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From “Poor Me” to “Through Me”: The Secret to Co-Creating with the Universe

25 Sep

Why You Can Never Go Back to Zero (But You Can Go to Zero)

Earlier this week I shared my story about hitting reset. But the more I reflected, the more I realized something powerful:

We can never truly go back to zero.

And that’s actually a good thing.

The Levels of Consciousness

During Covid, I came across the idea of the four levels of consciousness:

  1. Poor Me – the victim state. Life happens to me. Unfortunately, this is where most people live, often without realizing it.
  2. By Me – the “push” state. Life happens by Me. Decisions, willpower, discipline. Very masculine energy, and very effective… but it edges out flow.
  3. Through Me – co-creation with the Universe. Things align, synchronicities show up, miracles unfold.
  4. As Me – unity consciousness, the deepest level of alignment.

Looking back, I realized I had spent much of my early life in “Poor Me” — and when I broke free from that, I overcorrected straight into “By Me.”

The hustle. The grind. The do it all myself energy.

And even though I had already experienced glimpses of “Through Me” — those effortless flows where the Universe seemed to be working with me — I would still slide back into old patterns. Subconsciously.

Why Resetting Matters

That’s why choosing to reset matters so much.

When I pause and consciously reset, it’s not about “starting over.” Because the truth is, you can’t. Every experience, every skill, every challenge has shaped you. You bring all of that wisdom forward.

But what you can do is return to zero.

The Power of Going to Zero

In Ho’oponopono, “zero” is the space of infinite possibility. Like a whiteboard wiped clean.

Meditation, prayer, journaling — these are ways of tuning back into zero.

From zero, we receive inspired guidance. We reconnect with our higher purpose. We align with the flow of infinite intelligence.

And because we carry our accumulated knowledge and growth with us, each reset doesn’t take us “back to the beginning.” It actually elevates us to a higher level.

Bringing It All Together

So here’s the paradox:

  • You can never go back to zero, because you’ll always carry everything you’ve gained.
  • But you can always go to zero, and from there, rise even higher.

That’s the sweet spot.

Ready to Change Your Conversation?

If you find yourself slipping into negative self-talk, or stuck in “hard work mode” that squeezes out flow and ease, I created something for you.

💜 Grab my free ebook:
👉 18 Affirmations to Improve Mindset

Because when you change the conversation with yourself, you change everything you create.

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Posted by on September 25, 2025 in Law of Attraction

 

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The Magic of a Morning Routine: How to Attract More “YOU Time” (and a Business You Love)

23 Sep

Yeah… a bit scary, I know, but this was literally my face this morning while putting on my face!

I’ll be honest—I was feeling grumpy. These are meant to be my “ME” days, yet somehow they’ve become filled with other people’s stuff, appointments, and obligations.

Have you ever found yourself asking: “Where’s MY time?”

If so, you’re not alone. Drop a TIME in the comments if you’re feeling me right now.

The Gift of a Morning Routine

Years ago, without realizing it, I created my own morning routine. And let me tell you: if I can even do a small part of it, I am a happier bunny.

This morning, even though I had a full day ahead, my inner guidance (what I call Inspired Action) nudged me: “Go back to that training section on Masterminding you started—listen while you get ready.”

Normally, I’ll put on an audiobook or a YouTube video while getting dressed or commuting. But this was different—it was a full-on training. And wow… what my ears absorbed was pure GOLD.

Out came the notes app on my phone. I jotted down the ideas before my ego could convince me they weren’t important.

That’s a little Law of Attraction lesson right there: act on the sponsoring thought before it fades. Inspired ideas are like divine breadcrumbs leading us toward what we’ve asked for.

My Law of Attraction Lightbulb Moment

My love affair with the Law of Attraction began years ago when I first picked up the book The Secret.

That book was my lightbulb moment. It was like a switch flipped, and I finally understood why my life looked the way it did—and how I had the power to change it.

I realized that every “bad day” I was declaring into existence was simply the Law of Attraction serving up more of what I was broadcasting. And every time I dared to imagine a different story—even for a few seconds—I shifted my energy and started attracting better.

That’s why I guard my mornings so fiercely now. They’re my foundation. My reset button. My daily reminder that I get to choose how my life unfolds.

Why This Matters for Business Too

Here’s the thing: carving out time for yourself isn’t just about feeling good. It’s also the energetic foundation for building a business you love.

When women come to me wanting to build an online business, I see the same pattern again and again—they’re overwhelmed, exhausted, and trying to push their way to success. But forcing never works for long.

The businesses that thrive—the ones that feel like freedom, joy, and abundance—are the ones built on alignment.

And alignment starts with how you start your day.
It’s the deliberate choice to:

  • Tune in before tuning out.
  • Create before consuming.
  • Take Inspired Action instead of frantic action.

Even 5–10 minutes spent doing something that raises your vibration—whether journaling, listening to a training, or sitting in gratitude—will shift how you show up for your business.

Because when your energy shifts, the clients, opportunities, and income you’ve been asking for can finally find you.

Note It. Do It.

That’s why I always jot down inspired ideas, even if I can’t act on them right away. Writing them down keeps the energy alive.

And it’s the same for business: you don’t have to do it all at once. You just have to capture the inspiration and act when you can.

This is how you move from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to creating a soul-aligned business that actually lights you up.

The Energy of Intention

It’s said that a day started deliberately goes far better than one stumbled into. When we begin with even a few seconds of intention, the energy reverberates through the whole day.

On the flip side, when we oversleep, rush around, stub our toe, get cut off in traffic, and then declare, “Ugh, today’s a bad day”—what do you think the Law of Attraction delivers more of? Exactly.

But here’s the magic: just 17 seconds of focusing on gratitude can raise your vibration and change the trajectory of your entire day—and your business.

Your Invitation

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, craving more “YOU time,” or struggling to build a business that feels aligned instead of draining, I want to gift you my morning routine—for free.

It’s simple. It’s doable. And it’s designed to raise your vibration, feed your soul, and set you up to attract not only a better day—but also a business that feels like freedom.

✨ Grab it here: The Happy Morning Routine ✨

Because when you start your day on purpose, the Universe can’t help but meet you with more of what you want—in your life and your business.

Ali xoxo

#lawofattraction #passionbasedbusiness #morningroutine

 
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Posted by on September 23, 2025 in Law of Attraction

 

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✨ How I Stopped Chasing and Started Attracting: Building a Business You Love with the Law of Attraction

23 Sep

How I Went From Chasing to Attracting (and Found My Purpose)

I used to think that owning a brick-and-mortar business meant I had “made it.” On the outside, it looked successful. But the truth?
✨ Longer hours.
✨ Less money.
✨ No freedom.

I was constantly chasing clients, chasing time, chasing money… and the more I chased, the further it all seemed to run.

The Law of Attraction teaches us that what we focus on expands. And all my focus was on stress, lack, and overwhelm. So guess what? That’s exactly what I got.

But here’s the magical part ✨—even while I was drowning in “busy,” women kept showing up in my life asking me for advice on building businesses. At first, I saw it as a distraction. But the Universe had other plans.

One day, after helping a complete stranger with her Facebook page (for free, all day 🤦🏻‍♀️), I realised something huge: 👉 I actually loved helping women with this more than anything else I was doing.

The Universe was whispering: This is it. This is your path. Follow the energy.

And when I finally leaned into that passion instead of resisting it, everything shifted.
I stopped forcing.
I stopped chasing.
I started attracting.

Because here’s the truth: when you align with what lights you up, you become magnetic. Opportunities, people, ideas, and success all start to flow toward you instead of you running yourself ragged trying to grab them.

Now, my purpose is clear: to inspire women over 40 to align with their passions and create online businesses they love. Because when you wake up excited about what you’re doing, the Law of Attraction works for you in ways you can’t even imagine.

💜 If this resonates, the Universe may be nudging you too. That’s why I created a FREE course to help you attract and build a business and brand you love—without the hustle, overwhelm, or excuses.

✨ The Law of Attraction says you can’t receive what you don’t believe is possible.
So here’s your chance to believe bigger.

🎁 Grab the course here and start attracting, not chasing:
👉 alisonkparsons.com/brand

Your future self will thank you. 💫

Ali xoxo

 
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Posted by on September 23, 2025 in Law of Attraction

 

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Transformational Tuesday #005

01 Jul

💫 Your Time is NOW 💫

Soul-aligned women over 40, happy Tuesday! This isn’t just another day; it’s an invitation to embrace your next grand Transformation.

For too long, you might have put your Deepest Soul Driven Desires on hold, perhaps believing certain dreams were for “others” or that your time had passed.

But here’s the beautiful truth: Your wisdom, your life experiences, and your profound intuition are not hindrances; they are your superpowers!

Today, let’s reflect on this: “At any age, you hold the power to become the woman you were always meant to be – the one who builds with purpose, shines with authenticity, and creates a legacy born from Your very soul.”

What does this transformation look like for You?

Is it finally launching that online business that’s been whispering in your heart? Is it stepping into your true authority and building a brand that perfectly mirrors your values? Is it creating Financial Freedom and impact, all on your own terms?

This Tuesday, commit to taking one small, courageous step towards that transformation.

It’s not about perfection, it’s about progress. It’s about remembering that the most profound shifts begin with a single, soul-aligned action.

You are ready. You are capable. And your Transformation is waiting.

What’s one thing You feel Soul Aligned to Transform this week? Share in the comments! 👇 and I’ll be your loudest Cheerleader !!

#TransformationalTuesday #WomenOver40 #SoulAlignedBusiness #BuildYourBrand #OnlineBusiness #Empowerment #NewBeginnings #PurposeDriven

 
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Posted by on July 1, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Transformational Tuesday

 

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Wealth Wednesday #011

11 Jun
Wealth Wednesday #011

“I Quit”

I admit it. I quit Doing the Do …

There is “Do” and there is “Do” 

One “Do” is always “Doing”. Doing the work, hustling. Pouring ALL of You into Everything and Everybody else’s Desires and I bet ….

For years, you’ve poured your energy into everyone else’s dreams.

Me too and I keep falling back in to doing the “Do” for others subconsciously 

BUT !! 

There’s usually signs and the trick is to start noticing the signs and calling a “STOP” to Doing the “Do” and do another kind of “Do” instead.

Overwhelm ~ Frustration ~ Anger ~ Feeling there is not enough Time is a sign …

A sign you are “Doing” too much for others and NOT Doing enough for YOU !!

But what if the next chapter of You, what You “DO” is all about You —Your Passions, Your Purpose, and Your Prosperity?

What if …

You start “Doing” the Things You LOVE and Quit “Doing” for Everyone else

And what if …

If Doing those things You love could be monetised?

Now it is easier than ever to Monetise Your Gifts

“Your Wealth Begins with Your Belief.”

What You “DO” need is belief.
Belief that Your gifts matter.
Belief that Your story can inspire.
Belief that the life You dream of is calling because it’s meant for You.

Your Desires are Your Soul Calling You forward to what You are Truly Meant to “Do”

Here’s the truth:

Regardless of How much of Yourself You have given to Doing for others …

It’s not too late.
You’re not too old.
And You don’t need to have it all figured out.

You just need to give Yourself Permission to Do the Things You LOVE !!

It doesn’t have to be hours …

Start with small amounts of time “Each” day ….

Maybe 5 minutes in the Morning to Connect with Your Inner Self and allow the ideas and Inspirations of Your Soul “Time” to Speak to You …

Take a Journal with You and step away from the Hustle of the Day and write the above Affirmation 5 times

Set alarms to remind You, You deserve to “Do” the Things You were brought here to “Do”

Belief is “Your” currency

Belief is the first currency of any business.
Before the income, before the clients, before the impact—
There must be belief in YOU.

✨ Belief that your Passion matters.
✨ Belief that your aquired Wisdom is enough.
✨ Belief that you are not “too late”—you are right on time.

💡 You don’t need to start with a plan.


You start with permission—to dream again, to try again, to rise again.

If this is the First time You have given Yourself permission to Dream about what You want to Do and it all seems a little overwhelming …

No problem !!!

I have a Gift for You ….

“FEEL” Ready to turn your passions into profit without hustle or overwhelm?

🎯 Join my free course designed for women over 40 who are ready to Build an Online Brand + Business they LOVE—with Soul, Belief, and a dash of strategy from ME 😜

⬇️ Click below to Join now and begin your beautiful new chapter of “Doing” what You were Destined to “Do”

“BUILD A BRAND & A BUSINESS YOU LOVE AFTER 40”

And remember:

“Your Desires are Your Soul Calling You Forward towards what You Were Truly Brought here to “Do” so Don’t ever Doubt Your Desires. Believe You Have been Brought here to share Your Gifts and Your Gifts are of High Value and Believe in Your ability to Create Wealth through what You LOVE”

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !!

Ali xoxo

#WealthWednesday #SoulAlignedSuccess #PassionToProfit #WomenOver40 #OnlineBusiness #AlignedWealth #SpiritualEntrepreneur #BelieveAndReceive #EmpoweredWomen #FreedomLifestyle

 
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Posted by on June 11, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Wealth Wednesday

 

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Motivational Monday #003

09 Jun
Motivational Monday #003

“You’re Not Starting Over—You’re Rising Up”

Hey Beautiful Soul,

Happy Motivational Monday

If you know me already you know what fires me up !?!?

If you don’t, read on. Especially if you are a Fabulous Woman Over 40 ….


Let’s begin this week

#motivationalmonday with a truth bomb:

You are not too old. It is not too late. And you are “NOT” starting from scratch.


You are starting from experience—and that’s your superpower.

If you’re a woman over 40, you’ve likely spent decades showing up for others, building families, careers, or sacrificing parts of yourself for the sake of duty. Am I right?

But guess what? This season of your life is about you.

This is your time to re-align, re-ignite, and reclaim the parts of you that have been waiting patiently beneath the surface. You’ve gathered wisdom, resilience, and clarity. Now, it’s time to turn that into something powerful.

Maybe it’s launching your own brand.


Maybe it’s starting a soulful side business


Maybe it’s finally saying yes to that dream of freedom, flexibility, and impact.

The beauty of building something at this stage in your life is that you know what matters—and what doesn’t.

You don’t want the hustle culture.

You want alignment, joy, and purpose.

You want to build a life and business that feels like home to your soul.

And that’s exactly what you’re capable of.

This week, I invite you to trust that:


✨ You’re not behind.


✨ Your timeline is divine.


✨ And the dreams you have now are the breadcrumbs to your next-level life.

Let this be the Monday you stop doubting your path and start designing it.

With love and belief in you,


Ali oxox

PS:

Ready to start building your soul-aligned brand and business?


I have a FREE course designed just for women over 40 who are ready to turn their passions into profit with elegance and ease especially if you are a complete beginner …

To Love Your Lifestyle tap the Title below ⬇️

“Build a Brand & A Business You LOVE after 40”

See you on the inside 🤩

 
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Posted by on June 9, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Monday Motivation

 

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Transformation Tuesday #003

03 Jun

Today’s #transformationaltuesday Blog Post is short and Sweet because I want to get striaght to the point ….

Before: Unfulfilled. Tired. Wondering “Is this it?

”After: Clear. Confident. Creating Income and Impact from a Brand that feels like Purpose.

This is the Transformation I want for YOU !!

So I followed Inspired Action and Created something FREE because I want help as many Women as Possible Feel Souls Aligned and Feeling Fulfilled

Join the Free Course that can Transform Everything

💫  https://www.alisonkparsons.com/love-your-life-freedom-empire 💫

It ALL Yours 100% FREE of Charge ….

As MY Gift to You as I Am on a Mission to Transform as Many Women’s Lives as Possible so That they can Wake UP Happy, Doing What They Love and Loving What They Do Filled and Fuelled with Passion !!

#TransformationTuesday #SoulAlignment #WomenOver40

 
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Posted by on June 3, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Transformational Tuesday

 

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Motivational Monday #002 “Quitters Never Win & Winners Never Quit”

19 May
Motivational Monday #002 “Quitters Never Win & Winners Never Quit”

I have a confession to make this #motivationalmonday ….

I have been suffering from a little bit of comparisonitis in the last few days

It came about from attending a Virtual Event over the Weekend called Thrive In 2025 with Dean Graziosi and Tony Robbins and I saw a post by a mutual Facebook friend who was also attending and like me, attended previous events and they shared their successes they credited to these events

And I started or should I say. My Ego Mind started to berate me, calling me a loser and why wasn’t I further along by now ?

Thankfully just prior to this Inspired Action had suggested I partake in Regan Hillyer’s 5 Day Manifestation Intensive that is part of her Membership Program I invest in called “IGNITE” to juice things on a bit.

Now there are 3 nonnegotiable’s for me every month that I invest in …

My Clickfunnels membership. My Rob Moore Gold Membership and “IGNITE” with Regan Hillyer.

There are other mentorship programs I invest in but if push came to shove. These are my must have’s plus my Gym Membership

I’m not trying to sell you on “IGNITE” or maybe I Am but think about this, it is $9.99 dollars a month so here in the UK that is with the current exchange rate just over £7.00. Break that over 30 days and I think that is incredible value but I know people who will pooh-pooh that investment and say I am never going to do that but will spend that on a coffee “Everyday” !!! because they see that as nonnegotiable. Everyday !!!

So let’s get real and raw here and break it down. £7 a day, say over 5 days a week to knock off weekends and that is £140 a month (or more if they go twice a day or buy a croissant or cake or buy a drink for a companion) yet they won’t invest $9.99 a month to support them in making their dreams a reality and then they moan about their lives 🤔

And a quick side note. That nonnegotiable caffeine hit costs more than all my nonnegotiable’s put together and I know I am getting far more from them to pull me towards my BPR.

BPR if you haven’t heard me mention it before stands for “Big Picture Reality” which Regan talks about on day one of the “5 Day Manifestation Intensive” which you can access if you click on the title “5 Day Manifestation Intensive” or any of the words “IGNITE”

But I have to say gradually as the weekend went on I got so much value from this event. So much wisdom. So many ideas. So many content ideas for my own work.

As Jay Shetty‘s wife Radhi Devlukia Shetty said on day two “We Are All Bridges of other peoples Wisdom” her meaning was, some people feel they are never ready to start because they are not qualified enough but if we are passionate about something the chances are we have invested in books, courses etc and gained knowledge on those subjects and we can all start communicating our own interpretations of that gained knowledge and inform others who have most likely not been aware of it before and aid and encourage them on their journeys which is just what I feel I Am doing

Two takeaways I got from Dean Graziosi that I wrote down that I will share now were “There’s a Gift Inside ALL Of us that someone is waiting for”

and second “The People Who Don’t Live Their Dreams are The Ones Who Gave Up. Don’t Give Up. Just Keep Going”

Which is very much like the Lisa Nichols quote I included in the Image “Quitters Never Win and Winners Never Quit”

You, I will only succeed if we keep going

Another confession I have is ….

I used to quit all the time. Usually at the first road block. Then I inadvertently started building a subconscious Morning Routine that you can get for FREE at www.mywakeuphappy.com and part of that Morning Routine was Personal Development like watching and listening to YouTube videos of people like Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor and a personal favourite. Tony’s mentor. Jim Rohn and then one day I noticed something ….

I stopped quitting. No matter how sxxt things got. I built what Lisa calls “Your Bounce Back Muscle”

I would sometimes feel a little defeated, jaded but then something would motivate me on like this morning …

When I had the Inspired Action to do the 5 Day Manifestation Intensive in “IGNITE” last week I set an alarm for it on my phone for this morning

And then while listening I had some realisations and started journalling them down. I noticed I manifested the bed I was, am laying in. I manifested this bedroom and everything in it. I manifested my current weight loss and health goals that are part of my own BPR. My Macbook I am using. Cars etc and perhaps when your ego is trying to telling you you are a loser and remind you of all the things you haven’t yet got or want to become remind yourself of all the things you have achieved to date and this can be a tool to keep the “Faith in the Yet Unseen” when doubt starts to bubble up and it looks like your BPR is not happening

Then I had the thought that maybe it wasn’t my Ego after all and maybe it was my 5D version of me shaking me up. Making me uncomfortable because maybe I have got a little to comfortable in my current reality and it was saying “Hey, Hey, Hey ! We are not done yet. You are not where I am in your 3D reality and there is still some work to be done” and when I say work. I mean some more envisioning to be done. Some more focusing on my BPR to become an energetic match for it 

I hope this weeks edition of Motivational Monday has inspired you to focus on Your Big Picture Reality or if this term is new to you. Actually start to write down what it would look like and give you some tools to keep focused when it looks like nothing is happening or even better why not invest in yourself by investing in “IGNITE”

It might mean forgoing something like one coffee but trust me, the results will taste so much better

Until next time

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible for Us to Build a Business and Life we All Love And Wake UP Happy !!

 
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Posted by on May 19, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Monday Motivation

 

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Transformational Tuesday #001

13 May

“You Can Have More Than You Got Because You Can Become More Than You Are” ~ Jim Rohn

As with yesterday … I have decided to start turning what are normally Social media posts into Blog posts as well and this is this weeks #transformationaltuesday post

Everyone single one of us on this planet are being less than the potential we can be

Even the very successful high achievers are only scratching the surface of all that they can be

That’s through no fault of their own or our own …

It’s because we fail to wrap our heads around the infinite capacity we have available to us

We are ALL Infinite Beings with Unlimited Potential but subconscious programming from birth taught us that we are less than when in actuality we are everything and anything we can imagine and then some with our limited scope of our own capacity

With that said. Think a little differently about where you are and where you want to be and give yourself permission to “Go There”

Yesterday I wrote a #motivationalmonday post about “Embodiment”

Think about what you truly desire and first “Go There” in your mind and “Embody” the “Feeling” of already having it and living it

And then “Go There” again and again and try to “Go There” at least once a day every day and if you miss a day “Go There” the next day or do as I suggested yesterday and set an alarm to spend just a few seconds “Embodying” the person you desire to be and then start to see the Transformations happen

And my advise ….

Journal the times you see evidence of things unfolding and starting to manifest and as I call it “Milk The Twigs”

This may not make much sense so I have dropped this weeks Edition of my Newsletter “Amplified Empire” below …


https://www.alisonkparsons.com/amplifiedempires/this-is-59-years-old-and-i-am-milking-the-twigs

I hope you enjoy it and start milking the twigs yourself and start to see how Fabulous you are and start to “Embody” all that “YOU” are capable of being

Love Ali xoxo

 
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Posted by on May 13, 2025 in Law of Attraction, Transformational Tuesday

 

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Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #004

09 Apr
Wealth Wednesday Affirmation #004

“I Am so Happy and Grateful everyday I Am Receiving Multiple Sources of Soul Aligned Income, Supporting a Life I Love Giving Me More Freedom & Security”

If you have known me for a while or followed any of my content you maybe aware one of the biggest game changers for me was something I learned from the late great Bob Proctor that …

“Successful People have Multiple Sources of Income”

For you this maybe no great surprise but for me and my background it was BIG new news for me

And you may have got the gist that for sometime I Am not a Fan of the Hustle Bus Energy and being Physically repelled by Grind Culture. Do or Die and unfortunately some have physically died before they got to experience the fruits of their Labour

I Am more about Effortless Alignment and receiving from Ease and Flow so I created this affirmation as part of Wealth Wednesday to help change the Energetic Vibration of Wealth Creation

Feel free to save the Affirmation Image to Think it ,Speak it, Write it. Be It !!

What We Focus on Expands
What We Take our Focus Away From Contracts
What We Think About, We Bring About

#wealthwednesday

#lawofattaction

 
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Posted by on April 9, 2025 in Law of Attraction

 

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