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Ok ! I admit it. I’m a fraud

Yep, I admit it …. I’m a fraud !!


Disclaimer: before I go any further I am not trying to recruit you


I am just expressing something that I felt inspired to express that may help you the reader but it does discuss in part network marketing something that I am part of and believe has amazing potentiality but yes I admit it has its flaws (usually the people who act inappropriately and give it a bad name but those dudes are in all walks of life right) so can have a preconceived bad reputation


So I am taking part in something called a 90 day run at the moment and we are being asked to carry out some tasks that are completely against what I stand for and what I don’t like about the industry and I feel are outmoded but Inspired Action caused me to join and one of my invested mentors Marie Forleo asked that we be open and NOT say “Hey I know this already” and because I knew I was closing myself off to what I felt uncomfortable about I was in actuality doing exactly that


closing myself off and saying I know this already when there could be something massive there for me but I am here to tell you now


I’m a freud


because as well as being open to the challenge we are suggested to just do what the Leader of the Challenge says


Ahh but I know in my soul that may not be the case with me


so I am a freud


A freud to being open and a freud to the challenge


Or am I


As well as being open we are not sheep and we are entitled to have discernment


Why


because we are all infinite beings with infinite soul missions so we can’t all fit into one box


All trying to do the same thing because “Simon says” is denying our true purpose


It is not coming from Zero


What is Zero


In Ho’oponopono we are taught there are three levels of state or consciousness


Consciousness

Subconscious

And Superconscious


Subconsciousness is where we store all our memories (data) and they are like records playing over and over again whispering were are not worthy, capable, strong enough etc etc etc. It is what creates our fears and doubts,  anxiety


but it is just memories playing on a loop


It is not real but it is a “Reel”


Our job if any, is to get clear or clean of these memories and get back to our superconsciousness or Zero where we are clear, perfect, our true selves and have access to unlimited possibilities


How does hearing having unlimited possibilities sound to you instead of playing old fearful memories of doubt and insecurities


Sounds amazing right !!!


Now who wants to get clean ????


In a minute I’ll give you a couple tips how to start but first I’ll tell you something miraculous about coming from or being at Zero


From that state without being encomboarded by our memories our soul has an opportunity to speak to us


To whisper inspiration in to our minds


That tell us what action step to take next


Tells us what is right for us and what action steps do not align with our true being


Discernment


Why do I tell you this and what does it have to do with a 90 day challenge and being a freud


Honestly when I heard about the 90 Day challenge I had fallen in to anxiety and overwhelm from something as simple as the Festive Season


Those few days had taken me out of my usual patterns and I felt lost and not sure which way to go


Totally unexpected ūüėĪ


I had spent a fantastic few days with my partner using the time to clear our house of clutter and in a way take our house back to zero which I feel intuitively is creating a vacuum for something I was desiring to manifest


And I went with the flow and enjoyed the process but at the same time when I went back to my normal daily routine or tried to those few days were enough to knock me off course and allow the subconscious fear based memories creep in and cloud my judgement




Thanks to Ho’oponopono I started trying to drown out the noise in my head and practice simple Ho’oponopono techniques and initially it can be a battle with the two states and we have to use the third state, the conscious mind to focus on the and carrying out the practices especially when the data mind seems louder and there is no evidence of being at zero


but Zero is always there


always with us


the key is no expectations


Just practice and try to listen to the voice of inspiration and I saw a post about an opportunity to join a 90 day challenge group from another Leader that was not my upline and something in me from zero sent and inspired action step to comment on the post


shortly after I received a message from the said Leader


Now I am in it I am catching up on all the videos being accountable and turning up or the trainings as much as Possible and taking notes on the actions steps to be followed


but honestly I will not be a sheep


I will be open and present and I have got some gold already that I wouldn’t have got if I hadn’t been open to join by saying I know this already and it is not my cup of tea and I will probably try some things that I am not a fan of purely for being open to new opportunities because I trust that Inspired Action nudged me to join


When I was taking my Ho’oponopono training the Trainer Joe Vitale said go to zero as often as possible and then follow those nudges however crazy they seem


I call this Inspired Action and following inspired action after reading the book The Secret coincidently where I came across Joe is what changed my life


And I am currently studying and reading Mabel Katz books that I came across via my ho’oponopono training and when I woke on New years day with an overwhelming sense of fear and dread and tooks some deep Ho’oponopono breaths and then laid quietly and tuned in and asked for guidance and the Universe spoke to me from the whiteboard and said listen to Mabel’s audiobook “The Easiest Way: Solve Your Problems and Take the Road to Love, Happiness, Wealth and the Life of Your Dreams”


While walking around physically clearing house with my partner unbeknown to him I had one ear bud in with my phone in my pocket and I was listening to Mabel over and over again for hours, days in fact and I still am but a different book now and that’s where I got the tips I am about to share with you that I used to quiet the chatter in my head and yesterday the 7th of January just as Mabel advised if we do this I had a major breakthrough and feel like the clouds have broken and sunlight has come flooding through and along with that I feel like a funnel again and Divine Downloads and ideas are like, the sunshine flooding through and I literally am writing this at 5 am after being awake since 1am noting down whatever is coming through


I am not saying it will work as quickly as this for you but what I would advise as Mabel was encouraged to do as she speaks about in the book I am currently reading is “release expectations”


Expectations raise fear and anxiety


Read on if you want to know what those tips are:


One of those downloads was the title I am a Freud


I may feel a bit of a freud because I have joined the challenge but know deep down I will not carrying out all the tasks to letter if at all and it may be that some will be a springboard to do the opposite or validate my reasoning why I feel some of the techniques while I am sure will work for some are outmoded because they come at a price and don’t resonate with my personal philosophy that hard work is bullshit and not necessary especially if you follow the Ho’oponopono ways and in that way it may seem inauthentic so I am a freud to the process


But I reiterate we are not sheep


We are Infinite Beings with Unlimited potentiality and only acting out in one way is stifling¬† that gift but I am not saying there are not gifts in the challenge so I am remaining open practicing zero and acting on inspired action and oh yeah documenting the findings in another Inspired Idea I had to write a book in 2022 following my progress and logging my results of aiming to stay present and detached aiming to minimise expectations and not setting goals so I can share with others my findings on that journey and show what is possible with Ho’oponopono


Talking of which those Ho’oponopono tips


In Ho’oponopono there is a Ho’oponopono Prayer that goes “I’m sorry please forgive me thank you I love you” as pictured above so feel free to save the photo and or save it as a screensaver so you can see it often and repeat it to clear you own house

When we say I’m sorry please forgive me we are taking full responsibility for what is in us subconsciously, those old memories playing on repeat and to forgive ourselves for not knowing they were playing and therefore creating the less desired outcomes in our lives


Sidenote: This does not mean guilt of Any, any kind !! See below ….


In my 5 step Program The G.R.E.A.T formula‚ĄĘÔłŹ created before my Ho’oponopono certification I talk of my love of Responsibility and is what the ‘R’ stands for because I believe when we take responsibility it gives us the power to take control back for our life and not be a victim where no power exists


By saying this we are clearing and cleaning those memories and saying “No more!!”


For me Thank You I love You is thank you to that uncomfortable situation like my anxiety over the festive season for showing me I still have some old memory data playing that I still need to clear and I love you because cleaning this gives me the opportunity to  get closer to Zero and a more peaceful abundant life


Years ago I read a book by my hero Wayne Dyer and in it he used the phrase “Let go and let God” if anyone was the eptimany of Ho’oponopono practices of detachment and no expectations it was Wayne and I always found by using this phrase I found peace even though I am not religious


I see God as the creator of all things with no denominations


It is the creator that makes trees grow and winds blow and our heart beating and our lungs breathing while we sleep and in Mabel’s books she uses Let Go and Let God and and Let go and Trust


and when I felt really overwhelmed I kept repeating the Ho’oponopono Prayer and “I let go and trust I let go and let God”


Above I mentioned the Whiteboard this was something Dr Hew Len who is featured in the Training I did and who was also Mabel’s Trainer and who Mabel took over from when he retired mentions and I love the analogy and I won’t discuss it here but by letting go and surrendering I feel I am allowing myself to access the possibilities of the whiteboard


All things far greater for Me than I could ever anticipate


Let me know in the comments if you have set your sights on a goal or set an intention after learning about The Law of Attraction and it hasn’t manifested and you have felt yucky and then when you least expect it something far more miraculous than you could have ever anticipated shows up effortlessly after a weird series of events or synchronicities ?


That’s what can happen when you remain open, coming from Zero and why I am not a fan of hard work trying to manufacture outcomes that are limited compared to what the Universe has in store for us


I hope these words help you when the subconscious try to take the wheel


Even just repeating thank you over and over again or thank you I love you will have a profound effect


The First and to me the most important part of The G.R.E.A.T Formula‚ĄĘÔłŹ is ‘G’ for Gratitude and there are scientific studies now advocating the benefits of Gratitude which coincidentally was the first Inspired Action step I took in 2010 when I read The Secret


Write 3 things I am grateful for first thing in the morning in a journal


It is so profound it was even mentioned in Grays Anatomy the other day and I love how Life has Transformed since I started my Law of Attraction journey in 2010 because of The Secret and was afraid to discuss openly my love of LOA to where such things are spoken about openly and advocated by social media influencers movie stars , musicians and Oprah


Let me know in the comments you successes and even non-success stories in the comments and I would love to share the success stories on my blog and help the people didn’t achieve the success they desired


I have just had another Inspired¬† Action idea …..


With Your permission these could be featured in my 2 books I am currently working on. The one I am mentioned earlier as I document my surrender goalless journey in 2022 and another book about The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono


If you want to share your stories with me and they maybe to private or to long for the comments and or want to be featured in the books drop me and email by clicking on mywakeuphappy.com

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I’m the happiest penguin ever

Normally when I go to London I quite happily accept that the London way is bustle, bustle, push and push, especially on Tubes.

I was there this week and I have to admit it was slightly disconcerting at 08:30 in the morning after just arriving as you are getting off a tube and heading towards an escalator and hundreds off people were heading towards you coming off of escalators like a rampaging bull – Mumma !!!

With plenty of time I stood to one side and all was well, I wasn’t stampeded.

The following morning and my last day in London I waited patiently like I normally do and observed when even a short women desperately trying to get her child to school pushed passed my place in the tube ticket terminal queue by lifting my arm up and forcing her child through followed by herself and never even acknowledged my presence. Guess that’s how it has to be every day to get on with your day the London way, or is it.

Later that day I was more on deadline myself to get to on two different tubes to get me to Paddington station for my Train home. As the tube approached and it appeared full and not wanting to be in my usual situation where by everyone pushes past me and I am either doing the impression of a sardine with my face impressioned against the glass of the tube door or even worse pressed up against someones smelly armpit and as sometimes happens, actually left still standing on the platform I needed to rethink my approach.

I took a step closer to the train and then another step closer. I hadn’t pushed past anyone I had literally stepped forward in alignment from where I was previously stood and waited for the doors to open and the passengers to alight but I was ready, once the last person alighted I was in.

I was in perfect alignment with the train door and as I stepped up on to the Train a voice from the side of me said ‘There is no need to push”. How ironic I thought. I don’t think I have ever heard anyone speak to each other on a tube, they very rarely make eye contact and the first time I try a bit of dog eat dog boom I get the one person with the moral compass to speak out.

I had just been on a course where it spoke about Parent, Child, Adult how to react in situations or how we normally react instinctively.

I looked at the young man looking smug and smiling to himself and I felt compelled to reply to his comment. Calmly¬†I pointed out that I am not local but whenever I come to the ‘Big Smoke’ (I didn’t actually use that terminology) due to my polite nature I am normally left standing on the platform whilst everyone else pushes passed me and today I thought I would change my¬†tact and follow the London way. He replied it wasn’t the London way and words just fell out of my mouth and told him it was how it was every time I came here.

The conversation ended and everyone else appeared to adopt the normal stance of no eye contact, no speaking and normal service resumed.

I did however after have, maybe the weirdest thought “How would have Wayne Dyer handled that?”

The following morning I was not in work and had the luxury to do what I wanted and following advise from Oprah posted in regards to Thanks Giving chose some inspirational material to listen to before getting out of bed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQ6S6Jx9_I

In the video Wayne practised kinesiology on one of the crew and I knew instantly what Wayne would have done and I knew what I would do if I had that experience over or in future.

If I had the situation over again I would have reverted to type and not stepped forward in the first place and waited calmly and patiently and avoided the whole situation and that thought felt right, felt good, felt like who I am and the essence of me.

This process of how thought affects the body as practiced through kinesiology in the Video stuck with me and how your body reacts via love and how it reacts via hate and revenge, I only wanted to think thoughts of LOVE and I set myself an experiment to go about my day and despite however anyone behaved I would always revert my thought back to LOVE.

I had to pay two separate visits to a supermarket and I was no angel. When I stood to one side to let people pass and they didn’t even acknowledge me it initially crossed my mind ‘What am I invisible here?’ but then I reminded myself think thoughts of love, think thoughts of love if only for your own best interests.

When queuing to get out of the car park and a man aggressively pulled out from behind someone else and tried to force his way into to the queue I was in I physically felt myself pull forward as did the guy in front of me as to try to stop him. I, then realising what I was doing relaxed and started letting people out one by one in front of me. I turned the music up on my car radio and thought ‘The longer I am here the more I get to enjoy these tunes’.

I checked the time it took to get out of the car park after letting several people out and it was 7 minutes in total. Not much in the grand scheme of things and I was far happier and calmer than the majority of people I recalled coming in to contact with throughout my day.

That’s why I feel I am and can relate to the ‘Happiest Penguin Ever’

We all have a choice and the power to attract in to our day the best experiences regardless of the situations or other poples reactions.

Have a great weekend and lets all be happy Penguin’s

Feeling honoured, feeling blessed and amazingly grateful

The other day I read, the easiest way to get to where you want to be, ask the question “what would my life feel like if I¬†were free.”

This made me think of another question which I¬†journaled,¬†which was” what do I need to do NOW to ………”. And wrote down a persistent¬†desirable¬†goal.

Then randomly a post on Facebook by Ali Brown attracted my attention, I clicked on the link and downloaded a free audio. It made me come alive and I went to bed excited and inspired.

It activated me to listen to a¬†YouTube¬†clip of Tony Robbins on the way to work and I used my lunch break to re-listen to the free audio and take notes. My brain went into overdrive brainstorming all the things I needed to do. I even improved in my performance at work and when approached and was requested to do something for a colleague it flowed out of me¬†instantaneously¬†and I achieved the task in 5 minutes. I¬†realised¬†this is just the way I Am, this is my ¬†“Aliness” working at her normal, well Aliness !! But it wasn’t until this moment that I¬†recognised¬†that I hadn’t truly been, being Ali.

Later I watched a Wayne Dyer¬†Youtube¬†clip talking to Anita¬†Moorjani¬†(author of “Dying to be Me”, a must read) and Anita had said what she¬†learnt¬†from her experience was that our purpose was not to be positive, our purpose is to be ourselves.

 

In the Ali Brown audio it reminded us that when you make a¬†decision¬†the Universe supports you and offers you opportunities and not to operate from fear operate from faith and I knew thus to be true because ….

it reminded me of times that I had made a¬†decision and gone, ‘right that’s it enough is enough’ I am amazed at the seemingly ‘miracles’ that show up and I go whoa that’s a coincidence (Universe supporting me, no coincidences but¬†naive¬†me didn’t know that back then) then something negative would happen and confidence comes crashing down and fear sets in, all self belief¬†flies¬†out of the window … Back to same old same old until the next time – Fish Tank syndrome (check out Greg Kuhn)

From my new perspective and knowledge about the Law if Attraction I can see now why the “Coincidences!” showed up and know NOW I have to give fear the boot and walk on in faith because thoughts become things and as my desire is now my most¬†predominant¬†thought (Napoleon¬†Hill), if I maintain the right vibration ‘I Am THAT, I AM, it is done, thank you !’ (Neville Goddard/Moses Code inspired quote say to myself more and more when I think about a desired outcome).

As if a gift from the Universe saying “well done, keep doing what you are doing.” I had written a¬†blog¬†post based on an experience I had just had and called it “Playing the Pam Game” and Pam Grout actually tweeted me and liked my post, hence – feeling honoured, feeling blessed and feeling amazingly grateful.

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For me if I was a 14-year-old girl, getting that tweet from Pam Grout was like getting a tweet from One Direction !!

Look for the blessings, look for the signs and look for the things to be grateful for because they are there and the more you look,¬†ye¬†shall find and the more you find the more things you will have to be grateful for …… remember we are all tuning forks really and we can only attract what we focus on ………….. FREEDOM PLEASE, THANK YOU VERY MUCH – I AM THAT, I AM !!!!

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