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Sometimes I need it like a hammer on my head !!

I didn’t get it until I got this.

I’d read self-help books since the late 90’s but it wasn’t until I watched this film and read the book of the same name in 2010 I got it.

So if I got it why do I some times need a huge reminder to get it?

A long time ago I acknowledged if I saw something 3 times it was the Universe trying to get me to sit up and take notice so why oh why wasn’t I getting this message?

Plain and simple = Arrogance !!

Last week a like minded friend came round and we discussed books etc and the book “The Secret” came up. I’d recommended this book to so many people in and after 2010 when it came into my awareness but hadn’t thought or spoke of it in a long time.

I have habit of watching motivational material on YouTube and yesterday on ‘recommended’ the first thing that came up was the full length movie “The Secret”.

And today there is was again and I’d like to say it was the third time round trick that got my awareness ……. nah, in my head I was saying “I don’t need to watch that, I know all that. I’ve watched it read it years ago. I’ve moved on” but the Universe had other plans.

I swear I clicked off it to move on to another ‘Recommended’ that caught my eye however the film started playing any how and I am so glad it did.

Sometimes it seems we have to just get over our arrogance and say “Hey, why not. Let’s give this a rerun and see what it can teach us or remind us a second, third or even fourth time around”

What it the Universe trying to knock you over the head with that you are ignoring ? xx ūüôā

 

 
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Posted by on August 7, 2017 in Law of Attraction

 

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You must take the Path

What Path? The Path of Least resistance. I am living proof.

 

So my blog is titled Law of Attraction Lover and that I am and while I believe its premise I am by no means full proof or have it all sorted.

It makes sense to me that we are non-physical having a physical experience but some times the physical part of me forgets about the non-physical and panics. Fear sets in and anxiety rises in my belly however during 2017 I have witnessed (thankfully) my list of anxieties decreasing exponentially.

There were times that I read and listened to LOA material over and over again and wondered would I ever get it?

Love him or loath him and I have blogged about him several times I have been an advocate of Conor McGregor since I saw him in the Ultimate Fighter and I even blogged about the accidental event when I clicked on a youtube video of Conor discussing his practices in LOA and here is a man living proof if used correctly what can be achieved but the more Conor achieved the more I felt when I am going to get this. Am I going to get this?

This short video above explains perfectly why I wasn’t getting it. I actually listened to this video in my bedroom last Monday morning whilst getting ready for my day.

If you have read some of my posts you’ll know that I adopted a habit of someone who I admire “Ali Brown” and listened to YouTube video’s on my commute. What I haven’t got around to blogging about and why my huge absence in recent months from blogging is that I manifested a business for myself and now work from home so I have transferred my habit of YouTube in the car to YouTube in my bedroom whilst getting dressed and coiffured.

This business opportunity alone is evidence why the “Path of Least Resistance” is the only way and the most pleasurable way but thats a post for maybe another time.

Listening to this video showed me how I was blocking my own path to what I desired so last Monday while I had a couple niggles giving me slight anxiety I made the decision – “Just for today I let it all go. Stop trying to make it all happen and trust” I then became playful with my desires and as I walked around I aff’d (my way of saying I said affirmations to myself) I said thank you. Thank for …. Thank you for …… Saying thank you for my deepest desires as they were already here and what happened?

No1. My Faith in there manifestation went through the roof and No. 2 I had the most profitable day in my business (and most profitable week) since I started in March.

This created a wave of pleasure that I started ride and then other things happened.

It wasn’t stress free but when I found myself becoming anxious I was able to acknowledge “Whoa, this ain’t getting you anywhere sister” and draw back and do or think about something else.

Case in point I was working on a clients product and it wasn’t working and I had a deadline. On the second failed attempt I acknowledged my stress and took myself out of the situation and no word of a lie while I was washing at the sink a voice told me how to solve my problem and the product was completed effortlessly.

This experience stuck with me and then I was able to relax about other items near to deadline and remind myself it all we be ok. It always is.

I said earlier my reasons to be anxious have reduced dramatically and I was down to two. Both involved the same situation so on Sunday evening as I went to sleep I asked for help on these matters and the following morning a comment was made that caused a conversation that solved one of the problems effortlessly creating confidence that the other cause of anxiety would alleviate itself when the time was right and today it did so the moral of this is …. watch the video above if you haven’t already. Ask for help and then move on. Just have fun and think about things that make you happy and then you open the door to allow everything to arrive effortlessly on the Path of Least resistance.

 
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Posted by on July 26, 2017 in Law of Attraction

 

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Don’t judge, Love

 

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Like most of us I thought the world had gone crazy on November 8th 2016.

I know it wasn’t perfect before November the 8th but I was loving the way the world was moving towards more equality and more loving and just more conscious.

So when I woke up on that fateful morning I hoped I was still asleep and it was all a horrible nightmare.

Luckily around the same time I was going through a stressful personal period and know enough now in my own consciousness to use tools to assist me to get through testing times and lucky for me indirectly the material I was listening to and reading was also the perfect material to help me through the media exposure that seems impossible to avoid.

I’m not a News watcher a Newspaper reader (understanding that it is peddled to manipulate our minds into negative, fearful, hateful opinions) but I am a Facebook follower and TV watcher so it is hard to be the Ostrich¬†I try to be around negativity and to avoid even slight snippets of what is going on in the world today.

Two books I was reading were Wayne Dyer’s “You’ll See it When You Believe It” and Marianne Williamson’s “A Return to Love”. Thankfully Wayne reminded me that what we focus on expands, not dissipate. Regardless if it makes us feel good or bad and I am far from perfect ‘physically’ and have seen and heard things that feel abhorrent to me personally and causes a physical sensation in my stomach. As I said a combination of tools aimed at other areas¬†assisted me with these sensations.

And one of those is a Dr Joe Dispenza Meditation I downloaded after completing his book “Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself” and in the meditation it has an exercise to notice when a familiar unpleasant feeling reoccurs you say the word “CHANGE” so being reminded by Wayne that if I get angry at these ‘apparent’ abhorrent actions all I am doing is exasperating the situation not eliminating it I haven’t participated in many of the actions I have seen taking place around the world. Instead I mentally have been stepping back, taking a deep breath then saying “CHANGE” to the feeling in my belly and then focusing on the person or thing that ‘so called’ created the unpleasant sensation to arise and then send it or them LOVE.

Marianne explicitly explained in her book how when someone acted in her life in a way that created immense anger in her she repeatedly said she forgave them and released them to the Holy Spirit and then Marianne details how this situation played out in a highly positive effective way and just reading it created a positive feeling in me so I have implemented this in my own life and the results have created exponential changes that I have seen magnify daily.

You may have noticed that I have placed certain words in a semicolon and that is because non-physically I have been reminded we are ALL perfect and this helps when sending love to the physical version of someone I feel upsets me or created a sensation in me by their actions. Amongst all this info it advised – imagine someone as a baby if you have trouble forgiving them because babies are perfect and it is hard to think of them being imperfect or doing something abhorrent and know when I act out unloving physically I am perfect non-physically and my unloving, fearful acts are gifts to me in the sense they are highlighting areas in my physicality that I still need to work on.

Early on in this post I wrote I was going through a difficult situation personally and I know enough now that there is something wrong in my thinking somewhere that attracted this so delved in harder than normal to work on this area, fed up of creating the same patterns over and over again throughout my life.

The perfect materials have constantly turned up and continue to turn up at the perfect time for my personal life and for what is going on in the wider world and some material I have never heard before or have read but never digested the true meaning and another word I highlighted was apparent because I truly grasped the fact that everything is happening just as it should be all the time even when it feels the opposite because it is painful or uncomfortable. 

It may not make sense that something so terrible is happening but we may never know what the true purpose behind it is until a lot later if at all but how many times have we read people’s lives have changed because of a tragedy that completely changed their thinking or gave their lives true purpose or set them off on a mission to help others so other people didn’t have to suffer the same fate.

How many times have we heard those stories after positive experiences?

Taking this on board I have been able to take a step back mentally and remind myself I don’t know why this is really happening and everything is always perfect and then bless the situation.

The last two words I highlighted were ‘so called‘ because I¬†accidentally came across two new people recently and one is Marisa Peer. You may have heard of Marisa and her work but Marisa had never crossed my awareness until a week ago and have watched several video’s on YouTube and have created new daily rituals because of it and in one Marisa explains how to deal with things that people say that could hurt you and describes it as ‘letting it in’ or rather advises not to ‘let it in’. This reminded me people can’t hurt us unless we let them. We have a choice to let their actions affect us or not.

Finally the other gem I have fallen upon accidentally¬† is Christie Marie Sheldon and Christie explains how she can see energy blocks within us around various things but the things I have watched are mostly around blocks in receiving abundance. I mentioned earlier fed up of the same situations arising I decided to ‘Go hard or Go home’ on my difficult situations¬†and maybe because my desire was more amplified than ever before I have come across more assistance and I am now grateful to the situation because it highlighted areas I still needed to work on and I am informed once you truly work on an area and solve it, it can’t return so hence my new philosophy to not judge anything just LOVE it.

And in Tribute to this and the fact that I went to an excellent Exhibition at the V&A Museum in London recently called Revolution and physically saw hand written lyrics by John Lennon and Paul McCartney and suits from Sargent Pepper and the Jacket worn by John Lennon on his ‘Imagine’ promo remember –

 
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Posted by on February 2, 2017 in Just me rambling, Law of Attraction

 

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Practice Makes Perfect

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I became aware of my first ‘self-help’ book in the 90’s when a mother I used to walk with to take our kids to school gave me a copy of “Feel The Fear and Do It Anyway” by Susan Jeffers.

We’d been talking about how our Ex’s were jerks and never wanted to see their kids or support them but actually I was relieved that mine lived a long, long, long way away now as our relationship was a lot more complicated than just that.

Not knowing at that point that our thoughts attract things I was blown away that, that evening I received a call from him and not in a good way. That’s why the friend offered me the book as she thought it may help me with my situation.

This book really did help me in so many ways and I recently bought an E version just to revisit why it had such a profound effect on me. From that book I read another and another because which ever book I was reading introduced me to another author and I was addicted.

However things didn’t change all that much in some areas and if they did, not for long until something clicked in me in 2010.

Now, I had been reading about the Law of Attraction in some gauze or another for over a decade but it wasn’t until I read a book in 2010 that the light bulb went on.

Recently I started to write a book and in it I mentioned that I heard that the teacher arrives when the student is ready and the very next day I heard Wayne Dyer say exactly the same thing in a YouTube interview I was listening to between Wayne and Tony Robbins.

That was certainly the case with Feel the Fear and shortly after reading that book I became aware of Louise Hay (A Goddess in my eyes). At the time I didn’t drive, there was no Amazon or eBooks and I used to either have to go to my local book store and order books or hop on a bus and travel the 11 miles (to the town I now work in and drive to every day) to find and purchase my next big fix.

I owe it all to Louise that I can now actually drive as it was visualising using the techniques in one of Louise’s books (with a seriously pulled quad muscle the night before my driving test) that I laid on the bed, closed my eyes and saw myself perform all the moves perfectly and indeed passed first time despite my muscle going in to a massive spasm as I tried to reverse around a corner.

The bingo moment in 2010 was when I read ‘The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne and what I realised was that the majority of the time I would read a book, think I had it all sussed and then go back to my normal day and get back in to my normal thought processes that I had manufactured inadvertently over many years and then nothing changed and it all looked bad again and I’d read another book and so the Merry Go Round continued.

What ‘The Secret’ had taught me that I hadn’t managed to gather from all the other amazing authors I had read previously were saying but I wasn’t ready to hear was “Repetition, repetition, repetition, repetition, repetition ….” I think you are getting what ¬†I got.

I would read a book and move on. Move on to another or move on with normal life but I wouldn’t put any effort or ‘put any skin in’ to actually putting what I had learn’t in to practice.

I love the old adage “Nothing Changes if nothing Changes” and I was certainly that person. Now I am not perfect but I put a lot more skin in these days than I did before and so much in my life has changed. Most importantly I am nearly always happy and optimistic these days and if I am not I find and use a ‘tool’ to remind me that ‘I’ and the Universe are unlimited, all giving and abundant.

Last night I sat in my favourite restaurant with some of my favourite people, eating astounding food and feeling extortionately grateful when somehow a conversation cropped up between the other three about what a mess the world is in. I sat silent, 1) knowing that at the moment they are not in a place to hear me if I said how I feel and 2) I know otherwise. The world is what we focus on and we need to focus on what we ‘Do’ want and not what we don’t want and we have to repeat, repeat, repeat focusing on it.

That is why I have posted Louise video below _

Have an awesome weekend.

 
 

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From this day forward there are no bad days

My life has been particularly challenging of late but every day I awake with renewed vigour and tell myself today is full of miracles however another challenge rear’s its head but at the same time materials keep appearing that support me and remind me that even successful people have challenges the difference is ……….. they don’t give up.

Despite these challenges repeatedly appearing deep down inside I feel there is a purpose and the Universe has got my back.

Yesterday I felt I should be doing one thing but was drawn to doing other stuff and then it struck me if I do what I feel I should be doing rather than what I want to do the should stuff will have negative energy attached to it and I will be transmit that out into the ether so I decided to go with what attracted me in the present moment and one of those present moment thoughts was to chill in the exceptionally unusual British summer weather in the garden with a cold drink and listen to some inspirational material on YouTube.

Instinct made me choose a video I saved a few days earlier by Les Brown and while the whole video was incredible and again advising to carry on regardless or in Les’s words “It’s not over until you win”. The other thing that struck me like a sledge-hammer was next time you are having a bad day, don’t say you are having a bad day, say you are having a character building day.

So from this day forward I only have good days and character building days, so come of life bring on your challenges cos it ain’t over until I win !!!!!!!!

 

 

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I am not rubbish at it !!

I get I’ve got what I’ve got by the quality of my thoughts.

I get that if I don’t like what I’ve got, change my thoughts.

I get that you have to focus on what you do want, not what you don’t want.

I get you have to imagine already having received what you want.

I get that visualization is the key.

And I get that I am rubbish at visualising

Well I thought I was, when the Universe gave me this gift.

 

If you can visualise and orange you can visualise Everything

 

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Thank you Toilet

Thank you Toilet

Happiness is not an outside thing, it’s an inside thing.

Happiness is a choice we make regardless of our circumstances.

Whilst I sat in our car as my partner got fuel I looked up at the variety of beautiful trees opposite and their fantastic equally varied foliage flowing in the wind and I felt very relaxed and grateful. So grateful it was a trigger for me to say thank you for all the things I could think of in that moment I was grateful for.

My eyesight to see this beautiful seen and appreciate the gorgeous summers day, thank you health, thank you mobility, thank you car for enabling us to travel through beautiful countryside and picturesque towns and villages, thank you for all the beautiful people in my life and who I come into contact with and on and on and on.

Shorty after my partner got back in the car. He’s a self employed skilled trades made and had to contact a friend that he was currently helping to renovate his home to say he wouldn’t be able to make it to their house today (Saturday) and how frustrated he knew he’d be.

My partner said he would try to make it today (Saturday) after giving him a day during the working week because he got so demanding that he needed him there like, yesterday to do this job and as it was my partner was unable to do anything on arrival because another trade that was required before my partner could do his work had not completed their work so wasted journey wasted day and as it was my partner was going to try to go at the weekend but he had to complete the job he had to put on hold for his demanding friend and couldn’t see himself achieving both.

My partner began to relay how his ‘friend’ was really annoyed because he needed his toilet downstairs working.

I inquired ‘does he have another toilet?’ And he replied ‘Yes, two but he’s fed up of having to keep walking upstairs!’ – “Seriously?” I replied .

My partner continued to tell me varying tales of his attitude towards people working for him or helping him, including very close relatives. Very rude, ungrateful attitude.

I expressed my personal feeling that this person seems to have lost touch with reality and could do with getting some perspective. He is currently renovating a very large house (with three toilets) yet all he seems to be doing is focusing on the negative and moaning. He has a lot in my eyes, more than most and yet by focusing on all the negatives, what good is it doing him.

We are not wealthy in some ways (obviously I need to work on that area) but I remind myself when I think about our kitchen that is falling apart and our partly completed renovated house (with one toilet, upstairs. Maybe that’s why I am so mobile? So I am grateful I have an upstairs toilet) that I am very lucky. I have a roof over my head. Hot and cold running water. An incredible shower (in our completed bathroom, well I am lucky enough to live with a skilled tradesman in that arena).

(And by the way I seem to like brackets today) so thank you to brackets.

I live in a country that allows me as a women equal freedom to do whatever I choose (including drive, still banned for some women in certain countries along with many other things I could take for granted). I won’t be stoned for marrying a man I love or have acid thrown in my face for dishonouring my family, or be genitally mutilated as a teenager and I have the freedom to write all of the above without being beaten or raped.

As we drove home we passed through a town busy with shoppers and I spotted a young man living in a doorway. He’d be grateful for one toilet. Later after my partner went out to complete his work I took out our gorgeous car (that I have manifested which I envisioned many years ago and my colleagues mocked when I discussed the book I was reading and what is suggested to do. Such as manifest a car, well I am driving in it now baby)

I have been listening to a Jim Rohn video on the YouTube app on my mobile phone whilst commuting, something else I am grateful for. Free use of the internet and social media to access motivational material to grow my mind and in this video Jim says “Work harder of yourself than you do at your job”

The (car) job I was in was the first job I had after many years of bringing up three children. It manifested the day after I thought ‘I could get a job now.’

It wasn’t the greatest job, peeling potatoes and onions in a freezing cold environment. When I thought I would like to move on from that job to a more emotionally sound situation another job manifested. Ten years later as if by accident I have gone from peeling potatoes to very well educated in many skills and in my third managerial role.

I haven’t manifested all my dreams yet but I must have been working ok on myself with all the books etc I have read and listened too.

I digressed but what I was going to say was whilst out driving I came to a junction and waiting for a gap in the traffic I saw a man sat in a wheelchair whilst next to him was, probably his son painting a garage door and I thought after many years working within the care industry (after peeling potatoes) ‘I bet this man would like to go to the toilet with dignity and without the aid of equipment and possibly the help of another human being and our ‘friend’ feels hard done by because he has to walk upstairs to his two other toilets.

He has a gorgeous house etc etc and he his moody with a bad attitude to others and the man I gave ten pounds to in a door way the other evening who was a gift to meet and told me he was so happy because in two weeks he was moving in to his own place that he found after ten weeks living on the streets because after having to leave his last property he couldn’t find a landlord that would accept his beloved dog until now. He was the happiest person I’d met in a long time.

Proving you don’t have to be rich to be happy, proving you don’t have to have a lot to be happy and proving having a lot won’t make you happy.

It’s an inside job and it’s a choice.

There is always something to be grateful for in any given situation.

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Posted by on June 14, 2014 in Just me rambling, Uncategorized

 

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