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Questions Questions Questions

 

When I read Sir Richards Bransons book “Screw it Lets Do it” I quickly saw that he and people like him, Bill Gates for example didn’t have all the answers when they embarked on something but that didn’t stop them. They new they could get the answers and learn a long the way.

 
My story is I used to be in Management. Several different Management Roles and I loved learning new material. I loved growing and being a better version of me to help support people to be the best that they could be but when I left the last Role I could not face Leading any more.
 
Not because of the people I Led. They were awesome and some of you maybe reading this and I am not just blowing smoke for that reason. I am honoured to have you as Friends (there is always something positive that comes out of a negative situation). 💕
 
There were several reasons I left but it was usually wrapped up in a lack of integrity on someones part, unprofessionalism, deceitfulness, lack of empathy, even cruelty.
 
I used to ask myself “What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I find a Job I was happy in? 🙄
 
Were my expectations to high, are my standards to high, unrealistic, to picky” etc etc. 🤔
 
I always tried to dumb down, lower my standards, settle, accept the situation “That’s just how life is” and I always thought it was something was wrong with me. 🙁
 
I was always like the loyal dog you kicked and came back because I was scared. Scared of how I was going to pay my bills etc.
 
But eventually I could not suppress those feelings in my gut and the Universe conspired to get me out.
 
Somewhere a long the way I adopted a standard that if someone asked me a question and I didn’t know the answer I would tell them, if I didn’t know I would find out the answer and get back to them or ask someone else or point them in the direction of support.
 
I always told Trainees/Inductees questions are good. We only know what we know and the only way to know more is ask however I was in a role where it was advised to me not to admit if I didn’t know something as that would cause my Team not to have confidence and Faith in me and they wouldn’t be able to respect me.
 
This went against everything I felt to be right for me because to pretend to know something I didn’t know would be lying and honesty is the most important quality to me.
 
But like the loyal dog I did try to act that way and I felt sick to my stomach and found it difficult to look my Team in the eye.
 
Another thing that made me sick to the stomach (same role) was when I went into that Role I had become a bit gobby and would speak honestly in 121 situations etc and point out when I felt it said one thing on the tin but in reality it wasn’t quite like that (to say the least) one such situation “Equality” I loved the quote about treating the Janitor and the CEO equally but I was warned when I went into the Role by a peer myself and my Team maybe treated as lesser mortals by certain members of staff and unfortunately this was the case so I pointed it out and was given lip service so I kept pointing it out because I felt it was wrong to see people treated disrespectfully and eventually I was told that myself and my Team (and I even hate using the terminology Team because we were/are all equal in my eyes) would have to accept that we would have to be a “little” subservient in our position.
 
It was so hard looking my colleagues in the Face being told this information and I couldn’t/shouldn’t share it with them and that was the day I lost all respect for that Line Manager and I was just going through the motions from that moment on and I felt guilty because I felt I should always earn a salary for a good job done.
 
Thankfully I wasn’t wrong to be true to my beliefs, its OK to have High standards and good honest morals and I am now my own business owner, my own boss but at the same time I have an incredible network of people who I can call on at any time, who only want the best for me and build me up and constantly tell us ALL that are connected to the company not to be afraid to ask questions. Yay !!! 🙂 🙂 🙂
 
For months I have been utilising the resources, watching and listening to the Trainings video’s to be able to be the most knowledgeable, best support system I can to anyone who approaches me for information about being Their own Boss and running Their own business and then it struck me. I was watching the videos etc but I didn’t appreciate the effect that comment of not admitting you don’t know something had on me.
 
It was paralysing me from actually putting myself out there to truly be able to help people because that is all I want to do. Help people be the best they can be and live the life they desire and I know now the opportunity to do that is possible through this incredible business.
 
Because of this amazing network of people I am ready to help people be Their own Boss and build Their own businesses NOW because “It Is OK” to ask questions again, so if I don’t know I know I can get them the information or support they need and point them towards the right resources.
 
Jim Rohn says “Work harder on yourself than you work on your job”
 
I believe if you work on yourself with and your passion even as a side hustle that will eventually replace your job and you will eventually be earning a full time income #doingwhatyoulove and #lovingwhatyoudo
 
I hope you, who ever you are reading this just takes the step in some shape or form to follow your passion and work the rest out on your journey and remember you are never alone.
 
Got a question – Ask away Baby
 
#alip #loalover #lawofattractionlover #dowhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudo #richardbranson #screwitjustdoit 
 
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Posted by on August 24, 2018 in Uncategorized

 

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Happy Entrepreneurs Day

Happy Entrepreneurs Day 🙂

A Big shout out to the all the people that stepped out of their comfort zones and told themselves they were worth a different life.

As the quote says “You can spend your life building your dream or your can spend your life building someone else’s”

Tony Robins says Success Leaves Clues and today more than ever those clues are so accessible via the internet etc.

You can watch that YouTube tutorial, start that online course, listen to that audio book while you commute etc. Or as Tim Ferris suggests email that person you admire and ask them questions.

There is never a perfect time so why not start today and this time next year who knows where you will be.

Like Lao Tzu says “The Journey of a Thousand miles starts with one step” Take that step today and look for those clues 🙂

#alip #loalover #lawofattractionlover #lawofattraction

# entrepreneur #entrepreneursday

#tonyrobbins #successleavesclues

#laotzu

#timferris

 
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Posted by on August 21, 2018 in Uncategorized

 

Make Goals not Resolutions

On the 10th of April 2016 inspired by Bob Proctor I made 2 Goal Cards from simple badge laminates I bought from Ebay and some pictures I made by using a simple phone app and put them in my purse to read them often.

April 11th 2016 around 07:30am I slipped carrying out a simple household chore and broke my leg in 3 places meaning I was laid up and had to miss my daughters Wedding and Dream Holiday all rolled into one as I needed an operation and couldn’t fly.

I refused to be beaten but didn’t read my goal cards frequently as I wasn’t accessing my purse very often but fast forward to 2017.

Despite my haphazard approach to reading my goal cards or carrying out anything with detailed consistency the Universe Conspired and much of what was on those goal cards manifested and what hasn’t completely manifested is already in the pipeline for 2018 amongst many things that weren’t written on goal cards but in my daily affirmations and my “My definiteness of persistent purpose” statement that I also didn’t do/read on a consistent basis but has given me the best year of my life to date and more vigour and excitement for the year ahead than I have ever had previously.

My point being. If I could create all this without consistent effort. Imagine what I could achieve if I really truly focused so that is why I gifted myself a Christmas present of a goal setting session with a brilliant Mindset Coach and friend Rebecca Adams from rebeccaadamsbiz.com which in itself set up potential fulfilment of more goals by default.

So lets not pussy foot around with 2018. Lets not set namby pamby resolutions. Let’s take ownership of 2018 and claim it as ours and set definite goals we WILL achieve.

Hears to a fantastic future and an Awesome New Year.

Much Love and over an out for 2017 and see you in the most exceptional year of your life 😉

 
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Posted by on December 30, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

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The only New Year’s resolution that really matters

Before you embark on any New Years Resolution read this. Particularly story 3. Living proof that it is Mindset over Matter !!

Pam Grout

“We physicians and scientists have nothing to lose by a reexamination of fundamental assumptions of our models of health: on the contrary, we face the extraordinary possibility of fashioning a system that emphasizes life instead of death, and unity and oneness instead of fragmentation, darkness and isolation. –Larry Dossey, M.D.
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According to the Wall Street Journal, 132 million Americans (that’s 41 percent) will make a New Year’s resolution. A good quarter of those potentially life-changing commitments will have something to do with diet and health.

But here’s the rub—most of what we know about diet and health is incorrect. It’s a series of beliefs that we’ve all agreed upon and therefore reproduce in physical reality. These beliefs about our physicality are placeholders until we can, as Dr. Dossey suggests, fashion a new system.

Which is why I’m going to tell you three stories that not only defy our beliefs…

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Posted by on December 30, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

Thank you Louise Hay for all that you have given me x

I did try to find a blog post I did that included this video to re-share as a tribute to Louise Hay but it doesn’t want to be found so this is a new post and an opportunity to say Good Bye from this earthly plane to a woman that inspired me so much and changed my life for the better.

Louise was my go to lady for so many situations, positive negative (definitely negative), health wise and inspirationally.

I used Louise’s book to help visualising me passing my driving test. I referred to her books when I had pain to establish what it was telling me and the youtube video  belowI listened to over and over again via the youtube app on my phone while I drove to a job I hated to inspire to attract the life I desired but what inspired me the most and kept me going when times were hard was the age Louise was when she started her publishing house because I haven’t reached that age yet so anything is possible for me.

I am grateful that while you are physically gone Dear Louise we have the technology today to access your wisdom anywhere at any time.

 

 
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Posted by on September 1, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

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Bless the blessing

I had a habit of listening to inspiring information on my commute to work that I adopted from Ali Brown and made 21st century as Ali’s version was listening to Anthony Robbins cassettes via a walkman on the subway and mine was listening to YouTube video’s via the app on my smart phone.

Now that I work from home I am still listening to inspiring video’s but on my smart TV whilst dressing in the morning and this was one I was listening to the other day.

I love anything Michael. His voice is like hot chocolate sauce on your soul but this video I especially loved and it had an exercise in it that I stopped what I was doing to practice it. In the exercise your are asking questions of what the Universe is trying to express through you and my answers were as follows.

1. Love everyone 

2. Practice tolerance 

3. Bless everyone and everything that tests that tolerance 

So every time I found myself making a judgement of any one or thing, however simple in my head and sometimes verbally I would say “Bless you”. Bless you, bless you, bless you, bless you.

Ok it did feel a little forced but it also helped me a) feel better and b) highlight how many judgements I make randomly without even realising it when I already think I am a loving, tolerant person.

What instigated this blog post was that in light of recent events I was finding a neighbour challenging. They have been knocking on my door daily as they are chasing the status of replacement item for their house.

My partner is a self employed trades person and our neighbour has adopted him as their personal handyman and knocked at our door randomly late on Sunday evening explaining that an item in their home has a slightly rusty fitting. It’s not broken, they just want it replaced for aesthetic reasons but they keep knocking everyday asking if he has sourced the part and when he is going to fit it.

I keep telling them that he is very busy and he is working daily away from town and when he returns the merchants is closed but he is trying his best but it falls on death ears and to them their whole world appears to revolving around this item and they keep knocking very anxiously.

They are not a client, he never asked to be their self appointed handyman but that doesn’t stop them acting like they are his number one priority yesterday when they knocked and I watched them walk away and then turned to reenter my home slightly bewildered that people have been mercilessly killed and families have lost loved ones and to my neighbour this is their number one priority in the world I found myself saying “Bless Her!”

I stopped in my tracks. I just blessed her subconsciously and didn’t have to remember or force myself to say it. It just happened naturally.

I liked that it came naturally. I like that appears to be becoming a habit and then I wondered is this situation the Universe testing me and my ability to be more tolerant and loving?

If this is the case the Universe also likes to joke as the same person that I am writing about just knocked on my door at 08:30am in the morning to ask if my partner is coming to fit the item tonight and I tried to tell them he is working very later tonight and can’t see them fitting it as when they finally get home they will feel done in and ready for their evening meal but they have asked to take my number so they can call me later to check just in case he is coming to fit it they will make sure they are home. Instead of getting frustrated I smiled and guess what ….. I blessed her.

Blessing people feels so much better in my soul than getting annoyed.

I felt compelled to pick up a Dr Wayne Dyer book up the other day and read it randomly (but there is no random in the Universe) and what I read was astounding but that is another blog post but it reminds us what loving people can do to the world and what being negative does to us. So I am blessing the blessing.

Have a great day guys 🙂

 

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One Love

One Love

This is not really a Law of Attraction story but one I felt compelled to write it.

Over the Island unit in the am before we went off to our prospective vocations yesterday my partner asks what a piece of post was. I explained it was just junk mail that I get since turning 50 last year. My slightly younger partner grins and says “oh yeah”.

I suggest he gets his smirk off his face and tell him I don’t understand why they are sending me this stuff as I am going to live until at least 100. A perfectly achievable target according to current statistics.

Shocked, he replies “You honestly want to live until you are 100?”

“Hell yeah. I want to see where technology takes us!”

He mumbled how he didn’t want to live in this terrible world where people are killing people left, right and centre and without hesitation I relied “The worst of people brings out the best in people”

On the day of the Ariana Grande benefit concert in Manchester I have watched more scenes of humanity and unity than I have devide in recent days and enlight of last nights incidents I am positive will see more incredible acts of kindness to evidence that basically we are loving beings.

 
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Posted by on June 4, 2017 in Uncategorized

 
 
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