt the thoughts and opinions related to an accident like mine.

If I had chosen to believe what I have heard, at least I will have to endure severe pain every winter or more severe, crippling arthritis.

I have chosen to believe I am 100% healed and I already have the evidence that is the case.

Initially I as given a diagnosis of being in plaster until mid June with further treatment to be assessed. Last week I had a check up that required my plaster to be removed to have an X-ray to assess how the healing was going. My partner discussed possible outcomes with a member of staff removing my cast and they suggested that if I accept that I may have another cast, on anything else was a bonus but other options were surgical boots etc but quietly in my head I told myself I was already healed as I had said many times previously.

I believed it and already accepted that I will be 100% fully functioning in the future but never being through something like this I had nothing to gage against time wise.

A short time later I was called back in to meet the consultant who showed me my X-rays and told me that my break had completely healed and I could start weight baring immediately as much I could tolerate. So two weeks before I was due out of plaster cast I don’t have as much as a support bandage and today I had my first (and only) physiotherapist appointment. The word ‘exceptional’ was used several times as the Physiotherapist’s body language gave away that they were literally flabbergasted by my flexibility and mobility in my joints. She actually said that she had never had anyone at this stage with this amount of movement and demonstrated with her hand how much movement people normally have which was barely anything. I have received a sheet of 3 exercises to improve to some tightness in my calves and I have been discharged.

Feeling blissful and full of Gratitude I decided to go into the garden, enjoy the sunshine and listen to something on YouTube and as if to reiterate what I, Noel and many others believe the video below was on my recommended list.

It’s not in our gene’s. It is in our thoughts. Anything and Everything.

 
 

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Happy Song List 17/02/2016

I have to be honest dear friends I really didn’t want to get out of bed this morning. Not because I was sad or not wanting to face the day but because it was so cosy and warm and I was saying positive affirmations and Gratitudes while I was laying there and I didn’t want to stop but when I pressed the play button and this beautiful gem started playing it was ok and I floated out of bed.

No. 1 = Louis Armstrong – Wonderful World 

This is a beautiful Video to accompany the song that truly emphasises the meaning. I always loved this song because the most loving peaceful beautiful soul that I have ever met on this planet loved Louis Armstrong and played this to me as a child as well as playing his own trumpet. Unfortunately my uncle developed cancer and was taken far too early. It was my first experience of death but even in death he was gracious and he said with a smile “It’s OK kid, I get to play with Louis now”. 

No. 2 = Shalamar – There it is 

This song makes me feel soooooo young as I recall floating across the dance floor week after week while it was in the charts ‘Pop pickers’ and I might have had a little crush on Jeff Daniels as I watched him float across the floor on Top of The Pop’s. If you think MJ was the king of moonwalking if you have some free time have a quick search for Shalamar on YouTube 😀

No. 3 = Kool & The Gang – Get Down on It

How you gonna do it with your back up against the wall? It’s a bit like life. If you don’t get your back off the wall, take a chance and dance across the floor of life and get down on it how ya gonna know what you can achieve.

Let’s all get down on it today and give life our all while still taking time to see what a wonderful world it is.

 

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Happy Song List 16/02/2016

There’s a little twist to todays list because that’s the way the Universe played it and how the Universe inspired me. Have an awesomely, fantabulous mind-blowing day. I know I will because I am set up now.

No. 1 = Everybody Dance Now – From Evan Almighty

When I was growing up Monty Python was banned from our house because my mum was religious and banned it because of the film ‘Life of Brian’ but I had heard of the Ministry of Silly walks. I have my own secret ministry of silly dances and when I saw the film Evan Almighty and saw  new commandment ‘Thou Shalt do the Dance’ I instantly had a thought. When I return to non-physical and if my loved ones so choose to have some kind of ceremony to send me off my daughters know the plan. Right at the end of the ceremony they have to play C+C Music Factory – Everybody Dance now. It is my wish that all present ‘Thou Shalt do the Dance’.

No. 2 = Now that We Found Love – Heavy D and the Wedding Dance scene from Hitch

Heavy D and of course The Boyz make it law to do the silly dance when I hear this song and it is now law that you also ‘Do the Dance’ when you hear it from this day forward.

No. 3 = Justin Bieber & James Corden’s Post Grammys Drive

I have loved James Corden since I first saw him in a series called ‘Fat Friends’ (2000 – 2005) and I have a very memorable morning after the night before with my best friend sat on the sofa sharing a blanket, bowls of Pom Bears in hand and she asked “Do you watch Gavin & Stacey?”. Several enjoyable hours passed as I caught up with series 1 and ‘A League of their Own’ is one of my favourite programs and I am just filled with more and more joy as I watch his career sore because James is  for me the epitome of how life should be. The more grateful and joyous your are. The more the Universe will give to be grateful and joyous about.

Today your mission if you choose to take it is …………. to find the joy and gratitude in everything that happens then let me know what you were joyous and grateful for.

 

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Flip it, Switch it. Lets go round again.

 

If you have followed my blog for a while you may know that I adopted a little habit from Ali Brown and brought it in to the 21st Century.

I think it was Jim Rohn (and probably others) that said we become the 5% of people around us so Ali B feeling that she didn’t have direct role models in her 5% started listening to Tony Robbins cassettes borrowed from the library on a walkman on her commute to work on the subway. (Apols Ali if it wasn’t exactly like this as it has been a couple years ago since I read it).

I tweaked this by picking motivational information from my YouTube app on my iPhone. I picked one the other day which was a montage of motivational speakers but one thing funnily enough by Jim Rohn hit the sweet spot.

I like when I read books by people I admire that appear to have their shit together on the positive thinking, Law of Attraction gig admit that they have doubts, bad days, times they don’t have their shit together but not in a sadistic in  reassuring way. It reassures me when I am having trouble remembering that the Universe is supporting 24/7 that it happens to the best of us.

So what was that sweet spot?

I am going through one of those times that I am having to work really hard to hold the faith and kick out the doubt and even asked myself the question perhaps I should stop pursuing a particular avenue and Jim said “Promise yourself you will read the books UNTIL your skills change, you will keep listening UNTIL it makes sense, piece by piece, word by word, bit by bit you’ll keep going for it UNTIL, never give up UNTIL however long that is. Resolve that you will pay the price UNTIL you learn, change, grow,become”

“UNTIL” my new favourite word.

With every passing second we have a new opportunity to start again. If what you are doing isn’t getting the results you want flip it, switch it, go round again UNTIL.

 

 

 

 

 

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The secret of not being judged

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“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there is still going to be somebody who hates peaches”

Dita Von Teese

I’m a little bit older and a lot more bolder. I have had so many things manifest for me since really getting the ‘Law of Attraction’ light bulb finally switch on and I am very grateful for each and everyone one of them but recently I have been thinking ‘right enough is enough’ to myself. Stop pussy footing around.

I know deep down what my ideal life and day would look like and on one level I know it’s done ‘Ask and it is Given’ and on the other hand knowing can turn into hoping and hope is a lack of Faith.

I have read several times by several different authors so I am not going to give recognition to one and not another when I am not 100% of its origin but I heard it is just as easy to manifest a million dollars as it is to manifest a penny but the trouble is we don’t put so much importance on a penny as we do a million dollars and we think manifesting a million dollars is hard so we put more weight and doubt on the probability that we do on a penny and then the penny pops up.

This weekend I planned to take my daughter out to lunch and briefly I imagined where I would take her and where we would sit. In reality I wasn’t expecting the normally quieter lunch spot to be filled with Christmas shoppers which was a curve ball. No matter, we queued quietly and awaited our turn to be called by the Maitre d’.

Just prior to his arrival he escorted the previous group to some high bar stools at a shared high bar. Not what I envisioned and I then remembered by original vision and saw ourselves seated at my table of choice. The Maitre d’ came over and escorted us in the direction of the desired table and then ……. did a body swerve to a less favourable table. ‘That was not in my plan’ I said to myself and my look snapped to my planned area where I spotted a waitress clearing and cleaning the table. “Excuse me. Could we sit there instead?”

“Yes of course Madam”.

Maybe not exactly as planned but isn’t that the way with most things in life? We may need to accept we may have to take a few detours but if we stay confident and don’t give up (Never Give Up) we will get to our destination.

Right that was easy, a few second subconscious vision manifested. Is it really that simple?

After dropping my daughter home I had the prospect of a hungry partner waiting for me. Hungry enough that patients had flown out of the window so takeaway it was then. What has this got to do with a box of frogs? The venue he had chosen has rubbish parking and is always extra busy on a Saturday evening. I also needed to pick up some milk at a convenience store two doors away and in the mist of storm ‘Clodogh’ I didn’t relish parking up the road and having to tackle an extremely busy road. Could I manifest so easily again? Could I put in a cosmic order for the perfect parking place? Without even being able to see possible spaces I indicated to park as I drew closer and there on the end was an even more perfect parking space.

Boy it is easy. Right ‘Missy’ time to chase those even bigger manifestations now and stop in the words of Dusty Springfield ‘wishing and hoping’. Read the right books. Listen to the people who are successful doing what you want to do.

Earlier in the am I came across a person called Amy Porterfield who used to work with Tony Robbins and helped him work on his book that sounds like ‘Money Master the Game’ and Tony had always advised Amy – if you want to do something follow, listen etc to the people who are really successful at doing what you want to do and learn from them. I’d bought this book and many others that I read people had read bought and used and credited to their success but I never really invested in them enough as I had invested many other books.

‘Well you know what you need to do then ‘Missy’.

After our takeaway I spent the rest of my evening reading Tony’s book off my kindle app and started highlighting my favourite bits and one of them was the quote above by Aristotle.

I have been quite a fearful little chicken for the majority of my life but now to live the life I truly desire I have to take risks, put myself out there and there will be people who won’t always agree or like what I am doing but I cannot contemplate a life doing nothing so that I avoid getting judged and this thought reminded me of Dita’s quote above.

There is always someone who won’t like peaches so you might as well get on and do it anyway  ………. unless you don’t want to get judged.

 
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Posted by on December 1, 2015 in Just me rambling, Law of Attraction

 

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