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I Believe we are All Geniuses

In Gay Hendrix’s book the Big Leap he talks of our zone of Excellence and our zone of Genius which I believe we All have and if you read on you will see why


A couple of days ago I was attracted to a MindValley Mentorship episode and they were discussing zones of Excellence  


They never referred to Gay’s book but the way they were discussing zones of Genius and and zones of Excellence I knew they were referring to the same thing


At first glance if you haven’t read the book you may be thinking they are the same


I know when I first read it I was a little confused


I know also, I need to read it again because my zone of Excellence has changed and I feel if I read it again I’ll see it in a new perspective and that’s partly what inspired me to write this blog post


Like I said I need to read it again so I am paraphrasing and I may have perceived it wrongly but I see our zone of Excellence as anything we are comfortable doing and can do effortlessly and easily therefore we are excellent at it


For me I think we may think of excellence as an elite skill but not the everyday things we do until this morning when I had a Divine Download and the words for this post started flowing through me


Unfortunately I wasn’t in a position to write them down as they flowed so now as I try to get back in to the flow of what I wanted to write it feels a bit clunky which is interesting for 2 reasons


I believe hard work is not necessary if we align and get in to flow or what I now know as level 3 / 4 of the 4 levels of consciousness  and if as evidence last night I was getting an evening meal ready and put something on TV to listen to while I was getting ready and I intuitively chose the Jonathan Ross Show and Ed Sheeran was live on Zoom
Jonathan made a comment that  Ed could write songs in about 30 minutes and Ed agreed that all the hits he’s written so quick, usually in under an hour and listed Shape of You, Perfect, and 18.


He added I remember them being so quick and barely having to think about it and just typing. If you speak to any writer some songs come out of thin air


I don’t believe they are thin air. As I mentioned earlier. I call them Divine Downloads and I believe we are all Geniuses or allocated our own specific Genius the trouble is we get wrapped up in earthly red tape and subconsciously also what was discussed in the MindValley discussion I mentioned above Brules short for Bull Shit Rules and we tune out of our Zone out of Genius


We also are Brulled into thinking it is wrong to blow our own Trumpet and be humble. Shutting us out even more of our predisposed given area of Genius for fear of standing out to tall.


We Give credit to others but believe we have nothing to offer


But I truly believe that is not true.

We just haven’t allowed ourselves the time to tap in to our own Level 3 & 4 as Ed described and come at life from Level 1 and 2. Level 1 the Victim mode, why Me? And Level 2 ~ By me, work , work mode or Action, action as I call it now instead of Inspired Action and the Level 2 work, work, action action blocks out those Inflow Opportunities


I know because I was there for so long and that is why I am passionate about sharing there is another way, there is still time and age is irrelevant  and I believe that it was no accident I was doing what I was doing and living in my zone of excellence and multiple people were complimenting me on being so talented and then immediately counteracting that with they wish they had a talent and me saying I believe we all have one and them they saying they didn’t or …..


People who had discovered a Passion or a Talent and or Hobby they loved and asking for Tips in to how to turn it in to a Business like I had done


I mentioned earlier I had a Divine Download but felt a bit clunky because of the delay in applying what was flowing through me and I believe there were 2 reasons for writing


Prior to turning on the TV Program I saw an alert for Evan Carmichael going live on Instagram and I seem to be aligning with Evan alot lately so I tapped the notification


Now I am assuming Evan was going Live on Several Platforms at once which is also relevant to the message I am trying to share but that’s very prominent in various places so I won’t discuss this here but when I jumped on he brought someone on to the Live and they were doing a Q & A


The gentleman was talking about following the Inspired Action to become a Motivational Speaker and Evan said “Great, where have you spoke so far?” and the gentleman replied he hadn’t as yet as he had only recently made the decision and then asked him about a dream talk and he said he would love to do a Ted talk


I loved Evans advise of deciding to make it a goal to speak on 3 platforms every week and explained how now, more than ever we have so many opportunities with Digital platforms and suggested things like speaking in front of a class of students and reaching out to people and asking to be a guest on their podcast or a live etc he also explained how easy it can be to do a Ted talk and how there are different Ted opportunities all over the world and various states in the US and if he was willing to Travel and contact the right people a Ted talk is very achievable in a very short space of time and for me personally this brought to my attention a couple things


We tend to focus on the Big ‘So called’ Goal before we have even started and not take in to account all the other achievable steps we can actually take now and that the big Goal is probably not so big or so unachievable or so far out of reach right now as we think so we get mired down before we even start and then most likely do not start full stop because it seems just to far out there in our zone of Genius


Evan also said something that I really related to because it was the very thing that got me mired down and delayed me from starting for several months and was the very same thing I discussed on the thing I delayed starting ….. my podcast The Fab Over Forty Show


As I was learning about Podcasting I got very excited and the higher state of consciousness aided me to brainstorm many, many titles of subjects I wanted to discuss about the Law of Attraction and turning Your Passion in to Money in Your Purse and then it discussed the editing and how crucial it was and I became completely overwhelmed


Now I am someone (now) who is used to stepping out of my Zone of Excellence and trying new things and turning them in to my new zone of Excellence but this really fuddled my brain despite several attempts and watching learning and implementing so I procrastinated and work on other projects and I tried to record with no fluffs and would fluff and delete and fluff and delete until whole afternoons and evening were wasted with no content at the end until one day I decided because of other things I was about to launch, in them I mentioned I had this podcast


And I did because it was all accepted on all the major platforms Spotify, Apple etc and the artwork was there but no episodes and because it was halting me launch these other items I had created to help other people find their passions and wake up happy from making a living doing what they love I just decided I had to go for it with no editing ~ fluffs and all and in the end I actually felt intuitively this might actually inspire people “If I Can, They Can” which is exactly what Evan said on that Live last night


He told this Guy just start speaking and recording stuff and “No Editing!” and the guy seemed a little stunned and he added “Seriously, NO Editing and the more you do it the easier it will get and the more comfortable it will get and the better you will get” ie: new Zone of Excellence anyone?


Ironically enough I actually mentioned Evan in a Podcast Episode, Episode #9 Tomorrow is NOT Guaranteed . I just recorded off the cuff a few days earlier, no editing and mentioned on a Virtual event I was attending at the weekend how he didn’t like his first few videos but just kept going because he knew he had a Higher a Purpose and People to serve but what I realised this morning is, if a Zone of Excellence is something we do effortlessly because it has become second nature to us because we have built neural pathways or brain waves around it or an even easier way of saying it “Habits” and if our Zone of Genius is what we are really Intuitively drawn to do and serve by AKA “Our Gifts” …..


When we were born, sorry to be brutally honest but pooping , crying, feeding and sleeping were our Zone of Excellence and walking was a Zone of Genius but we Intuitively started to walk because it was inbuilt in our DNA and then that became our new Zone of Genius.

Like feeding and dressing ourselves, riding a bike, driving a car etc was once “out there” in our Zone of Genius and became our Excellence or “Norm”


Why should it be any difference with our Dreams and Goals


I have mentioned it elsewhere about the thought of becoming an Omnipresent Passion Based Business on Social Media. There was a time we didn’t have smartphones and apps and Facebook but we learnt them so why can we master TikTok, YouTube, Pinterest, Blogging, Podcasting etc?


Less than a Year ago I didn’t know how to build a Digital Course or Digital Product and asset or Sales Funnels for them or a Membership site or Subscription platform and so many other skills I won’t list but now I have and I am nearly 56, because I watched, listened stopped implemented. Reached out for help if I needed it from someone in their Zone of Genius on the subject and rinse and repeat


But …..


I have heard it all.


I can’t change. You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I’m to old. I haven’t got any talents etc .. etc .. etc


And that’s what motivated me to start my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show and my Facebook Page and Group Fabulous Freedom over Fortyand build my Products and Services Based around turning your Passions into income and businesses and using the Law of Attraction to deliberately create a Lifestyle You Love and Wake UP Happy for and a community called The Freedom Empire Builders 
Because you don’t have to be over 40 to be any part of this but because ……..


I was a Miserable Corporate Manager who thought she gave up on her Goals and Dreams a long time ago but my life didn’t start Transforming until I was over 40 and the book The Secret and the Law of Attraction came in to my life and I saw where I was going wrong ….


I realised I needed to take Responsibility and actually take some Inspired Action if I wanted my life to change so I took one small step of implementing a Gratitude Practice in the Morning and from taking that one small step and listening to my Intuition and took another Inspired Action step and another and inadvertently created a 5 Step Morning Routine that completely Transformed my Life (which I now give away) and  I actually have a Trademark Framework called The G.R.E.A.T Formula ™️  to help others on Their Transformational Journey and I get to wake up Happy everyday Doing What I love and Loving What I love which incidentally I wrote on a Goal Card Inspired by Bob Proctor who I resonated to from the Film Version of The Secret and which I talk about in a video I recorded for my Law of Attraction Lovers Club of why I Am so Passionate about and advocate making one


And Talking of Bob. He’s in his 80’s as I type and he is the quintessential example of someone who steps out of his Zone of Excellence on a regular basic and adopts all new ways of Marketing Zone of Genius so can serve as many people as Possible


So if you think you do not have Genius gift here are a couple tips to tap into it or in most cases dig it up because may be it has been buried so deep while working so hard on a building someone else’s dreams?


💖 If you could wake up tomorrow doing what you love all day what would that thing be?


💖 What 1 small step do you feel inspired to take today that would be part of answer to that last question


💖 What do you do in Your current Zone of Excellence that you really enjoy that you see would be useful if you were living in own Unique Zone on Genius


💖 Aim to make it a habit each day to spend a few minutes imagining yourself already doing what you would love to do most in the world


I am not writing this post to sell you anything … just to inspire You but if anything I have said Inspires You and You would like more hints and tips or my gift to you of my Freedom Making Morning Routine I would love for You to check out any of the places I mentioned above or just click on the link below to find out more about how you can Wake Up Happy

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I also finely Attracted my Life Long Dream of having My own business in my 50’s thanks to the Power of the Law of Attraction and I Now help people learn how to turn Their Passions into Online Location Free Businesses so they can Wake Up Doing What They Love and Love What They Do after so Many People Approached me for Advice


You Could Learn to by accessing my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder at fabfreedom.live


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Whatever “You” are doing I wish “You” an Awesomely Attractive Day xoxo


#theloalover #lawofattraction #goalcard #thebigleap #gayhendricks #bobproctor #edsheeran #mindvalley #tedtalk #evancarmichael #jonathanross #zoom

Hustle v Surrender

A combination of two of my favourite things Vishen Lakhiani from Mindvalley and Tom Bilyeu and an Impact Theory interview

This excites me about the future

Listen to what Vishen says about Hustle v Surrender

Have an awesome day

#loalover #lawofattractionlover #mindvalley #impacttheory #vishenlakhiani #tombilyeu

Lesson & Blessings

 

“Oh Wow !! Boy am I humbled”

It’s either a blessing or a lesson and sometimes it is a blessing and a lesson.


I aim to do Personal Development daily to stay in the best possible, highest vibration I can but I am human and recently something was really frustrating me so I did what I normally do and remind myself how this like previous negative situations in a few days this will not have the charge it currently has and in a few weeks I will probably not even remember it. I also remind myself it is either a blessing or a lesson and try to see what the lesson is.


I made a decision based on this that felt good and then I was led to amazing opportunities that I would have never found if I hadn’t had the negative situation happen. So much so, yesterday I saw something that a few weeks ago that would probably have upset me but instead I laughed because I was in such a good place that I would never been in if it wasn’t for those previous experiences and I said thank you for the blessing.


Later in the day I was reading a book in where the author who I thought really has his sxxt  together told a story of having a conversation with a Monk in a hot tub (as you do) and the Monk told him “I know what your problem is, you have low self-esteem. He was defensive at first as it was explained and then he agreed that certain behaviour traits were indeed due to low self-esteem. He then described another scenario where he spent time with and excellent Leader in their field that highlighted a scarcity issue.


While reading this it struck me that the reason I felt frustration recently was because of low self-esteem and a story I was telling myself that probably wasn’t even true. 

Like the author. Because we make a conscious effort to deal with negative situations we thought we are doing a good job but we were not dealing with the underlying issue in the first place and I knew today I needed to do some inner work on my self worth and where to go to for this. For me, Marisa Peer (who coincidently was the person who highlighted the scarcity issues to the author but who I would have referred to anyway).


Now I wasn’t in the position to have a 121, Face to Face with Marisa today but I did the next best thing for me and YouTube Marisa and do some “I Am” statements and my favourite Marisa “I AM” “I Am Worthy”


Later I watched a Masterclass presentation and the speaker asked “do you think you are a victim of circumstance buffeted around by life and have no control over things?” I said to the screen “No chance” Knowing I am responsible for it all. Even the sxxt stuff because at some level I have attracted this with my thoughts but its ok because I am grateful for the lesson that my self-esteem obviously needs some work and with that a lady opened the shop door as said “I just have to say. I walk past your shop every week and I wanted to tell you, your work is truly incredible”


I think she was probably aware by my reaction how taken back I was by her kind comment and I told her how grateful I was and appreciative of her for taking the time to tell me.


We shouldn’t need validation from others but it seemed very coincidental that this person arrived on this day to tell me my work is good and I know there truly are no accidents.


Even the most successful people in the world look to others to help them become the best version of themselves they can become. 


I recently heard some advise I have taken to heart and determined to work on achieving and that was to attend every destination event you possibly can as you will come away invigorated and inspired to take your life to the next level by what you hear and learn. I know from his position this was actually aimed at NWM but it can be applied to any destination invent with incredible guest speakers and I am so glad that very soon I am will be attending an incredible Event with so many guest speakers and only a short distance away from me for far, far less than most events like this cost so now I am so super excited to keep working on my self-esteem even when I feel I have my sxxt together and take my game to the next level ~ whose coming with me? xx


I can actually hear Shania Twain singing in my head right now “You Go Girl” 

Have I mastered my Money Mindset

As the name says I am The Law of Attraction Lover and I believe it , love it, use it, get it to work for me but Money or should I say Mega Money … Blaaaaa !!! That’s a discription of my stomach rolling over at the thought of it.

I literally told myself I am never gonna get this one to work out for me Baby

Well that’s a positive affirmation right there – Not !

But a few months ago I told myself I will overcome this one if it …. well you know the phrase.

I have read more books than I can calculate before making the decision to kick this sucker to the curb about money mindset but I knew to cure it I couldn’t stop there.

So I continued reading watching, listening, affing (affirmations if you are new to my blog and not aware of my terminologies)

And gradually I have started to feel the fog start to lift and become more and more comfortable around money but not only have I begun to feel comfortable, I have actually felt happy about it and literally eager to pay bills.

Some of it I have got to myself and some thank you Universe, I have been presented with the right materials at the right time.

What do I mean ages ago? For instance about 2 years just around now I heard of Christie Marie Sheldon and what she calls lofty questions. These were working for me well and I was getting positive results but then I manifested a business. See I told you the Law of Attraction has worked for me but that should all be documented in other posts so I won’t go in to it here.

The business was very busy from the very beginning (grateful) and I lost the luxury of having the time to write out my lofty questions but a few weeks ago I was getting a strong compulsion to restart them again and with 24 hours I started to see results

Around the same time I came across Denise Duffield Thomas and her book “Get Rich, Lucky Bitch” and immediately started implementing some of the suggestions combined with the lofty questions

I started logging money coming in, saving, de-cluttering, ditch the dodgy under-ware (you’ll have to listen/read the book 😉 )

I am aware a big part of attracting what you want is feeling and I am becoming better at taking time to read my feelings and I went I started saving it felt good. I also started seeing and increase in my business when I started logging the money coming in.

What was really liberating when I read “Lucky Bee” was Denise admitted she constantly works on her money blocks and we will always have money blocks to work on. Instead of being depressed at this prospect I thought Yeah, I am not broken

I always thought the reason I was never Mega Money abundant was because I was not cured of my money blocks. “I will never be wealthy”

Now I knew I would never be cleared of them and that’s normal and I will always have to work on them. I’m down with that. I can do the work now I know I always have to. I am a personal development junkie – Bring it on !!

Talking of doing the work Denise advises throw anything at it that feels right for you and it doesn’t have to be one practice over another.

Another positive because if you are told something that says you have to do this or you won’t get A, B, or C and you are not getting results with said practice you are going to feel a failure and negative feelings never get good results.

Probably because what I have digested previously I am not a total Dork around money and do have faith around certain financial topics working out ok. One of those is what instigated this blog post …. but first a couple examples.

I set myself a goal for 2019 but recently I was in two minds should I invest in it or not despite it bringing me at least one step closer to my next big dream so I decided to let it go and trust the Universe to show me the answer

Last Friday when I least expected it a series of events happened and then inspired action made me to do something and then I got my answer … and then some.

The ‘Then Some’ was a link to the very thing I wished to achieve this year. Doing a gut check and reading my feelings (Joy) I did it and it cost a lot less than I anticipated

But as Denise predicted I then I had a Blaaa !! gut role because I potentially have a bill coming up that I don’t know the final cost of however “STOP PRESS” my mind almost a second later formed a lofty question that it was ok because I was going to make the money back today. Motivated by this I thought I won’t stop there. Not only am I going to make this back I am going to double it. Wow, Wow, Wow !! Get me.

Not in a position to write it down I said it over and over in my head promising I would write it down when I got in to my shop.

However the shop was crazy busy and I didn’t get a chance to write my lofty question down

No worries because just by thinking it seemed to do the trick and I did in fact not only make the money back that I spent out but I did double it in takings in my shop.

This made me very excited not to mention happy and I swore from now on when I get a gut a role I am going to focus on my abundance and belief in attracting more than whatever it was I have to pay out.

One habit I have adopted for a while is saying/writing affirmations about gratefully paying for any service or product I desire or require and that I always have enough money for it, as if validation of this and my actions the other day, yesterday while trying to listen to a Podcast that wouldn’t play it instead started playing a podcast by Mindvalley when someone totally new to me Ramit Sethi was being interviewed.

Ramit very early in the podcast spoke of when someone boasts about finding a loophole not to pay for a service etc ie Taxes (bill with the unknown amount awaiting to pay) they are projecting a scarcity mindset. He said if you are in business you have things to pay out, taxes, pay an accountant etc. Get over it.

Because of material digested a long time ago I had shifted my mindset on getting a cleaner, paying someone to cut the grass, do your taxes etc because when you pay them for their services and skill set it frees you up to earn money doing what you are good at to pay them and create an income for them. Win, win so I totally got what Ramit was saying and it took me back to my behaviour and lofty question when I paid for the service this past Saturday morning where I overrode the Blaaa !! feeling with my abundant mindset action and then Ramit said a quote that made me go “I’m having that. That is going in to my journal.

“Abundant People Realise Their Future Is Brighter Than Their Past”    

I said previously that while not being a millionaire (yet) sometimes I can hold a belief something will work out and despite practically having zero in the bank when the subject came up (numerous times) my partner would keep reminding me “You’re going to need money in your account in January you know to pay your tax bill” (Thank you for reminding me Dad – again)

I have a small physical craft business while thankfully popular and keeping me afloat as soon as I build up a bit of money I would need to buy stock and materials so while a looming tax bill would look daunting for some reason I had Faith it would all be alright but I would just acknowledge my partners concerns not wanting to express my belief as he openly admits he doesn’t get my Woo Woo.

Well to make this long story longer Christmas was insane in my business giving me some surplus money that I have been keeping towards my taxes and potentially making everything indeed ok and this morning I got a telephone call from my Accountant asking could I meet to go over a couple things

Despite my belief that everything would be alright as Denise predicted I did gulp down an old money block feeling that wanted to say “Hello”

Right you pesky money block time we tango’d. So I put an alarm on my phone to stop and have lunch while writing lofty questions before the meeting to put me in a better frame of mind and I even used the quote above as I entered the reception (throw anything at it malarky)

Well the news was far better than I antisipated and when it was suggested to pay a contribution to an annual fee that I am not obligated to do in my current position but has productive benefits for me in the long run I found myself saying “Yes” and asking payment methods

I found the new abundant mindset ‘Me’ wanted to pay for the service provided ASAP knowing my future is brighter than my past

I even caught myself smiling as I went back to my shop, thinking well that went well and I actually feel happy.

Hang on, have I finally changed my money mindset

If I can do it, anyone can do it

Meditate, Meditate, Meditate & then Meditate some more

 

I can’t even remember the last time I posted on my blog ….. but that’s ok. I am acknowledging that, that is all part of the Experiment I am running on myself at the moment.

Several weeks ago I was feeling complete overwhelm over a circumstance. More so than I had done for a very long time but acknowledged that there was always some sense of anxiety in my gut recently and I was fed up of living like this.

Since Manifesting my own business last year there were certain pressures I believed were all part and parcel of being an entrepreneur. The uncertainty of clients, income, business development etc and my Personal Development had all become Business Personal Development.

Intense, Hustle, hustle, hustle. Hard work and lots of effort if you want to crush it. You can only be a success if you deprive yourself of Fun time for X amount of years.

If you spend time on Social Media then your are a loser and how do you expect your business to build but then saying you need to spend so much time on this type of Social Media and do this on Social Media or how do you expect your business to build but be aware of the algorithm changes or you might go to jail !!!!!!!!

Is your head hurting just reading this?

Thankfully that little Voice in my head (that we all have) said “Tomorrow have an LGLG day. Nothing major is going to happen if you let yourself have 24 Hours not focusing on the issue and just go with the flow and do what you enjoy.

Well something did happen. A Miracle !!

(Yet again) An effortless series of events happened and everything fell into place and the situation was sorted in less that 24 hours in fact.

At the same time a series of Materials came into my awareness that all connected together and keep on coming to me and one of the Sources came to me via MindValley.

I was made aware of the book “The Surrender Experiment” by Michael A. Singer and instinctively knew I had to read it and I couldn’t stop. I was addicted to it. It wasn’t what I was expecting but it showed me how everything can fall in to place when we remove our resistance and go with the flow. The book (for me) started out with the author just needing to get away from the negative chatter in his head and I thought ‘this sounds like the book for me’

As I mentioned several other materials came into my awareness and virtually all had the same message that suggests Meditation and Allowing.

Over the weekend my partner had subconsciously said a couple things that have stung but I remembered a quote that really stuck with me from the film with Oprah Winfrey in “A Wrinkle in Time” – “Find the Right Frequency and Have Faith” so now when anything causes a negative reaction or the Negative Monkey chatter starts I remind myself to let go and have Faith which I did when these remarks happened which were generally about their lack of Faith because what I am focusing on in their eyes hasn’t arrived “Like, Yesterday”

They are still in the “I will believe it when I see it mode” where I am in the “I will see it when I believe it” mode which incidentally is the title of the Wayne Dyer book that I got the phrase “Let Go and Let God” from.

So it was so funny that I picked this YouTube video above for my Morning Motivation whilst dressing that shows just what can happen when one person believes and the other person doesn’t. It was just what I needed to hear.

And again there is a lot of Material in this video that aligns with the Experiment I am practicing on myself at the moment.

Remember “There Are No Accidents” and have a Let Go Day. After you have Meditated of Course. Because when you Meditate and Align All Things Are Possible