Yesterday in my #motivationalmonday post I wrote about how I was drinking the “Compareschlager”
“Compareschlager” is a term Marie Forleo compiled about when we compare ourselves to others and then devalue ourselves so I know we shouldn’t be drinking it but like when we consume actual alcohol …
Our brains get a little foggy sometimes and irrational and we devalue our “Brilliance”
Incidentally my podcast episode “Even the Guru’s drink “Compareschaler” is my highest listened to episode. Which show’s me I’m not alone in this and is a very common problem
Thankfully that has passed now and if you are or ever do suffer from a bit of comparisonitis why not have a listen to Episode #10 of the “Fab Over Forty Show” “Even the Guru’s drink Compareschaler” by tapping on either titles
Anyway back today’s subject of #transformationaltueday
Which is about why you can never go back to “Zero” and “Now You Know The Truth, You Can Never Go Back” and why that is a good thing
You maybe having the feelings like I did, that you should be further along by now or you are not satisfied with where you are but where ever you are in life you remind yourself. It’s ok, can never back to “Zero”
You are already amazing exactly where you are because …. !!
By every life experience, every life lesson you have had. How you handled it or didn’t if I’m being honest has taught you something even if it’s what not to do or what to do differently next time and has caused you to “Transform”
Ever had that thought after being in a situation “Oh drat, I wish I said that” or “Why didn’t I say that”
You already know next time you probably won’t let someone disrespect you again or what you will say differently so you have grown.
I’ve been in abusive relationships and talking to someone who came out of one recently I said “Trust me, you will act differently now. Because of it, you won’t tolerate things you did in the past”
I Am Grateful for those experiences for the human I grew it to because of them and the same goes for bullying.
My earliest memories were of being bullied and I was bullied well into adulthood into the work space and honestly. Yes for the longest time. I was a subconscious victim to it not realising I was attracting it with my focused attention on it and “Why Me?”
Then The Law of Attraction came into my life by the way of the book “The Secret” and I saw where I was going wrong
The Law of Attraction manifested my out of that Job I was being Bullied at and now I Am Grateful to that person because it moved me on to bigger and better things and that maybe was the whole purpose of the situation
To make sure I didn’t settle
We will never know at our 3D level the “True” meaning behind every interact and experience from the 5D perspective but I definitely “FEEL” there was, is a Higher Purpose and I genuinely “FEEL” 100% Grateful for it all now and it let me to write my first solo book “Beat The Bullies Using The Law of Attraction & Beyond with Ho’Oponpono”
And I won’t allow myself to be bullied again and talking of “Gratitude”
“Gratitude” was the process that got me out of those situations and still is and will always be my practice for “Transformation”
It was what I was guided to do when I first came across that book “The Secret” and first saw my error of reading book after book but never taking any action on the advice given and I thought where do I start. What action should I take and I was guided to get up ten minutes earlier and start writing 10 things I was Grateful for
That was it and that was the first step onto my “Transformation” journey
That simple practice turned into my 5 Step Morning Routine that can be accesses for free at mywakeuphappy.com
This morning I inadvertently found some errors on my website
Instead of berating myself for thinking I had it all working right or how long had it been like it I was “Grateful” I had found it when I did. “Grateful” for the situation that draw my attention to it.
I believe “There Are No Accidents” and “Grateful” that my Mindset was solution focused and from the knowledge I had already gained I was quickly able to rectify it.
The “Me” of 5 years ago would have no idea how to solve it but then again the “Me” of 5 Years ago didn’t have that website or be on that platform or taken part in the Trainings that taught me how to edit and apply certain tools, links etc.
Because with the Knowledge I gained ‘I’, ‘We’, You’ can never go back to “Zero” because now you know your Truths You are always “Transforming” every second of every single day and you are more and more “Fabulous” everyday so don’t drink the “Compareschaler” and remember your Brilliance and remember how far you have come?
Quick side note: Yesterday I started a challenge related to my new eComme Business and the Trainer runs this Challenge on a regular basis and the last time he held it was in March and he felt inspired to revisit and check the content he put in the last challenge and familiarise himself with the materials before he started this new Challenge and he said
“I was blown away how much I have Changed and Grown in that short space of time”
Do you ever revisit the Gap from where you were and where you are now and commend yourself on the growth you have made as a Father, Mother, Son, Daughter, employee business owner. Person in general?
Or do you just focus on the Gap from where you are to where you would like to be?
Just for today why not stop focusing on the Gap of where you are and where you want to be and focus on the Growth of where you were and who you are today and the person you have “Transformed” into.
Even better. Journal it down and continue to Journal as you go on every little win a long the way and why not use that Journal to start the day writing ten things you are “Grateful for and if you want a little more help programming your brain for “Gratitude” I have a 21 day challenge of my own that I have just reduced the price of and you get lifetime access for such a little investment so you can take the challenge over and over again if you wish to totally build the ‘Muscle Memory” for success by going to:
And a little food for thought to end on ….
Abraham-Hicks says
“If you knew from a non-physical perspective how incredible you truly are. You would never berate yourself again”
Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !!
Ali oxox
Law of Attraction Lover 