I have a confession to make this #motivationalmonday ….
I have been suffering from a little bit of comparisonitis in the last few days
It came about from attending a Virtual Event over the Weekend called Thrive In 2025 with Dean Graziosi and Tony Robbins and I saw a post by a mutual Facebook friend who was also attending and like me, attended previous events and they shared their successes they credited to these events
And I started or should I say. My Ego Mind started to berate me, calling me a loser and why wasn’t I further along by now ?
Thankfully just prior to this Inspired Action had suggested I partake in Regan Hillyer’s 5 Day Manifestation Intensive that is part of her Membership Program I invest in called “IGNITE” to juice things on a bit.
Now there are 3 nonnegotiable’s for me every month that I invest in …
My Clickfunnels membership. My Rob Moore Gold Membership and “IGNITE” with Regan Hillyer.
There are other mentorship programs I invest in but if push came to shove. These are my must have’s plus my Gym Membership
I’m not trying to sell you on “IGNITE” or maybe I Am but think about this, it is $9.99 dollars a month so here in the UK that is with the current exchange rate just over £7.00. Break that over 30 days and I think that is incredible value but I know people who will pooh-pooh that investment and say I am never going to do that but will spend that on a coffee “Everyday” !!! because they see that as nonnegotiable. Everyday !!!
So let’s get real and raw here and break it down. £7 a day, say over 5 days a week to knock off weekends and that is £140 a month (or more if they go twice a day or buy a croissant or cake or buy a drink for a companion) yet they won’t invest $9.99 a month to support them in making their dreams a reality and then they moan about their lives 🤔
And a quick side note. That nonnegotiable caffeine hit costs more than all my nonnegotiable’s put together and I know I am getting far more from them to pull me towards my BPR.
But I have to say gradually as the weekend went on I got so much value from this event. So much wisdom. So many ideas. So many content ideas for my own work.
As Jay Shetty‘s wife Radhi Devlukia Shetty said on day two “We Are All Bridges of other peoples Wisdom” her meaning was, some people feel they are never ready to start because they are not qualified enough but if we are passionate about something the chances are we have invested in books, courses etc and gained knowledge on those subjects and we can all start communicating our own interpretations of that gained knowledge and inform others who have most likely not been aware of it before and aid and encourage them on their journeys which is just what I feel I Am doing
Two takeaways I got from Dean Graziosi that I wrote down that I will share now were “There’s a Gift Inside ALL Of us that someone is waiting for”
and second “The People Who Don’t Live Their Dreams are The Ones Who Gave Up. Don’t Give Up. Just Keep Going”
Which is very much like the Lisa Nichols quote I included in the Image “Quitters Never Win and Winners Never Quit”
You, I will only succeed if we keep going
Another confession I have is ….
I used to quit all the time. Usually at the first road block. Then I inadvertently started building a subconscious Morning Routine that you can get for FREE at www.mywakeuphappy.com and part of that Morning Routine was Personal Development like watching and listening to YouTube videos of people like Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor and a personal favourite. Tony’s mentor. Jim Rohn and then one day I noticed something ….
I stopped quitting. No matter how sxxt things got. I built what Lisa calls “Your Bounce Back Muscle”
I would sometimes feel a little defeated, jaded but then something would motivate me on like this morning …
And then while listening I had some realisations and started journalling them down. I noticed I manifested the bed I was, am laying in. I manifested this bedroom and everything in it. I manifested my current weight loss and health goals that are part of my own BPR. My Macbook I am using. Cars etc and perhaps when your ego is trying to telling you you are a loser and remind you of all the things you haven’t yet got or want to become remind yourself of all the things you have achieved to date and this can be a tool to keep the “Faith in the Yet Unseen” when doubt starts to bubble up and it looks like your BPR is not happening
Then I had the thought that maybe it wasn’t my Ego after all and maybe it was my 5D version of me shaking me up. Making me uncomfortable because maybe I have got a little to comfortable in my current reality and it was saying “Hey, Hey, Hey ! We are not done yet. You are not where I am in your 3D reality and there is still some work to be done” and when I say work. I mean some more envisioning to be done. Some more focusing on my BPR to become an energetic match for it
I hope this weeks edition of Motivational Monday has inspired you to focus on Your Big Picture Reality or if this term is new to you. Actually start to write down what it would look like and give you some tools to keep focused when it looks like nothing is happening or even better why not invest in yourself by investing in “IGNITE”
It might mean forgoing something like one coffee but trust me, the results will taste so much better
Until next time
Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible for Us to Build a Business and Life we All Love And Wake UP Happy !!
My Monday was so Memorable and so Soul Aligned in so many ways and when I went to chill I don’t know why but I was drawn to watch The Screen Actors Guild Awards on Netflix
I had no idea why as I have never watched before in my life but I followed Inspired Action and then I saw Jessica Gunning had been nominated for her role in Baby Reindeer for best female actor in a TV movie or Limited series
The other nominees were Screen legends like Kathy Bates, Cate Blanchett and Jodie Foster
I physically said to my TV “Please let it be Jessica” who first came to my awareness in her role “The Outlaws” which I thought she was brilliant and hilarious in, that has a very eclectic cast including Christopher Walken and was Co Directed and Co Written by Bristol born Stephen Merchant and filmed 35 miles away from me actually in “Bristol”
I literally clapped like a seal when Jessica won and walked up on stage but when she gave her speech I knew why I was drawn to watch
Jessica said “When she started acting she had an office job along side acting for about 8 years and had a very geeking thing to admit that when she went into work she had a powerpoint vision board of all things she wanted to do and all the people she wanted to meet and work with and Cate Blanchett, Jodie Foster and Kathy Bates were on that Vision board and she got a huge cheer when she admitted this fact
Along with me who clapped at the TV …
How things have changed
Early that day I had a conversation with some friends about my alter ego The Law of Attraction Lover and someone said “Wait, what did you say? The what?”
And I replied “The Law of Attraction Lover. When I started on this weird journey I have been on I started a blog called The Law of Attraction Lover because honestly I was to shy to use my own name and talk about this, for me. Life changing phenomenon called the Law Of Attraction and I asked for guidance what to call it and that’s what came through”
“Oh that came up as a suggestion for me and I didn’t know what it was and ignored it”
I admitted that these day’s I hardly blog, creating other stuff in other formats but it’s ok because it is Evergreen and it still hangs out there online and I still feel inclined to blog now and again
Little did I know that following Inspired Action to watch the Screen Actor’s guild awards would inspire me to write a blog post later that very day.
As I have just mentioned. Early in my journey I was nervous to talk about my geeky love of LOA and all things Mindset, personal development etc and hid behind a sydonum but here is a famous actress standing on a world wide stage, literally. Admitting to her Vision-board and proving that focused attention works
Not only that, she mentioned she worked in an office for 8 years whilst building her career
When I had an office job I used to place my Bob Proctor inspired goal card on my PC so I could see it all day and despite what felt like a living hell. I listened to Bob to and from that position on my commute and held the Faith that one day the words on that Goal Card would Manifest
And they did in the weirdest set of Circumstances I could “Never” have imagined which were about having my own business and when that Manifested people would come into that business all the time and say how lucky I was Doing What I Loved and Loving What I Did (which were literally some of the words I had on that card)
And I would proceed to tell them how they could do the same and they would instantaneously start putting up objections of why it was possible for me and not for them
Bob Proctor says “If You Can Hold it in Your Head You Can Hold it in Your Hand”
But they would say things like
Usually they were too old (while being younger than me).
Not talented enough but I would use a question to ask them something to pull out of them something they were passionate about and watch them become totally animated and explain how they could start transmuting that into a potential business and income stream
But they would tell me they had bills to pay and they couldn’t give up their job and they wouldn’t have time and
A) I would tell them how they could use tiny pockets of time to do certain things and that it all adds up over time
and
B) I would tell them about my girl and first mentor Marie Forleo who worked 3 different jobs while building her Life Coaching business and went on to incredible success and now stands on the most prestigious stages and gets interviewed by the most prominent people including Oprah Winfrey
And now here is British born Jessica Gunning standing on a prestigious stage claiming her award and telling the world she worked in an office along side building her acting career and sharing the fact that she had a Vision Board she looked at every day morning to a room that included Kathy Bates, Cate Blanchett and Jodie Foster
It was because I became so frustrated with these incredibly able talented woman righting themselves off that inadvertently moved into the next phase of my journey. The one I am just developing and evolving into right now
I thought I was on one path and working on one thing when I was persistently interrupted with said women and it felt like consistent road blokes to what I felt I should be doing until eventually
After a very fulfilling day helping one lady that the Universe presented me with to maximise their Facebook page and then approached by another for support that the penny dropped
And I trust that all this happened for a reason
I recently realised I had allowed myself to fall out of aligned with my true desires and literally yesterday morning I made the decision to recommit to only acting out of Soul Alignment regardless of what things looked like now and however long it takes and the Synchronicities immediately started to show up again
Where we are right now may not look like anything like where we truly desire to be but holding the Faith in the Yet Unseen and taking those little steps however geeky and Freaky they look but feel soul aligned will eventually get you to where you want to be
Just please don’t put a date and time stamp on it
Keep holding the Faith and Follow those Inspired ideas. Take the actions and please know it all adds up even if you have to keep the day job in the beginning etc
If you don’t know where to start ….
My life changed with one simple practice in the Morning that turned into, eventually a 5 Step Morning Routine Framework and now you can access that Framework for free at mywakeuphappy.com because I was at rock bottom and that first step transformed my life and made me wake up happy and once I knew The Secret after reading the book The Secret I wanted to let as many other people as possible Wake UP Happy and that is what Inspired me to start this blog
Remember;
“If You Can Hold it in Your Head. You Can Hold it In Your Hand”
Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us
It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey
What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently
Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support
I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools
I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them
I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender
I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol
What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above
Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time
I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key
Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me
I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)
This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)
When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action
While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb
I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it
(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)
Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment
Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging
Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come
The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)
But this time I felt assured
I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day
I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic I say unusually …..
It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously
I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask
I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all
Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”
Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock
But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing
In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business
Every night several things come to bed with me …
A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.
I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons
It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up
But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….
Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?
When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”
Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”
I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”
I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.
All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential
What’s my point to all this ?
When I tuned into my body the penny dropped
There was my answer to my financial questions
I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …
It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show
I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives
I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment
The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money
You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously
I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools
Thankfully using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago
Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise
I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”
As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor
“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”
That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift
Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts. If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …
And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled … Of course the international day of Love 💕
I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all
I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍
Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look
Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo
When I started this blog, I felt compelled to (burning desire that wouldn’t go away) for a start, I wanted to share my observations of The Law of Attraction in action in my life and called the category “Just Me Rambling”
And I suppose in an arrogant type of way I wanted to try and say “Hey, this is happening in my life and it is happening to you in yours and hopefully generate a thought that would make people question both the good and the bad in their lives and see there are no accidents (blogged about that) and then start using deliberate creation to attract life’s circumstances intentionally
What I didn’t mention was that when I started I was terrified. Terrified of pressing the publish button. Terrified about my content (despite being from the heart) Terrified of telling people I know and love that I created this blog. I would tremble, my heart rate would rise so much I swear it was going to fly out of my chest and take flight like one of those moths above
I literally didn’t know one single soul who talked about The Law of Attraction. Practiced daily Personal Development. Watched Video’s on YouTube. Read Personal Development books and books on Quantum Physics. I got a lot of stick about my books from my partner. How it was all rubbish and I should throw them away but still I felt compelled to read them but just tried to be more discreet. iPad and iPhones are great for that with YouTube & iBooks, Kindle apps 😉
It did always stick with me what Jim Rohn says about being the sum of the 5 people around us and I thought “Ok, I’ll have to create my 5% virtually” but still I stayed in the shadows and practiced my Woo Woo in secret.
It has always been a dream of mine to be self-employed and in 2016 whilst off work (from a job I hated) due to a broken leg that I broke the day after making a Bob Proctor inspired goal card saying “I Am Successfully Self-Employed Doing What I love and Loving What I Do” and I know, extreme way to get time away from it and making me miss my daughters wedding in to the bargain (more blog posts) I started writing a book about experimenting attracting things via the path of least resistance, however hands up I still haven’t finished the book because I returned to work quicker than diagnosed because I decided to self heal inspired by Anita Moorjani’s book “Dying to Be Me” and every morning on my return I placed the goal card in front of me by my PC screen and after a very strange series of events when I least expected it in a path of least resistance way a business opportunity arose almost 2 years ago doing what I love and loving what I do but that’s not the point of this post (just a little back story that fell out of my brain)
The point is about something that only just occurred to me today …….
Whilst doing what I love I listen to a lot of podcasts, ebooks, YouTube Video’s etc and as well as the physical business (Painting Wooden Ducks) in the summer of 2017 another business opportunity arose in Network Marketing and learning from the previous situation that to get anywhere you have to take risks and do the things that other people aren’t willing to do to get where you want to be
Now, I knew nothing about NWM and I have probably been the worlds worst NWM because I followed the advise I saw from the ‘Lives’ and Training video’s and despite the products being amazing and Training material contributors getting amazing results I got none. Before implementing them I felt icky in my gut (and despite always aiming to be a gut listener) I tried their way because I didn’t know any different and talking of trying and my gut recently something said stick with it but aim to be more authentic and come from a place of alignment and not a sheep. Thanks Universe, no soft soaping there Baby.
This morning I listened to an incredible Ali Brown Podcast about how we hide our important messages in our safe space and challenging us to get our true message out there in full public view and of course it resonated with me with my new desire to be completely authentic and aligned in ALL things regardless of the consequences but to be perfectly honest …….
Network Marketing has given me the confidence to do that for a long time in regards to my own personal offers about myself but I just wasn’t doing it in my Networking practices with my products because I didn’t have the confidence in my own abilities in that business arena
I have other aspirations now in business for 2019 and I am 100% assured I only move forward doing something for this venture when it is authentic and aligned (and gut checked) and the authentic and aligned in all areas is getting more natural now
Wow this is longest Blog post I have written in months … thank you so much if you have stuck with it this far. I appreciate you so much
And while I have been doing the authentic and aligned in recent days I have attracted more friends and followers than I have done …. ever !! And most of them have been in the business and MLM environment and this is where is shows authentically complete honesty …..
I had the thought …. I really hope they don’t try to spammy pitch me their opportunity and try to poach me because I love my company and it’s products and I am staying put (and we are NO.3 in the top Ten MLM Companies to work for in 2019) and we have a no spam policy but usually when I get business followers this happens (Yuck) so I checked my messages …. no eggy spam – Hoorah !!
And then I thought the light bulb thought …. I maybe wrong but maybe they added me as a peer, or they liked my (authentic) content and genuinely want to follow me because I put out my Woo Woo on my wall and they relate to it.
See, I am not terrified who knows the real me any more so it is all out there for everyone to see
I love Frazer Brookes, seriously check him out because he is all about the authentic message in Network Marketing and the other day Frazer posted “Be so positive that negative people delete you on Facebook”
And the negative partner who said throw the books away …. now he’s all positive, positive and eradicates the negative. No News in our house or Negative people on his social feed
And the 5%? I have to admit it still surprises me and I don’t know why. When I joined my NWM Company I joined because I felt it was a great opportunity but I never expected a community of people who like me, watch motivational material every morning. Read Personal Development books all the time and openly talk about The Law of Attraction on their Social Media platforms
I secretly wanted to be self-employed with as Bob Proctor advises ‘Multiple Streams of Income and I secretly wanted to connect to like minded people who would stimulate me and I attracted both it almost feels like, by accident or should I say “The Path of Least Resistance”
I have been reading Gary Vaynerchuk’s book “Crush It”. I first downloaded his new book “Crushing It”, which I am loving by the way but something made me read the sample of Crush it on Sunday and I wanted to continue so bought the whole book.
Honestly, I was telling myself “No more books !!” And honestly I was a little anxious about finances and fulfilling my obligations in this short month and then honestly I have been working on my mindset regarding my lack mentality so reminded myself, telling myself not to buy the book wasn’t sending the right messages to the Universe about abundance beliefs so a downloading I go.
But the above is just an authentic blurting of the prequel to this post and the source of its inspiration.
So I am sat in my shop. I have set myself up for my day. I have gotten my little craft boxes out that I required for my tasks and I have chosen a podcast to listen to from the “The Science of Happiness” podcast and I start creating a veil for a Bride Duck and then the bliss hit me.
I love anything to do with small, fine detail. I go into my zone working on anything intricate and this combined with the podcast I felt overwhelmed with Gratitude.
How lucky am I to get to do what I love and love what I do … or is it luck?
If you have read any of my posts before you may know my favourite quite is –
“Once you make a decision, the Universe conspires to make it happen”
Ralph Waldo Emerson .
And that I made a goal card inspired by Bob Proctor nearly 2 years ago
(My actual Goal Card which I still read daily)
And now I have a shop where I make bespoke and readymade hand painted wooden ducks to sell either through the shop, online or Facebook (@shabbychicducks) that came about through a Universal effortless alignment of events.
I was reading “Crush It” and Gary discussed your personal brand and your passion and authenticity and are you in a job that doesn’t allow you your personal voice and long before I knew about Gary Vee I had a daily affirmation about being able to in a position where I could be 100% authentic to myself as I found it hard to be employed in roles or personal positions where I couldn’t be authentic and boom here I am sitting being able to be 100% authentic, living my goal card and then it struck me … blog it.
You see my ultimate passion is writing and helping people believe that anything is possible with the ‘Right Thinking’.
Last night I had a thought while reading Gary’s incredible book and then I have this experience and this incredible urge to write about it and that ain’t no accident Baby …. that’s the Universe in action and another goal card coming into physical manifestation.
Remember – Law of Attraction practitioners say “Focus on what you do want, not what you don’t want”
On the 10th of April 2016 inspired by Bob Proctor I made 2 Goal Cards from simple badge laminates I bought from Ebay and some pictures I made by using a simple phone app and put them in my purse to read them often.
April 11th 2016 around 07:30am I slipped carrying out a simple household chore and broke my leg in 3 places meaning I was laid up and had to miss my daughters Wedding and Dream Holiday all rolled into one as I needed an operation and couldn’t fly.
I refused to be beaten but didn’t read my goal cards frequently as I wasn’t accessing my purse very often but fast forward to 2017.
Despite my haphazard approach to reading my goal cards or carrying out anything with detailed consistency the Universe Conspired and much of what was on those goal cards manifested and what hasn’t completely manifested is already in the pipeline for 2018 amongst many things that weren’t written on goal cards but in my daily affirmations and my “My definiteness of persistent purpose” statement that I also didn’t do/read on a consistent basis but has given me the best year of my life to date and more vigour and excitement for the year ahead than I have ever had previously.
My point being. If I could create all this without consistent effort. Imagine what I could achieve if I really truly focused so that is why I gifted myself a Christmas present of a goal setting session with a brilliant Mindset Coach and friend Rebecca Adams from rebeccaadamsbiz.com which in itself set up potential fulfilment of more goals by default.
So lets not pussy foot around with 2018. Lets not set namby pamby resolutions. Let’s take ownership of 2018 and claim it as ours and set definite goals we WILL achieve.
Hears to a fantastic future and an Awesome New Year.
Much Love and over an out for 2017 and see you in the most exceptional year of your life 😉
April 2016 while listening to Bob Proctor “Born Rich” video’s on YouTube nearly everyday I decided to make some goal cards.
Which I did and promptly broke my leg and forgot about my goal cards that I had placed in my purse.
Whilst laid up I started writing a book that was really a living breathing documentation of was I able to achieve my goals by following the path of least resistance, applying the Law of Attraction, visualising etc.
Well fast forward to nearly the end of November 2017 my life has changed so exponentially I have neither had time to write that book or hardly ever blog.
I have kept meaning to blog what has happened but it would just take to long and I haven’t got the time. I am working longer hours than I have ever worked and more days than I have ever worked but it feels wrong to write the word “WORK” as it doesn’t feel like work.
One of my goal cards said:
“I AM SUCCESSFULLY SELF EMPLOYED DOING WHAT I LOVE AND LOVING WHAT I DO”
My favourite quote is in the picture above and the Universe certainly did conspire because I have a successful online craft business that also ventured into a shop in September and the response is phenomenal and how it all came about was a magnificent series of events that the Universe stitched together seamlessly and effortlessly just like I was on the path of least resistance.
Thats not mentioning all the other miraculous things that have happened to me in 2017 like being involved in an International Interview Series with amazing entrepreneurs but that is a story for another day 😉
I haven’t posted recently because I have been flat out investing in myself and using every spare moment.
I am currently employed but retraining to gain a skill and qualification to enable me to do something in a self-employed capacity and this is only a facilitation to the next step.
As long as I am breathing I shall be learning and growing.
I have been getting up early to study my books and to take my tests before embarking on my current paid job and meeting my Trainer in the evenings and at weekends.
My Trainer told me this week he had not known another candidate in his time of Training who had progressed as much as me at this point in the syllabus which just goes to show if you want something, anything bad enough it is possible.
On the drive home this song came on the car stereo. I was already buzzing but this heightened the intensity.
I thought ‘ahh this is a good one for a song list’ and it made me think. I wonder how much listening to Happy Music contributes to raising my vibration to a level that enables me to attract so much goodness in to my life?
If you have read my other posts you will know I have a habit of listening to YouTube and inspirational videos as I commute, travel, shop. An idea I stole from Ali Brown and I was listening to a Bob Proctor video the other day about becoming anything you desire and sometimes the information you already know packaged in a different way with a new eye catching bow, grabs you attention.
It was actually a guest speaker on the video who talked about this all prevailing energy that we have in this Universe which I have no doubt exists and the speaker said “This energy is everywhere 100% of the time and if it is everywhere 100% of the time it is in you 100% of the time.” Now I have read many times about going within, the power in you etc, etc but to hear it is in us 100%, 100% of the time. Really struck me. Yes, yes !! Available to call on whenever, where ever I need it to assist me in anything and everything I require. To facilitate the next step and the next and the next. What have we really got to fear? Really ???
What would give you such a good feeling of total ecstasy?
Have you asked yourself that lately. Are you living it? If not, what’s stopping you?
Law of Attraction Lover 