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Questions Questions Questions

 

When I read Sir Richards Bransons book “Screw it Lets Do it” I quickly saw that he and people like him, Bill Gates for example didn’t have all the answers when they embarked on something but that didn’t stop them. They new they could get the answers and learn a long the way.

 
My story is I used to be in Management. Several different Management Roles and I loved learning new material. I loved growing and being a better version of me to help support people to be the best that they could be but when I left the last Role I could not face Leading any more.
 
Not because of the people I Led. They were awesome and some of you maybe reading this and I am not just blowing smoke for that reason. I am honoured to have you as Friends (there is always something positive that comes out of a negative situation). 💕
 
There were several reasons I left but it was usually wrapped up in a lack of integrity on someones part, unprofessionalism, deceitfulness, lack of empathy, even cruelty.
 
I used to ask myself “What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I find a Job I was happy in? 🙄
 
Were my expectations to high, are my standards to high, unrealistic, to picky” etc etc. 🤔
 
I always tried to dumb down, lower my standards, settle, accept the situation “That’s just how life is” and I always thought it was something was wrong with me. 🙁
 
I was always like the loyal dog you kicked and came back because I was scared. Scared of how I was going to pay my bills etc.
 
But eventually I could not suppress those feelings in my gut and the Universe conspired to get me out.
 
Somewhere a long the way I adopted a standard that if someone asked me a question and I didn’t know the answer I would tell them, if I didn’t know I would find out the answer and get back to them or ask someone else or point them in the direction of support.
 
I always told Trainees/Inductees questions are good. We only know what we know and the only way to know more is ask however I was in a role where it was advised to me not to admit if I didn’t know something as that would cause my Team not to have confidence and Faith in me and they wouldn’t be able to respect me.
 
This went against everything I felt to be right for me because to pretend to know something I didn’t know would be lying and honesty is the most important quality to me.
 
But like the loyal dog I did try to act that way and I felt sick to my stomach and found it difficult to look my Team in the eye.
 
Another thing that made me sick to the stomach (same role) was when I went into that Role I had become a bit gobby and would speak honestly in 121 situations etc and point out when I felt it said one thing on the tin but in reality it wasn’t quite like that (to say the least) one such situation “Equality” I loved the quote about treating the Janitor and the CEO equally but I was warned when I went into the Role by a peer myself and my Team maybe treated as lesser mortals by certain members of staff and unfortunately this was the case so I pointed it out and was given lip service so I kept pointing it out because I felt it was wrong to see people treated disrespectfully and eventually I was told that myself and my Team (and I even hate using the terminology Team because we were/are all equal in my eyes) would have to accept that we would have to be a “little” subservient in our position.
 
It was so hard looking my colleagues in the Face being told this information and I couldn’t/shouldn’t share it with them and that was the day I lost all respect for that Line Manager and I was just going through the motions from that moment on and I felt guilty because I felt I should always earn a salary for a good job done.
 
Thankfully I wasn’t wrong to be true to my beliefs, its OK to have High standards and good honest morals and I am now my own business owner, my own boss but at the same time I have an incredible network of people who I can call on at any time, who only want the best for me and build me up and constantly tell us ALL that are connected to the company not to be afraid to ask questions. Yay !!! 🙂 🙂 🙂
 
For months I have been utilising the resources, watching and listening to the Trainings video’s to be able to be the most knowledgeable, best support system I can to anyone who approaches me for information about being Their own Boss and running Their own business and then it struck me. I was watching the videos etc but I didn’t appreciate the effect that comment of not admitting you don’t know something had on me.
 
It was paralysing me from actually putting myself out there to truly be able to help people because that is all I want to do. Help people be the best they can be and live the life they desire and I know now the opportunity to do that is possible through this incredible business.
 
Because of this amazing network of people I am ready to help people be Their own Boss and build Their own businesses NOW because “It Is OK” to ask questions again, so if I don’t know I know I can get them the information or support they need and point them towards the right resources.
 
Jim Rohn says “Work harder on yourself than you work on your job”
 
I believe if you work on yourself with and your passion even as a side hustle that will eventually replace your job and you will eventually be earning a full time income #doingwhatyoulove and #lovingwhatyoudo
 
I hope you, who ever you are reading this just takes the step in some shape or form to follow your passion and work the rest out on your journey and remember you are never alone.
 
Got a question – Ask away Baby
 
#alip #loalover #lawofattractionlover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #richardbranson #screwitjustdoit 
 
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Posted by on August 24, 2018 in Uncategorized

 

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Day 1

So so much of my life is sorted thanks to The Law of Attraction and daily positive motivation and continues to get better and better but it’s time to finally sort an area of my life that I have never got a complete handle on and today is day 1.

#mindset #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #lawofattraction #coffeelover

 
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Posted by on May 25, 2018 in Law of Attraction

 

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Whoa it’s been so long !!!!

 

April 2016 while listening to Bob Proctor “Born Rich” video’s on YouTube nearly everyday I decided to make some goal cards.

Which I did and promptly broke my leg and forgot about my goal cards that I had placed in my purse.

Whilst laid up I started writing a book that was really a living breathing documentation of was I able to achieve my goals by following the path of least resistance, applying the Law of Attraction, visualising etc.

Well fast forward to nearly the end of November 2017 my life has changed so exponentially I have neither had time to write that book or hardly ever blog.

I have kept meaning to blog what has happened but it would just take to long and I haven’t got the time. I am working longer hours than I have ever worked and more days than I have ever worked but it feels wrong to write the word “WORK” as it doesn’t feel like work.

One of my goal cards said:

“I AM SUCCESSFULLY SELF EMPLOYED DOING WHAT I LOVE AND LOVING WHAT I DO” 

My favourite quote is in the picture above and the Universe certainly did conspire because I have a successful online craft business that also ventured into a shop in September and the response is phenomenal and how it all came about was a magnificent series of events that the Universe stitched together seamlessly and effortlessly just like I was on the path of least resistance.

Thats not mentioning all the other miraculous things that have happened to me in 2017 like being involved in an International Interview Series with amazing entrepreneurs but that is a story for another day 😉

 
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Posted by on November 26, 2017 in Just me rambling, Law of Attraction

 

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Sometimes I need it like a hammer on my head !!

I didn’t get it until I got this.

I’d read self-help books since the late 90’s but it wasn’t until I watched this film and read the book of the same name in 2010 I got it.

So if I got it why do I some times need a huge reminder to get it?

A long time ago I acknowledged if I saw something 3 times it was the Universe trying to get me to sit up and take notice so why oh why wasn’t I getting this message?

Plain and simple = Arrogance !!

Last week a like minded friend came round and we discussed books etc and the book “The Secret” came up. I’d recommended this book to so many people in and after 2010 when it came into my awareness but hadn’t thought or spoke of it in a long time.

I have habit of watching motivational material on YouTube and yesterday on ‘recommended’ the first thing that came up was the full length movie “The Secret”.

And today there is was again and I’d like to say it was the third time round trick that got my awareness ……. nah, in my head I was saying “I don’t need to watch that, I know all that. I’ve watched it read it years ago. I’ve moved on” but the Universe had other plans.

I swear I clicked off it to move on to another ‘Recommended’ that caught my eye however the film started playing any how and I am so glad it did.

Sometimes it seems we have to just get over our arrogance and say “Hey, why not. Let’s give this a rerun and see what it can teach us or remind us a second, third or even fourth time around”

What it the Universe trying to knock you over the head with that you are ignoring ? xx 🙂

 

 
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Posted by on August 7, 2017 in Law of Attraction

 

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Let’s all be like Forrest Gump

 

I mean’t to share this the day after my last post but ooops ….. it will make more sense if that post is read first.

Yesterday I blogged for the first time in weeks and in a way I could relate to the great man. My Hero, Wayne W. Dyer because the words just fell out of me and I felt so inspired because I was having such an amazing day.

Later in the evening I saw Forrest Gump was on TV.

Now I know that it is an incredible movie and I have probably watched it more times than any other movie but it was only last night that I realised because Forrest was innocent without any expectations he was on ‘The Path of Least Resistance’ and he allowed one incredible opportunity after another flow into his life.

Just after I had this realisation there was the scene where Lieutenant Dan pulls Forrest off the bed and tells him everyone has a destiny.

I know it’s fiction and Forrest didn’t teach Elvis his dance or inspire John Lennon to write the best song ever written (in my opinion) but these scenes were clever examples of how the Universe works.

“Imagine” what possibilities could be available to us if we were all just like Forrest Gump and got out of our way and stop trying to make it happen and let it all unfold perfectly.

Here’s to your blissful perfect unfolding 😉

 
 

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You must take the Path

What Path? The Path of Least resistance. I am living proof.

 

So my blog is titled Law of Attraction Lover and that I am and while I believe its premise I am by no means full proof or have it all sorted.

It makes sense to me that we are non-physical having a physical experience but some times the physical part of me forgets about the non-physical and panics. Fear sets in and anxiety rises in my belly however during 2017 I have witnessed (thankfully) my list of anxieties decreasing exponentially.

There were times that I read and listened to LOA material over and over again and wondered would I ever get it?

Love him or loath him and I have blogged about him several times I have been an advocate of Conor McGregor since I saw him in the Ultimate Fighter and I even blogged about the accidental event when I clicked on a youtube video of Conor discussing his practices in LOA and here is a man living proof if used correctly what can be achieved but the more Conor achieved the more I felt when I am going to get this. Am I going to get this?

This short video above explains perfectly why I wasn’t getting it. I actually listened to this video in my bedroom last Monday morning whilst getting ready for my day.

If you have read some of my posts you’ll know that I adopted a habit of someone who I admire “Ali Brown” and listened to YouTube video’s on my commute. What I haven’t got around to blogging about and why my huge absence in recent months from blogging is that I manifested a business for myself and now work from home so I have transferred my habit of YouTube in the car to YouTube in my bedroom whilst getting dressed and coiffured.

This business opportunity alone is evidence why the “Path of Least Resistance” is the only way and the most pleasurable way but thats a post for maybe another time.

Listening to this video showed me how I was blocking my own path to what I desired so last Monday while I had a couple niggles giving me slight anxiety I made the decision – “Just for today I let it all go. Stop trying to make it all happen and trust” I then became playful with my desires and as I walked around I aff’d (my way of saying I said affirmations to myself) I said thank you. Thank for …. Thank you for …… Saying thank you for my deepest desires as they were already here and what happened?

No1. My Faith in there manifestation went through the roof and No. 2 I had the most profitable day in my business (and most profitable week) since I started in March.

This created a wave of pleasure that I started ride and then other things happened.

It wasn’t stress free but when I found myself becoming anxious I was able to acknowledge “Whoa, this ain’t getting you anywhere sister” and draw back and do or think about something else.

Case in point I was working on a clients product and it wasn’t working and I had a deadline. On the second failed attempt I acknowledged my stress and took myself out of the situation and no word of a lie while I was washing at the sink a voice told me how to solve my problem and the product was completed effortlessly.

This experience stuck with me and then I was able to relax about other items near to deadline and remind myself it all we be ok. It always is.

I said earlier my reasons to be anxious have reduced dramatically and I was down to two. Both involved the same situation so on Sunday evening as I went to sleep I asked for help on these matters and the following morning a comment was made that caused a conversation that solved one of the problems effortlessly creating confidence that the other cause of anxiety would alleviate itself when the time was right and today it did so the moral of this is …. watch the video above if you haven’t already. Ask for help and then move on. Just have fun and think about things that make you happy and then you open the door to allow everything to arrive effortlessly on the Path of Least resistance.

 
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Posted by on July 26, 2017 in Law of Attraction

 

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Change in T&C’s

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When ever I aim to self improve myself or set objectives to get my life going in the direction I want it to go in I notice that most of it entails rituals or exercises or some other form of constructive step by step process.

These ideas come from books, following advise from people I admire who in my eyes are successful and doing what I want to do. People and ideas that catch my attention and I see as a sign however I have come to the conclusion I totally suck at rituals, exercises and routine.

Oh I start off with all good intentions. I write tick lists, set alerts and reminders and then life throws a curve ball. For instants several weeks ago I was feeling excited about making goal cards and putting them in my purse (wallet) to view when ever I opened my purse to purchase things and read them often. The next day I broke my ankle and leg and am practically house bound and barely opened my purse since.

The other day I came across a manifesting process that suggested that the fool-proof manifestation ritual would work if you write an affirmation a specific amount of times over a period of a specific amount of days and if you miss a day start over. I followed this process when I analysed my time and thought I had the specific amount of days free, undisturbed and on the eve of my final day my partner announced he wasn’t working to spend the day with me to take me out and spoil me (well it was my 50th birthday). At the possibility of starting my affirmation process again as if to say all my other affirmations were now null and void I thought ‘Really? Can I never manifest my dreams without following this structured process or read goal cards over and over again?’

Now I am not knocking these rituals and that they do work but I think the defining factor is probably belief and a relaxed, happy attitude in the positive realisation of their actuality.

I am reading a book about passion and purpose at the moment and while I derived it from the same source as the manifesting technique what I have realised from the book is that from the stories therein people have found their passion or purpose from a series of synchronised events not running round in circles naked under a full moon 20 times anti clockwise (though that might work but I live in the UK and might get frost bite as well and oh yeah I’ve got a broken leg 🙂 !!)

So today I have decided as Del Close says “The only rule is, there are no rules”. I am changing the terms and conditions to ……. there are no terms and conditions.

Have a wonderful liberated day 🙂

 

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