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Yep, I admit it …. I’m a fraud !!


Disclaimer: before I go any further I am not trying to recruit you


I am just expressing something that I felt inspired to express that may help you the reader but it does discuss in part network marketing something that I am part of and believe has amazing potentiality but yes I admit it has its flaws (usually the people who act inappropriately and give it a bad name but those dudes are in all walks of life right) so can have a preconceived bad reputation


So I am taking part in something called a 90 day run at the moment and we are being asked to carry out some tasks that are completely against what I stand for and what I don’t like about the industry and I feel are outmoded but Inspired Action caused me to join and one of my invested mentors Marie Forleo asked that we be open and NOT say “Hey I know this already” and because I knew I was closing myself off to what I felt uncomfortable about I was in actuality doing exactly that


closing myself off and saying I know this already when there could be something massive there for me but I am here to tell you now


I’m a freud


because as well as being open to the challenge we are suggested to just do what the Leader of the Challenge says


Ahh but I know in my soul that may not be the case with me


so I am a freud


A freud to being open and a freud to the challenge


Or am I


As well as being open we are not sheep and we are entitled to have discernment


Why


because we are all infinite beings with infinite soul missions so we can’t all fit into one box


All trying to do the same thing because “Simon says” is denying our true purpose


It is not coming from Zero


What is Zero


In Ho’oponopono we are taught there are three levels of state or consciousness


Consciousness

Subconscious

And Superconscious


Subconsciousness is where we store all our memories (data) and they are like records playing over and over again whispering were are not worthy, capable, strong enough etc etc etc. It is what creates our fears and doubts,  anxiety


but it is just memories playing on a loop


It is not real but it is a “Reel”


Our job if any, is to get clear or clean of these memories and get back to our superconsciousness or Zero where we are clear, perfect, our true selves and have access to unlimited possibilities


How does hearing having unlimited possibilities sound to you instead of playing old fearful memories of doubt and insecurities


Sounds amazing right !!!


Now who wants to get clean ????


In a minute I’ll give you a couple tips how to start but first I’ll tell you something miraculous about coming from or being at Zero


From that state without being encomboarded by our memories our soul has an opportunity to speak to us


To whisper inspiration in to our minds


That tell us what action step to take next


Tells us what is right for us and what action steps do not align with our true being


Discernment


Why do I tell you this and what does it have to do with a 90 day challenge and being a freud


Honestly when I heard about the 90 Day challenge I had fallen in to anxiety and overwhelm from something as simple as the Festive Season


Those few days had taken me out of my usual patterns and I felt lost and not sure which way to go


Totally unexpected 😱


I had spent a fantastic few days with my partner using the time to clear our house of clutter and in a way take our house back to zero which I feel intuitively is creating a vacuum for something I was desiring to manifest


And I went with the flow and enjoyed the process but at the same time when I went back to my normal daily routine or tried to those few days were enough to knock me off course and allow the subconscious fear based memories creep in and cloud my judgement




Thanks to Ho’oponopono I started trying to drown out the noise in my head and practice simple Ho’oponopono techniques and initially it can be a battle with the two states and we have to use the third state, the conscious mind to focus on the and carrying out the practices especially when the data mind seems louder and there is no evidence of being at zero


but Zero is always there


always with us


the key is no expectations


Just practice and try to listen to the voice of inspiration and I saw a post about an opportunity to join a 90 day challenge group from another Leader that was not my upline and something in me from zero sent and inspired action step to comment on the post


shortly after I received a message from the said Leader


Now I am in it I am catching up on all the videos being accountable and turning up or the trainings as much as Possible and taking notes on the actions steps to be followed


but honestly I will not be a sheep


I will be open and present and I have got some gold already that I wouldn’t have got if I hadn’t been open to join by saying I know this already and it is not my cup of tea and I will probably try some things that I am not a fan of purely for being open to new opportunities because I trust that Inspired Action nudged me to join


When I was taking my Ho’oponopono training the Trainer Joe Vitale said go to zero as often as possible and then follow those nudges however crazy they seem


I call this Inspired Action and following inspired action after reading the book The Secret coincidently where I came across Joe is what changed my life


And I am currently studying and reading Mabel Katz books that I came across via my ho’oponopono training and when I woke on New years day with an overwhelming sense of fear and dread and tooks some deep Ho’oponopono breaths and then laid quietly and tuned in and asked for guidance and the Universe spoke to me from the whiteboard and said listen to Mabel’s audiobook “The Easiest Way: Solve Your Problems and Take the Road to Love, Happiness, Wealth and the Life of Your Dreams”


While walking around physically clearing house with my partner unbeknown to him I had one ear bud in with my phone in my pocket and I was listening to Mabel over and over again for hours, days in fact and I still am but a different book now and that’s where I got the tips I am about to share with you that I used to quiet the chatter in my head and yesterday the 7th of January just as Mabel advised if we do this I had a major breakthrough and feel like the clouds have broken and sunlight has come flooding through and along with that I feel like a funnel again and Divine Downloads and ideas are like, the sunshine flooding through and I literally am writing this at 5 am after being awake since 1am noting down whatever is coming through


I am not saying it will work as quickly as this for you but what I would advise as Mabel was encouraged to do as she speaks about in the book I am currently reading is “release expectations”


Expectations raise fear and anxiety


Read on if you want to know what those tips are:


One of those downloads was the title I am a Freud


I may feel a bit of a freud because I have joined the challenge but know deep down I will not carrying out all the tasks to letter if at all and it may be that some will be a springboard to do the opposite or validate my reasoning why I feel some of the techniques while I am sure will work for some are outmoded because they come at a price and don’t resonate with my personal philosophy that hard work is bullshit and not necessary especially if you follow the Ho’oponopono ways and in that way it may seem inauthentic so I am a freud to the process


But I reiterate we are not sheep


We are Infinite Beings with Unlimited potentiality and only acting out in one way is stifling  that gift but I am not saying there are not gifts in the challenge so I am remaining open practicing zero and acting on inspired action and oh yeah documenting the findings in another Inspired Idea I had to write a book in 2022 following my progress and logging my results of aiming to stay present and detached aiming to minimise expectations and not setting goals so I can share with others my findings on that journey and show what is possible with Ho’oponopono


Talking of which those Ho’oponopono tips


In Ho’oponopono there is a Ho’oponopono Prayer that goes “I’m sorry please forgive me thank you I love you” as pictured above so feel free to save the photo and or save it as a screensaver so you can see it often and repeat it to clear you own house

When we say I’m sorry please forgive me we are taking full responsibility for what is in us subconsciously, those old memories playing on repeat and to forgive ourselves for not knowing they were playing and therefore creating the less desired outcomes in our lives


Sidenote: This does not mean guilt of Any, any kind !! See below ….


In my 5 step Program The G.R.E.A.T formula™️ created before my Ho’oponopono certification I talk of my love of Responsibility and is what the ‘R’ stands for because I believe when we take responsibility it gives us the power to take control back for our life and not be a victim where no power exists


By saying this we are clearing and cleaning those memories and saying “No more!!”


For me Thank You I love You is thank you to that uncomfortable situation like my anxiety over the festive season for showing me I still have some old memory data playing that I still need to clear and I love you because cleaning this gives me the opportunity to  get closer to Zero and a more peaceful abundant life


Years ago I read a book by my hero Wayne Dyer and in it he used the phrase “Let go and let God” if anyone was the eptimany of Ho’oponopono practices of detachment and no expectations it was Wayne and I always found by using this phrase I found peace even though I am not religious


I see God as the creator of all things with no denominations


It is the creator that makes trees grow and winds blow and our heart beating and our lungs breathing while we sleep and in Mabel’s books she uses Let Go and Let God and and Let go and Trust


and when I felt really overwhelmed I kept repeating the Ho’oponopono Prayer and “I let go and trust I let go and let God”


Above I mentioned the Whiteboard this was something Dr Hew Len who is featured in the Training I did and who was also Mabel’s Trainer and who Mabel took over from when he retired mentions and I love the analogy and I won’t discuss it here but by letting go and surrendering I feel I am allowing myself to access the possibilities of the whiteboard


All things far greater for Me than I could ever anticipate


Let me know in the comments if you have set your sights on a goal or set an intention after learning about The Law of Attraction and it hasn’t manifested and you have felt yucky and then when you least expect it something far more miraculous than you could have ever anticipated shows up effortlessly after a weird series of events or synchronicities ?


That’s what can happen when you remain open, coming from Zero and why I am not a fan of hard work trying to manufacture outcomes that are limited compared to what the Universe has in store for us


I hope these words help you when the subconscious try to take the wheel


Even just repeating thank you over and over again or thank you I love you will have a profound effect


The First and to me the most important part of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ is ‘G’ for Gratitude and there are scientific studies now advocating the benefits of Gratitude which coincidentally was the first Inspired Action step I took in 2010 when I read The Secret


Write 3 things I am grateful for first thing in the morning in a journal


It is so profound it was even mentioned in Grays Anatomy the other day and I love how Life has Transformed since I started my Law of Attraction journey in 2010 because of The Secret and was afraid to discuss openly my love of LOA to where such things are spoken about openly and advocated by social media influencers movie stars , musicians and Oprah


Let me know in the comments you successes and even non-success stories in the comments and I would love to share the success stories on my blog and help the people didn’t achieve the success they desired


I have just had another Inspired  Action idea …..


With Your permission these could be featured in my 2 books I am currently working on. The one I am mentioned earlier as I document my surrender goalless journey in 2022 and another book about The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono


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