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Don’t judge, Love

 

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Like most of us I thought the world had gone crazy on November 8th 2016.

I know it wasn’t perfect before November the 8th but I was loving the way the world was moving towards more equality and more loving and just more conscious.

So when I woke up on that fateful morning I hoped I was still asleep and it was all a horrible nightmare.

Luckily around the same time I was going through a stressful personal period and know enough now in my own consciousness to use tools to assist me to get through testing times and lucky for me indirectly the material I was listening to and reading was also the perfect material to help me through the media exposure that seems impossible to avoid.

I’m not a News watcher a Newspaper reader (understanding that it is peddled to manipulate our minds into negative, fearful, hateful opinions) but I am a Facebook follower and TV watcher so it is hard to be the Ostrich I try to be around negativity and to avoid even slight snippets of what is going on in the world today.

Two books I was reading were Wayne Dyer’s “You’ll See it When You Believe It” and Marianne Williamson’s “A Return to Love”. Thankfully Wayne reminded me that what we focus on expands, not dissipate. Regardless if it makes us feel good or bad and I am far from perfect ‘physically’ and have seen and heard things that feel abhorrent to me personally and causes a physical sensation in my stomach. As I said a combination of tools aimed at other areas assisted me with these sensations.

And one of those is a Dr Joe Dispenza Meditation I downloaded after completing his book “Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself” and in the meditation it has an exercise to notice when a familiar unpleasant feeling reoccurs you say the word “CHANGE” so being reminded by Wayne that if I get angry at these ‘apparent’ abhorrent actions all I am doing is exasperating the situation not eliminating it I haven’t participated in many of the actions I have seen taking place around the world. Instead I mentally have been stepping back, taking a deep breath then saying “CHANGE” to the feeling in my belly and then focusing on the person or thing that ‘so called’ created the unpleasant sensation to arise and then send it or them LOVE.

Marianne explicitly explained in her book how when someone acted in her life in a way that created immense anger in her she repeatedly said she forgave them and released them to the Holy Spirit and then Marianne details how this situation played out in a highly positive effective way and just reading it created a positive feeling in me so I have implemented this in my own life and the results have created exponential changes that I have seen magnify daily.

You may have noticed that I have placed certain words in a semicolon and that is because non-physically I have been reminded we are ALL perfect and this helps when sending love to the physical version of someone I feel upsets me or created a sensation in me by their actions. Amongst all this info it advised – imagine someone as a baby if you have trouble forgiving them because babies are perfect and it is hard to think of them being imperfect or doing something abhorrent and know when I act out unloving physically I am perfect non-physically and my unloving, fearful acts are gifts to me in the sense they are highlighting areas in my physicality that I still need to work on.

Early on in this post I wrote I was going through a difficult situation personally and I know enough now that there is something wrong in my thinking somewhere that attracted this so delved in harder than normal to work on this area, fed up of creating the same patterns over and over again throughout my life.

The perfect materials have constantly turned up and continue to turn up at the perfect time for my personal life and for what is going on in the wider world and some material I have never heard before or have read but never digested the true meaning and another word I highlighted was apparent because I truly grasped the fact that everything is happening just as it should be all the time even when it feels the opposite because it is painful or uncomfortable. 

It may not make sense that something so terrible is happening but we may never know what the true purpose behind it is until a lot later if at all but how many times have we read people’s lives have changed because of a tragedy that completely changed their thinking or gave their lives true purpose or set them off on a mission to help others so other people didn’t have to suffer the same fate.

How many times have we heard those stories after positive experiences?

Taking this on board I have been able to take a step back mentally and remind myself I don’t know why this is really happening and everything is always perfect and then bless the situation.

The last two words I highlighted were ‘so called‘ because I accidentally came across two new people recently and one is Marisa Peer. You may have heard of Marisa and her work but Marisa had never crossed my awareness until a week ago and have watched several video’s on YouTube and have created new daily rituals because of it and in one Marisa explains how to deal with things that people say that could hurt you and describes it as ‘letting it in’ or rather advises not to ‘let it in’. This reminded me people can’t hurt us unless we let them. We have a choice to let their actions affect us or not.

Finally the other gem I have fallen upon accidentally  is Christie Marie Sheldon and Christie explains how she can see energy blocks within us around various things but the things I have watched are mostly around blocks in receiving abundance. I mentioned earlier fed up of the same situations arising I decided to ‘Go hard or Go home’ on my difficult situations and maybe because my desire was more amplified than ever before I have come across more assistance and I am now grateful to the situation because it highlighted areas I still needed to work on and I am informed once you truly work on an area and solve it, it can’t return so hence my new philosophy to not judge anything just LOVE it.

And in Tribute to this and the fact that I went to an excellent Exhibition at the V&A Museum in London recently called Revolution and physically saw hand written lyrics by John Lennon and Paul McCartney and suits from Sargent Pepper and the Jacket worn by John Lennon on his ‘Imagine’ promo remember –

 
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Posted by on February 2, 2017 in Just me rambling, Law of Attraction

 

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Approval Not required

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I saw this picture on Facebook asking for people to make a comment.

I loved my internal instinctive response.

“I don’t care what people thought”

How liberating is that?

I have to admit I haven’t always felt that way and contribute my response to my love of the Law of Attraction and desire to always learn and self expand otherwise I may have jumped in there and subjected myself to the self-torture.

Talking of self-torture, I cannot be alone can I? In my lack of interest in TV Programs like Master Chef and the Great British Bake off to name a few can I?

You may not be familiar with Bake off but Master Chef is pretty well spread (pardon the pun) I believe because even in passing I am aware there is a Australian and American version.

Why I cannot partake in this viewing frenzy is because it would be painful for me to watch people cook or bake or paint or draw or sew or a plethora of other tasks and see them stand there agonising while they await the approval (or non-approval) from another human being (not God) to tell them if their efforts are good enough.

Why traumatise your self for another persons opinion? And that is all it is an opinion or more to the point. A perception.

While one person may think their cake is the best thing they have ever tasted since sliced bread the other doesn’t like it because they are not a fan of oranges,

All day every day we are perceiving things we see, hear, touch or taste and there could be a hundred different people hearing or seeing the same thing and have a hundred different perceptions so why do we seek approval? Or more importantly why should we?

Everything we do should be an inside out job not an outside in.

I know there are many, many, many more sad situations in the world than this one but one of the saddest things I every saw was when I watched a program about an Art Gallery here in the UK. Now I love all things Art so I tuned in and the program was about submitting Art to the Royal Academy Summer show and it featured a few people and followed their journey as they prepared and submitted their works and awaited the email/letter that spelt joy or pain.

One man to my perception produced beautiful work and had submitted year after year without success and until the Academia’s approved his submission he could not or would not see himself as an actual artist. To me that was heart breaking. What a waste of potential or possibilities.

Now I originally started this post last week when the beautiful Dr Wayne W. Dyer was still alive and I actually was inspired to start this WordPress account and my blog whilst reading one of Wayne’s incredible books on a coach back from London after being in Tate Britain all day and viewing J. M. W Turner’s paintings who is and is classed as, one of the worlds best artists and was once laughed at and ridiculed when his work was first displayed in the RA and it was reading in this book about how Wayne was handed a book by his uncle just before he went into the army and Wayne learnt about the life of Ivan Ilyich who on his death-bed asked his wife (who he spent his life despising and resenting) “What if my whole life has been wrong?”

In that same book Wayne said “don’t die with your music still in you” and that was he clincher. I had been writing practically daily but to scared to put it out there in the world for fear of reprisal and ridicule but after reading that I didn’t want to be an Ivan either.

So please in honour of the gorgeous soul that is Wayne Dyer don’t worry what any one else thinks and don’t die with your music still in you.

 
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Posted by on September 5, 2015 in Law of Attraction

 

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My First Abstract

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Art is singing out stronger than writing at the moment. I was thinking about my first abstract and talking to my partner about it but he couldn’t remember it.

I felt sad that I had no record of it as produced it in 1998 and has long since been sold and long before the type of digital media we have today. Then yesterday I was sorting through all my art materials as my daughter has given me the privileged task of designing her wedding dress and for me to work I have to be organised.

Talking of old and new as I thumbed through old sketch books I found some fond felt sketches and instinct said photograph them with my iPad and upload them to my social media sites.

A long time ago I created a Facebook page called Ali P Positive Art but sadly admit have not contributed to it for a very long time but again instinct kicked in and said upload my pictures to their after all it is an art based social media page.

So obligingly I did and the little voice is strong today for it said “Luke I am your father” no it said look in previous work you have uploaded so I did and there was a picture of my first abstract and I still have no idea how it got there (“Hello LOA”) but now I Am Happy not sad.

 
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Posted by on June 1, 2014 in Just me rambling, Uncategorized

 

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Big Cry Baby !!

 

 

Today has not been a comfortable day to go through and I have been doing my darndest to stay positive or look for the gifts wrapped in Sandpaper (as Lisa Nichols) would call them.

I work with a couple of people who are not pleasant (down right devious, there I’ve said it amongst other things) and appear to be made of Teflon.

Yesterday I copied something I saw online and aimed to put it into practice but today it was hard (Am I being tested?)

When you can look beneath their behavior that hurt you and you can see the frightened child – it becomes nearly impossible to be angry and carry a grudge.

I do have a little light on the horizon and I am playing all secret squirrel about it at the moment but I Am only in the first steps of setting it up, not in a position to say ‘Whatever, I’m out of here’ YET !!

Because of this I felt is it really worth looking for another job then I remembered listening to a Wayne Dyer video on YouTube the other day and Wayne explained how he admitted being anxious and humbled about doing a public television presentation and then he said he just released it as said “God Guide me”.

This part of the presentation came back into my mind when I was asking myself do I stay or do I go and I too said “God guide me” then immediately said Thank You – ask and it is given remember.

As I planned to leave for the day something held me up and I quickly went into an office to see a friendly colleague. These extra few unplanned minutes meant that I then excited the building at the very moment one of the Teflon people were un-incriminating themselves by incriminating me. I know I have nothing to worry about because judging what I heard I have the documentation to back myself up but it’s just so energy draining having to do so unnecessarily and then it hit me. Was I meant to see this? Is the thought and words ‘Energy Draining’ the message I needed to say time for a fresh start?

When I got home I decided my plan was to follow my instincts and find the best feeling thought and another and another to raise my energy.

I read recently by several authors all at once that whatever happens you owe it to yourself to look for the best feeling thought in any situationto keep your energy high. The Universe can’t bring miracles to you if your energy is low. I also remembered to remember we never know what the plan is so trust that this is all happening for a reason. That thought instantly made me feel better.

The next instinctive thought was to have a cup of coffee and some fruit and download some meditation apps I seen recommended in a magazine. Suitably calmed the next thought was to play the rest of the ‘Sex in The City’ episode that I recorded as we were leaving the house the other day. Now I have nothing against ‘Sex in The City’ but I have never been an avid follower but something made me decide to record the rest of the episode that just came on the TV as I was getting ready.

At the end it was all lovely and happy ending’s all round, Big came to Paris to find Carrie (get to see land marks of my two favorite cities, bonus all round) and then at the end instead of the normal sound track they played “You’ve got the Love” by ‘The Source’ Ft Candi Staton. I LOVE this track and have turned to it in the car on many occasions in the long and distant past but for some reason when I heard the first few lyrics I just burst into tears, uncontrollable tears but it wasn’t tears of sadness, it felt Goooooooddd !! A Source (boom boom) of release.

And so apt a song when earlier I had asked “God guide me !!

 
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Posted by on February 5, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

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Other peoples LOA is Buzzy – Part 2

Just randomly thinking while a passenger on the way to the hairdressers of how it seems that most people around people who have a dream or goal don’t support that person and this strong feeling came over me and from inside this voice said “I WILLLLLLLLLL !!! succeed”. Then I realised I was thinking about a scene from Anchorman “I have a dream that burns deep inside me like a great golden eagle and Veronica says “I too have that dream” and Ron mocks her.

“The ladies can do stuff now and your going to have to learn how to deal with that”

My hairdresser is the only person I know who had a dream and actually took the risk to follow that dream because it seems as Ali Brown described ‘it just became to difficult to stay where he was’ and over the years I’ve known him I have built a relationship that he is someone I can openly discuss stuff and know he won’t mock and will support and encourages, he even brainstorms on my behalf becoming animated by other people who want to step out of the hum drum.

Today he mentioned that his girlfriend noticed that my daughter is connected to someone on Facebook that was featured on a recent TV program recently, something to do with cosmetics and asked isn’t that what my daughter is interested in?

This opened up a conversation about my daughters goals and my own steps I had been taking and my hairdresser explained about a business question he had been pondering on and how he mentioned it to a client recently and the client explained some options to him that neither his accountant or bank had proposed but when faced with these options both agreed that these were actions he could take and it was wonderful to see how inspired this was making him, ready for his next step. Another story he explained was a lady client was talking about her husband hating his job but not knowing what else to do because he thought he had only one skill set. My hairdresser asked what is he interested in and she said he loves anything to do with bikes. Well there you go then, why doesn’t he open a bike shop?  Actually there’s a bike shop down the road for sale. He said he saw the same client recently and her husband did in fact buy the bike shop and she said he’s happier than he’s been in years.

I told him that when Steve Jobs died I saw a picture that really struck me and I have kept it ever since. When we have a question whether we articulate it or not we have asked. If we believe it or not we are creating our realities via The Law of Attraction so the real question should be are we going to ASK randomly and haphazardly and subconsciously or are we going to ASK deliberately, specifically and with focus.

After the hairdressers we were going Christmas Shopping and decided to use a different city than we usually use and as we dropped down a hill, turned left ready to go up another hill something inside me made me look left and there in front of me was the Bike Shop and smiled to myself. I love how the Universe works and other people’s LOA is always so buzzy !!

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Posted by on December 15, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

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Flat Liner

Decided to read an article about Paul Potts in a magazine . They asked him who his inspiration is and he said Maya Angelou. There was a picture of her in an inset, she appeared familiar but I wasn’t aware of her or her work.

Shortly after I was scrolling through Facebook and saw this

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I have never seen a post by her before, I just read an article where she was mentioned and minutes later the above appears.

This week has been a flat liner in the form of motivation and inspiration. I have been strong in the face of adversity and faithful to my beliefs when mocked but it’s been pretty uneventful. Maybe I Am crazy but I felt this coincidence was a message from the Universe saying “I know not much is happening but remember, I Am always here even when you think I’ve forgotten you”

 

 
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Posted by on November 11, 2013 in Uncategorized

 

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