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I have a confession to make this #motivationalmonday ….

I have been suffering from a little bit of comparisonitis in the last few days

It came about from attending a Virtual Event over the Weekend called Thrive In 2025 with Dean Graziosi and Tony Robbins and I saw a post by a mutual Facebook friend who was also attending and like me, attended previous events and they shared their successes they credited to these events

And I started or should I say. My Ego Mind started to berate me, calling me a loser and why wasn’t I further along by now ?

Thankfully just prior to this Inspired Action had suggested I partake in Regan Hillyer’s 5 Day Manifestation Intensive that is part of her Membership Program I invest in called “IGNITE” to juice things on a bit.

Now there are 3 nonnegotiable’s for me every month that I invest in …

My Clickfunnels membership. My Rob Moore Gold Membership and “IGNITE” with Regan Hillyer.

There are other mentorship programs I invest in but if push came to shove. These are my must have’s plus my Gym Membership

I’m not trying to sell you on “IGNITE” or maybe I Am but think about this, it is $9.99 dollars a month so here in the UK that is with the current exchange rate just over £7.00. Break that over 30 days and I think that is incredible value but I know people who will pooh-pooh that investment and say I am never going to do that but will spend that on a coffee “Everyday” !!! because they see that as nonnegotiable. Everyday !!!

So let’s get real and raw here and break it down. £7 a day, say over 5 days a week to knock off weekends and that is £140 a month (or more if they go twice a day or buy a croissant or cake or buy a drink for a companion) yet they won’t invest $9.99 a month to support them in making their dreams a reality and then they moan about their lives 🤔

And a quick side note. That nonnegotiable caffeine hit costs more than all my nonnegotiable’s put together and I know I am getting far more from them to pull me towards my BPR.

BPR if you haven’t heard me mention it before stands for “Big Picture Reality” which Regan talks about on day one of the “5 Day Manifestation Intensive” which you can access if you click on the title “5 Day Manifestation Intensive” or any of the words “IGNITE”

But I have to say gradually as the weekend went on I got so much value from this event. So much wisdom. So many ideas. So many content ideas for my own work.

As Jay Shetty‘s wife Radhi Devlukia Shetty said on day two “We Are All Bridges of other peoples Wisdom” her meaning was, some people feel they are never ready to start because they are not qualified enough but if we are passionate about something the chances are we have invested in books, courses etc and gained knowledge on those subjects and we can all start communicating our own interpretations of that gained knowledge and inform others who have most likely not been aware of it before and aid and encourage them on their journeys which is just what I feel I Am doing

Two takeaways I got from Dean Graziosi that I wrote down that I will share now were “There’s a Gift Inside ALL Of us that someone is waiting for”

and second “The People Who Don’t Live Their Dreams are The Ones Who Gave Up. Don’t Give Up. Just Keep Going”

Which is very much like the Lisa Nichols quote I included in the Image “Quitters Never Win and Winners Never Quit”

You, I will only succeed if we keep going

Another confession I have is ….

I used to quit all the time. Usually at the first road block. Then I inadvertently started building a subconscious Morning Routine that you can get for FREE at www.mywakeuphappy.com and part of that Morning Routine was Personal Development like watching and listening to YouTube videos of people like Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor and a personal favourite. Tony’s mentor. Jim Rohn and then one day I noticed something ….

I stopped quitting. No matter how sxxt things got. I built what Lisa calls “Your Bounce Back Muscle”

I would sometimes feel a little defeated, jaded but then something would motivate me on like this morning …

When I had the Inspired Action to do the 5 Day Manifestation Intensive in “IGNITE” last week I set an alarm for it on my phone for this morning

And then while listening I had some realisations and started journalling them down. I noticed I manifested the bed I was, am laying in. I manifested this bedroom and everything in it. I manifested my current weight loss and health goals that are part of my own BPR. My Macbook I am using. Cars etc and perhaps when your ego is trying to telling you you are a loser and remind you of all the things you haven’t yet got or want to become remind yourself of all the things you have achieved to date and this can be a tool to keep the “Faith in the Yet Unseen” when doubt starts to bubble up and it looks like your BPR is not happening

Then I had the thought that maybe it wasn’t my Ego after all and maybe it was my 5D version of me shaking me up. Making me uncomfortable because maybe I have got a little to comfortable in my current reality and it was saying “Hey, Hey, Hey ! We are not done yet. You are not where I am in your 3D reality and there is still some work to be done” and when I say work. I mean some more envisioning to be done. Some more focusing on my BPR to become an energetic match for it 

I hope this weeks edition of Motivational Monday has inspired you to focus on Your Big Picture Reality or if this term is new to you. Actually start to write down what it would look like and give you some tools to keep focused when it looks like nothing is happening or even better why not invest in yourself by investing in “IGNITE”

It might mean forgoing something like one coffee but trust me, the results will taste so much better

Until next time

Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible for Us to Build a Business and Life we All Love And Wake UP Happy !!