So I have been blogging for well over a decade now and initially it was just a desire in me to share with people The Law of Attraction in Action in my life and others to inspire people to see it is possible to wake up happy when, like I was previously. Thought I lost all hope and wondered why so many terrible things were happening to me.
The journey I have been on since has been crazy and I am so grateful and in the beginning I never knew the term “Evergreen Content” and that blogging was one of these forms of content.
But once I did it made so much sense.
In our instantaneous world we live in now where everything is literally at our fingertips and social media posts come and go, Evergreen Content is something that can be created once and live on long after it has been created and has the power and potential to help and serve others for decades after it was created.
Podcasting is another one of these formats and now more and more people record podcasts and upload them to YouTube and currently YouTube Channels are another popular long form platform ideal for Evergreen content. Did you know Pinterest is actually a search engine and has massive potential as a platform for Evergreen content and can be used to monetise your gifts?
As you can see I have started to see the potential to venture further afield in my Evergreen adventures and earlier today felt inspired to record an unplanned episode for my podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show” after being very concerned yet inspired by some content I saw myself and I felt by creating the content it may help others “AVOID” the pitfalls I saw two people make that I am sure we are all capable of making or are currently doing even if we are not aware of it because our actions are subconscious.
Then I felt inspired to turn that content into a blog post thus making another piece of Evergreen content on the same subject
Why do I tell you all this?
Because initially I called my podcast The Law of Attraction Lover because it made sense as it is the same name as this blog but I invested in a mentor and his course for podcasting and as part of that course we had live zoom sessions where he asked us to put in the chat our podcast ideas and potential titles
I said I already had one called The Law of Attraction Lover and he said it was to long and a title should be only 3 to 4 words long and thus Fab Over Forty was born because my Passion and Purpose in Life now is Inspiring Women Over Forty that we are never to old and it is never too late after hearing so many women tell me I was so lucky doing what I loved and loving what I do and that I was talented but almost immediately subconsciously right themselves off and saying they had no talent and or they were to old …
Many of them far younger than me and I truly believe we all have something that we love that is so easy to us we don’t see it as a talent or worthy of any potential.
However I honestly and wholeheartedly believe we are living in the best time ever to turn what we love into money in our purses online and I will continue to share my feelings on this subject and my observations and beliefs around the Law of Attraction to inspire Woman and it appears from what they tell me, Men that if we focus on what we want we can Attract into our lives and Wake Up Happy
But talking of what we focus on …
Just a quick side note. The same Mentor that told me my name was to long later said that podcasts were not just podcasts any more and that they had so much untapped potential that just calling them Podcasts undermined the massive value they had and should be classed as shows
This struck me as like I said people add them to youtube now and create channels and my platform I use actually allows you upload video versions of your recordings and actually refers to them as “Shows” now so it made sense to add a ‘The‘ and ‘Show‘ at the beginning and the end. To long? I don’t care!
It feels right in my gut and in my heart so Law of Attraction Lover blog and The Fab Over Forty Show are one and the same just in different formats.
It’s up to you which way you prefer to consume your content and as long as you are growing and developing and living into your true potential and not sabotaging yourself subconsciously because
What You Think About You Bring About … Consciously or Subconsciously !!
I’m probably not going to be popular for saying this …. but I am going to say it anyway
So all of 2024 I have been doing some work on myself, on my business inspired by Regan Hillyer and something she calls your Big Picture Reality
I haven’t been very vocal about this and it’s a lot of inner work. Journalling, Visualising and actually I have been doing so much in every spare pocket of time I haven’t created much content
But I am not worried about this, despite multiple people saying the key to success is consistency and publishing consistent content. I have a Focused Faith that everything is working out for me and my Highest Vision
Which brings me on to todays unexpected subject
I have so much gratitude for the life I have already manifested but I feel desires drawing me forward to an even Higher Reality
Higher Vision
Big Picture Reality
Regan has an amazing way of explaining that our desires are the Universe’s way, Source, God which ever terminology you prefer or feel comfortable to use calling you towards what was put in you heart prior to birth
What is rightfully yours. Your Big Picture Reality
So if you ever feel guilty about some of your desires like more money, a luxury car, house etc more abundance in general
There is nothing wrong with these desires they are in-fact your destiny calling you to
However and I have been there to
We have to be careful our desires are not motivated by something else that is not of our birth right desires
Last year I created content on various platforms on my personal observations about the passing of a much loved individual to hopefully help people realise not everything is as it seems and be aware of false gurus
It incredibly has just passed the first year anniversary of that persons passing
I had pulled away from this person because of the message they were sending out into the world about hard work and Hustle and how I personally felt that could create a lot of guilt for people that had a lot more personal responsibilities that this person didn’t have
Making it harder for them to live up to this persons standards of what creates success
Interestingly I feel very aligned to Regan and she talks and walks her talk of creating abundance etc from grace, flow and ease and Alignment
Prior to this persons passing they put out content that I read between the lines on and I felt while they had been sending out one message their motivator while probably being completely subconscious was another
And in the end via using alternative methods to cure their illness they admitted during a counselling session they had got to a route cause which was not really expressed in any of their previous content where they were always very exuberantly expressing a message of joy in what they were doing and the success that resulted from their actions
My content last year shared my observations sadly just before their untimely death at only 34
As part of my journey towards my big picture reality and the desires I am having it has led me innoveratantly to materials of a person who passed quite tragically this year in an untimely way
In some of their content that popped on my radar recently they admitted they wanted to live as long as possible and healthy as possible
The thought of dying young was palpable
This information that I have been consuming is from 2012 and because of their desire to live a long, healthy life they researched and created information that has indeed helped probably thousands of others live long, healthy lives they may have never had or will have
But then the person doing the research and creating a result recently died in a freak accident
Which leads me back to ..
be careful what is motivating your desires subconsciously because you may end up attracting the very thing you are trying to avoid regardless how much you do to try and escape it
In the end whatever we focus on expands and what we focus on and expand we attract
I have heard it said people are usually trying to move away from pain and towards pleasure and I whole heartedly agree but if we are still motivated by the pain
Even if we think we are not because we have created more pleasurable results ultimately we will attract more pain
Napoleon Hill famed for the book that has transformed multiple lives and created many successful wealthy businesses and people “Think and Grow Rich“ and responsible for my ultimate favourite book of all time “Outwitting the Devil” talks of 6 basic fears and fear of poverty and fear of death being part of those big 6
As you can see one of the people I have previously mentioned obviously had a fear of death and while they did everything possible to live a long healthy life died young while actually partaking in a healthy activity which makes me think their primary motivator was still Fear of death, not a love for life and I as I have already said we attract where our attention goes
Even if we are not aware of it we bring about what we think about
The other person I have been discussing admitted that while they had become a very successful multi millionaire at a very young age they realised through counselling they were motivated by not wanting to be poor again
They had experienced poverty and despite creating massive wealth and feared if they didn’t work 16/ 18 hour days as they were promoting it may all stop and they would be poor again
Their message was work hard and hustle and how much they loved the life they had doing just that but in reality they were living in poverty mindset still regardless of how much money they created because they couldn’t get off this hamster wheel of working in case it all ran out which created poverty on so many levels regardless what their bank statement and assets and investments said
And then ultimately it was all pointless because they manifested a fatal illness and in one of their last live broadcasts they admitted how terrified of death they were so they were investing all their financial resources available to them to try every avenue possible to cheat death and it looked like it was working. They were only now taking time to meditate and use various therapies and slow down
But it was still all to no avail because now their focused attention had moved from Poverty to Death and they passed shortly after that broadcast which they shared their fear of death when they felt they had finally cheated it because of a positive diagnoses from their physician and they were understandably and obviously ecstatic but perhaps despite the late to the party enthusiasm for their health, all their focused attention on the Fear of Death manifested the very thing they feared the most.
The trouble with these two cases most probably, was they had no idea they were motivated by two of the Primary Fears and they were using all their potential energy to focus in the wrong areas.
So I ask you where are you focusing your energies?
What are you potentially expanding in your life?
Are you motivated by Fear or Faith?
My life changed when I saw that I was focusing all my energy on why was my life was so bad and why were so many bad things happening to me and therefore expanding the potential for and attracting more bad things to me “subconsciously” and that I had the power to redirect my thoughts away from these results I had unwittingly attracted and therefore stop them expanding and focus my attention on more desired results
Which I did by starting a simple morning practice of Gratitude
While it may seem I came across the health information through fear in actuality I admit it, it is via vanity and aesthetically in my Big Picture Reality I see my physical appearance different to the one I have today
While I know I don’t always treat my body in the best possible manner I always show gratitude for the miracle it is and my health on a regular basis and long before coming across Regan’s materials I have often journaled my gratitude and written positive affirmations on my Health and believe these types of Personal Development actions should be taken first and despite my current physical age I am very healthy and show no signs of the aliments by peers focus on and complain about “being a natural and expected part of our current demographic” I just don’t buy into that philosophy
And quick unexpected controversial detour I didn’t put in the podcast episode.
Despite being 58 I have never had any physical symptoms of menopause because I just never allowed my mind to go there or dwell there and if anyone does go their I just remove myself from the conversation physically or mentally
And The kind of work I am doing with Regan and the journal prompts help you get to the route cause of your desires and see what is motivating you plus helps you find out what your ultimate Big Picture Reality is that is placed in your heart before birth and how to keep that Vision in the forefront of your mind with grace, with ease and with flow and how to move towards it
And I hope this information I have shared with you has caused you to take time or plan to take time to get to the root causes of your motivations and desires and focus your attention on a Beneficial Big Picture Reality and not on and away from Fear based desires
I am involved in several versions of Regan’s work but I advise if you are interested in becoming part of Regan’s world who is classed as possibly the number one Female Manifestation Coach in the world is join her monthly subscription program for a tiny, tiny fee compared to the value you will receive and if that sounds like something that interests you I have dropped a link how to join her Ignite Program by simply tapping on the word “IGNITE”
I highly recommend you do. Plus as a member you will receive massive discounts to many other of her resources as they become available so why not just check it out and see what it IGNITE”S in you
Even if all you get out of this is Blog Post is that you become aware we can be motivated by 6 basic Fears and the 2 most fundamental are Fear of Death and Fear of Poverty and that this episode makes you realise that they could be at play in your life and you start focusing your attention away from these and focus on everything you have to be grateful for
My work here is done
And on that note
Have a fabulous day and feel free to reach out to me and comment what this post brings up for you. Any light bulbs and if this is the first content of mine you have come across please feel free to go back and have a little binge or listen to the podcast version as they do vary slightly
And know
That I love you and that I truly believe you have the capacity to wake up happy and if you haven’t done so already grab your free gift from mywayuphappy.com where I share as part of my 5 step Framework that Gratitude Practice I used
Until next time Fabulous
Have a Fabulous day, week, month, year, life because you truly can Wake Up Happy !!
PS: If you click on the title of the books I mentioned above you will be carried through via a quick link to check them out or purchase them that I highly recommend you do
Namaste 🙏
Law of Attraction Lover 