Before I even knew what a Wealth Mindset was mine was programmed for Scarcity
Most of us were
Now I am constantly programming my Mindset for Wealth
It’s not been an easy journey but that’s because I had decades of Negative Programming to rewire but with Persistence WE get results !!
My Mind constantly wants to revert to scarcity but now I can catch it, see it, hear it, switch it and ditch it most of the time
I say most. Because I’m not perfect and I once read a book and thought I finally had it licked when a large amount of money came into my life but then Gradually the Devil of “Fear of Poverty” started to creep back in and I didn’t even see it happening because “I had this Money thing Finally sorted once and for all”
Wrong 😑 !! So now I do the work and keep doing the work to Reprogram my Thoughts
Remember …
Even Wealthy People can have A Poverty Mindset if they are never happy no matter how rich they are and are constantly scared it will all run out and are always trying to make more. Work longer, work harder. That is a Lack of Faith Mentality and a “By Me”
We are surrounded by lack and scarcity thinking all day long and people don’t even realise it
Paying for a small coffee and constantly asking the Barista to top it up to a medium with a smug smile is someone with a scarcity mindset because they think they are winning but they are subconsciously losing if that’s where their Mind is coming from
Taking stamps and envelopes from the office as a perk and thinking “no one will know and they make enough money anyway” at the root is stealing and a Poverty Mindset and has a Lack of Trust in everything working out Mindset
Listen to conversations and see how quickly people pour (poor) in their Fear opinions of never enough and see how many other Journey the Party. This is a “Poor Me” Mindset.
Start to be the game changer and say ” There is Always Enough” over and over again
Even better memorise the affirmation above and mentally repeat it when a Fearful Thought about Money comes to the surface
Affirmations Changed My Life
Some say they don’t work but they certainly work for Me over and over again because it’s the belief in the thing not the thing itself that makes it work (or not work and what we focus on we Attract, good or bad)
A little Law of Attraction in Action coming at Ya There !!!
I mentioned a book above that made me think I had this Wealth thing sussed but honestly there is only one Money Mindset book I read/listen too on repeat these days because that is the one that sincerely started to make inroads into my Mentality in Regards to Wealth and that book is “Rich As F” by Amanda Frances
Grab it here by clicking on the title or just run to your preferred vendor of choice but I highly recommend you check it out if you want to reprogram a Poverty Mindset to a Wealth Mindset
Have a Fabulous Wealth Wednesday and why not Pay something forward in Faith that Money Flows to You Effortlessly and Easily with Ease and All Your Needs Are Met even before You know what they are. This is a “Through Me” Mindset
It’s time to get off the Hustle Bus and jump aboard the Trust Train that Everything is working out for Our Highest Good and start to Allow Miracles to Emerge in an “As ME” Mindset
My Monday was so Memorable and so Soul Aligned in so many ways and when I went to chill I don’t know why but I was drawn to watch The Screen Actors Guild Awards on Netflix
I had no idea why as I have never watched before in my life but I followed Inspired Action and then I saw Jessica Gunning had been nominated for her role in Baby Reindeer for best female actor in a TV movie or Limited series
The other nominees were Screen legends like Kathy Bates, Cate Blanchett and Jodie Foster
I physically said to my TV “Please let it be Jessica” who first came to my awareness in her role “The Outlaws” which I thought she was brilliant and hilarious in, that has a very eclectic cast including Christopher Walken and was Co Directed and Co Written by Bristol born Stephen Merchant and filmed 35 miles away from me actually in “Bristol”
I literally clapped like a seal when Jessica won and walked up on stage but when she gave her speech I knew why I was drawn to watch
Jessica said “When she started acting she had an office job along side acting for about 8 years and had a very geeking thing to admit that when she went into work she had a powerpoint vision board of all things she wanted to do and all the people she wanted to meet and work with and Cate Blanchett, Jodie Foster and Kathy Bates were on that Vision board and she got a huge cheer when she admitted this fact
Along with me who clapped at the TV …
How things have changed
Early that day I had a conversation with some friends about my alter ego The Law of Attraction Lover and someone said “Wait, what did you say? The what?”
And I replied “The Law of Attraction Lover. When I started on this weird journey I have been on I started a blog called The Law of Attraction Lover because honestly I was to shy to use my own name and talk about this, for me. Life changing phenomenon called the Law Of Attraction and I asked for guidance what to call it and that’s what came through”
“Oh that came up as a suggestion for me and I didn’t know what it was and ignored it”
I admitted that these day’s I hardly blog, creating other stuff in other formats but it’s ok because it is Evergreen and it still hangs out there online and I still feel inclined to blog now and again
Little did I know that following Inspired Action to watch the Screen Actor’s guild awards would inspire me to write a blog post later that very day.
As I have just mentioned. Early in my journey I was nervous to talk about my geeky love of LOA and all things Mindset, personal development etc and hid behind a sydonum but here is a famous actress standing on a world wide stage, literally. Admitting to her Vision-board and proving that focused attention works
Not only that, she mentioned she worked in an office for 8 years whilst building her career
When I had an office job I used to place my Bob Proctor inspired goal card on my PC so I could see it all day and despite what felt like a living hell. I listened to Bob to and from that position on my commute and held the Faith that one day the words on that Goal Card would Manifest
And they did in the weirdest set of Circumstances I could “Never” have imagined which were about having my own business and when that Manifested people would come into that business all the time and say how lucky I was Doing What I Loved and Loving What I Did (which were literally some of the words I had on that card)
And I would proceed to tell them how they could do the same and they would instantaneously start putting up objections of why it was possible for me and not for them
Bob Proctor says “If You Can Hold it in Your Head You Can Hold it in Your Hand”
But they would say things like
Usually they were too old (while being younger than me).
Not talented enough but I would use a question to ask them something to pull out of them something they were passionate about and watch them become totally animated and explain how they could start transmuting that into a potential business and income stream
But they would tell me they had bills to pay and they couldn’t give up their job and they wouldn’t have time and
A) I would tell them how they could use tiny pockets of time to do certain things and that it all adds up over time
and
B) I would tell them about my girl and first mentor Marie Forleo who worked 3 different jobs while building her Life Coaching business and went on to incredible success and now stands on the most prestigious stages and gets interviewed by the most prominent people including Oprah Winfrey
And now here is British born Jessica Gunning standing on a prestigious stage claiming her award and telling the world she worked in an office along side building her acting career and sharing the fact that she had a Vision Board she looked at every day morning to a room that included Kathy Bates, Cate Blanchett and Jodie Foster
It was because I became so frustrated with these incredibly able talented woman righting themselves off that inadvertently moved into the next phase of my journey. The one I am just developing and evolving into right now
I thought I was on one path and working on one thing when I was persistently interrupted with said women and it felt like consistent road blokes to what I felt I should be doing until eventually
After a very fulfilling day helping one lady that the Universe presented me with to maximise their Facebook page and then approached by another for support that the penny dropped
And I trust that all this happened for a reason
I recently realised I had allowed myself to fall out of aligned with my true desires and literally yesterday morning I made the decision to recommit to only acting out of Soul Alignment regardless of what things looked like now and however long it takes and the Synchronicities immediately started to show up again
Where we are right now may not look like anything like where we truly desire to be but holding the Faith in the Yet Unseen and taking those little steps however geeky and Freaky they look but feel soul aligned will eventually get you to where you want to be
Just please don’t put a date and time stamp on it
Keep holding the Faith and Follow those Inspired ideas. Take the actions and please know it all adds up even if you have to keep the day job in the beginning etc
If you don’t know where to start ….
My life changed with one simple practice in the Morning that turned into, eventually a 5 Step Morning Routine Framework and now you can access that Framework for free at mywakeuphappy.com because I was at rock bottom and that first step transformed my life and made me wake up happy and once I knew The Secret after reading the book The Secret I wanted to let as many other people as possible Wake UP Happy and that is what Inspired me to start this blog
Remember;
“If You Can Hold it in Your Head. You Can Hold it In Your Hand”
So I have been blogging for well over a decade now and initially it was just a desire in me to share with people The Law of Attraction in Action in my life and others to inspire people to see it is possible to wake up happy when, like I was previously. Thought I lost all hope and wondered why so many terrible things were happening to me.
The journey I have been on since has been crazy and I am so grateful and in the beginning I never knew the term “Evergreen Content” and that blogging was one of these forms of content.
But once I did it made so much sense.
In our instantaneous world we live in now where everything is literally at our fingertips and social media posts come and go, Evergreen Content is something that can be created once and live on long after it has been created and has the power and potential to help and serve others for decades after it was created.
Podcasting is another one of these formats and now more and more people record podcasts and upload them to YouTube and currently YouTube Channels are another popular long form platform ideal for Evergreen content. Did you know Pinterest is actually a search engine and has massive potential as a platform for Evergreen content and can be used to monetise your gifts?
As you can see I have started to see the potential to venture further afield in my Evergreen adventures and earlier today felt inspired to record an unplanned episode for my podcast “The Fab Over Forty Show” after being very concerned yet inspired by some content I saw myself and I felt by creating the content it may help others “AVOID” the pitfalls I saw two people make that I am sure we are all capable of making or are currently doing even if we are not aware of it because our actions are subconscious.
Then I felt inspired to turn that content into a blog post thus making another piece of Evergreen content on the same subject
Why do I tell you all this?
Because initially I called my podcast The Law of Attraction Lover because it made sense as it is the same name as this blog but I invested in a mentor and his course for podcasting and as part of that course we had live zoom sessions where he asked us to put in the chat our podcast ideas and potential titles
I said I already had one called The Law of Attraction Lover and he said it was to long and a title should be only 3 to 4 words long and thus Fab Over Forty was born because my Passion and Purpose in Life now is Inspiring Women Over Forty that we are never to old and it is never too late after hearing so many women tell me I was so lucky doing what I loved and loving what I do and that I was talented but almost immediately subconsciously right themselves off and saying they had no talent and or they were to old …
Many of them far younger than me and I truly believe we all have something that we love that is so easy to us we don’t see it as a talent or worthy of any potential.
However I honestly and wholeheartedly believe we are living in the best time ever to turn what we love into money in our purses online and I will continue to share my feelings on this subject and my observations and beliefs around the Law of Attraction to inspire Woman and it appears from what they tell me, Men that if we focus on what we want we can Attract into our lives and Wake Up Happy
But talking of what we focus on …
Just a quick side note. The same Mentor that told me my name was to long later said that podcasts were not just podcasts any more and that they had so much untapped potential that just calling them Podcasts undermined the massive value they had and should be classed as shows
This struck me as like I said people add them to youtube now and create channels and my platform I use actually allows you upload video versions of your recordings and actually refers to them as “Shows” now so it made sense to add a ‘The‘ and ‘Show‘ at the beginning and the end. To long? I don’t care!
It feels right in my gut and in my heart so Law of Attraction Lover blog and The Fab Over Forty Show are one and the same just in different formats.
It’s up to you which way you prefer to consume your content and as long as you are growing and developing and living into your true potential and not sabotaging yourself subconsciously because
What You Think About You Bring About … Consciously or Subconsciously !!
I’m probably not going to be popular for saying this …. but I am going to say it anyway
So all of 2024 I have been doing some work on myself, on my business inspired by Regan Hillyer and something she calls your Big Picture Reality
I haven’t been very vocal about this and it’s a lot of inner work. Journalling, Visualising and actually I have been doing so much in every spare pocket of time I haven’t created much content
But I am not worried about this, despite multiple people saying the key to success is consistency and publishing consistent content. I have a Focused Faith that everything is working out for me and my Highest Vision
Which brings me on to todays unexpected subject
I have so much gratitude for the life I have already manifested but I feel desires drawing me forward to an even Higher Reality
Higher Vision
Big Picture Reality
Regan has an amazing way of explaining that our desires are the Universe’s way, Source, God which ever terminology you prefer or feel comfortable to use calling you towards what was put in you heart prior to birth
What is rightfully yours. Your Big Picture Reality
So if you ever feel guilty about some of your desires like more money, a luxury car, house etc more abundance in general
There is nothing wrong with these desires they are in-fact your destiny calling you to
However and I have been there to
We have to be careful our desires are not motivated by something else that is not of our birth right desires
Last year I created content on various platforms on my personal observations about the passing of a much loved individual to hopefully help people realise not everything is as it seems and be aware of false gurus
It incredibly has just passed the first year anniversary of that persons passing
I had pulled away from this person because of the message they were sending out into the world about hard work and Hustle and how I personally felt that could create a lot of guilt for people that had a lot more personal responsibilities that this person didn’t have
Making it harder for them to live up to this persons standards of what creates success
Interestingly I feel very aligned to Regan and she talks and walks her talk of creating abundance etc from grace, flow and ease and Alignment
Prior to this persons passing they put out content that I read between the lines on and I felt while they had been sending out one message their motivator while probably being completely subconscious was another
And in the end via using alternative methods to cure their illness they admitted during a counselling session they had got to a route cause which was not really expressed in any of their previous content where they were always very exuberantly expressing a message of joy in what they were doing and the success that resulted from their actions
My content last year shared my observations sadly just before their untimely death at only 34
As part of my journey towards my big picture reality and the desires I am having it has led me innoveratantly to materials of a person who passed quite tragically this year in an untimely way
In some of their content that popped on my radar recently they admitted they wanted to live as long as possible and healthy as possible
The thought of dying young was palpable
This information that I have been consuming is from 2012 and because of their desire to live a long, healthy life they researched and created information that has indeed helped probably thousands of others live long, healthy lives they may have never had or will have
But then the person doing the research and creating a result recently died in a freak accident
Which leads me back to ..
be careful what is motivating your desires subconsciously because you may end up attracting the very thing you are trying to avoid regardless how much you do to try and escape it
In the end whatever we focus on expands and what we focus on and expand we attract
I have heard it said people are usually trying to move away from pain and towards pleasure and I whole heartedly agree but if we are still motivated by the pain
Even if we think we are not because we have created more pleasurable results ultimately we will attract more pain
Napoleon Hill famed for the book that has transformed multiple lives and created many successful wealthy businesses and people “Think and Grow Rich“ and responsible for my ultimate favourite book of all time “Outwitting the Devil” talks of 6 basic fears and fear of poverty and fear of death being part of those big 6
As you can see one of the people I have previously mentioned obviously had a fear of death and while they did everything possible to live a long healthy life died young while actually partaking in a healthy activity which makes me think their primary motivator was still Fear of death, not a love for life and I as I have already said we attract where our attention goes
Even if we are not aware of it we bring about what we think about
The other person I have been discussing admitted that while they had become a very successful multi millionaire at a very young age they realised through counselling they were motivated by not wanting to be poor again
They had experienced poverty and despite creating massive wealth and feared if they didn’t work 16/ 18 hour days as they were promoting it may all stop and they would be poor again
Their message was work hard and hustle and how much they loved the life they had doing just that but in reality they were living in poverty mindset still regardless of how much money they created because they couldn’t get off this hamster wheel of working in case it all ran out which created poverty on so many levels regardless what their bank statement and assets and investments said
And then ultimately it was all pointless because they manifested a fatal illness and in one of their last live broadcasts they admitted how terrified of death they were so they were investing all their financial resources available to them to try every avenue possible to cheat death and it looked like it was working. They were only now taking time to meditate and use various therapies and slow down
But it was still all to no avail because now their focused attention had moved from Poverty to Death and they passed shortly after that broadcast which they shared their fear of death when they felt they had finally cheated it because of a positive diagnoses from their physician and they were understandably and obviously ecstatic but perhaps despite the late to the party enthusiasm for their health, all their focused attention on the Fear of Death manifested the very thing they feared the most.
The trouble with these two cases most probably, was they had no idea they were motivated by two of the Primary Fears and they were using all their potential energy to focus in the wrong areas.
So I ask you where are you focusing your energies?
What are you potentially expanding in your life?
Are you motivated by Fear or Faith?
My life changed when I saw that I was focusing all my energy on why was my life was so bad and why were so many bad things happening to me and therefore expanding the potential for and attracting more bad things to me “subconsciously” and that I had the power to redirect my thoughts away from these results I had unwittingly attracted and therefore stop them expanding and focus my attention on more desired results
Which I did by starting a simple morning practice of Gratitude
While it may seem I came across the health information through fear in actuality I admit it, it is via vanity and aesthetically in my Big Picture Reality I see my physical appearance different to the one I have today
While I know I don’t always treat my body in the best possible manner I always show gratitude for the miracle it is and my health on a regular basis and long before coming across Regan’s materials I have often journaled my gratitude and written positive affirmations on my Health and believe these types of Personal Development actions should be taken first and despite my current physical age I am very healthy and show no signs of the aliments by peers focus on and complain about “being a natural and expected part of our current demographic” I just don’t buy into that philosophy
And quick unexpected controversial detour I didn’t put in the podcast episode.
Despite being 58 I have never had any physical symptoms of menopause because I just never allowed my mind to go there or dwell there and if anyone does go their I just remove myself from the conversation physically or mentally
And The kind of work I am doing with Regan and the journal prompts help you get to the route cause of your desires and see what is motivating you plus helps you find out what your ultimate Big Picture Reality is that is placed in your heart before birth and how to keep that Vision in the forefront of your mind with grace, with ease and with flow and how to move towards it
And I hope this information I have shared with you has caused you to take time or plan to take time to get to the root causes of your motivations and desires and focus your attention on a Beneficial Big Picture Reality and not on and away from Fear based desires
I am involved in several versions of Regan’s work but I advise if you are interested in becoming part of Regan’s world who is classed as possibly the number one Female Manifestation Coach in the world is join her monthly subscription program for a tiny, tiny fee compared to the value you will receive and if that sounds like something that interests you I have dropped a link how to join her Ignite Program by simply tapping on the word “IGNITE”
I highly recommend you do. Plus as a member you will receive massive discounts to many other of her resources as they become available so why not just check it out and see what it IGNITE”S in you
Even if all you get out of this is Blog Post is that you become aware we can be motivated by 6 basic Fears and the 2 most fundamental are Fear of Death and Fear of Poverty and that this episode makes you realise that they could be at play in your life and you start focusing your attention away from these and focus on everything you have to be grateful for
My work here is done
And on that note
Have a fabulous day and feel free to reach out to me and comment what this post brings up for you. Any light bulbs and if this is the first content of mine you have come across please feel free to go back and have a little binge or listen to the podcast version as they do vary slightly
And know
That I love you and that I truly believe you have the capacity to wake up happy and if you haven’t done so already grab your free gift from mywayuphappy.com where I share as part of my 5 step Framework that Gratitude Practice I used
Until next time Fabulous
Have a Fabulous day, week, month, year, life because you truly can Wake Up Happy !!
PS: If you click on the title of the books I mentioned above you will be carried through via a quick link to check them out or purchase them that I highly recommend you do
“There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: Those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed” ~ Ray Goforth
Something happened to me recently that changed my perspective When I saw this quote it resonated with me.
Because of what happened I realised while I was frustrated and annoyed at first I hadn’t stopped to think about the motivator.
I actually think the latter was at play and I think it is subconscious and I also think from reading that quote that people can be both at the same time.
When you are faced with naysayers or don’t feel supported.
1) People probably are not even aware of their actions.
2) The impact they are having on you.
3) What’s motivating them to behave/react as they are.
I think if you are a 2%’r .
You know what you want.
You have goals and dreams .
And you take action on them …
This triggers the other 98%.
Even if they don’t realise they are being triggered.
It touches nerves subconsciously.
It reminds them that they haven’t achieved the things they wish they had or in most case never even started.
They feel guilt, shame and anger at themselves (type 1).
And, or They fear if you go after your desires you will leave them behind (type 2) so they say and do things consciously or subconsciously to put you down or talk you out of following your goals.
The only people we should listen to are the ones that have succeeded at what we desire to achieve and the ones that always support us unconditionally.
At the same time love those that act out of fear because they most probably are not aware of their actions or why they act that way.
And because Love is one of the highest forms of vibration and that can only support us and dwelling on their actions will cause us to “drift” away from our dreams and goals and cause us to waste precious time moving towards our ultimate desires.
Plus we never know who may or may not walk our path with us in the future and we could let someone who may not even walk that path change the trajectory of a destination they will not even share with us.
The only constant that most people can rely on being their as we walk our paths is “Ourselves”.
We don’t truly know what will happen or who will be their with us as we go along our way so we might as well pursue the calling of our Soul. Our Purpose regardless of anyone else’s thoughts or actions.
As the William Ernest Henley poem Invictus states be “The Master of Your Fate. The Captain of Your Soul”.
“Take ownership of the result before you know the path” ~ Myron Golden
When you want to travel to a destination these days we usually use the browser on our phones and click directions or go to the Maps App and type in the address and press start
Question? ~ Do you check out the whole route before you start or do you trust that it is going to give you the steps you need before you need them to guide you to the place you want to get to?
Even if you missed a turning because the route is totally unknown to you and you hesitate and think is it this one or the next one. “Dam missed it, missed it.” it will reroute you and still guide you towards your destination
Getting to that destination is the “Result”
GPS only gives you steps not the whole journey at once
It’s the same with a desired outcome. A result we want.
You can set out on the journey without knowing the how
You only need to know the result you want and take the first step and then trust that the next step will show up and the next and the next …
I call it have “Faith in The Yet Unseen”
When it looks like nothing is happening, I have to much evidence from past experience to know miracles show up when I least expect it usually in the most effortless way
But when I overthink it or try and “Fix It” myself it effects my energy and closes off the access to Miracles and Inspiration
When I am 100% focused on my result and have Faith no matter how unrealistic it looks due to current circumstances Inspired Ideas drop in and Inspired Actions steps nudge me.
The right People and the right Circumstances appear seemly out of nowhere but in reality this is the ‘Law of Resonance’ in action
Because I am focused on the result I want I resonate out and energy that Attracts back the right resources I require
A bit like the actions steps to take on a GPS system on our phones to get us to our desired destination but unfortunately most people think they need to know the whole route to take before they start to get a desired result and they get overwhelmed.
Then the fear and doubt set’s in of all the reasons they can’t or it won’t work and they quit before they even start.
Why not try this instead? ….
Truly ask yourself a desired result you would like and take ownership of your desire
Say Yes to Yourself and admit “Yes I would Like this Result in My Life” Regardless what anyone else thinks” (better still don’t even tell anyone your desires)
And admit to yourself I do “NOT” have a scooby doo how I can get this result at this point in time but I know I would like it/want it and just leave it there for a little while ….
Your only job at this point is to take time to revisit that desire at some point every day.
Even if it is only for 30 seconds
Set an alarm on your phone if you have to at a time you know you will get a few seconds to yourself
The alarm time can change daily based on your schedule but the important thing is to spend some time focused on the desired result you would like as often as possible
Nothing else !!!
Get that energy resonating out into the Universe is the most important “Action Step” to take then the path will appear
Don’t put a time line on it. Don’t put a date on it. Time is fake any way. There is only NOW
Being relaxed and having Faith in the Yet Unseen creates Miracles
Deadlines and Dates create Stress aka Miracle Blocking Energy
So today why not take time to take ownership of a result you would like. You may have to sit with this a while to remember something you truly want then wallow in that result already having happened and “FEEL” the essence of it.
That’s the place to go each day
And if you miss a day. No worries !!
Just acknowledge that you ‘Acknowledge’ that you missed a day and say ‘good job for acknowledging I missed a day’ and make a date for the next day or even better just do it then
Everything and I mean everything adds up. We just have to have Faith in the Yet Unseen
While May has been great in so many ways it has also been hard in other ways and I am glad to see the back of it but it has also reminded me whatever we are going through and how overwhelming things can be as Jim Rohn would say “Everything Has a Season, And Seasons come and Go. There’s a season for sowing and a season for reaping”
I wanted to be in sowing season in May but it wasn’t to be and then I felt frustrated that how can I reap if I don’t sow.
Thankfully, thanks to the book “Outwitting the Devil” By Napoleon Hill I am aware of something called “Drifting” and I knew these thoughts would cause me to drift and no good would come of it and I decided I would acknowledge this and say “No Thank You I am Not buying. This to Shall Pass”
I heard a man who was celebrating his 100th Birthday when asked if he had any advise say “Remember Joy Comes and Go’s” and while that may sound sad he followed it up with “And Problems Come and Go to”
But sometimes when we are in the midst of things it can be hard to remember this but that’s the purpose of drifting. To cause us to drift away from our goals dreams and desires and preoccupy our thoughts with worry, doubt and fear and then that becomes all consuming and we go down a negative spiral that is hard to come back up from.
I chose to accept how things were. Tackle one thing at a time. Making a list works for me and actually ticking things off gave me a sense of achievement that brought with it a positive sensation and each tick made me feel I was coming to closer to the end of the tunnel and out the other side
And I did a lot of inner work and Mindset stuff …
The Drifter voice would try to tell me this was time “I could have been sowing” but my soul needed watering and grow stronger from it and I am definitely reaping the rewards of that.
There is definitely a lot to be grateful for from May like helping someone learn how to create and build their own podcast that launches today and I know is going to be amazing !!
And Gratitude is my easiest way to start feeling better and I am grateful for the person I saw yesterday and what they said to me
I bumped into someone yesterday who said something I didn’t expect to hear and they probably didn’t pay much significance to it but it struck me
They said “we definitely need to meet up and have a coffee. You are good for the soul”
I think I am just being Me but on reflection on my May, me just being Me and following Inspired Action to write this post maybe just the thing someone needs to read today to know …
Everything has a season and whatever you are going through will pass and be aware of those drifting habits that can take you down a spiral of overwhelm or despair.
The truth is we all manifest our surroundings by our focused thoughts. Good or bad. Conscious or Subconscious.
What we focus on expands but most of us aren’t aware of this
I felt drawn to listen to some podcast episodes by Amanda Frances who I love and I caught something Amanda said whilst I was driving that struck me
She said pretty much the same as I just wrote and she said “when something we desire hasn’t manifested or we are going through something we don’t desire. At some level we have attracted this by our focus. Probably subconsciously so instead of becoming overwhelmed etc say “hmm that’s interesting”
“That’s interesting. Why is this happening? That’s Interesting. What thoughts am I having that could be causing this to happen or not cause the thing I desire to happen?”
By doing this you are taking back your power. You are in control to observe what’s not working for you and decide what thoughts work for you and where you want to place your focused attention.
This can be done at any second. Every second ‼️
You have the Power now !! To Change Your Future Now ‼️The past is irrelevant !! Don’t Go There ‼️
Don’t be fooled by what you see in your current reality
No one knows what’s going on behind the scenes
Working on my dream while working for someone to build there’s
No shame !!!
I’ll explain more later …
There’s a quote by Farrah Gray that says :-
“Build Your Own Dreams, or Someone will Hire You to Build Theirs”
There are a lot of people hired to help build other people’s dreams or the world wouldn’t function
Some people don’t feel compelled to change the world and that’s ok 👌
What we don’t see when we see super successful people that are now worth probably multiple millions is. And I know for a fact, some people were working job’s that were contributing to building other people’s dreams while they were starting out on their’s
Several jobs at once in some cases until Their dream became profitable enough that they felt secure enough financially to let them go …
I don’t see that as selling out. I see it as Savvy
This quote can seem negative and come across as a be all or end all (I know that’s not quite the correct sentence but I was making a point)
Perhaps it should be “Build Your Own Dreams whilst working for other people who dared to go for theirs until it’s time to go it alone” or words to that effect
It’s easier for me to tell me people I let my Brick n Mortar business go because of Covid-19 and yes there is no doubt it was dramatically effected by Covid but I had a vision for something long before Covid and I knew I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life spinning my wheels being landlocked and constantly trading time for money
I see the events leading up to me letting it go were simply steps towards the manifestation of my Ultimate Desire
I made some decisions that seemed right at the time to move things forward but in reality they didn’t work out to serve my plan as I envisioned they would but that’s ok ….
Inside nothing changed. The Big Picture Reality Remains the same
I just had to Pivot and move on to the next step ….
Then in March I underwent an unexpected shift following taking part in a Regan Hillyer Activation
I went through what could only be described as a “Transformative Experience”
I saw life events line up like dots showing me their purpose but also showed me they were only a tool to serve a Higher Purpose
Then …
But then I felt this shift. I felt I had outgrown everything I had ever created and everything I thought was significant was merely a beautiful stepping stone to something more ????
At first I thought I was stripping back but now it is more like a strip out …
I have stopped creating anything until I align and act from Inspiration
Thankfully I am employed now because we all have bills to pay
Being employed by someone who had a vision and implemented it has in no way meant I have given up on my Big Picture Reality
It’s given me the Freedom to be flexible and reassured life’s necessities are taken care of and I don’t feel forced to create anything that is out of alignment for fear of not paying the Bills
And you can do the same
Never give up on your dream just because you work for someone who built there’s
This is an All and Everything Life … not an all or nothing !!!
I feel inspired to write this post because nobody know what is going on behind the scenes
Shortly after I started this new role I came face to face with someone who previously knew me in a very senior Managerial Position and sarcastically looked me up and down and said “Living the Dream I see’
And I replied “Yes I am Am” with a big Smile because I know I am
Working currently serves a means to an end and I actually enjoy it and the time goes really fast and it also allows me lots of free time to follow one Inspired Action after Another until I eventually catch up with my Big Picture Reality and the next and the next ….
I have caught up with and manifested one Big Picture Reality after another but to an on looker it may look I haven’t manifested much … (Yet !!)
it was just that those Big Picture Realities were a lot smaller in stature so may not seem like I manifested anything but now my BPR’s are absolutely massive and while in this 3D reality it looks like nothing has changed …
I know from previous experiences “Manifestation Miracles” happen in the most unexpected ways at the least expected times in the most Miraculous Ways usually with little help from me
My part is to hold the Faith in the Yet Unseen even when what is seen looks nothing like my current Big Picture Reality that I focus on Everyday
My suggestion to use is ….
DON’T Focus on “What Is”, Focus on What You Truly Desire to the Exclusion to All Else that You Currently See but Be Grateful for it all because it All serves a Purpose even if it doesn’t feel like it.
“Life is Happening for Us, Not to Us”
I still have my digital products available and they may actually be the perfect thing for someone reading this right now for where they are in their journey
For me they are in maintenance mode and I could tweak them if I so wished but I cannot add to them which suits me fine
It is the dawning of a New Era …
A New Era of Creation and I am excited and Open for it ALL !! 🔥
The Art of Surrendering: Exploring Ho’oponopono as a Path to Inner Peace
Introduction:
In the fast-paced and often chaotic world we live in, finding inner peace can feel like an elusive goal. As we navigate the challenges of daily life, it’s not uncommon to accumulate stress, resentment, and emotional baggage. However, the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono offers a unique and powerful approach to achieving inner harmony through surrendering and forgiveness.
Understanding Surrender:
Surrendering is not a sign of weakness; rather, it’s a courageous act of releasing control and allowing the natural flow of life to guide us. In the context of Ho’oponopono, surrendering involves letting go of the need to be right, releasing judgments, and accepting responsibility for our own experiences.
In my 5 Step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ I talk about responsibility. Sometimes it is something we want to avoid, but it is like trying to drive a car in park if we avoid it but if we take responsibility it is like taking the brakes off. It actually gives us power and that’s why I resonated to Ho’Oponopono so much and studied to become an Advanced Practitioner in this ancient art.
Ho’oponopono: A Brief Overview:
Ho’oponopono, rooted in traditional Hawaiian spirituality, is a profound practice that centres around reconciliation and forgiveness. The word itself can be broken down into two parts: “ho’o,” meaning to make, and “pono,” meaning right. Together, Ho’oponopono can be translated to “to make right.”
At its core, Ho’oponopono is a process of making things right within ourselves, our relationships, and our world. Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len, a modern proponent of Ho’oponopono, popularised a simplified version of the practice that involves repeating four powerful phrases: “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.”
The Four Phrases:
1. “I’m sorry”: Acknowledge and take responsibility for the challenges or disharmony present in your life, even if you don’t fully understand their origins.
2. “Please forgive me”: Express a sincere desire for forgiveness, recognizing the need to heal and release the negative energy associated with the situation.
3. “Thank you”: Cultivate gratitude for the opportunity to address and rectify the imbalances in your life. Gratitude has the power to transform our perception and open the door to positive change.
4. “I love you”: Embrace the unconditional love that transcends judgement and separation. This phrase is a recognition of the interconnectedness of all things and the healing power of love.
The Power of Surrender in Ho’oponopono:
Surrender is an integral aspect of Ho’oponopono, as it involves letting go of ego-driven desires, control, and the need to assign blame. By surrendering to the process, individuals open themselves to the transformative power of forgiveness, paving the way for inner peace and healing.
Benefits of Ho’oponopono:
1. **Inner Peace**: Ho’oponopono facilitates the release of internal conflicts, allowing individuals to experience a profound sense of inner peace.
2. **Improved Relationships**: By practising forgiveness and taking responsibility for our experiences, Ho’oponopono can mend and strengthen relationships.
3. **Emotional Healing**: The practice helps individuals heal emotional wounds, liberating them from the burden of past traumas and negative emotions.
4. **Increased Self-Awareness**: Surrendering in Ho’oponopono involves self-reflection, leading to heightened self-awareness and personal growth.
Conclusion:
In 2010 I fully embraced the philosophy of the Law of Attraction and it had a profound effect on me and I still believe there is a place for it but I feel the earth is evolving and Transitioning and it is time to take things to another level.
The Law of Attraction can be used to manifest specific material items and experiences but this methodology is based mainly in physical solitary practices created and carried out by the individual that are focused on singular specific detailed outcomes that can feel like work to manifest but creation does not have to be a solitary practice.
Many people found/find themselves frustrated with the Law of Attraction and feel it doesn’t work. The Law of Attraction is a natural law and is always working but we subconsciously take on programming from society that create blocks in our unconscious and create negative thought processes that create fear, anxiety and doubt that stop our ability to achieve the harmonious lives we desire.
In a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, the ancient wisdom of Ho’oponopono provides a refreshing perspective on surrendering and forgiveness that can release these blocks.
By embracing the power of these four simple phrases, and repeating them as often as possible individuals can embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and transformation. The art of surrendering through Ho’oponopono ultimately leads to a more harmonious and fulfilling life, both within ourselves and in our interactions with the world around us.
Prior to my coming into contact with Ho’Oponopono I became aware in my own practices and experiences with The Law of Attraction that things I tried to manifest myself were often hard and often afflicted by what I called “Curveballs” but whenever I surrendered. Consciously or Subconsciously then the Universe (as I like to call it but Dr Hew Len liked to call it Divinity) would manifest something so miraculously amazing and so perfect and beyond my wildest imaginings in such an unbelievably effortless way I knew there was something undoubtedly more than meets the eye to this thing we call Human existence.
Maybe that’s why when I became aware of Ho’Oponopono it resonated to me so much.
It’s in the surrendering we allow the Divinity that’s in us. That is closer than our own breath to bring us inner harmony in a way we can never perceive or create with our physical perspective alone.
Now is the time to move beyond the struggles of Manic Manifesting and move into the art of
“Surrendered Manifesting”
Surrender and allow the UNIVERSE to guide us to what is more perfect for us than anything we can ever imagine …
Now is the time to Surrender and listen to and act upon the Aligned Actions steps whispered to us by our Divine Self. The Highest Embodiment of our Natural Being.
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Use BS as rocket fuel to transport you towards your dreams
Bothered by other peoples Bull Sxxt?
Good 👍
Not gonna lie, being spoken to like Dog, Do Do unnecessarily or a passing unwarranted passive aggressive comment will most likely wrankly for a bit
And let’s face it, whenever is being spoken to like excrement or passively aggressively ever expected, necessary or warranted? So yes it will smart a little ….
But be smart about it ASAP !!
Instead of brooding on it or plotting your revenge
Serious Neg Abundance Blocking Energy
Use Ho’Oponopono and say “Thank You, I Love You” 🥰 (repeatedly if necessary, sorry advisabley)
Am I nuts?
(Probably, but not for this reason)
Forgiveness is one of , if not the Highest Form of Vibration. Even more than Gratitude
It’s been tested, people have had their brains wired up everything and the results were profound and Personal progress was made where before none could be achieved regardless of whatever Personal Development they undertook thanks to the act of Forgiveness
Maybe that is why “Please Forgive Me” is one of the Four main Ho’Oponopono phrases because really there is no “out there”.
Maybe being disrespected is a message to remind you to respect yourself more or that you are not in the best environment for ‘You’ and that you are playing small and deserve better and in this BS situation it is a gift because we can all play small and get complacent at times.
It can also be the superbooster you need to jet propel you towards your dreams
If you find yourself in this situation use it as a catalyst to say “You know what. Enough is enough. I don’t deserve this and I am going to ….” fill in the blank for whatever you desire to do be or have but have been drifting on or never actually taken action on before
Indecisiveness is the killer of dreams but a dream or goal cannot be killed if you never quit.
It’s ok and it’s common to drift. Let life get in the way but use the BS as a trigger button to jolt you back into the present moment and say “oh yes, I forgot myself for a time there. Where was I? What was I doing? Where do I want to go? Do? Achieve?
Not even sure you know what you want? 98% of the World Population don’t apparently according to the book I am immersing myself in at the moment.
No problem 😉
Let the BS be the reminder you need to say now is the time to find out because “WE ALL” have a purpose and start to be one of the 2%
Nobody needs to know and on the surface for a while it will look like nothing has changed but as my favourite quote says
“Once You Make a Decision The Universe Conspires to Make it Happen” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
In my Law of Attraction Club I have an exercise called “Switch it To Ditch It”
I used this very exercise for myself once I heard about it and everything I wrote down has manifested in a very short space of time but I admit I have been guilty of drifting too and that’s why I have been probably getting my own BS button triggered so it’s time to do a new updated version of “Switch it to Ditch” It for myself and I have started using my own form of BS
Marie Forleo’s B-School
As a B School Alumni I can take B School at any time for any project old or new but B School is currently running a Live Summer School version and I intended to start it but as can normally happen it is currently on week 3 and I hadn’t started until today
Today I used BS to propel me to start B~School because one of the first things I learned from B~School is
There is no behind in B~School and there is no behind in whatever you desire as long as you decide to just keep going and not quit
Most importantly “Don’t Quit on Yourself because in reality we are all made of Stardust capable of Infinite Possibilities”
If you want to know more about the LOA Club just click on the link below
PS: I will be dropping some new modules on Ho’Oponopono and EFT in there shortly as I am an Advanced Ho’Oponopono and Law of Attraction Practitioner if you are not aware as soon to be an EFT Practitioner
Somebody’s forgot their Unicorn was a sentence I heard come through my window this morning and it made me think…. 🦄
When I listen to peoples self talk and talk in general most people have forgotten their Unicorn’s and wonder why there is no sparkle ✨ in life
When most people start a conversation it’s all about their problems and then that sets of a pattern of conversations and it usually goes around and around and around but this merry go round is no fun 🎠
But this is no accident. This habit was set up to make us drift from our Unicorn filled lives 🦄
Don’t fall into this Devilish trap 😈
The key is simple ‼️
Learn to observe your language and your thoughts 💭
Learn to monitor your language and your thoughts 💭
Learn to change your language and your thoughts 💭
Learn to Master your language and your thoughts 💭
Over and over again until it becomes a Positive Hypnotic Rhythm of habit instead of a Negative Hypnotic Rhythm of habit 🎶
Because 🤔
No thought, word or feeling is wasted 🙇♀️
They are like prayers 🙏🏻
Of what is wanted and unwanted radiating out into the world to bring you back it’s equivalent and if the language is negative it will attract more negative 📣
Over and over and over again 😢
We are all powerful beings of light with the power to attract back Unicorns all day long 🦄 but that power is dangerous and devilish when not monitored 😈
Be the Master of Your Fate, the Captain of Your Own Soul as the Poem goes ⛵️
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