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Why Pooh is a motivator to manifest

In this episode I explain why pooh motivates me to see what I don’t want so I can know what I do want and how contrast is natural and it is also good for us to focus our Intentions 


A year previously from recording this episode I was just dealing with my shop being vandalised and I was taking a Training by Russell Brunson called One Funnel Away Challenge and during that Training and with everything else going on I had an epiphany 


Despite going into OFA to learn how to build a Funnel for my Brick n Mortar business and to promote an Online Course I was building based around The Law of Attraction I suddenly saw how Funnels could be used for Direct Selling, Network Marketing product based businesses without the Spammy “Hit Um Up” method as I call it of trying to persuade Friends and Family to join your opportunity or adding complete strangers on social media in the hope they will join or buy from you 


I had come across a lovely lady while being a student of Marie Forleo’s B-School who had a stand alone business and brand of products and services and built her Network Marketing Opportunity products integrally into the fabric of her business who introduced me to the book The Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and from that moment on I was sold on how this type of business would be perfect to build a business in the “B” side of the Quadrant as Robert calls it and create recurring income and location freedom 


Only one issue. I had been in a product based Network Marketing Opportunity when the Universe presented me with one and following the remit from Bob Proctor that successful people have multiple streams of income when I was opening my Brick n Mortar business but because I was always trading time for money in my Brick n Mortar and I was encouraged to do “The Hit Em Up Method” which I felt very uncomfortable about and never seemed to get much time to get rejected again and again I gave up 


As if validation of my observation there was some bonuses Trainings and I am the type of Gal who hates to think she is missing out on vital information and unbeknown to me within minutes of having my epiphany I was watching a Training of how to use Funnels for Direct Selling Network Marketing Company however the Trainer said before you run off to recruit yourself make sure an Opportunity has these things!

So I downed the duck I was working on and grabbed my Journal and took down the notes he was suggesting. I won’t go into today, what happened next because that is just to Miracles to say in brief here but because I set an intention the perfect Opportunity found me but at that point in time I also wrote a list of other things I wanted to achieve and I used the circumstances I currently did have that were less pleasurable as the contrast for knowing what I intended to manifest and the not so pleasant, cold, dirty, badly maintained shared toilet for the shop owners is one of the them and feeling vulnerable to vandalism.

Initially when I made my contrast list I focused on taking one of the products in the range based around weight loss and building a funnel for that and perceived myself not facing another Crappy Christmas however I have had many obstacles that became detours in the right direction in 2021 and fuelled by my own experiences of having a physical time bound business where you are trading time for money and my passion for Digital Assets, Online location Free Multiple Income Streams and my love of the book The Cashflow Quadrant and the “B” & “I” sectors I am predominantly Coaching people in this area and my Funnels are actually based around this and how to turn Passions into Online Incomes despite still having my Brick n Mortar myself.

I am have surrendered to the outcome and am Trusting the Universe has a far better plan for Me than I could ever envisaged for myself and is usually the case however last Christmas did certainly make me reevaluate my business practices and only do the types of bespoke orders I enjoy and not do the types that were not bringing me pleasure and because of that I have had the most pleasurable, stress free Christmas season and the Youths ….. they disappeared !!

Maybe they only presented themselves as the Universe needed to knock me over the head with an unpleasant experience to make me stop and take stock and use the uncomfortable situations and the contrast as a springboard to my next level on Transformation and to this day I am eternally Grateful for all these experiences

In this year I have started my Brand Fabulous Freedom over Forty and I now have this podcast The Fab Over Forty Show, I restarted my blog The Law of Attraction Lover, I have created The Law of Attraction Lovers Club I have created some Digital Assets and Funnels like fabulousfreeom.live and I am building a community called The Freedom Empire Builders helping people create Their own location Freedom Passion based Businesses.

I am sure there is still some things I have left off And thanks to my Health & Wellness Business an unexpected bi-product finally finding something that helps keep things moving in the right direction … if you know what I am mean 😜

If this product sounds like something that may interest you please don’t hesitate to check it out here or if what I said about getting it wholesale as well as every other product in the range instead of paying retail check out The Freedom Empire Builders

Hopefully this podcast has encouraged you to sit down. Take a good long look at what is not working for you right now how you would like and use it as a contrast list and write on one side all the things you don’t want and then on the right hand side write down what the best case Scenario “opposite” of this situation would be and then look at that list often

Or even create a card called “What’s the alternative” and write down inside the things do don’t like and use these as fuel to keep moving towards you best Desired Outcome

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Love and blessings 🙏
Ali #theloalover
xoxo

Is it A Storm in a Coffee Cup

Is it A Storm in a Coffee Cup !!! Or a detour in the right direction ???

Do you know the story of Howard Swartz

Who Remembers Blockbusters?

Did You know the founder of Netflix approached Blockbusters with his vision of a video streaming service

They turned him down

He even went back a second time and gave them another opportunity

They still turned him down again

He went ahead anyway

Howard Swartz loved the Company Starbucks and wanted to work for them and at 29 his dream finally came true when he was employed as Director for Marketing & Sales

On a trip to Italy Swartz fell in love with the Cafe lifestyle and approached the then owners who at the time sold beans and coffee grinders and coffee related items but not skinny cappuccino

They decided not to deploy his vision so he left and opened his own cafe inlign with his Vision of people sitting somewhere leisurely meeting friends and family, watching the world go by etc

Starbucks went into decline and Howard Swartz bought the company for $3.8 Million Dollars and implemented his original Vision he’d pitched previously to the original owners but now as The actual owner

The other night I watched a film with Adam Sandler and my partner said “What happened to Adam Sandler? I saw somewhere recently he is worth over $700 but I haven’t seen him in any films lately. How is he worth that much?”

My initial response was “My guess is he has created other income streams like a production company” this initiated me to do a little research and coincidentally found he had signed a multiple million dollar 3 film deal with netflix and indeed does have a production company called Happy Madison

Many Years ago I approached my then bosses with ideas that I had and they were also turned down only to be implemented later and them taking the credit for them in a couple of my cases

Yes that was frustrating but now I see it as a gift

They implemented those ideas after I had left the Company’s

If they had taken me up on my ideas I may have stayed in those roles and not be where I am today

Where I am now today is believing that what these Gentleman above had is what is “Inspired Action” and the people who they pitched to couldn’t see or appreciate what was being pitched to them because it wasn’t given to them

It wasn’t their vision to see so they couldn’t appreciate the value being shared with them

Plus, by not appreciating that Vision set these Gentleman on a Journey to build what they were actually meant to build in the way they were meant to build it

By being turned down it was Obstacles in the Right Direction

Earlier this year I was building something I initially thought I was supposed to build and kept hitting roadblock after roadblock

I Am aware enough now to think “OK, what is this trying to tell me” but despite this it still took me a while to wake up to what I was supposed to be doing

I believe we ALL have these Divine Download Inspired Actions

I believe We all have gifts to share with the world

Regardless of Age

And now is no better time

For two reasons

  1. Now is no better, easier, cheaper time to set up a business online and multiple streams of income based around our gifts and inspired ideas (& I can even show people how to do it for zero).
  2. It is essential Now more than ever to create multiple streams of income because the world of work has shifted so much tomorrow is not guaranteed that we will have a job or traditional business

A few months ago I was unexpectedly visited by an ex-colleague who was on furlough. 

Only two days later I was contacted by another colleague who wanted to purchase one of my products and during that conversation they told me that that colleague and one of those bosses who had taken my idea for themselves had been fired.

The first round of furlough was coming to an end and they had both been laid off before it ended. The company probably seeing they would have to start paying their salary again and realising they actually managed without them I am assuming decided they were no longer required

In actuality furlough was actually extended but to late for them … boom 💥 no more job !!

Only 48 hours earlier my ex-colleague was discussing how they disliked their job and was not wanting to return with full belief there was a job to return to

My guess with the ex-boss from what I knew about them, they foresaw seeing their days out in that business. Imagine the shock they felt. Especially after furlough was extended. What a kick in the teeth 😱

We cannot rely on one stream of income anymore if we want financial security but also at the same time …..

This is an incredible time to leverage what is going on in the world

The message I was trying to share in 1999 as I completing my Higher Education in Art about taking time for yourself and appreciating life to minimise stress, people weren’t getting but since the Global Pandemic and Lockdown people more and more are evaluating life and seeing it is precious and don’t want to do the things they hate anymore and want more quality time with loved ones and wake up happy which “Not” Coincidentally is the name of the domain name to get a free copy of my life changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com because I Am Now on a Mission to help as many people as possible Wake Up Happy so that’s why I give it away

It’s also no coincidence my first subscription episode of my Podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show” is called “Tomorrow is Not Guaranteed”

I believe we All have something we are Passionate about and there are also others in the 7 Billion plus people on the planet that also love that thing but …….

You are a couple steps ahead of them and they would love to accelerate their learning and experience on that subject to enhance Their life Experience whatever it is and would love to learn from “YOU”

So my question to “YOU” is ……..

What Inspired Action Ideas have you had that the world needs to know about ???

Hey !! I mean it !! Write anything that popped in to Your head down right now !!

When “YOU” create a Product or Service based around something “You” Love and others Love to …. “YOU” are not selling ….

“YOU” are serving !!!

You are sharing Your Gifts that YOU are Destined to Share to the People You are Destined to Serve

Talking of which …..

I had so many people coming to me saying I was so Lucky Doing What I Love and Loving What I Do and that they wish they could do what they love and asking for advice and again

Wanting people to Wake Up Happy I was giving away loads of advice for nothing in return but I realised one day when ……

I was having all these roadblocks and obstacles …

That was utter madness and when I woke up to the fact that I am actually good at this stuff that I thought I was only learning to enhance my own skills and expertise for my business.

Why am I giving it away?

I had an idea to use a Training Tool I learned from a multiple 7 figure earners Inner Circle I am part of and adapted it to help my Network Marketing Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” to work out Their own individual Passion and Niche to build Their Freedom Empire Business on.

I could actually share it to these people who come to me for help to tap back into to what they love most and show them how they can monetise it for a small nominal fee (I’m also on a mission to Teach a different way to build a Freedom Creating Network Marketing Multifaceted Passion Based Business and Brand using intuition and The Law of Attraction to align, not Hustle)

That way I serve these people, utilise my time sensibly to be able to focus on my income producing tasks and make a small income at the same time from the skills I invested hundreds of hours and hundreds of dollars/pounds in

Then ….

I had the Inspired Idea to stop what I was building and create a whole Digital Asset around this Tool which I now call The Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder and I have still kept it at this nominal fee but now I have added hundreds of dollars worth of bonuses at no extra cost to ensure people have everything they need to work out what they Love to do most and then teach them how they can turn that into an Online Location Free Passion Based Business

Why I Am Focused on helping people particularly but not exclusively over 40 to create Location Free Businesses is another story for another time and posted elsewhere

Since those Inspired Ideas have come I have had so many others like creating a subscription model called The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and so much more and more ideas come in all the time but first you have to take one Inspired Action step and I trust more and more will come once You say yes to Your Universal Given Gifts

I AM Passionate about helping brainstorming out those Gifts but At the present moment I only give 121 Coaching even though I Am a Qualified Advance Life Coach and Advance Law of Attraction Practitioner to the people in The Freedom Empire Builders because my Vision is creating Digital Assets that help people do that for themselves, that I can set and forget and create Multiple Income Streams so I can have my own personal Location Freedom Lifestyle and Live Life on My Terms

I would love You to become a part of The Freedom Empire Builders and help You Brainstorm out what that looks like for You and believe it or not you can access that for around £29/$29 including my Coaching if You become an Associate or even zero if you sell a couple items of dead stuff on Facebook Market Place, Vinted etc that are laying around the house and have a business in as little as a weekend or less with a beautiful fully functioning website. Amazing Training and access to some incredible award winning Health & Wellness products for wholesale prices instead of retail

but if that is not something You feel is for You right now I totally get it but I would love it if you keep tapping in to my free content on my blog and other platforms or you could grab that tool I mentioned above for just $7 just to test out what You love to do most and set those wheels in motion for Inspired Ideas to start Divinely downloading and for possibly multiple streams of income to manifest and you can grab that no. Just click on the link fabfreedom.live

You maybe wondering what this post has to do with the Law of Attraction, after all I call myself #theloalover. Am I just trying to sell you something ?

Please read below and you will understand my true Purpose of why I post, podcast and write about stuff like this

At a very young age I wanted to become an Entrepreneur even before I knew what one was

Then in 2010 (in my Forties) after a series of spooky events I came across the book The Secret based on The Law of Attraction and in that book and the film version I resonated to Bob Proctor and encouraged by Bob I created a Goal card and manifested my first business

I also learnt from Bob the term Multiple Streams of Income

What I have learnt over the years even if not deliberately labelling it or even consciously knowing it the many successful people use The law of Attraction or Deliberate Creation to consciously attract and manifest the businesses and lifestyle most people dream about

Over the years I have also seen and become aware to have freedom and dream lifestyles, that won’t be obtained from 1 salary or one source of income and we need MIS’s or Multiple Income Streams as Bob mentioned and that’s why I Am Passionate about sharing a message of using The Law of Attraction to attract and create a lifestyle to Wake Up Happy for and create income streams based around what people most love to do to create time, location and financial freedom

After Years of People Pleasing because of my subconscious programming and putting other people’s needs over mine and feeling thoroughly miserable to boot by implementing Inspired Action steps gained from studying the Law of Attraction I finally created a life I woke up happy and more importantly excited for and because of this I know what is possible for other people aw well

But even more importantly to me is I see and hear so many people, particularly Women think that it is not possible because they are to old and again

I Am on a Mission to prove that is just a myth

We are NEVER to old and it is NEVER to late

I actually attracted my dream of Entrepreneurship and MIS’s in my 50’s and I have learned all the tech stuff and continue to do so nearing my 60’s and I see many, many, many women particularly in the Online Business Network Marketing space literally crushing it on TikTok etc which incidentally is actually intentionally gearing itself for business people so if you remain open minded and don’t dismiss anything for its potential the opportunities are unlimited

I started writing this blog post on a Saturday while attending an “Online Recurring Income Summit” enthused by the potentials out there and then because of some news that has convinced me we are heading for another Lockdown in the UK and wanting to help people see the possibilities of creating an online business and the need for MIS’s and then whilst doing some online Omnipresent Training I set myself some challenges to create a TikTok video and a podcast short every day

Once we step out of our comfort zone we soon stretch that muscle memory to become our new comfort zone but first we have to start

What obstacles are in Your life right now that are actually gifts in disguise saying “You are out of alignment with Your Higher Purpose. Go this way”

Grab a Journal and start free writing whatever comes to mind

Not in a position to journal right this moment? Set an alert on Your Smartphone to revisit this at a more suitable time and Journal when more appropriate

Purely setting the intention and the alert is an Inspired Action step within it self

You’re moving forward towards Your Dreams Baby !!!

Thanks for taking the time to read this blog. I know it is a bit longer than normal but that’s because I think it is such an important subject, especially at this moment in time to appreciate the importance of tapping in to what we love most and sharing our gifts with the world and protecting ourselves with Multiple Sources of Income based around our own personal Purpose

Have an awesomely attractive day and if you do check out my TikTok videos @alisonkparsons and, or post cast shorts at The Fab Over Forty Show I would love you to leave a comment and let me know that you came over because of this blog post and anything it inspired YOU to do ……. regardless of age !!!!

“3 Faith over Fear Tips”

“3 Faith over Fear Tips”


I love this quote and I heard it on Gabby Bernstein’s  incredible audiobook “Super Attractor” as I was driving this morning


That’s a tip in itself …


One of my Transformational tactics was instead of listening to the car stereo, music and negative news on my commutes was to set up my phone on YouTube and plug in one earbud and listening to motivational YouTube videos by legends like Louise Hay, Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins etc


Now it’s predominantly audiobooks and podcasts and one Bluetooth wireless earbud compared to putting my phone in the car door and plug in headphones and one earphone in


This leads me on to the  real tip I want to share plus a bonus if you read to the bottom


Fear & Appreciation CANNOT be in the same place at the same time and the best way I know to shift ASAP from Fear and Overwhelm is writing down all the things you are grateful for ~ start with the most what seems mundane basic of things like a warm bed, electricity to boil a kettle for your morning brew and the brew itself


The roof over your head that bed and where you appreciate that morning beverage and just keep rampaging everything that come to mind


Appreciation can be done at anytime anywhere because if you are not in a position to write things down you can just THINK Gratitude
Writing 3 things down in the morning that I was Grateful for is accidentally the Inspired Action step I first took that took me on a journey of Transformation


Don’t underestimate the power of just simply focusing on things you are Grateful for


Another simple task that must not be underestimated is the power of breath


When we are Fearful our breathing becomes constricted and our brain cannot operate at its solution based best


During my recent Ho’OPonoPono Certification I learnt a Breathing technique but I have simplified it down to be done anywhere in a few seconds


If anything I say helps and you would like any more tips including that breathing tip which I am going to drop next in the loalover.club type that address in to a browser or click on the link in my bio


Just to recap the three tips:

  1. Listening to Motivational Audiobooks on commutes, shopping etc
  2. Think About all the things you are grateful for, even better write it daily
  3. Take slow deep breaths when feeling overwhelm

If you haven’t already got a copy of the incredible book I mentioned above grab a copy here at Super Attractor

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware since starting this blog I have Qualified as An Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner  and I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice
You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

I Flippin Called It !!

Only slightly smug !!!


I’ll tell you in second why and how what I learned I think can help you but first I need to create a little perspective so you understand my smugnocity


I absolutely love, love, love the book the Cashflow Quadrant. It totally changed my life but …..


While I could see the sense in it and the B & I quadrants and I set my intention to be In and Live from the these two Quadrants and have assets in it, I had a slight issue with them


In the book Robert Kiyosaki describes the B (Business) side of the quadrant as a business that has 100 employees plus and a physical premises that has systems in place that if you stepped away from the Business for a period of time it could still operate and you would still be receiving a recurring income from it


The “I” quadrant stands for Investments and predominantly comes from the perspective of Investing in stocks and shares and Real Estate, again creating a recurring/passive income


These are Positive Assets


I had a dream of being self-employed and when it manifested (thanks to my goal card) I naively believed “I’m  finally in Business Now Baby”  but Robert, when his book came in to my awareness abruptly made me look face on to the reality I already started to know deep down intuitively ….. 🥺


I was not in a business


I did not have the model above because if I stepped away … I stopped earning !!


I was squarely in the “S” part of the quadrant “Self-Employed”. One Wo(man) band doing everything for myself, trading time for money and there was only so much time to earn that money in. My Income from my Bricks N Mortar business was severely capped even though I was working far more hours than ever before


Basically if you look at the quadrant as having two sides. A & B. The A side is “E” Employed and “S” Self-employed and both of these options are trading time for money  but unlike being employed where Yes, you have a boss telling you what to do. You do get time off and have annual leave and usually holiday/vacation pay but as self-employed and I have found and many other self-employed people I have spoken to, You very rarely get time off and there is no annual leave pay


It’s definitely not living the dream


And the B side ….


Leads to FREEDOM !!!


But there was a problem ……


I didn’t have money to invest in stocks and or real estate and the thought of managing over a Hundred people made my blood run cold after being a Corporate Manager for many Years and all the joys that entailed with the People Management, HR issues not to Mention Disciplinary issues and internal politics


However I had a feeling there was another “B” & “I” model. One I enjoyed far better building and one I have been advocating to create New World Freedom and a Way to Wake Up Happy, which is my Mission to make as Many People as Possible WAKE UP HAPPY Doing what They Love and Loving What They are Doing while creating an income from it


I Am so Invested in this (pardon the pun) I bought the domain name mywakeuphappy.com  and give away a Morning Routine as Gift to Help People who are not FEELING this way start the process of their own Transformation


(Disclaimer: Mr Kiyosaki wrote the book in 1998 and the world has Transformed phenomenally since then. Not to mention the Paradigm shift of a global pandemic which actually helps my idea of the B & the I thrive in these unprecedented times so this in no way a criticism of this incredible book. I am sure Mr Kiyosaki would advocate the new world order towards his model. I am just talking about the way it was introduced to me from the time of  its initial writing)


So what’s this all about Ali you maybe crying out …

When I first heard of the B model I knew of a Business Model that would be perfect for this side of the section without the overheads of premises and without the problematic situation of managing multiple people. No Appraisals, Supervisions, no performance management issues or hiring  or firing 401K’s or health plans yet the possibility to work with literally thousands of people, not just hundreds and Yes unlimited Recurring income potential

And the “I” side …..

My version was creating Digital Assets that you built once. The majority of, if not All for Free and use and sell multiple times over and the ability to create unlimited digital assets

No need for “investors Capital” to help purchase Real Estate. No multiple thousand dollar portfolio’s to invest in Property or stocks and shares

And there is an incredible book called The Blue Ocean Strategy which I love and used the premise to model my own Blue Ocean around my product and service in a saturated market but recently I have been advising that the Blue Ocean is You ~ You as a Brand and Your own unique identity is what should be created and cultivated based around what You are most passionate about and everything You create hangs under Your “You” Brand and that can be and should be as multifaceted and infinite as it Transforms from taking Inspired Action

In model one I touched on for the B quadrant in my view something I see as the perfect vehicle but it is not currently a popular model because In the profession I truly believe is the perfect model for it , the old way of operating has given it a less than favourable reputation and many discount it before investigating it and cut off an incredible opportunity because of something heard from a friend of a friend who the business didn’t work for them but through no fault of their own because in the majority of cases the Method of Operating advice is not feasible in the “REAL WORLD” and then creates a sense of failure and guilt when they are not getting results. Not perfect operating states of mind for Inspired Actions to flourish

I know, why? because I was sold that version but it made me feel icky but at the same time I also saw it as my navana for Freedom while helping thousands of people experience the same Freedom but I am advocating a different way of operating based on the Personal Brand Blue Ocean Passion Based Online Location Freedom version

And I must admit …. while my intuition was telling me “Yes” this is the way for You. I did FEEL like a Lone Ranger (but in  truth nothing new there 😜) and I just kept building my vision

Where others were using the “Hit Em Up Method” as I call it and getting no results I spend hours, weeks months quietly building an infrastructure and foundation of automation and replication that works for me 24/7 if I am there or not, working my business and that’s why I call it and anyone who chooses to work with me The Freedom Empire Builders

Right still building a picture but not the vision

Well I have been on 2 online Virtual Events this last few days as I write and while in one there was still a lot of me saying black and feeling there was a lot of white I totally saw a change in Direction

There was hardly any Hit Em UP Method discussed however there was a whole section of the Importance of Being Your Own Brand and it was clearly stated that directly out of Facebook HQ it was stated “That as the demographic changes in age groups Instagram will take over Facebook as a platform”

What has this got to do with my smugness?

I Am currently as I write in physical presence anyway 55 and I have been feeling that as time goes by there will be a population of people who won’t have known of a time without social media and who prefer Instagram as a platform and appreciate the potential to create a business and income via Digital Platforms and Leveraging a Personal Brand ~ the writings on the wall as they say or social media wall/feed

The other event said that there is now evidence that people are now turning to digital assets instead of physical assets and they believe there will be a time when people stop choosing physical assets for acculturating personal recurring income and wealth

One of my own Digital Assets is a quick cheap tool about how you can tap into what lite’s you up most and how you can turn it into an Online Business and I literally give hundreds of dollars worth of bonuses away with it that are also Digital Assets.

Why Am I doing this ….. because I had so many people coming to me asking for advice on how to start a business because they thought I was so lucky doing what I love and I wanted to help them Wake UP Happy but at the same time I was giving away all my advice for free and not working on income producing tasks for myself

This easy quick to use tool is a great way for people like this access my advice, helps me maximise my own time and make a little Passive income from it at the same time from advise I literally invested thousands of personal dollars to learn

The actual Tool that I call Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder is something I created after a Training I took in a Multiple 7 Figure Earners Inner Circle I Am part of and he learnt the initial Training at a weekend retreat he paid several thousand pounds for and says this Training alone, he felt was worth the investment cost of that retreat and I sell mine for only $7 including the Bonuses

If anything I have said has touched something in YOU I highly recommend you grab this tool so you get an idea what I mean when I took about a Digital Asset and see how You could model something similar Yourself

I Am in the process of adding all those bonuses to my website as stand alone products but you could grab it all here for only $7 at fabfreedom.live

One of my Mentors said in a Live recently anyone over a certain age needs to unlearn everything they have learned about business in recent years and relearn business from teenagers and people in their 20’s because they know how to use the Creator Economy to increase their Income Exponentially in exponential time

I like to call it the Passion Economy because now more than ever it is possible to monetise what you love to do most and are most passionate about and no formal education or qualifications necessary because people are attracted to Your most Authentic Passionate Self ~ Your YOU Brand !!!

Talking of that Mentor … they are holding an amazing FREE event this weekend talking about these subjects and more way of recreating recurring income and one of the Keynote Speakers in the Creator of Netflix … OMG !!

There is an incredible event and if you want to attend why not click the link here but be warned spaces are limited !! ➡️ Virtual Recurring Income Summit ⬅️


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I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware since starting this blog I have Qualified as An Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner  and I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo you register don’t forget to grab My Gift to You to Wake Up Happy at mywakeuphappy.com

Is it OK to Just Reset Sometimes ???

It is Sunday Morning and I was Watching “Sunday Brunch” while Cooking a Sunday Brunch for My Partner and I heard Lisa Nichols say something similar to the words in the picture at a Virtual Event a few hours earlier and it was just what I needed to hear


I have been working on some new things in recent months and then studying to become a Certified Ho’OPonoPono Practitioner ….


And I needed some time to process my growth and understanding where I go with the person I have become….


But I think as an Entrepreneur or budding Entrepreneur we can be programmed to think we must be doing something ALL the time and guilty to just relax and process, reset, realign or watch Tv and Cook ….


God Forbid if you actually own a TV 😱


But our True Self, our Soul needs time to speak to us and guilt blocks the signal 🥺


There was still a lot of Go, Go, Go, Go, Go, Go, Go shouty Go, Go, Go !!! Stop making excuses, Just do it at this event and I was doing the opposite of what they advocate by relaxing with my Partner so perhaps I am seen as why people fail by not taking action it’s just ….


I do take action …… Inspired Action


I spent years following the Cookie Cutter One Shop fits all model and not getting closer to my Goals by doing this method so now I Am Following my own Formula “The G.R.E.A.T Formula ™️

Which coincidentally I had been following for myself personally for years ~ with success but it was presented to ME one night as a Divine Download to call it The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ and to follow Inspired Action to get it Trademarked

You can see a mini Pop Up Version of it here: @ The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ to get some idea of what it is all about and how it can Transform Life for Yourself

Talking of Transformation …..


Abraham Hicks says “The Minute You Learn Something New, You Are a New Person. You can Never Go Back to The Person Before the Moment of Learning”


Life is a process of Transformation and I have had a Massive Transformation in the Last 12 Months


So much so I am consuming previously read, listened to information that I Am FEELING Inspired to revisit and it’s like seeing it, hearing it for the first time because of this Transformation


I am grateful to the people I learnt from for the last 12 Months to be able to use Their Skills and Expertise to Create & Build the Infrastructure I have Created ….


Now it’s time to Reset and Realign and tune in to my Intuition to Receive the Messages of my next Evolution of Transformation and Follow the Inspired Actions that Spring forward from the Whiteboard of the Zero State as Dr Hew Len


When we are out of Memory or Data we are acting out of Fear and the action taken from here can be exhausting


Who feels overwhelmed sometimes and what are Your Ways to Reset and Realign ?


I would love to know in the Comments

I would love to know if you like this blog post


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Are You aware since starting this blog I have Qualified as An Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner  and I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

Our Passions are our Key to Success

Our Passions are the Key to Success ….


And following Inspired Action while Cleaning on Old Negative Memories that try to talk “You” out of following the Inspired Ideas ….


I have just been watching the new Film about Clarice Cliff “The Colour Room”  and she is my new Passion ….


I Am Going to Follow Inspired Action and research more about this incredible Artist like my Mentor in The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono Practitioner Certification Training, Joe Vitale did with P.T Barnum


Wow, wow, wow !!


While I am already a massive fan of Inspired Action and that’s why it is part of my 5 step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ my perspective on life has just taken a Massive Transformation in  the last few days since taking my Ho’oponopono Certification and taken my Formula to another level and I am excited for what’s to come in my Podcast Episodes and future  Law of Attraction Lovers Club modules even though I haven’t recorded it yet I can Feel something amazing is bubbling up


Watching this film I could see Clarice was tapped in to the Formula of Success even if she wasn’t aware of it and talking of Success Formulas I loved the last Episode I dropped in the LOA Club around this even if I do say it myself


What I have already felt for a long time and I have been building around has been confirmed to me like no other time in my existence and the T section of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ stands for Transformation and I talk about the Dot Method and I can see my own dots so clearly now it is as “Bizarre” and Wonderful as Clarice’s work


But it has changed my whole outlook on Goal Setting but thankfully I followed another Divine Inspired Action Download and Created a Cheat Sheet on what I Am calling Intuitive Goal Setting and I am giving it away. I just have to link the funnel I created for it and the Fun Sheet together and I am feeling Inspired to do that right now …..

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#lawofattraction #theloalover

Turn Your Passions into Money in Your Purse

So Today’s the day I launch some Products and Services I have been quietly working on for several months because I felt mentally I had to do it this way for several reasons


A) So I could stay in my lane without distractions


B) Because I wanted to avoid negativity


C) I was using myself as a guinea pig so I could prove my methods were achievable  for others with little or zero money and little or what feels like Zero time and loving but half glass empty types of personalities around them


But I must admit that Physical Tainted by Societies BS Beliefs “Me”  felt a bit icky and deceitful at times even though my motives are good


At these times I reminded myself that the Higher Self non-physical part of me knows the fuller picture and never judges me but I have to admit ….
When I heard in an audiobook recently that Sara Blakely of Spank fame built her business in secret for a Year I admit I did shout “Yes!!” very loudly


I remember Dean Graziosi say last year when I took his and Tony Robbins Build Your Brand Challenge that when he stated what he was going to do his family created a kind of intervention to try to talk him out of it .

Some even flying across state and he admits there was a point they almost succeeded


If you don’t know who Dean is I highly recommend checking him out …. then you can see it worked out quite well for him in the end … putting it mildly


That challenge also really put in front of me Mr Russell Brunson who fundamentally changed my life and is the main reason I am here writing this post today and building the business I have built and launched the products I have launched today


If you are reading this post today The 3rd of November 2021 aka Humpday  I have some special Launch Day Bonuses and if you are someone who loves the Law of Attraction and like me deliberately creating Your Life and would also like I have done. Turn the things “You” are Passionate About into an Online Business I highly recommend checking them out


However ……


If you are reading this post after that date …… do not worry !!


These are launch day bonuses but the Products and Services themselves are NOW post launch, always available and Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder has a stack of bonuses worth literally hundreds of dollars built in to the offer for the crazily insane cost of only $7


Why this nuts price …… ???


Because my first business was a Brick n Mortar business I literally manifested from writing “I Am Successfully Self-employed Doing What I Love & Loving What I Do” on a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card, people could access me throughout my opening hours and would say ironically “You are so lucky, I wish I could do something I loved” and because I knew all too well what it was like to be doing a job you hated and I knew the potential to be able to turn a hobby into an income using social media and other online platforms I was giving away lots of free advice of how to turn a Passion into money in their Purse


The problem with that was ……


All that time invested in giving advice away for free meant it was taking me away from my own IPA’s or Income Producing Activities until …


Until I had the lightbulb that this is what I was meant to be doing and not what I thought I should be building


So I literally shelved everything I thought I should be working on and started from scratch and then once I made that decision as always “The Universe Conspired to make it Happen” and as usual when I get in to Level 3 and Level 4 of the 4 levels of Consciousness synchronicity after synchronicity lined up


And what started as an adaptation of a tool I was taught to use to Identify Your Passion turned into Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder with a `Ali  twist as I have added how to monetise that passion with the latest Online Social Media Omnipresent techniques which is the $7 product I mentioned above so now not only could I help those people that seek me out for advice I get to create an income from it


Has morphed it to many, many digital assets


💖 From my Gift of a Morning Routine which is literally a free(dom)  gift to you reading this 😜


💖 The Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder + bonuses to support creating an online business “You Love”


💖 My Mini pop course version of my now Trademarked 5 Step Framework ~ The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ and the full indepth version is in the making


💖 My Law of Attraction Lovers subscription service where for another amazing $7 a month you get everything I have learnt and will be learning about all things LOA and Online Passion Biz Based Building


💖 My Podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show”


💖 My Fabulous Freedom Over Forty Brand and Community (check out Facebook if this sounds like a place you would like to be)


💖 The Freedom Empire Builders Community where I give 121 Coaching on building a Location Freedom Multifaceted Passion Based Business to that Inner Circle

And all this was birthed from a moment of clarity of who I am here to truly serve


So you maybe wondering what these extra special Launch day bonuses are and how to I turn my Passions into a business I love …..

So the bonuses for early adopters today only until Midnight UK time are
These include:


💖 Early Adopters Same Price for Life to the LOA Lovers Club


💖 10 people picked who Purchase Passion Finder before Midnight to have an exclusive 121 post Training to help Brainstorm Monetising Your Passion


Plus these 10 people get ….


💖 An Exclusive Whatsapp Group and


💖 A signed copy of Smashing Through The Glass Ceiling
But that’s not all ….


💖 10 Bundle Buyers will be picked to have 2 x 1 Hour Brainstorm 121 Zooms with Me to maximise Their chances of Creating a Business They Love Online from Their Passion
All they have to do is ….


Join the LOA Lovers Club and Purchase Passion Finder and the Law of Attraction Biz Book Swipe File together to receive entry to the draw but don’t delay this offer is time bound and despite the Bonuses staying in the purchase of Passion Finder I am seriously considering removing one of them because I actually think I am nuts for giving it away because
I know I could easily sell it full price as a stand alone product


Ok, Ok, Ok 👍 I hear you say …. but how to do I get my hands on this great deal?


Check out the link in my Insta bio @alison_k_parsons or alternatively go to https://linktr.ee/AlisonKayParsons

Happy Hump Transformation Day

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

#theloalover #humpdaymotivation #lawofattraction

If You Are not Dead You’re winning

“If You Are Not Dead You Are Winning”


I was in privileged position to Listen to Rachel Hollis be interviewed by Vishen Lakhiani a few days ago and Rachel’s words are still rattling around in my brain ~ people are focusing on 2021 because 2020 was “so terrible” news flash shit happened before 2020 and it will happen in 2021 and beyond, sorry guys ~ we just have to deal with it ~ please be aware I Am paraphrasing because I can’t remember it word for word but I will listen again when it goes Live as a podcast 


The interview also discussed putting our real selfs out there regardless of the results and when I heard her say this I thought thank you for your honesty and maybe it’s time I should voice my opinion 


I am truly sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one or a job or a business during this time but people died and businesses failed and people lost jobs before the virus and maybe we all got a little numb to these everyday occurrences and we needed to be reminded of this fact and become more compassionate but put a label “Global Pandemic” over it and it seems like none of these events ever happened outside this situation and it has been wrapped in a blanket of fear and overwhelm and I am seriously concerned for people’s health and Mindset well-being especially when focused on the end of the Covid rainbow when we get to the other side and shit still happens but people’s mindset are even less able to cope ~ that’s the real tragedy here 


I thankfully had been passionate about personal development decades before the current situation evolved and carry out a morning routine practice that has supported me but I see people who have put skin in the game, or have accepted their cheese has moved and pivoted their personal situations and who also have experienced massive personal loss and disruption are feeling guilty to express they are ok or have succeeded even prospered during this time

Something you don’t know about me ~ I try to stick to a To Do list but often get wildly off course and a long time ago that would have riddled me with guilt and anxiety and negative self talk but these days I am a dichotomy of wanting to be more organised and stick to a list and more recently I am experimenting with surrendering to flow and acting on and tuning in to Intuition and when my copy of Rachel’s book arrived it brought back the interview and I felt an inspiration to write this post however it was quite late in the day and I decided I would post it the next day after transferring it from Evernote where I write everything first in to my blog platform

The original copy ended a few sentences back and was titled something else then but then :I didn’t see this coming happened …..

quick note: acting in flow creates a lot less stress and guilt when I diverge away from the ‘To Do’ list

So one of my facets is I have a weird and wonderful shop when I paint and sell hand carved wooden ducks and I also create bespoke orders and before I had time to transfer this copy a client came into enquire about personalised gift idea

When I took the client details I enquired if they had a daughter by a particular name recognising their’s and they asked what made me ask that and I explained who I was and they used to work with and be friends with my Mother and during my teens I had become close friends with their daughter until families came along etc and we lost touch

The lady then got emotional and apologised and said “I’m sorry, I still get upset when I think about them and it’s been 5 years now. Silly I know” Picking up on my confusion I guessed, they continued “You don’t know XXXX died 5 years ago of cancer”

Whoah ~ I definitely did not see that coming and now we are both moved emotionally

After the lady left the shop and I went to sit at my work station I guess instigated about current events and I thought about this post and how this beautiful kind soul lost their physical life 5 years earlier I literally said out loud “Well, if you are alive your are still Fxxking Winning”

Meaning what ever the situation if you have the luxury of breath in your lungs you are still winning because you can literally change your life by the quality of your next thought, and the next and next and the next

My book has recently arrived so I don’t know the exact contents but the subtitle tells me it’s just the antidote some people need right now so I have dropped the link below to preview it for yourself

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….

Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

If you are depressed you are living in the past

If you are anxious you are living in the future

If you are at peace you are living in the present

Statement 1 Me = Guilty

 Statement 2 Me = Guilty

 Statement 3 Me = Know to be true

 Intention to live in number 3 more and more everyday

 Someone reading this if they acknowledge it or not maybe thinking  “Yeah, but Ali is easy for you” 🤬

I heard the other day when you go after your goal people say you are crazy, when you achieve it they say you are lucky 🍀 

There is no luck involved it. It is just constant consistent action to evaluate what’s working and what’s not and keep doing what’s working and find ways to improve and remove what’s not working and ya know what I have lost count of how many times I have fallen back down the rabbit hole of doing what doesn’t serve me …… again, but that’s ok because acknowledging it and trying again eventually I retrain my brain to do what serve me more often 

Another great statement I heard the same day as I saw the above said “if you are still alive you have not failed, you just stopped ~ As long as you are alive you can start again”

How amazing is that and how liberating and empowering is that thought 😉

Read it again !!!

You have never failed. You just learn’t what works and what doesn’t. Wipe the slate clean and go again ~ Woo, Woo !! 🔥

Once of the most destructive actions in the world is guilt and the other is non-forgiveness. They literally poison your body and who do we refuse to forgive the most ~ if you didn’t already say it ill write it “Ourselves”

Question? Would you drink poison? ☠️

Of course not but that is literally what people are doing when they hash over and over in their mind something they think you should have said or done and feel guilty and refuse to forgive themselves for it and then they wonder why they feel rubbish 🤢

It is said well over 90% of what we fear never comes to pass or is as bad as we thought it would be yet we can ruin over 90% of our days by worrying about something there will never come to pass

 A bit sickening when you think about it like that ‼️Even more sickening is actually I believe those things will come to pass… why because that’s the energy frequency we are sending out like a radio tower tuning in to DoomFM so we resonate back to us more Doom, gloom, sickness, sadness, financial poverty and people say The Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  Oh it does Baby you’ll attract back anything you think about on a consistent bases. No-one said it will only work positively which seems a common misunderstanding in LOA circles

 People wonder why they are broke all the time? 

Because they must be focusing on lack of money more than abundance of money and if you think about lack what are you going to get more of? Answers in the comments section not a postcard please

 “OK, So how can you change the frequency Pollyanna” you maybe asking

 Breath, close your eyes and take 6 slow death breaths 🧘🏻

In through the nose and out through the mouth like breathing through a straw

You are now in the present and what is the Present? A Gift  🎁 

Where do you want to live? In the past, future or present and what do we all want? Gifts 💝 

When ever you feel overwhelm give yourself the gift of 6 deep breaths

 Why?

Because your brain cannot think rationally in a stressful state and solutions cannot be found in this state of mind.

Not to mention it is quick and free and people say they can’t afford or haven’t got enough time to embark on Personal Development

 Get out of that one Batman 

I have to admit this was advised to me a few months ago while in overwhelm, see I told you I’m not perfect. I keep going back there and the technique I mentioned above I learnt off of John Assaraf but now I remember to breath because I have seen the positive results of doing it and it makes more sense to do it than not do it

 If you have followed my advise, now you are in a calmer state, start thinking about things you are grateful for, no matter how small. 💭 

It’s good to start with someone you love because they will put you in a good frame of mind and it doesn’t have to be human. It can be a pet and then see what else comes to mind? 

For me I start with Gratitude every morning now from having a good nights sleep to the bed I am in and the roof over my head and hot and cold running water etc see we all have something to be grateful for even if we think we don’t and coincidentally this is literally how I started my journey of change with no greater task than that and why do I ask you to do this because you literally can’t think positive and negative at the same time so if you are in a negative thinking state either in the past or the future start thinking about the things you are grateful for 🙏🏻

Even better write them down in a journal and make this a practice every morning so you consciously start you day off right 

Probably most successful person I know either physically or virtually states Gratitude as their number one secret ingredient 

I wasn’t perfect at this either and kept forgetting but eventually I started to change my brain that it has become habit and what is a habit? Just a thought we keep thinking over and over again. 

Can’t change a habit? Let me ask you …..

Were you born knowing how to walk? Ah nope and you weren’t born thinking negatively either. You just learn’t it over a period of time like walking and like any other habit you learn’t over time you can learn to think more proactively for your well-being and who doesn’t want to be in a state of well-being 

Trust me. If I can go from flip flopping from A to B for yearsssssss !! to spending the majority of my time in C if you want to spend more time in C like me literally take a breath and say thank you

As I mentioned I am constantly working on myself and I am currently reading “The Untethered Soul” by Michael A. Singer which helps explain as I am seeing it how we are tethered to fear, how it is effecting us and how we can untether ourselves from itIt maybe a book you find useful to and if so I have added an affiliate link here for you to check it out 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

I have gone from the “Fxxx” word to the “Fxxxx” word in one week

I got asked an interesting question this week and it hasn’t left me and I know there are no accidents so it was perfectly placed there by the Universe because my brain was already dabbling with a similar situation 


The person was aware and a follower of the Law of Attraction and asked “why is it when I set my goals they don’t work”

Not knowing enough about this persons situation I admitted I can’t answer that question for you but what I can tell you is, which was a subject of a recent blog post which I titled “The Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work” is that we get what we are not what we want if there is a mismatch there and I briefly explained the premise of that post which I recommend reading to get the full story but basically I said if we use affirmations to say “I Am so happy and Grateful I am a millionaire” but your brain doubts that fact and says “no your not, you’re broke you are resonating broke. Not millionaire so you attract (Law of Attraction style) broke .com not rich FM as someone I love and admire calls it.


I found using lofty questions a better way to get around the statements that our brain may not believe and that sometimes in hindsight what seems so uncomfortable and separate from our desire actually has a purpose many years later as I had experienced only the day before when I could see the connection of something that happened 21 years ago and didn’t turn out as I planned only has its true meaning become evident now 


When I met this person I was already coming out the other side of a Frustrating situation that made me shout “Fxxxxxxxx” at the top of my voice in a public space.

This is so not me but I actually found the situation very liberating so I did it again a few times with this time, some fist bumping on the desk 
I was then able to breath and ask the question what is this situation trying to tell me?


I am far enough down the Personal Development journey to know enough now that bumps in the road are signs that we are a little off course but it can still take me some time in the mist of frustration to get to that point and that is because the brain shuts down to rational thinking in the state of stress or anxiety so we keep wading forward with our muddy thoughts with no possibility of finding the best possible solutions which taking some deep breaths will allow us.


Once I had taken the breaths I honestly didn’t have all the answers of why what was happening was but I had the realisation that because I had decided to Level Up I was finding certain things frustrating because they don’t fit in with my next level desired way of Living so I had Faith this was a sign of movement towards my desired goals were starting to take shape and manifest 


From that realisation I had a sense of peace and excitement all at the same time and the synchronicities started to flow again and I told this person how I had come across some of the material that inspired my blog post mentioned previously after seeing a conversation with Dr Michael Beckwith and him saying how we can learn through pain or we can learn through pleasure and they are called Kensho and Setori and one of the most profound, for me sentences I ever heard “Pain Pushes until Passion Pulls” 


I also learnt from Dr Michael about the 4 levels of Human Development and number 1 is victim mode ~ why is this happening to me and then level 2 is being done by us which is the mode I keep reverting back to and I aiming to live more in 3 and 4 which he expresses far more eloquently than me but 3 is through us and 4 as us and that if we are in level 2 by us maybe what is meant to be 3 and 4 is different than what we think we should be doing and that is why we bump up against obstacle because what we think we should be doing isn’t actually our purpose 


In my frustration mode then breathing state I thought “was the obstacles a sign to go a different path and stop this activity?”

A short time later I had 2 prior engagements that took me away from my then current thinking state and then later a sequence of events happened that made me think “Oh my days, that is what I call a sign and stop being a wingy little B and pull up your Boss Babe pants” It was a clear sign to keep going 


That’s also a good example of when things aren’t working out how you want to go, do something completely different and enjoyable and open up the good feeling thought channels again and allow the synchronicities to happen 
Later that day a situation that I decided to have Faith working out well did exactly that reminded me to always focus on the Faith F word instead of getting wrapped up in things that make you scream FxxK 


Last night someone warned that traffic was bad and I thanked them for the heads up and said looks like I need to get a podcast prepared for the journey then the podcast I chose wouldn’t play and it started to play a different one with Lisa Nichols and Lisa said something that really struck me. 


She said when people set a goal they focus on the goal and think it will be easy and then get surprised when they face struggle but just because you set an intention to achieve a goal and then focus on the goal no-one said the journey was going to be easy. What they should teach is to decide on a goal then focus on the journey to get to that goal and do what it takes”


See no accidents and talking of no accidents and as a final note to this blog post. After my own particular struggles and frustrations this week and my refocus on Faith I heard a Tony Robbins quote that said 

“Everything Happens for a Reason and a Purpose and it serves You”

I have consumed some incredible content this week and have ended my week on a massive high but what I also learnt. That many of the people I admire and who are massive thought leaders now went through massive struggles and dark nights of the soul and were still going through them when they started to get public acclaim but they just kept on going when the going got tough.

One person said when you go for your goal they say you are crazy and when you achieve success they say you are lucky 


They’re not crazy they have the same brain as you and there was definitely no luck involved they just kept showing up regardless what showed up on the journey for them, like an aeroplane that’s of course 98% of the time but eventually it still gets to it’s destination and so can you if you have Faith on the outcome


It might be worth mentioning since my realignment every morning I have been the first here since and the shutters have been down and I have had time to do the things I wanted to undisturbed ~ funny that 😉 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ....


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙