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Wealth Wednesday #011

Wealth Wednesday #011

“I Quit”

I admit it. I quit Doing the Do …

There is “Do” and there is “Do” 

One “Do” is always “Doing”. Doing the work, hustling. Pouring ALL of You into Everything and Everybody else’s Desires and I bet ….

For years, you’ve poured your energy into everyone else’s dreams.

Me too and I keep falling back in to doing the “Do” for others subconsciously 

BUT !! 

There’s usually signs and the trick is to start noticing the signs and calling a “STOP” to Doing the “Do” and do another kind of “Do” instead.

Overwhelm ~ Frustration ~ Anger ~ Feeling there is not enough Time is a sign …

A sign you are “Doing” too much for others and NOT Doing enough for YOU !!

But what if the next chapter of You, what You “DO” is all about You —Your Passions, Your Purpose, and Your Prosperity?

What if …

You start “Doing” the Things You LOVE and Quit “Doing” for Everyone else

And what if …

If Doing those things You love could be monetised?

Now it is easier than ever to Monetise Your Gifts

“Your Wealth Begins with Your Belief.”

What You “DO” need is belief.
Belief that Your gifts matter.
Belief that Your story can inspire.
Belief that the life You dream of is calling because it’s meant for You.

Your Desires are Your Soul Calling You forward to what You are Truly Meant to “Do”

Here’s the truth:

Regardless of How much of Yourself You have given to Doing for others …

It’s not too late.
You’re not too old.
And You don’t need to have it all figured out.

You just need to give Yourself Permission to Do the Things You LOVE !!

It doesn’t have to be hours …

Start with small amounts of time “Each” day ….

Maybe 5 minutes in the Morning to Connect with Your Inner Self and allow the ideas and Inspirations of Your Soul “Time” to Speak to You …

Take a Journal with You and step away from the Hustle of the Day and write the above Affirmation 5 times

Set alarms to remind You, You deserve to “Do” the Things You were brought here to “Do”

Belief is “Your” currency

Belief is the first currency of any business.
Before the income, before the clients, before the impact—
There must be belief in YOU.

✨ Belief that your Passion matters.
✨ Belief that your aquired Wisdom is enough.
✨ Belief that you are not “too late”—you are right on time.

💡 You don’t need to start with a plan.


You start with permission—to dream again, to try again, to rise again.

If this is the First time You have given Yourself permission to Dream about what You want to Do and it all seems a little overwhelming …

No problem !!!

I have a Gift for You ….

“FEEL” Ready to turn your passions into profit without hustle or overwhelm?

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And remember:

“Your Desires are Your Soul Calling You Forward towards what You Were Truly Brought here to “Do” so Don’t ever Doubt Your Desires. Believe You Have been Brought here to share Your Gifts and Your Gifts are of High Value and Believe in Your ability to Create Wealth through what You LOVE”

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !!

Ali xoxo

#WealthWednesday #SoulAlignedSuccess #PassionToProfit #WomenOver40 #OnlineBusiness #AlignedWealth #SpiritualEntrepreneur #BelieveAndReceive #EmpoweredWomen #FreedomLifestyle

 

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Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #008

“There is no debt in. Divine Mind, therefore, I owe no person anything, all is squared. All my obligations are now wiped out, under grace in a perfect way.” ~ Florence Scovel Shinn

For #wealthwednesday this week I thought  I would use an affirmation by Florence Scovel Shinn as I was talked about her recently and her inspiration behind a tool I call “Milk the Twigs”

The full explanation of this can be found in The Law of Attraction Lovers Club at loalover.club that can be accessed for free

I know and fully appreciate the overwhelming Fear that can be felt when obligations mount and there seems too much Month at the end of the Money

For a very long time I struggled with my ‘Money Mindset’ as I was subconsciously programmed at an early age and the Fear around money was palpable but I was unaware of the impact it had on me and despite all my efforts I would keep falling into ‘Default Fear’ as I call it

But the trouble with Fear is it is a Negative Blocking energy just perpetuating the very thing we are trying to get away from

The only antidote to Fear is Faith but I get it ….

I know how overwhelming Fear can be especially around money and I tried book after book and trainings. You name it and when I reverted to default and started worrying about money I felt a failure and felt I was destined to always be like it until I read a book the Universe sent me and made it impossible to avoid

And now My favourite money book ever and when the author admitted she still felt scared every day about money (despite being a multimillionaire) I suddenly realised it was normal and I was normal and maybe I would always worry about money and I needed to let myself ofd the hook but I just needed to acknowledge the Fear and use tools to raise my vibration back to Faith

This affirmation maybe just the antidote you need today and it could be said verbally or mentally but my advice is write it out several times.

Marie Forleo says when she desires something she writes it out 15 times a day for a certain amount of days

And talking of days

Just know there is a lag time with our thoughts and affirmations and when they can show up because our previous thoughts are still manifesting

One of my favourite quotes is by Abraham Hicks which is “Don’t get Tripped Up today by Yesterday’s Vibration” meaning when it looks like nothing is happening don’t quit.

As I mentioned. We are just still seeing the results of previous thoughts and they have to play out before our current thoughts show up in our 3D reality

That’s why ‘Milk the Twigs’ is such a great tool when it looks like nothing is happening and helps you hold the “Faith” in the yet unseen

And if you are interested in my favourite Money book of ALL time and haven’t heard me mention it before it is ….

“Rich As Fxxk” by Amanda Frances and I highly recommend grabbing a copy by tapping the link 🔗 https://amzn.to/4j7UcQB or the title

And if you “Feel” overwhelmed by financial obligations. Write the affirmation out several times

At the very least it can detract you thoughts but in reality you are changing you vibration and Your frequency to something far more beneficial

Until next #wealthwednesday

Why not check out The Law of Attraction Lovers club and find out how to “Milk The Twigs” and grab a copy of that amazing book “Rich As Fxxk”

And …

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Wake Up Happy and to Build a Business and Life You Love !!

Ali xoxo

 

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#motivationalmonday #001

#motivationalmonday is a post I normally do on my Socials but decided to start doing it on the Law of Attraction Lover blog as well but honestly. This post is a bit different

No attempt at borrowing a profound quote and sharing some insights

Just one word “Embodiment”

Because when we embody the feeling of the thing we desire the thing we desire finds us

Honestly “Embodiment” is not something I have spent nearly enough time doing but as I enter a new birth year I have set the intention to make it my word of the year and implement more time to Embodying my “Big Picture Reality”

I know of a few people who are very successful from spending just a few minutes a day “Embodying” the person they wanted to become and yet here I Am still not picking what they were putting down

And did you just pick up what I put down?

A few minutes

One person used the walk back from dropping her kids to school visualising herself as already having the life she desired

Another suggests setting alarms on your phone on the hour (where possible) to spend a few seconds “Embodying” Your Big Picture Reality

Both are living proof that it works and Dr Joe Dispenza says the brain doesn’t know the difference between real and imagined

But I believe the Universe is always on time and maybe it wasn’t my time before to truly practice “Embodiment” but now is.

Has any of this resonated with “You”?

If so, maybe now is “Your” time to practice spending a few moments each day “Embodying” the person being in the lifestyle You Truly desire to be in but always have “Gratitude” for where you are now

Not really sure what that looks like?

Top Tip: First stop. Journal out your ultimate Big Picture Reality. The Biggest Juiciest life you can ever image. PS: You are telling no one so the gloves are off. No Limits !! Then move on to …

Stage 2: Set just one alarm on your phone where you know you’ll be undisturbed so you can spend a little time “Embodying” what you wrote down. If your schedule doesn’t allow the same time every day. Move it around. and label it “BPR” for Big Picture Reality. Ideally more alarms are great but let’s make one a regular occurrence first to build consistency

And, if you are going to join me on the journey of “Embodiment” I would love to know by dropping a comment and if you want to learn more about how to Build out a Big Picture Reality or Setting BPR Alarms why not learn it from the lady who taught me …

Regan Hillyer and join her monthly membership program “IGNITE” by tapping on the word “IGNITE”

Regan is currently spoken about as the Worlds No.1 Manifestation Queen and when you become a part of “IGNITE” as well as so many, many incredible Manifestation Tools you get to be on a Live Zoom Activation with Regan herself where you get to interact with her and talking of “Embodiment” ….

For me, Regan “Embodies” what I truly Visualised as a Big Picture Reality where you can have it all without the Hustle and Grind but perfect flow grace and ease.

That Era is gone. Step into a new Era with Us and Feel “IGNITED

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !!

Ali xoxo

 

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Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #005

Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #005

#wealthwednesday affirmation #005

Happy Wealth Wednesday

Today’s Affirmation comes from what I believe at this present time to be the best #moneymindset book on the Market because ….

It looks at money from a whole different perspective than the other Money Mindset books I have read

For the majority of us our Money Mindset is set in us long before we have an awareness it is happening and again for the majority of us, it is not a healthy one in our favour

Just listen to the conversations around you, heck listen to your own conversations about money

They are usually based around lack and they are probably nearly 100% going to be subconscious and that is where the trouble lies.

We are not even aware we are projecting a Vibration of Lack and then wonder why we are always living in lack or live in a little bit of abundance and then slip back into lack without even realising why

The good news is what was programmed into us subconsciously can be reprogrammed “Consciously” by things like saying and writing #affirmations I provide in Wealth Wednesday Affirmations

Some people say Affirmations don’t work which is a self prophesying affirmation in of it’s self and then they wonder why they don’t work

They did work. They just worked to not work if you get my gist.

Anyways ….

Back to #wealthwednesday affirmations

I am not sure if you are aware I followed Inspired Action to start a Linkedin Newsletter called “Amplified Empires” which I also felt Inspired to add to my website, the address which is in the image I provided and in it I ramble about my ideas and beliefs about building a Business Online based around your Passions with some Mindset thrown in

And this Saturdays is all about your gifts and expertise and why we are warranted to serve others with our gained Knowledge and Expertise so I think this affirmation is a good precursor this weeks Newsletter

And talking of precursors, why not head over to my website and read some of the previous editions and start writing and or saying mentally “My Gifts are Of High Value and Worthy of Massive Compensation” on a regular basis like I have Amanda’s book playing in my ear on a regular basis

And if you want your Money Mindset given a massive boost why not grab your own copy and have Amanda’s wisdom running throughout your ears and life by clicking on the title of the book “Rich As FxxK” by Amanda Frances

Until Saturday …

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month Life !!

Ali xoxo

 

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Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #003

#wealthwednesday #affirmation

“Hustle and Grind is a bind but Aligned is Divine, I now Attract Money With Grace, Ease & Flow”

Only last night I saw a very Masculine Hustle & Grind kind of post that said “You won’t get much done if you only grind on the days you feel good”

I’ve even seen women post this style of content saying unless you are bleeding out of your eyeballs you have to show up 🥱

These are just beliefs that worked for them and they are passing on to others that make me feel sick 🤮

Recently I heard someone say something that I was more Aligned to about it being ok to maybe only post one piece of content a week or less as long as it felt good and from the heart to you instead of going out in your little metaphorical life boat desperately trying to get clients, be the light house that attracts your Soul Aligned Clients

I know which one I prefer and just out of interest

All of these people are very successful and wealthy in their fields of business proving it is not the Labor but their belief in their own Worthiness

They believe in themselves and that their way is correct because it got them results and deep down they care about people and want them to have success too and that’s why they are trying to sell the thing they believe in

Not to long ago I saw things I desired Manifest into my Life Effortlessly and with Ease and no effort from me apart from the Desire

Understandably it made me stop and think “Hmm? The Hustle and Grind, I inadvertently always revert to causes stress without little results and being in Flow and having Faith in the Yet unseen at some point always Manifests results far more Miraculously than I could have ever imagined. There must be something in this?”

From then on I felt repelled by the Hustle & Grind type of old outdated Mindset

Talking of Grace, Flow and Ease …

Then Regan Hillyer came into my Life who is the epitome of my ideal of Living and Manifesting without Hustle and Grind and she actually uses the terminology “Grace, Ease and Flow” and she is currently ranked in some peoples view as the Worlds No.1 Manifestation Queen

And oh yes, she is a self made Multi-Millionaire and I have no doubt soon to be Billionaire

But you maybe thinking “I Struggle with belief in my own Worthiness, How Will I be Able to Create Wealth?”

Funnily enough Regan has you covered in her monthly program “IGNITE” that has a Self Love Tool Kit inside along with many, many, many other free Training’s included like Activating Abundance and a 5 Day Manifestation Intensive along with a live with Regan Zoom Monthly Activations to help clear limiting beliefs etc

Click on the word “IGNITE” to see how you can make this #wealthwednesday one you start manifesting wealth with ease instead of hustle and grind

 

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Two Types of People. Two Types of Sabotage

Two Types of People. Two Types of Sabotage

“There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: Those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed” ~ Ray Goforth

Something happened to me recently that changed my perspective When I saw this quote it resonated with me.

Because of what happened I realised while I was frustrated and annoyed at first I hadn’t stopped to think about the motivator.

I actually think the latter was at play and I think it is subconscious and I also think from reading that quote that people can be both at the same time.

When you are faced with naysayers or don’t feel supported.

1) People probably are not even aware of their actions.

2) The impact they are having on you.

3) What’s motivating them to behave/react as they are.

I think if you are a 2%’r .

You know what you want.

You have goals and dreams .

And you take action on them …

This triggers the other 98%.

Even if they don’t realise they are being triggered.

It touches nerves subconsciously.

It reminds them that they haven’t achieved the things they wish they had or in most case never even started.

They feel guilt, shame and anger at themselves (type 1).

And, or They fear if you go after your desires you will leave them behind (type 2) so they say and do things consciously or subconsciously to put you down or talk you out of following your goals.

The only people we should listen to are the ones that have succeeded at what we desire to achieve and the ones that always support us unconditionally.

At the same time love those that act out of fear because they most probably are not aware of their actions or why they act that way.

And because Love is one of the highest forms of vibration and that can only support us and dwelling on their actions will cause us to “drift” away from our dreams and goals and cause us to waste precious time moving towards our ultimate desires.

Plus we never know who may or may not walk our path with us in the future and we could let someone who may not even walk that path change the trajectory of a destination they will not even share with us.

The only constant that most people can rely on being their as we walk our paths is “Ourselves”.

We don’t truly know what will happen or who will be their with us as we go along our way so we might as well pursue the calling of our Soul. Our Purpose regardless of anyone else’s thoughts or actions.

As the William Ernest Henley poem Invictus states be “The Master of Your Fate. The Captain of Your Soul”.

Opposition is common. Giving up is Optional.

 

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We All Have Bill’s To Pay …

We All Have Bill’s To Pay …

“We all have bills to pay”

Don’t be fooled by what you see in your current reality

No one knows what’s going on behind the scenes

Working on my dream while working for someone to build there’s

No shame !!!

I’ll explain more later …

There’s a quote by Farrah Gray that says :-

“Build Your Own Dreams, or Someone will Hire You to Build Theirs”

There are a lot of people hired to help build other people’s dreams or the world wouldn’t function

Some people don’t feel compelled to change the world and that’s ok 👌

What we don’t see when we see super successful people that are now worth probably multiple millions is. And I know for a fact, some people were working job’s that were contributing to building other people’s dreams while they were starting out on their’s

Several jobs at once in some cases until Their dream became profitable enough that they felt secure enough financially to let them go …

I don’t see that as selling out. I see it as Savvy

This quote can seem negative and come across as a be all or end all (I know that’s not quite the correct sentence but I was making a point)

Perhaps it should be “Build Your Own Dreams whilst working for other people who dared to go for theirs until it’s time to go it alone” or words to that effect

It’s easier for me to tell me people I let my Brick n Mortar business go because of Covid-19 and yes there is no doubt it was dramatically effected by Covid but I had a vision for something long before Covid and I knew I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life spinning my wheels being landlocked and constantly trading time for money

I see the events leading up to me letting it go were simply steps towards the manifestation of my Ultimate Desire

I made some decisions that seemed right at the time to move things forward but in reality they didn’t work out to serve my plan as I envisioned they would but that’s ok ….

Inside nothing changed. The Big Picture Reality Remains the same

I just had to Pivot and move on to the next step ….

Then in March I underwent an unexpected shift following taking part in a Regan Hillyer Activation

I went through what could only be described as a “Transformative Experience”

I saw life events line up like dots showing me their purpose but also showed me they were only a tool to serve a Higher Purpose

Then …

But then I felt this shift. I felt I had outgrown everything I had ever created and everything I thought was significant was merely a beautiful stepping stone to something more ????

At first I thought I was stripping back but now it is more like a strip out …

I have stopped creating anything until I align and act from Inspiration

Thankfully I am employed now because we all have bills to pay

Being employed by someone who had a vision and implemented it has in no way meant I have given up on my Big Picture Reality

It’s given me the Freedom to be flexible and reassured life’s necessities are taken care of and I don’t feel forced to create anything that is out of alignment for fear of not paying the Bills

And you can do the same

Never give up on your dream just because you work for someone who built there’s

This is an All and Everything Life … not an all or nothing !!!

I feel inspired to write this post because nobody know what is going on behind the scenes

Shortly after I started this new role I came face to face with someone who previously knew me in a very senior Managerial Position and sarcastically looked me up and down and said “Living the Dream I see’

And I replied “Yes I am Am” with a big Smile because I know I am

Working currently serves a means to an end and I actually enjoy it and the time goes really fast and it also allows me lots of free time to follow one Inspired Action after Another until I eventually catch up with my Big Picture Reality and the next and the next ….

I have caught up with and manifested one Big Picture Reality after another but to an on looker it may look I haven’t manifested much … (Yet !!)

it was just that those Big Picture Realities were a lot smaller in stature so may not seem like I manifested anything but now my BPR’s are absolutely massive and while in this 3D reality it looks like nothing has changed …

I know from previous experiences “Manifestation Miracles” happen in the most unexpected ways at the least expected times in the most Miraculous Ways usually with little help from me

My part is to hold the Faith in the Yet Unseen even when what is seen looks nothing like my current Big Picture Reality that I focus on Everyday

My suggestion to use is ….

DON’T Focus on “What Is”, Focus on What You Truly Desire to the Exclusion to All Else that You Currently See but Be Grateful for it all because it All serves a Purpose even if it doesn’t feel like it.

“Life is Happening for Us, Not to Us”

I still have my digital products available and they may actually be the perfect thing for someone reading this right now for where they are in their journey

For me they are in maintenance mode and I could tweak them if I so wished but I cannot add to them which suits me fine

It is the dawning of a New Era …

A New Era of Creation and I am excited and Open for it ALL !! 🔥

#theloalover #lawofattraction #manifestation

 

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