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Is it OK to Just Reset Sometimes ???

It is Sunday Morning and I was Watching “Sunday Brunch” while Cooking a Sunday Brunch for My Partner and I heard Lisa Nichols say something similar to the words in the picture at a Virtual Event a few hours earlier and it was just what I needed to hear


I have been working on some new things in recent months and then studying to become a Certified Ho’OPonoPono Practitioner ….


And I needed some time to process my growth and understanding where I go with the person I have become….


But I think as an Entrepreneur or budding Entrepreneur we can be programmed to think we must be doing something ALL the time and guilty to just relax and process, reset, realign or watch Tv and Cook ….


God Forbid if you actually own a TV 😱


But our True Self, our Soul needs time to speak to us and guilt blocks the signal 🥺


There was still a lot of Go, Go, Go, Go, Go, Go, Go shouty Go, Go, Go !!! Stop making excuses, Just do it at this event and I was doing the opposite of what they advocate by relaxing with my Partner so perhaps I am seen as why people fail by not taking action it’s just ….


I do take action …… Inspired Action


I spent years following the Cookie Cutter One Shop fits all model and not getting closer to my Goals by doing this method so now I Am Following my own Formula “The G.R.E.A.T Formula ™️

Which coincidentally I had been following for myself personally for years ~ with success but it was presented to ME one night as a Divine Download to call it The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ and to follow Inspired Action to get it Trademarked

You can see a mini Pop Up Version of it here: @ The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ to get some idea of what it is all about and how it can Transform Life for Yourself

Talking of Transformation …..


Abraham Hicks says “The Minute You Learn Something New, You Are a New Person. You can Never Go Back to The Person Before the Moment of Learning”


Life is a process of Transformation and I have had a Massive Transformation in the Last 12 Months


So much so I am consuming previously read, listened to information that I Am FEELING Inspired to revisit and it’s like seeing it, hearing it for the first time because of this Transformation


I am grateful to the people I learnt from for the last 12 Months to be able to use Their Skills and Expertise to Create & Build the Infrastructure I have Created ….


Now it’s time to Reset and Realign and tune in to my Intuition to Receive the Messages of my next Evolution of Transformation and Follow the Inspired Actions that Spring forward from the Whiteboard of the Zero State as Dr Hew Len


When we are out of Memory or Data we are acting out of Fear and the action taken from here can be exhausting


Who feels overwhelmed sometimes and what are Your Ways to Reset and Realign ?


I would love to know in the Comments

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware since starting this blog I have Qualified as An Advanced Law of Attraction Practitioner and Certified Ho’oponopono Practitioner  and I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

Our Passions are our Key to Success

Our Passions are the Key to Success ….


And following Inspired Action while Cleaning on Old Negative Memories that try to talk “You” out of following the Inspired Ideas ….


I have just been watching the new Film about Clarice Cliff “The Colour Room”  and she is my new Passion ….


I Am Going to Follow Inspired Action and research more about this incredible Artist like my Mentor in The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono Practitioner Certification Training, Joe Vitale did with P.T Barnum


Wow, wow, wow !!


While I am already a massive fan of Inspired Action and that’s why it is part of my 5 step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ my perspective on life has just taken a Massive Transformation in  the last few days since taking my Ho’oponopono Certification and taken my Formula to another level and I am excited for what’s to come in my Podcast Episodes and future  Law of Attraction Lovers Club modules even though I haven’t recorded it yet I can Feel something amazing is bubbling up


Watching this film I could see Clarice was tapped in to the Formula of Success even if she wasn’t aware of it and talking of Success Formulas I loved the last Episode I dropped in the LOA Club around this even if I do say it myself


What I have already felt for a long time and I have been building around has been confirmed to me like no other time in my existence and the T section of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ stands for Transformation and I talk about the Dot Method and I can see my own dots so clearly now it is as “Bizarre” and Wonderful as Clarice’s work


But it has changed my whole outlook on Goal Setting but thankfully I followed another Divine Inspired Action Download and Created a Cheat Sheet on what I Am calling Intuitive Goal Setting and I am giving it away. I just have to link the funnel I created for it and the Fun Sheet together and I am feeling Inspired to do that right now …..

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#lawofattraction #theloalover

I Believe we are All Geniuses

In Gay Hendrix’s book the Big Leap he talks of our zone of Excellence and our zone of Genius which I believe we All have and if you read on you will see why


A couple of days ago I was attracted to a MindValley Mentorship episode and they were discussing zones of Excellence  


They never referred to Gay’s book but the way they were discussing zones of Genius and and zones of Excellence I knew they were referring to the same thing


At first glance if you haven’t read the book you may be thinking they are the same


I know when I first read it I was a little confused


I know also, I need to read it again because my zone of Excellence has changed and I feel if I read it again I’ll see it in a new perspective and that’s partly what inspired me to write this blog post


Like I said I need to read it again so I am paraphrasing and I may have perceived it wrongly but I see our zone of Excellence as anything we are comfortable doing and can do effortlessly and easily therefore we are excellent at it


For me I think we may think of excellence as an elite skill but not the everyday things we do until this morning when I had a Divine Download and the words for this post started flowing through me


Unfortunately I wasn’t in a position to write them down as they flowed so now as I try to get back in to the flow of what I wanted to write it feels a bit clunky which is interesting for 2 reasons


I believe hard work is not necessary if we align and get in to flow or what I now know as level 3 / 4 of the 4 levels of consciousness  and if as evidence last night I was getting an evening meal ready and put something on TV to listen to while I was getting ready and I intuitively chose the Jonathan Ross Show and Ed Sheeran was live on Zoom
Jonathan made a comment that  Ed could write songs in about 30 minutes and Ed agreed that all the hits he’s written so quick, usually in under an hour and listed Shape of You, Perfect, and 18.


He added I remember them being so quick and barely having to think about it and just typing. If you speak to any writer some songs come out of thin air


I don’t believe they are thin air. As I mentioned earlier. I call them Divine Downloads and I believe we are all Geniuses or allocated our own specific Genius the trouble is we get wrapped up in earthly red tape and subconsciously also what was discussed in the MindValley discussion I mentioned above Brules short for Bull Shit Rules and we tune out of our Zone out of Genius


We also are Brulled into thinking it is wrong to blow our own Trumpet and be humble. Shutting us out even more of our predisposed given area of Genius for fear of standing out to tall.


We Give credit to others but believe we have nothing to offer


But I truly believe that is not true.

We just haven’t allowed ourselves the time to tap in to our own Level 3 & 4 as Ed described and come at life from Level 1 and 2. Level 1 the Victim mode, why Me? And Level 2 ~ By me, work , work mode or Action, action as I call it now instead of Inspired Action and the Level 2 work, work, action action blocks out those Inflow Opportunities


I know because I was there for so long and that is why I am passionate about sharing there is another way, there is still time and age is irrelevant  and I believe that it was no accident I was doing what I was doing and living in my zone of excellence and multiple people were complimenting me on being so talented and then immediately counteracting that with they wish they had a talent and me saying I believe we all have one and them they saying they didn’t or …..


People who had discovered a Passion or a Talent and or Hobby they loved and asking for Tips in to how to turn it in to a Business like I had done


I mentioned earlier I had a Divine Download but felt a bit clunky because of the delay in applying what was flowing through me and I believe there were 2 reasons for writing


Prior to turning on the TV Program I saw an alert for Evan Carmichael going live on Instagram and I seem to be aligning with Evan alot lately so I tapped the notification


Now I am assuming Evan was going Live on Several Platforms at once which is also relevant to the message I am trying to share but that’s very prominent in various places so I won’t discuss this here but when I jumped on he brought someone on to the Live and they were doing a Q & A


The gentleman was talking about following the Inspired Action to become a Motivational Speaker and Evan said “Great, where have you spoke so far?” and the gentleman replied he hadn’t as yet as he had only recently made the decision and then asked him about a dream talk and he said he would love to do a Ted talk


I loved Evans advise of deciding to make it a goal to speak on 3 platforms every week and explained how now, more than ever we have so many opportunities with Digital platforms and suggested things like speaking in front of a class of students and reaching out to people and asking to be a guest on their podcast or a live etc he also explained how easy it can be to do a Ted talk and how there are different Ted opportunities all over the world and various states in the US and if he was willing to Travel and contact the right people a Ted talk is very achievable in a very short space of time and for me personally this brought to my attention a couple things


We tend to focus on the Big ‘So called’ Goal before we have even started and not take in to account all the other achievable steps we can actually take now and that the big Goal is probably not so big or so unachievable or so far out of reach right now as we think so we get mired down before we even start and then most likely do not start full stop because it seems just to far out there in our zone of Genius


Evan also said something that I really related to because it was the very thing that got me mired down and delayed me from starting for several months and was the very same thing I discussed on the thing I delayed starting ….. my podcast The Fab Over Forty Show


As I was learning about Podcasting I got very excited and the higher state of consciousness aided me to brainstorm many, many titles of subjects I wanted to discuss about the Law of Attraction and turning Your Passion in to Money in Your Purse and then it discussed the editing and how crucial it was and I became completely overwhelmed


Now I am someone (now) who is used to stepping out of my Zone of Excellence and trying new things and turning them in to my new zone of Excellence but this really fuddled my brain despite several attempts and watching learning and implementing so I procrastinated and work on other projects and I tried to record with no fluffs and would fluff and delete and fluff and delete until whole afternoons and evening were wasted with no content at the end until one day I decided because of other things I was about to launch, in them I mentioned I had this podcast


And I did because it was all accepted on all the major platforms Spotify, Apple etc and the artwork was there but no episodes and because it was halting me launch these other items I had created to help other people find their passions and wake up happy from making a living doing what they love I just decided I had to go for it with no editing ~ fluffs and all and in the end I actually felt intuitively this might actually inspire people “If I Can, They Can” which is exactly what Evan said on that Live last night


He told this Guy just start speaking and recording stuff and “No Editing!” and the guy seemed a little stunned and he added “Seriously, NO Editing and the more you do it the easier it will get and the more comfortable it will get and the better you will get” ie: new Zone of Excellence anyone?


Ironically enough I actually mentioned Evan in a Podcast Episode, Episode #9 Tomorrow is NOT Guaranteed . I just recorded off the cuff a few days earlier, no editing and mentioned on a Virtual event I was attending at the weekend how he didn’t like his first few videos but just kept going because he knew he had a Higher a Purpose and People to serve but what I realised this morning is, if a Zone of Excellence is something we do effortlessly because it has become second nature to us because we have built neural pathways or brain waves around it or an even easier way of saying it “Habits” and if our Zone of Genius is what we are really Intuitively drawn to do and serve by AKA “Our Gifts” …..


When we were born, sorry to be brutally honest but pooping , crying, feeding and sleeping were our Zone of Excellence and walking was a Zone of Genius but we Intuitively started to walk because it was inbuilt in our DNA and then that became our new Zone of Genius.

Like feeding and dressing ourselves, riding a bike, driving a car etc was once “out there” in our Zone of Genius and became our Excellence or “Norm”


Why should it be any difference with our Dreams and Goals


I have mentioned it elsewhere about the thought of becoming an Omnipresent Passion Based Business on Social Media. There was a time we didn’t have smartphones and apps and Facebook but we learnt them so why can we master TikTok, YouTube, Pinterest, Blogging, Podcasting etc?


Less than a Year ago I didn’t know how to build a Digital Course or Digital Product and asset or Sales Funnels for them or a Membership site or Subscription platform and so many other skills I won’t list but now I have and I am nearly 56, because I watched, listened stopped implemented. Reached out for help if I needed it from someone in their Zone of Genius on the subject and rinse and repeat


But …..


I have heard it all.


I can’t change. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I’m to old. I haven’t got any talents etc .. etc .. etc


And that’s what motivated me to start my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show and my Facebook Page and Group Fabulous Freedom over Fortyand build my Products and Services Based around turning your Passions into income and businesses and using the Law of Attraction to deliberately create a Lifestyle You Love and Wake UP Happy for and a community called The Freedom Empire Builders 
Because you don’t have to be over 40 to be any part of this but because ……..


I was a Miserable Corporate Manager who thought she gave up on her Goals and Dreams a long time ago but my life didn’t start Transforming until I was over 40 and the book The Secret and the Law of Attraction came in to my life and I saw where I was going wrong ….


I realised I needed to take Responsibility and actually take some Inspired Action if I wanted my life to change so I took one small step of implementing a Gratitude Practice in the Morning and from taking that one small step and listening to my Intuition and took another Inspired Action step and another and inadvertently created a 5 Step Morning Routine that completely Transformed my Life (which I now give away) and  I actually have a Trademark Framework called The G.R.E.A.T Formula ™️  to help others on Their Transformational Journey and I get to wake up Happy everyday Doing What I love and Loving What I love which incidentally I wrote on a Goal Card Inspired by Bob Proctor who I resonated to from the Film Version of The Secret and which I talk about in a video I recorded for my Law of Attraction Lovers Club of why I Am so Passionate about and advocate making one


And Talking of Bob. He’s in his 80’s as I type and he is the quintessential example of someone who steps out of his Zone of Excellence on a regular basic and adopts all new ways of Marketing Zone of Genius so can serve as many people as Possible


So if you think you do not have Genius gift here are a couple tips to tap into it or in most cases dig it up because may be it has been buried so deep while working so hard on a building someone else’s dreams?


💖 If you could wake up tomorrow doing what you love all day what would that thing be?


💖 What 1 small step do you feel inspired to take today that would be part of answer to that last question


💖 What do you do in Your current Zone of Excellence that you really enjoy that you see would be useful if you were living in own Unique Zone on Genius


💖 Aim to make it a habit each day to spend a few minutes imagining yourself already doing what you would love to do most in the world


I am not writing this post to sell you anything … just to inspire You but if anything I have said Inspires You and You would like more hints and tips or my gift to you of my Freedom Making Morning Routine I would love for You to check out any of the places I mentioned above or just click on the link below to find out more about how you can Wake Up Happy

https://linktr.ee/AlisonKayParsons

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#theloalover #lawofattraction #goalcard #thebigleap #gayhendricks #bobproctor #edsheeran #mindvalley #tedtalk #evancarmichael #jonathanross #zoom

Turn Your Passions into Money in Your Purse

So Today’s the day I launch some Products and Services I have been quietly working on for several months because I felt mentally I had to do it this way for several reasons


A) So I could stay in my lane without distractions


B) Because I wanted to avoid negativity


C) I was using myself as a guinea pig so I could prove my methods were achievable  for others with little or zero money and little or what feels like Zero time and loving but half glass empty types of personalities around them


But I must admit that Physical Tainted by Societies BS Beliefs “Me”  felt a bit icky and deceitful at times even though my motives are good


At these times I reminded myself that the Higher Self non-physical part of me knows the fuller picture and never judges me but I have to admit ….
When I heard in an audiobook recently that Sara Blakely of Spank fame built her business in secret for a Year I admit I did shout “Yes!!” very loudly


I remember Dean Graziosi say last year when I took his and Tony Robbins Build Your Brand Challenge that when he stated what he was going to do his family created a kind of intervention to try to talk him out of it .

Some even flying across state and he admits there was a point they almost succeeded


If you don’t know who Dean is I highly recommend checking him out …. then you can see it worked out quite well for him in the end … putting it mildly


That challenge also really put in front of me Mr Russell Brunson who fundamentally changed my life and is the main reason I am here writing this post today and building the business I have built and launched the products I have launched today


If you are reading this post today The 3rd of November 2021 aka Humpday  I have some special Launch Day Bonuses and if you are someone who loves the Law of Attraction and like me deliberately creating Your Life and would also like I have done. Turn the things “You” are Passionate About into an Online Business I highly recommend checking them out


However ……


If you are reading this post after that date …… do not worry !!


These are launch day bonuses but the Products and Services themselves are NOW post launch, always available and Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder has a stack of bonuses worth literally hundreds of dollars built in to the offer for the crazily insane cost of only $7


Why this nuts price …… ???


Because my first business was a Brick n Mortar business I literally manifested from writing “I Am Successfully Self-employed Doing What I Love & Loving What I Do” on a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card, people could access me throughout my opening hours and would say ironically “You are so lucky, I wish I could do something I loved” and because I knew all too well what it was like to be doing a job you hated and I knew the potential to be able to turn a hobby into an income using social media and other online platforms I was giving away lots of free advice of how to turn a Passion into money in their Purse


The problem with that was ……


All that time invested in giving advice away for free meant it was taking me away from my own IPA’s or Income Producing Activities until …


Until I had the lightbulb that this is what I was meant to be doing and not what I thought I should be building


So I literally shelved everything I thought I should be working on and started from scratch and then once I made that decision as always “The Universe Conspired to make it Happen” and as usual when I get in to Level 3 and Level 4 of the 4 levels of Consciousness synchronicity after synchronicity lined up


And what started as an adaptation of a tool I was taught to use to Identify Your Passion turned into Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder with a `Ali  twist as I have added how to monetise that passion with the latest Online Social Media Omnipresent techniques which is the $7 product I mentioned above so now not only could I help those people that seek me out for advice I get to create an income from it


Has morphed it to many, many digital assets


💖 From my Gift of a Morning Routine which is literally a free(dom)  gift to you reading this 😜


💖 The Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder + bonuses to support creating an online business “You Love”


💖 My Mini pop course version of my now Trademarked 5 Step Framework ~ The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ and the full indepth version is in the making


💖 My Law of Attraction Lovers subscription service where for another amazing $7 a month you get everything I have learnt and will be learning about all things LOA and Online Passion Biz Based Building


💖 My Podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show”


💖 My Fabulous Freedom Over Forty Brand and Community (check out Facebook if this sounds like a place you would like to be)


💖 The Freedom Empire Builders Community where I give 121 Coaching on building a Location Freedom Multifaceted Passion Based Business to that Inner Circle

And all this was birthed from a moment of clarity of who I am here to truly serve


So you maybe wondering what these extra special Launch day bonuses are and how to I turn my Passions into a business I love …..

So the bonuses for early adopters today only until Midnight UK time are
These include:


💖 Early Adopters Same Price for Life to the LOA Lovers Club


💖 10 people picked who Purchase Passion Finder before Midnight to have an exclusive 121 post Training to help Brainstorm Monetising Your Passion


Plus these 10 people get ….


💖 An Exclusive Whatsapp Group and


💖 A signed copy of Smashing Through The Glass Ceiling
But that’s not all ….


💖 10 Bundle Buyers will be picked to have 2 x 1 Hour Brainstorm 121 Zooms with Me to maximise Their chances of Creating a Business They Love Online from Their Passion
All they have to do is ….


Join the LOA Lovers Club and Purchase Passion Finder and the Law of Attraction Biz Book Swipe File together to receive entry to the draw but don’t delay this offer is time bound and despite the Bonuses staying in the purchase of Passion Finder I am seriously considering removing one of them because I actually think I am nuts for giving it away because
I know I could easily sell it full price as a stand alone product


Ok, Ok, Ok 👍 I hear you say …. but how to do I get my hands on this great deal?


Check out the link in my Insta bio @alison_k_parsons or alternatively go to https://linktr.ee/AlisonKayParsons

Happy Hump Transformation Day

I would love to know if you like this blog post


I appreciate Your Feedback and would love to know if You have any topic ideas based around The Law of Attraction you would like me to write about


Are You aware I have a Club based around The Law of Attraction called … of course The Law of Attraction Lovers Club and can be accessed at loalover.club where I add videos based around what I learn and continue to learn about what works and more importantly what doesn’t work in regards to The Law of Attraction


I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


I Am on Mission Now to Help as Many People see that is Never to Late to Wake Up Happy and I give away My Life Changing Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com


I would love you to get Yours at mywakeuphappy.com


Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo

#theloalover #humpdaymotivation #lawofattraction

No Need for a Palm Reader

“Once you make a decision the Universe Conspires to Make it Happen”


Perfect timing and interesting conversation and maybe a bit ironic after the day I’ve had 😜


So I am just stretching out a little stiff but very very satisfied


After an amazing onboarding conversation today with a member of Rob Moore’s Progressive Team as part of their Ambassadors Program I am highly honoured to be a part of


I then rewatched the Launch Model Training in Rob. Team and Contacted Clickfunnels to iron a few tech issues


Both excellent customer services and I think that’s it. All finished. It is actually All Done !!!


After months of building and everything has come together I envisaged and sooo much more and …..


A lady opens my door who I think is a customer and asks if they can have cash to read my palm


“Thank you for the offer but I don’t need my palm read. I believe in the Law of Attraction”


Confused and abruptly  replies “what’s that”


“I use my thoughts to deliberately create what I want”


“Well if you just let me take your hand, I can tell you your future” she says reaching forward uninvited and trying to grasp my hand


I pull back and reply “Thank you but As I said, I don’t need you to read my future because I take responsibility for my thoughts to create it myself”


I think that was the most unusual “No”, she had ever had and I would have loved to be a fly in a her brain as she thought what was that all about


Anyway back to launch mode and talking of being an Ambassador I am absolutely Spellbound how all my dreams are coming together and honoured to have been accepted to be an ambassador for some absolutely gorgeous products that will be beautiful Christmas presents and perfectly align with my Brand and Vision

Interested to know what they are and what I am launching pop over to the Fabulous Freedom Over Forty Facebook page to be first in the know


#watchthisspace #believeinmiracles #theloalover #thoughtsbecomethings

Your Net Worth is in Direct Relationship to Your Self Worth

“Your Net Worth Is in Direct Relation to Your Self Worth”

If people do not appreciate the value of your product or service….

That’s OK … they are not “Your Ideal Client”

I recently I took this affirmation from Catherine Ponders book 📚 “The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity” tweaked it slightly and write it in my Journal every morning as part of Morning Routine

“I love the Highest and Best in All People, I now Draw to me the Highest and Best People, Clients and Customers”

Recently I had a customer who I probably acquired before I started my affirmation

They didn’t know what they wanted and then decided they wanted something very bespoke

To cut a story very short I completed the item and awaited collection then rather bizarrely I received a note to call them from an expected source

Let’s just say I was blown away by their manner & they obviously knew nothing how a bespoke service works and felt like I had 2 bums holes instead of 1 😜

After the conversation I felt intuitively I should get ready to give them a refund & then I thought actually

I didn’t deserve to be spoken to like that and it’s in both our interests I just give them a refund ~ full stop 🛑

After I did this someone came to me and said that this person had been coming to them for over 45 years and they were rude to them on the very first occasion and obviously dreaded their custom

They say the customer is always right …. Or they are older we must respect them

Rudeness is rudeness and is not acceptable any age or just because they are a customer or client or any walk of life
My advise ~ don’t ignore your gut and know your worth

When I told my partner of the days events he Agreed with my intuition to give them a full refund straight of the bat

By the look on there face when they arrived they were definitely intending to make me a third bum hole shall we say

I obviously took them back when I stood and told them that after our conversation I felt I hadn’t deserved the way they spoke to me and felt it was best I gave them a full refund

They still tried to continue the conversation pointing out things they had found reason to so rude

I actually feel sorry for that person that judging by the conversation with the other business owner who had been doing business with them for over 45 Years they had spend most of their life being angry and rude and….. unliked

And probably why the world was unkind and people were unkind to them

Maybe they will think twice about how they approach people in future and attract a more beneficial life experience in to the bargain
In the 4 Levels of consciousness this is Level 1 ~ Why Me and the level I spent most of my own life for 40 Years until I had an epiphany and I took responsibility for my life and my own Deliberate Creation of a more Positive Way of Living using the Law of Attraction

Now I am on Mission to live in Level 3 and 4 and help as many people do the same and wake up Happy and Grateful using my 5 Step Framework “The G.R.E.A.T Formula” ™️launching very, very soon 🔜 😜

If you would like to know more about it and how to get my gift to you of a no cost Freedom Making Morning Routine drop a comment on this post


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#theloalover #lawofaatraction

Collaboration not competition

Wow well that was exciting !!

For me anyway 😁 it reiterated to me why I am doing what I am doing

For the longest time I have had a vision I wasn’t sure how to implement and then last December I had an epiphany whilst doing the One Funnel Away challenge and finally I saw how to bring my dream to reality

The Transformational journey I have been on since is nothing short of miraculous and one I could have never anticipated 

Initially when I joined the challenge my motive was to build a sales funnel and email list for my Brick n Mortar business and honestly the other dream I saw as separate from this at the time however the Universe was conspiring all the time

I have been keeping my cards close to my chest as when I have excitedly shared the possibilities to support others with my vision I have been shut down in the past which was frustrating at times but as Rob Moore shares in his learnings of the secrets of Millionaires and Billionaires “you have to learn to manage your emotions”

It is also interesting that some of those people who poo poo’d my ideas are advocating them now especially in light of yesterdays events

I will certainly be leveraging those platforms but I have no plans to create my origin pieces on them thanks to my learnings in recent months and from the experience gained ~ I see massive possibilities and many other platforms have opened up to me

Ideally I would have liked to launch my plans sooner but Divine Timing and all that and after another massive epiphany in May I have been avidly  building digital assets behind the scenes while I wait for the email to drop that I expectantly  know will be here in the next few days then it will be Action Jackson

Inspired Action is telling me to wait until then 😉

In the past as an employee I suggested ideas that were also shut down only to be used and taken as Their own at a later date and hands up I was not so great at managing my emotions back then and the other day I had an idea to help local businesses and boy naively did I open a can of worms because I am used to connecting with people who collaborate and support each other now, rather than compete but it’s ok because it reminded me how Grateful I am for my tribe and it actually served a purpose …..

During the worm opening session I inadvertently learnt of some information that highlighted a possible issue with what I have been working on so it led to a bit of tweaking prior to launch and showed me a world I thought I should be part of … actually I don’t and infused my passion even more to take full responsibility for my own destiny and highlighted there’s still a competitive world out there that thankfully I am no longer part of and don’t intend to be

Sometimes what looks like an uncomfortable situation is a lesson and a blessing in disguise and not to be so quick to jump to conclusions. Manage those emotions and take full responsibility for My own destiny and not to rely on an employer, economy  or Government etc

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If You Are not Dead You’re winning

“If You Are Not Dead You Are Winning”


I was in privileged position to Listen to Rachel Hollis be interviewed by Vishen Lakhiani a few days ago and Rachel’s words are still rattling around in my brain ~ people are focusing on 2021 because 2020 was “so terrible” news flash shit happened before 2020 and it will happen in 2021 and beyond, sorry guys ~ we just have to deal with it ~ please be aware I Am paraphrasing because I can’t remember it word for word but I will listen again when it goes Live as a podcast 


The interview also discussed putting our real selfs out there regardless of the results and when I heard her say this I thought thank you for your honesty and maybe it’s time I should voice my opinion 


I am truly sorry for anyone who has lost a loved one or a job or a business during this time but people died and businesses failed and people lost jobs before the virus and maybe we all got a little numb to these everyday occurrences and we needed to be reminded of this fact and become more compassionate but put a label “Global Pandemic” over it and it seems like none of these events ever happened outside this situation and it has been wrapped in a blanket of fear and overwhelm and I am seriously concerned for people’s health and Mindset well-being especially when focused on the end of the Covid rainbow when we get to the other side and shit still happens but people’s mindset are even less able to cope ~ that’s the real tragedy here 


I thankfully had been passionate about personal development decades before the current situation evolved and carry out a morning routine practice that has supported me but I see people who have put skin in the game, or have accepted their cheese has moved and pivoted their personal situations and who also have experienced massive personal loss and disruption are feeling guilty to express they are ok or have succeeded even prospered during this time

Something you don’t know about me ~ I try to stick to a To Do list but often get wildly off course and a long time ago that would have riddled me with guilt and anxiety and negative self talk but these days I am a dichotomy of wanting to be more organised and stick to a list and more recently I am experimenting with surrendering to flow and acting on and tuning in to Intuition and when my copy of Rachel’s book arrived it brought back the interview and I felt an inspiration to write this post however it was quite late in the day and I decided I would post it the next day after transferring it from Evernote where I write everything first in to my blog platform

The original copy ended a few sentences back and was titled something else then but then :I didn’t see this coming happened …..

quick note: acting in flow creates a lot less stress and guilt when I diverge away from the ‘To Do’ list

So one of my facets is I have a weird and wonderful shop when I paint and sell hand carved wooden ducks and I also create bespoke orders and before I had time to transfer this copy a client came into enquire about personalised gift idea

When I took the client details I enquired if they had a daughter by a particular name recognising their’s and they asked what made me ask that and I explained who I was and they used to work with and be friends with my Mother and during my teens I had become close friends with their daughter until families came along etc and we lost touch

The lady then got emotional and apologised and said “I’m sorry, I still get upset when I think about them and it’s been 5 years now. Silly I know” Picking up on my confusion I guessed, they continued “You don’t know XXXX died 5 years ago of cancer”

Whoah ~ I definitely did not see that coming and now we are both moved emotionally

After the lady left the shop and I went to sit at my work station I guess instigated about current events and I thought about this post and how this beautiful kind soul lost their physical life 5 years earlier I literally said out loud “Well, if you are alive your are still Fxxking Winning”

Meaning what ever the situation if you have the luxury of breath in your lungs you are still winning because you can literally change your life by the quality of your next thought, and the next and next and the next

My book has recently arrived so I don’t know the exact contents but the subtitle tells me it’s just the antidote some people need right now so I have dropped the link below to preview it for yourself

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….

Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

If you are depressed you are living in the past

If you are anxious you are living in the future

If you are at peace you are living in the present

Statement 1 Me = Guilty

 Statement 2 Me = Guilty

 Statement 3 Me = Know to be true

 Intention to live in number 3 more and more everyday

 Someone reading this if they acknowledge it or not maybe thinking  “Yeah, but Ali is easy for you” 🤬

I heard the other day when you go after your goal people say you are crazy, when you achieve it they say you are lucky 🍀 

There is no luck involved it. It is just constant consistent action to evaluate what’s working and what’s not and keep doing what’s working and find ways to improve and remove what’s not working and ya know what I have lost count of how many times I have fallen back down the rabbit hole of doing what doesn’t serve me …… again, but that’s ok because acknowledging it and trying again eventually I retrain my brain to do what serve me more often 

Another great statement I heard the same day as I saw the above said “if you are still alive you have not failed, you just stopped ~ As long as you are alive you can start again”

How amazing is that and how liberating and empowering is that thought 😉

Read it again !!!

You have never failed. You just learn’t what works and what doesn’t. Wipe the slate clean and go again ~ Woo, Woo !! 🔥

Once of the most destructive actions in the world is guilt and the other is non-forgiveness. They literally poison your body and who do we refuse to forgive the most ~ if you didn’t already say it ill write it “Ourselves”

Question? Would you drink poison? ☠️

Of course not but that is literally what people are doing when they hash over and over in their mind something they think you should have said or done and feel guilty and refuse to forgive themselves for it and then they wonder why they feel rubbish 🤢

It is said well over 90% of what we fear never comes to pass or is as bad as we thought it would be yet we can ruin over 90% of our days by worrying about something there will never come to pass

 A bit sickening when you think about it like that ‼️Even more sickening is actually I believe those things will come to pass… why because that’s the energy frequency we are sending out like a radio tower tuning in to DoomFM so we resonate back to us more Doom, gloom, sickness, sadness, financial poverty and people say The Law of Attraction doesn’t work.  Oh it does Baby you’ll attract back anything you think about on a consistent bases. No-one said it will only work positively which seems a common misunderstanding in LOA circles

 People wonder why they are broke all the time? 

Because they must be focusing on lack of money more than abundance of money and if you think about lack what are you going to get more of? Answers in the comments section not a postcard please

 “OK, So how can you change the frequency Pollyanna” you maybe asking

 Breath, close your eyes and take 6 slow death breaths 🧘🏻

In through the nose and out through the mouth like breathing through a straw

You are now in the present and what is the Present? A Gift  🎁 

Where do you want to live? In the past, future or present and what do we all want? Gifts 💝 

When ever you feel overwhelm give yourself the gift of 6 deep breaths

 Why?

Because your brain cannot think rationally in a stressful state and solutions cannot be found in this state of mind.

Not to mention it is quick and free and people say they can’t afford or haven’t got enough time to embark on Personal Development

 Get out of that one Batman 

I have to admit this was advised to me a few months ago while in overwhelm, see I told you I’m not perfect. I keep going back there and the technique I mentioned above I learnt off of John Assaraf but now I remember to breath because I have seen the positive results of doing it and it makes more sense to do it than not do it

 If you have followed my advise, now you are in a calmer state, start thinking about things you are grateful for, no matter how small. 💭 

It’s good to start with someone you love because they will put you in a good frame of mind and it doesn’t have to be human. It can be a pet and then see what else comes to mind? 

For me I start with Gratitude every morning now from having a good nights sleep to the bed I am in and the roof over my head and hot and cold running water etc see we all have something to be grateful for even if we think we don’t and coincidentally this is literally how I started my journey of change with no greater task than that and why do I ask you to do this because you literally can’t think positive and negative at the same time so if you are in a negative thinking state either in the past or the future start thinking about the things you are grateful for 🙏🏻

Even better write them down in a journal and make this a practice every morning so you consciously start you day off right 

Probably most successful person I know either physically or virtually states Gratitude as their number one secret ingredient 

I wasn’t perfect at this either and kept forgetting but eventually I started to change my brain that it has become habit and what is a habit? Just a thought we keep thinking over and over again. 

Can’t change a habit? Let me ask you …..

Were you born knowing how to walk? Ah nope and you weren’t born thinking negatively either. You just learn’t it over a period of time like walking and like any other habit you learn’t over time you can learn to think more proactively for your well-being and who doesn’t want to be in a state of well-being 

Trust me. If I can go from flip flopping from A to B for yearsssssss !! to spending the majority of my time in C if you want to spend more time in C like me literally take a breath and say thank you

As I mentioned I am constantly working on myself and I am currently reading “The Untethered Soul” by Michael A. Singer which helps explain as I am seeing it how we are tethered to fear, how it is effecting us and how we can untether ourselves from itIt maybe a book you find useful to and if so I have added an affiliate link here for you to check it out 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post 


I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ….


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙

I have gone from the “Fxxx” word to the “Fxxxx” word in one week

I got asked an interesting question this week and it hasn’t left me and I know there are no accidents so it was perfectly placed there by the Universe because my brain was already dabbling with a similar situation 


The person was aware and a follower of the Law of Attraction and asked “why is it when I set my goals they don’t work”

Not knowing enough about this persons situation I admitted I can’t answer that question for you but what I can tell you is, which was a subject of a recent blog post which I titled “The Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work” is that we get what we are not what we want if there is a mismatch there and I briefly explained the premise of that post which I recommend reading to get the full story but basically I said if we use affirmations to say “I Am so happy and Grateful I am a millionaire” but your brain doubts that fact and says “no your not, you’re broke you are resonating broke. Not millionaire so you attract (Law of Attraction style) broke .com not rich FM as someone I love and admire calls it.


I found using lofty questions a better way to get around the statements that our brain may not believe and that sometimes in hindsight what seems so uncomfortable and separate from our desire actually has a purpose many years later as I had experienced only the day before when I could see the connection of something that happened 21 years ago and didn’t turn out as I planned only has its true meaning become evident now 


When I met this person I was already coming out the other side of a Frustrating situation that made me shout “Fxxxxxxxx” at the top of my voice in a public space.

This is so not me but I actually found the situation very liberating so I did it again a few times with this time, some fist bumping on the desk 
I was then able to breath and ask the question what is this situation trying to tell me?


I am far enough down the Personal Development journey to know enough now that bumps in the road are signs that we are a little off course but it can still take me some time in the mist of frustration to get to that point and that is because the brain shuts down to rational thinking in the state of stress or anxiety so we keep wading forward with our muddy thoughts with no possibility of finding the best possible solutions which taking some deep breaths will allow us.


Once I had taken the breaths I honestly didn’t have all the answers of why what was happening was but I had the realisation that because I had decided to Level Up I was finding certain things frustrating because they don’t fit in with my next level desired way of Living so I had Faith this was a sign of movement towards my desired goals were starting to take shape and manifest 


From that realisation I had a sense of peace and excitement all at the same time and the synchronicities started to flow again and I told this person how I had come across some of the material that inspired my blog post mentioned previously after seeing a conversation with Dr Michael Beckwith and him saying how we can learn through pain or we can learn through pleasure and they are called Kensho and Setori and one of the most profound, for me sentences I ever heard “Pain Pushes until Passion Pulls” 


I also learnt from Dr Michael about the 4 levels of Human Development and number 1 is victim mode ~ why is this happening to me and then level 2 is being done by us which is the mode I keep reverting back to and I aiming to live more in 3 and 4 which he expresses far more eloquently than me but 3 is through us and 4 as us and that if we are in level 2 by us maybe what is meant to be 3 and 4 is different than what we think we should be doing and that is why we bump up against obstacle because what we think we should be doing isn’t actually our purpose 


In my frustration mode then breathing state I thought “was the obstacles a sign to go a different path and stop this activity?”

A short time later I had 2 prior engagements that took me away from my then current thinking state and then later a sequence of events happened that made me think “Oh my days, that is what I call a sign and stop being a wingy little B and pull up your Boss Babe pants” It was a clear sign to keep going 


That’s also a good example of when things aren’t working out how you want to go, do something completely different and enjoyable and open up the good feeling thought channels again and allow the synchronicities to happen 
Later that day a situation that I decided to have Faith working out well did exactly that reminded me to always focus on the Faith F word instead of getting wrapped up in things that make you scream FxxK 


Last night someone warned that traffic was bad and I thanked them for the heads up and said looks like I need to get a podcast prepared for the journey then the podcast I chose wouldn’t play and it started to play a different one with Lisa Nichols and Lisa said something that really struck me. 


She said when people set a goal they focus on the goal and think it will be easy and then get surprised when they face struggle but just because you set an intention to achieve a goal and then focus on the goal no-one said the journey was going to be easy. What they should teach is to decide on a goal then focus on the journey to get to that goal and do what it takes”


See no accidents and talking of no accidents and as a final note to this blog post. After my own particular struggles and frustrations this week and my refocus on Faith I heard a Tony Robbins quote that said 

“Everything Happens for a Reason and a Purpose and it serves You”

I have consumed some incredible content this week and have ended my week on a massive high but what I also learnt. That many of the people I admire and who are massive thought leaders now went through massive struggles and dark nights of the soul and were still going through them when they started to get public acclaim but they just kept on going when the going got tough.

One person said when you go for your goal they say you are crazy and when you achieve success they say you are lucky 


They’re not crazy they have the same brain as you and there was definitely no luck involved they just kept showing up regardless what showed up on the journey for them, like an aeroplane that’s of course 98% of the time but eventually it still gets to it’s destination and so can you if you have Faith on the outcome


It might be worth mentioning since my realignment every morning I have been the first here since and the shutters have been down and I have had time to do the things I wanted to undisturbed ~ funny that 😉 

Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post I am a multi passionate person and this blog is just one facet so if you liked what read and want to see all my facets why not check out my Full Website at alisonkparsons.com (PS: There is a little Freebie over there) …. or read some of my archive blogs that might just touch your heart 💙💛 in just the right way today and ....


Have an awesomely Attractive Day 💛💙