Just this week I saw a post my another Hustler hospitalised and struck down by illness
Last night I saw a post by a person who instigated me to want to scream stop 🛑 and to be honest it did slightly annoy me …
Well maybe more than a little or I wouldn’t be inspired to write this post
I’m not shutting up anymore
The other day I received a message of an area I should focus on
That message didn’t come while I was hustling
It didn’t come while I was grinding from hard work
It came because I was aligned and it happened with no effort from me
The person that motivated me to write this post wrote in there’s since having a serious diagnosis it’s caused them to reevaluate life and there was a tinge of sadness as they acknowledged going after an accumulation of awards and for no other good reason but to win. To be the best but at what cost
But more to the point … what motivation
They saw lots of late nights. Early mornings and sacrifice
I see so much wasted time that they could have been appreciating a life they now so clearly value but put off until later
And now all they want to do is keep living but subconsciously their send off sentence was still tinged with hustle and grind and inspiring others to do the same
That’s what P’d me off 😱
This person has spent years encouraging others to hustle and grind. Work long days (and nights) and sacrifice time with loved ones for rewards later and nowhere have I ever seen them apologise to the people they have led along the way. There way ‼️ who have probably equally sacrificed and experienced stress and guilt for not living up to or experienced that persons level of success
Stress and guilt are out of alignment with our true nature and anything out of alignment with our true nature causes Dis-ease in our bodies
Read that again…
Anything out of alignment with our true nature causes DISEASE ‼️ in our bodies
And what’s happening to the Hustlers and Grinders ⁉️
What’s happening to this person ⁉️
I previously read what’s motivated them ⁉️
It didn’t pass me by previously reading that while having some holistic forms of treatment they got to a route cause of always hustling
After experiencing poverty as a child no matter how rich they got they feared if they stopped the money would run out and they feared returning to poverty so they just kept hustling whatever the cost
There Health was the cost ‼️
I appreciate this was subconscious but at the same time they subconsciously pulled a lot of people along their fear based journey
Thanks to my Divine Download I know what work was afoot here and now it’s my work to raise awareness and Inspire a more Faith Based Approach to a fulfilling life without Fear
Faith in the yet unseen. Faith in always being supported. Faith over Fear
So I have been thinking about expressing my feelings on this subject for along time and honestly because the people whose advice turned my stomach were far more successful and wealthier than me (or are they) imposter syndrome struck and I thought who would listen to me over them? So I ignored the callings of my heart over and over again until eventually and unfortunately what I felt intuitively came to pass and is actually still coming to pass even today so I cannot hold it in any longer.
I was Shocked by The author of one of my favourite books admitting how they have had felt in their new book
Their book I mentioned I have referred to multiple times when I have felt out of alignment and in their “New book” I learned in their own words that at the time of writing what I felt a work of spiritual genius for me, they were calling themselves a piece of shit and there was a lot of self loathing
I know millions of people love this person and are one of the most profound Spiritual Gurus of our times
Who knew while we followed their wisdom inside they had so much disregard for themselves
I also became aware of one of my Own mentors who had prescribed a certain method of working who I actually had resonated away from slightly because of their methodology was now completely going through a turnabout and promoting a different perspective after life threw them massive health issue curveballs
Then someone else who I was actually familiar with and actually deeply concerned about and the message they were spreading. I saw a post about I think honestly I suspected would come but here was the evidence I hoped not to see of a diagnosis of a serious illness
And so it goes on
Someone else I know of who promoted a work ethic, business building methodology I could no longer resonate to only recently has posted admitting their method got them rich in money but poor in time and then followed up by another post admitting to multiple health issues and how they regret being so busy they ignored the signs
I could actually go on but these examples are enough to express the motivation for this content
All of these people are very successful and wealthy. I say again but are they?
I resonated away from their hard work ethic and the reason why …..
Because intuitively I uncomfortable around their suggested work practices
It didn’t allow for fun. Relaxation and quality time with loved ones etc
Ok your bank accounts maybe full with millions but at what cost?
If it were all to end tomorrow what memories had they made
Because of this I changed my work practices. Which in turn took away a lot of guilt
I decided whenever my partner was around I downed tools on building my business and focused on us and shared activities even if that was snuggling up and watching a series on Netflix which in some areas with certain members of the areas I discussed above was a huge no, no.
Even having a TV was a swear word if you wanted to have a successful business and forget time with loved ones. Just explain that if they want you to be successful and wealthy and enjoy the trappings of wealth they have to sacrifice time with you now for enjoyment later were their cries but what if.
What If you suddenly or someone you love suddenly gets struck down by a severe illness or God forbid a bus what do you want them to remember you for ….
18 hour days 7 days a week or that box set you shared and discussed about afterwards and the time you were cuddled up watching it and the memory of when they gently kissed you on the forehead out of nowhere for no particular reason or the Santorini sunset you shared together ?
All actual experiences I have had plus many more and my relationship is stronger for it and it continues to grow with even more shared memory making experiences however I haven’t given up on my business goals and dreams
I am just going through a transition of my personal journey of how I create that business in the most joyful, blissful way possible and set an example of how others can achieve the same from expressing their gifts
Wealth is not just money in the bank because your wealth bank can be running on empty if the physical bank accounts are full but your emotional bank accounts are empty of beautiful experiences, memories and bankrupt of fulfilling relationships
I have to admit Because these people were very successful with very full physical bank accounts I thought I should follow their advice but gradually I kept hitting roadblocks and feel ever increasing discomfort physically every time I tried to follow their advice
What changed ….
I started to listen to and trust my true feelings which was to step away from their advice
I went inside to ensure I didn’t go without but I, in all honestly felt no one would listen to my methodology due to the lack of evidence of my own success
But it is interesting to see now and also concerning to see how many people followed their methodologies to the extent of sacrifice only for their (my previous) gurus to suddenly have a change of Faith and what changed their belief systems ?
In most cases …. Serious health issues
I am not grateful they had to go through such serious trauma to get their awakening but I am grateful that they are now realigning to a more healthy, fulfilling way of operating that fills all their bank accounts. Spiritual, Emotional and Physical
I would rather align with my Heart first and then follow Divine Guidance of how to express myself most authentically in Faith that the Highest Version of me that is calling to me and I, will shake hands in the near future one beautiful soul experience at a time along the journey
One of the people whose advised practices really turned my stomach but had so many ardent fans who has gone through and is still recovering from serious illness who is thankfully taking some time to use holistic methods to heal admitted that through one of those practices came to see that the reason they worked such longer hours and inadvertently advocated that method so virulently was because after experiencing childhood poverty deep down regardless of how wealthy they were was scared if they stopped working they would run out of money
I have to say I deeply admired they admitted this publicly but as I mentioned I have been feeling this for a long time and started compiling this blog post a long time ago and I ignored my intuition that eventually proved right and my intuition is telling me by their current posts they are still not healed from this negative belief and I am concerned that illness will return because there is a pattern there that is subconsciously using their current situation to use their old vehicle of attracting business and making money
That’s why I say beware of false gurus
I have to say at this point I do not blame any of these people
They had no idea what they were doing
They had no idea what was motivating them
And
Because their work and business methods yielded such positive results and they deeply care for people and wanted them to experience wealth and success to they understandably stood loud and proud and said “Follow Me, Do This. This Works. This Will Help You” because bottom line they are deeply compassionate caring people to the detriment to their own health and needs
False Gurus is a massive statement to make but what I mean by False Gurus is genuine people, believing in what they are selling but to the detriment to their Health and Wellbeing and the Health and Wellbeing of others because they don’t know what is truly motivating them until they probably have to face a dark night of the soul because they have been far to busy working they haven’t given themselves time to listen to the callings of their hearts so they are selling one message on the outside but on the inside the message could be completely different which they are most likely drowning out with activity
As I mentioned above I have literally read in the last 24 hours of writing this someone admit they have ignored signals from their body because they were to busy working (and telling multiple people to work this same way) and they are now facing multiple health issues and are imploring people to not ignore the signs
When we are out of Alignment with our true source we are sending cortisol around our bodies and leaving ourselves open to stress related illnesses and all sorts of ailments. In actuality aliments are nature’s alarm system to warns us we are out of balance with our true selves. Fear is also an alarm system but instead of asking ourselves what is it trying to tell us we block it out with Drink, Alcohol, Cigarettes …. work !!
I have a vision myself of a business method I truly want to build but I decided to stop and stop worrying basically about the how and come off the Level 2, Level of Consciousness “By Me” and listen to my Heart and follow one Inspired Action step after one Inspired Action step after another and surrender to the outcome and forget timelines and deadlines and walk in Faith of the yet unseen becoming physical
If this article Inspires You to do anything I hope it is Stop !! Take a breath and listen to Your Soul Speaking to You
See where you have been ignoring it
Give it an opportunity to Say something
Give yourself permission “Not” to take “Any” action
Give Yourself “Time” to recalibrate and realign and listen again
I am learning more and more that our Hearts are the Seat of Our Soul and that “WE ALL” have a gift to share with the world and to access that gift lay’s within.
Within our Heart
Our Hearts will never lie to us when we give it space to speak
As a recently certified Advanced Ho’Oponopono Practitioner I really enjoyed about learning the process of Dr Joe Vitale that does speak to my heart
Inspiration
Intention
Clearing
Trust it to unfold
Before taking any action do something to allow pure Inspiration to come through. Meditate, walk, music. Something joyful to raise your vibration and get to what is called in Ho’Oponopono Zero. The place of nothingness. No thought. Pure potentiality and where we were before we allowed other people’s opinions, experiences and beliefs to cloud our vision.
In this place of high vibration we are open to Inspiration
When a thought drops in. An inspired idea set the Intention for it to manifest.
Do some kind of clearing. It could be breath work or repeating the Ho,Oponopono Prayer “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you”
Take any inspired actions that come to mind. Call that friend, visit that place etc and then trust it to unfold
Rinse repeat
When I say rinse repeat I mean it on two levels
Rinse repeat taking some regular time, every day if possible but don’t berate yourself if you miss a day. We all get those unforeseen’s. Even for a few seconds to take, for example some slow deep breaths and then see if any ideas or action steps come to mind or even ask your Heart “What will do have me do?” and follow Guidance. Even if nothing comes it is always beneficial to start making time to just “Stop”. The more you “Stop” the more Your heart has opportunities to come to You.
Also
Rinse repeat taking time to have a date with your Soul or Your Ultimate self. Those desires of your heart are your soul calling to you come over here because Your Ultimate self is already there, living that life you desire otherwise you wouldn’t feel them. They just wouldn’t resonate with You. Sitting quietly taking some slow breaths through the nose. Holding for a few seconds and then releasing with your mouth open, dropping the jaw as you exhale can connect back into your Heart and then allow the Vision of Your Hearts to Desire to Manifest on Your Mental Screen
The more you date Your Ultimate Self You will eventually ….
Live the life You truly desire. Not the life of some False Guru self who doesn’t know they are living and acting out of Fear instead of Faith !!
When I purchased Gabby Bernstein’s book Super Attractor I also purchased for $1:11 (clever Gabby adding an up sell) a set of meditations
Because my Morning Routine had to change in early 2022 due to a change in circumstances I started listening to 2 of these meditations every morning while dressing and one of them is called Morning Mantras and the other Unwavering Faith in the Universe
This change in circumstances was meant to be temporary while I worked on other stuff but the reality was far different than sold on the tin ( ever find that?) Making it far more difficult to work on the projects I had planned
It hasn’t been an easy road to hold unwavering Faith in the Universe but slowly as I see subtle changes I have stronger and stronger Unwavering Faith that everything is working out in my favour.
I am currently listening to and reading another book I first heard of from another author called The Gap and The Gain by Dan Sullivan and Dr Benjamin Hardy and maybe it is because of this book I have become more aware of the incremental change that appear before me
In the loalover.club I already have a section based around the Gap but I trust that I will be updating this once I have finished the book from a new fuller awareness about the Gap and in Gain
If you have an Intention, a goal or dream you still Wish Fulfilled a tip I suggest is start Journaling every little win or gain you observe in your daily life and you will start to see how far you have come instead of how far you have to go. It will also bolster Your Unwavering Faith in the Universe and the yet unseen as you get closer and closer to your desired outcome
A few days ago I learnt something amazing about our desires via Regan Hillyer but I will save that for another post so watch this space
Also watch this space for free access to the Law of Attraction Lovers Club (something I Am working on after an Inspired Action the other day).
For a long time, I don’t know why or where from but I desired to be an entrepreneur
For a long time I read biographies of successful people
For a long time I believed being an entrepreneur was something you were born with
For a long time from reading those biographies I felt I was not born with the skill
Then my world changed after writing a simple statement on a card from following and inspired idea and reading it often
That statement was “I Am successfully self employed. Doing what I love and loving what I do”
Then a set of circumstances occurred most miraculously and I manifested my first business …. Effortlessly !!
And when I say effortlessly, with zero work on my part. It came about by a set of synchronistic events
Then I became obsessed by successful people and learning from them … but soon.
Soon I started to get a yucky feeling in my gut when I heard certain aspects they were advising
Work hard now. Play later
You have to work 16 hour plus days and sacrifice time with your family but explain to them what you are doing and why and then help them invest in what you are doing by choosing something you all want to do together when you hit a certain level of success
Take no vacations
No TV watching. That’s time you could be spending on your business. Even better do away with the TV and in some cases they came across as sanctimoniously boasting about their lack of TV home like they were some higher Business mortals for the lack of Netflix watching or even better no device to stream Netflix on
Any speak of hard work or God, how hard “they” work or how hard the work is made me just resonate away from them
Please for the love of gooseberries shut the “F” up about how frickin hard it all is
We are all “self-filling” machines
Self fulfilling inside out what we think, feel, and say
Yeah, it’s hard work because that’s what you “feel” and believe and talk about all the time and voila what ever you try to create is hard work in the process
It’s Law. It cannot be any other way
Have you ever seen those bright light beams they can send up into the sky now. Not the nicest analogy but what they do on the anniversary of 9/11
Now imagine every thought, feeling sensation and words we speak shoot up into the sky like one of those beams attracting to it like a Radio transmitter the exact manifestation of the thing we thought, felt or said
I assume me all know how magnets work?
Now imagine standing in a field innocently like a scarecrow but a magnetic scarecrow and items start resonating to you out of nowhere and start sticking to you. All over you body
If you can perceive this scenario you don’t want to be thinking about elephants
Now look, you only have yourself to blame. I told you not to think about elephants. Only kidding
Everything we think feel and say sends out a frequency signal to attract back the attention of our focus
Good, Bad, Wanted or Unwanted
We are All powerful creators and we can create the lives we have consciously but mostly, we do it unconsciously
Now I want to create a new way of creating businesses we love. An easier way, without hard work
The work is, if you can call it work is to lower our resistance as much as possible to the things we say we want
The type of people I mention above would never advocate what I am saying but I am saying follow your inspired actions, to do the things that bring you joy
If you think you should be working on you dream, goal or business but fancy watching a movie with a loved one. Watch the movie. You are lowering the resistance to the thing you desire making it more able to come to you
Any uncomfortable sensation in your body is telling you, you are out of alignment with the thing you think you should be doing so don’t do it
If a particular person says you must focus on building an email list to have a successful business and it makes sense to you by what they say about their own personal experience so you sit down with every intention to research and do such a thing and it feels like walking through mud but suddenly you get the inspiration to learn about podcasting instead and the thought of that lights you up ….
Do the thing that lights you up instead
That idea is being channelled through you and that’s the true inspiration
That thought, idea, inspiration came from Zero
The true Source of all Inspiration and that’s the idea you should follow
Zero in Ho’Oponopono is the place, space where everything is perfect before we started to take on negative beliefs and programming from the outside world and all it’s woulda, shouda, coulda’s
We can go to zero through practices like gratitude, meditation, walking in nature, enjoying a good meal, laughing with friends and loved ones even sleeping
What we are doing at Zero is lowering the resistance we have to anything we desire and allowing it to come to us easily
No hard work required
Like my story above about getting my first business. I simply wrote a statement on a card and let go of the outcome. The how, the when and the why and got on with other things and it manifested effortlessly
I was holding no resistance to the how and when it came and boy did it come in a way I never anticipated in a format I never envisaged
What this did was, create a Faith in me that other things could come to me effortlessly and in more perfect ways than I ever envisioned and that me getting in the way trying to do things “My” way only limited and slowed down the process
What I didn’t know then was I was subconsciously using Techniques practiced in Ho’Oponopono. I only found this out after feeling an Inspiration (that wouldn’t leave me alone). A strong desire to study to be a Ho’Oponopono Practitioner
Ho’Oponopono made so much, makes so sense to me that I had felt intuitively before
I felt like I should be keeping a planner and to be a good business woman I should schedule in certain tasks and let nothing sway me from these tasks but the in reality ….
I always got swayed and the things that swayed me were far more fun or beneficial than anything I could have produced with my limited perception
Now I trust to do the thing that feels right in the moment and then trust and follow any Inspired Action that pops up via those actions or any other time I get what I call Divine Downloads
History is littered of stories of inventions and hit songs and movie plots and classic manuscripts, masterpiece pieces of art, aeroplanes, cars, phones and the list goes that came about in the weirdest scenarios and sets of synchronicities and effortlessly seemingly out of nowhere and normally taking minutes if not seconds to flow through and come to the artist/creator and usually after they had spent years previously trying to create hit records, blockbuster films and classic manuscripts etc on their own
Take JK Rowling for instance or Oprah Winfrey’s efforts to be in my favourite film “The Color Purple”. Oprah desperately wanted to be in that film and tried everything to no avail and exhausted checked herself into a Health Farm and whilst on a Dreadmill, oh sorry Treadmill she was informed Steven Spielberg was on the phone and he offered her the part she wanted.
She didn’t know how he got the number or even how he knew she was there but what Oprah had done subconsciously was surrender and get out of the way to let the Universe (as I prefer to call it) do it’s thang
She was sending out a vibration of lack, desperation and frustration at not getting the part she so wanted
That’s what I mean by resistance.
We say we want something but then immediately doubt the possibility and think it’s taking to long. Thus setting up resistance aka “Blocking Energy”
So the work is my friend. If you can call it work, is …..
Get out of your own way. Have fun doing the things you love and follow any Inspired Ideas that come through and take the action that seems most aligned and joyous to fulfill that Inspiration and keep it fun.
Don’t get bogged down with the how and when. That creates fear and doubt. The two worst blocking energies to whatever you want
Trying to figure out how or observing it is not here yet only creates more not having the thing you want because that is where you focused attention is going and therefore magnetizing to you “Not having the thing” ~ “Resistance”
Trust that it will come at the perfect time in the perfect way and the irony is, it will probably come more quickly and more miraculously perfect than you could have ever anticipated because you eliminated the Resistance
Quick tip: Do the things you are most passionate about regardless if you were getting paid for them or not. The how it happens is not our business.
Bob Proctor says we should always focus on what we are most Passionate about and nothing else
If you are unsure what makes you tick anymore because you have been to busy doing the things that suck the life force out of you. Via my Passions, fuelled by my first business I created a simple quick easy tool to help you tap into what makes you Unique and explains how you can turn that into an income creating idea to be able to share with the world the gifts you were meant to give and it is called “Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder” and you can find it here at fabfreedom.live
My current Inspired “Passion” Idea is to share how to make businesses you love The Ho’Oponopono Way. The Ho’Oponopono Business Way so for more Ho’Oponopono Business ideas why not head over to the Facebook page called The Ho’Oponopono Business Way
I first started my journey with The Law of Attraction and created many amazing things but felt there was something missing. I then became aware of the Four Levels of Consciousness and Level 2 is very Law of Attraction. Decide what you want and deliberately create it or more commonly known “Manifest It” but the Universe could have so much more in store for you, far beyond your expectations or capacity to believe and you could be cutting yourself off from this by only “Deliberately Creating” with your limited physical view point (Level 2) when I Believe there is another way and another Level. Level 3.
That is the Art of Allowing level. That’s the effortless level I mention above. This is where we surrender and let go and trust that the Universe knows best for us. We let go and allow something even more miraculous to come to us and through us
I don’t align anymore with the Level 2 methodology of if you want a house. Write it down in every minute detail so the Universe knows what to give you. I don’t buy into the premise of “Only giving the Universe wishy washy details creates wishy washy results
We are dealing with Infinite Intelligence here. Infinite Intelligence knows what we “Truly” desire without us ever writing it down and it wants to give us something even more incredible that’s not even on the whiteboard of our desires. It’s completely off the scale
We are Infinite Intelligence and it is Us. It resides within us and it is closer than our own breath. Heck it creates the breath in this physical incarnation. How else could our lungs keep breathing and our hearts keep beating while we sleep. Not to mention all the other millions of bodily functions happening every second of every day without any assistance on our part
Oh PS: This blog post wasn’t written by me. I was just a conduit for the information I felt Inspired to transcribe
I leave it there to let you chew on that thought for a bit but if I have struck a chord and I hope I have remember “Only focus on what you are most Passionate about” The secrets for Freedom lie within
If you haven’t already, please read the quote from Amanda Frances’s book “Rich As Fxxk” above.
Amanda Frances is a very successful multimillionaire yet every day she still has negative thoughts relating to money and everyday she works on those beliefs.
Now I can relate to this because like most people I have grown up with a negative Money Mindset subconsciously picked up from my environment.
One of me earliest memories was coming down stairs when I couldn’t sleep to find my mum doing sums on a tiny notepad in the middle of the night.
This wasn’t going to be the first time I found these notepads or saw her making calculations but I was bemused by why my Mum who didn’t go to school want to do Maths voluntarily?
I now know, many years later. She was trying to balance the books as it were and decipher how on Earth she could make ends meet and pay the bills.
I have sooooo many things to be grateful for, and I Am.
Via The Level 2 of awareness on the Four Levels of consciousness I have manifested many incredible things, experiences and opportunities but financial success was not one of them and I truly believed I would never master my poor money mindset which is a negative self fulfilling prophecy right there of my own creation.
Then I would read a really good money mindset book. Attract money and think I got it sussed and stop doing the positive money mindset stuff and attract lots of circumstances for the money to gradually go away and then as I saw it dwindle “fear and doubt” would set in of how I am going to pay this bill etc and I would reenforce by belief that I couldn’t cure my bad money mindset.
Not aware I was just activating The Law of Expansion.
What you focus on expands so focusing on lack of money expanded and attracted more situations for a lack of money.
I see now I thought mastering your money mindset was a one time event.
When the money came rolling in you had cracked it and bingo. No more crapadoodle money thoughts and the money would increase and keep on rolling in kinda thing.
Wrong !
I think it was Amanda that first introduced me to the concept that “It’s never going to go away and like Zig Ziglar says about bathing I’m going to have to work on it every day.
That’s not such a bad thing.
To me, It was a liberating thing.
It’s liberating to think I’m not a failure and I can improve my money mindset and consistently working on my money mindset is part of the deal I have to live with and it’s normal.
I can honestly say I truly think I am making progress in my way of looking at and thinking about money. So much so I am now picking up on other people’s negativity around money and their subconscious speech around money.
It’s actually a bit of a weird passion of mine of hopefully switching people on to their subconscious negative language and hopefully helping them understand the detrimental effects of things they say innocently that don’t serve them and hopefully help them change their language to something more constructive.
Remember what I said above about The Law of Expansion?
I was actually inspired to write this blog post because the exact opposite happened to me recently.
I was in a room with several people and one of them mentioned a holiday they booked and someone said how expensive holidays are now and they replied “well the money’s gone now and I’ll just have to learn to deal with it” or words to that effect.
I gave them a positive affirmation to say about letting go and trusting more money will come and suddenly it triggered a whole set of negative comments about money from the other occupants of the room.
Whoa ! I was aghast of the spontaneity of this verbal deluge of negativity around money.
Instead of inspiring people it seemed to create this flood gate of ‘not on my watch will you convince me that money is easy to come by” dialogue.
One person said “it always goes out faster than it comes in”.
“Careful. There’s a negative affirmation about money you are creating there” I replied but the negative affirmations around money continued and I said something I never say out loud. I said “sorry guys but I am going to have to take myself out of this conversation because it’s making my energy crash right down” and I opened Amanda’s book on my phone to put me in a more positive mood. Normally I just out myself inside an Energy Bubble.
I admit I was thinking in quite an indigent manner after the conversation ended and thought “Can these people hear themselves? I gave them a positive affirmation around money and pointed out their subconscious negative speech around money and the detriment of that and it only fuelled them to continue more.
Ahh hello Ali. That’s The Law of Expansion right there. You were focusing on not being surrounded by negative money mindset so activated more negative money mindset.
Then I chose to see it as a gift.
In Ho’Oponopono it is suggested to say mentally “Thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks” over and over again when faced with someone who sees negatively and to clean on the situation or think “Thank you, I love You” repeatedly to take responsibility and clean on the negative emotions that are showing up.
Both The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono say ….
Everything is a mirror. There is no “Out there”.
Everything we see is a physical representation of our inner thoughts and feelings.
I chose to see this situation as a gift because it reminded me to be working on my own money mindset and I can see now. Whenever I hear any negative things being said I can choose to see this as a reminder to clean by saying “Thank you. I love you” over and over because we can become complacent or distracted and the cleaning never ends.
We pick up negative thoughts and energies all the time.
Now that you have read this post. Maybe, whenever you catch yourself thinking or speaking negatively or are in an environment where the conversation matter is negative try mentally repeating “Thank you I love you” and know you are cleaning out old negative thought, programming and beliefs.
You may think it is Hogwash but what have you got to loose? I started a simple Gratitude Practice in 2010 (me the former “Most Negative Person in the World) and I didn’t know then how it was going to change my life. I just followed Inspired Action.
Talking of changing beliefs Dr Joe Vitale my Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono Mentor who was once homeless and is now a multimillionaire doing what he loves started saying to himself “the more money I spend the more money I receive and you can tell from the above statement how that worked out for him.
Now whenever I “Feel” anxiety “Feelings” around money and say a large purchase I immediately repeat “I will not worry, I let go and trust. I now have more money than I can spend. I always receive more money than I spend.
I admit I only just starting to dabble with this but to maybe encourage you to try it the other day I felt inspired to give to a colleagues raffle and I won a £25 voucher for a meal in a local restaurant.
I didn’t give to receive. I genuinely wanted to help the cancer charity but I didn’t just let the occurrence go. I acknowledged this as evidence of my thought process and beliefs as changing that more money comes in than I spend, then another situation where I felt inspired to give £10 to another colleagues daughter’s charity fund raising event and they said that’s too much. Let me give you some back. But I checked in with myself and thought “No, Inspired Action suggested this amount.” So insisted I kept it to the same amount and moved on with my day.
A couple days later I was having the tyres changed on my car and I was talking to my partner and he went on his phone mid conversation and thought he’s gone into a scroll hole and stopped talking. He then said “I have just sent you £100 towards the tyres as I drive your car more than mine now”.
I use all situations like this as evidence my beliefs are changing and my affirmations are working which only fuels me to do it more.
Hopefully this post will inspire you to try changing your beliefs to “there is always more money coming in than going” out and use any evidence like examples above to validate change and inspire you to do it more and more and activate The Law of Expansion in Your favour.
After all it worked for Joe and it can work for all of us to and I highly recommend a great book by Catherine Ponder “The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity”. just tap on the title to be taken through to grab a copy. In it Catherine has some amazing affirmations around multiplying the money you have spent to come back to you tenfold or even a hundredfold.
Now who doesn’t want some of that?
I believe You reading this now. Are a good person. And the world needs good people to prosper and serve the world with their purpose and prosperity and kind hearts.
Ali xoxo
PS: As a gift to you for reading this post I am giving you my Life Changing Morning Routine. It’s a 5 Step Framework I used to change my life and it includes the Gratitude Practice I mentioned earlier that started the whole ball rolling that makes me wake up happy and I want that for You to so that’s where you can find it at mywakeuphappy.com
Before I sign off officially. If you want to find out what my energy bubble tool is as well as other Law of Attraction Life hacks why not hop over to the Loalovers Club at loalover.club . I hope to see you on the inside where it is my Intention to create the largest community of like minded earth changing movers and shakers 🙂
I’d love to hear your Law of Attraction stories so why not drop them in the comments below
I haven’t blogged recently but I am ok with that. This maybe the first time you have read my blog so those words are irrelevant and if you like what you read you may choose to go back through the archive and then it is truly irrelevant if I posted last month or last year or even 5 years ago. In truth I started this blog in 2012 after following “Inspired Action” and I had no idea the journey it would take me on or the person I would become.
In my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show I created an episode about a perspective I gained after listening to someone else’s podcast that had a long gap
I have recently blogged prior to this one and you may want to go back at read that one first before reading what I have placed below and listen to the beautiful piece of music included
It’s entitled Please, Please, Please … Pause !! Inspired by hearing some sad news and unfortunately manifesting something I felt would happen in this situation but hoped would not
In that blog I posted a piece of music that created a Paradigm shift in me
The content below may do such a thing for you
My hope it or my words will do so
The music reminded me of the message I was trying to convey during my Art Degree Finals but wasn’t actively sharing or was sharing subliminally instead of constructively
My ethos is, it is never too late to do what you love and take time to enjoy life because we never know what tomorrow may bring and thanks to Ho’Oponopono to practice “The Art of Surrender”
Because my Brick n Mortar business (that I was no longer Passionate about) was failing due to the lack of footfall and the effects of covid (or was it?) I took inspiration from the book The Cashflow Quadrant and took a job, an easy job. To pay the bills and take the pressure off my finances with hours that allowed me to build my dream business ….
Or so I thought.
The reality. The hours were not what was sold on the tin with often longer days than anticipated and never knowing from one day to the next what time we are going to finish makes it difficult to plan or schedule appointments etc.
I was also carrying on a bit, my physical business online to create a little extra income to the detriment to the time I had spare to invest in what I truly desire but I recently ditched all that to really focus on what I am purposely led to create
It was that first morning of “Me” time that I saw a quote by the author of the music piece I mentioned and I messaged them to say the reaction it created in me
They messaged they felt our Passions and Purpose work were alignment and would like to collaborate
I was literally driving home the previous day excited at the thought “The Universe abhors a vacuum and just has to fill it” and now I have completely stopped the physical product business I am excited to see how that vacuum will be filled and that happens less than 24 hours later
This is truly the Ho’Oponopono Way of doing things and potentially Business
“Once You Make a Decision The Universe Conspires to Make it Happen” is my favourite quote of all times because it literally does and talking of quotes
I found a very beautiful and very unexpected message in my WhatsApp yesterday afternoon from a colleague who said they found a quote in their phone and thought of me as they felt it was my ethos and they also added an extra message that honestly I did not expect
I feel the real Ali, the Law of Attraction Ali I don’t fully divulge at work but even the filtered down version of me inspired them and they followed Inspired Action to send me this quote and I am following Inspired Action to share it with you, Dear Reader and it may inspire you to look at life differently and live differently
So here goes:
Barely the day started and… it’s already six in the evening.
Barely arrived on Monday and it’s already Friday.
… and the month is already over.
… and the year is almost over.
… and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.
… and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.
and we realize it’s too late to go back…
So… Let’s try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time…
Let’s keep looking for activities that we like…
Let’s put some color in our grey…
Let’s smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.
And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left.
Let’s try to eliminate the afters…
I’m doing it after…
I’ll say after…
I’ll think about it after…
We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.
Because what we don’t understand is that:
Afterwards, the coffee gets cold…
Afterwards, priorities change…
Afterwards, the charm is broken…
Afterwards, health passes…
Afterwards, the kids grow up…
Afterwards parents get old…
Afterwards, promises are forgotten…
Afterwards, the day becomes the night…
Afterwards life ends…
And then it’s often too late….
So… Let’s leave nothing for later…
Because still waiting, see you later, we can lose the best moments
The best experiences,
Best friends,
The best family…
The day is today…
The moment is now…
We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone what needs to be done right away.
My message at Uni was we are all living busier and busier lives and experience more and more stress. Take time every day even if it is for 5 minutes to feel Gratitude and appreciate a beautiful blue sky, birds singing, children playing, flowers and their colours, the eyesight to see them etc. To literally stop and smell the flowers literally and metaphorically and take a few deep relaxing breaths and experience the perfect moment of NOW …. before it’s to late !!!
“Don’t Die With You Music Still in You” is the quote I heard Wayne Dyer say that Inspired me to start this blog.
Talking of smelling the flowers. I have a breathing technique and others ideas and tools to help live a more peaceful, rewarding life in The Law of Attraction Lovers Club
I followed Inspired Action recently to listen to Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now”
On my original reading, this book taught me to appreciate the little things we take for granted like the simple task of washing dishes and whenever I get to much in to my own head trying to fix things and feeling stuck. Stepping away and indulging in a mundane task gives my brain the opportunity to pop the solution into my thoughts
Last week a dear friend Ray Coates sent me a piece of his music to listen to and it caused me to have a paradigm shift
It reminded Me of the message I was trying to express with my work for my Art Degree finals
Despite still holding to this value and occasionally expressing it I realised my purpose was to express it consistently
Sadly last night I heard some news I had premonitioned
I hope this now also creates a paradigm shift to
I have resonated “away” from the people who advocate go, go, go ! Hard work and not much down time and God forbid taking time to watch Netflix or have a TV full stop 🛑
My philosophy is buy the shoes, eat the chocolate, take the vacation and snuggle up with your significant other and watch Netflix because while you’re building, building, building none of us know what tomorrow will bring and what opportunities will have been lost to experience
This morning while driving in our favourite car my favourite culture club song came on the stereo and the morning sun was shining on my face
That’s all it takes to experience the Power of Now and being in the presence of Bliss
But do you ?
Do you just take time out in any given day and just relax and breath?
Feel appreciation for all that you have or are you living in the past and fearing the future?
I truly believe (and I have read it is scientifically proven) that not giving our bodies time to relax and being in a constant state of stress and reaction causes blockages in the body that manifest into physical pain and illness
That’s what I feared would happen for these hard work advocates and now I see that manifesting … unfortunately !!!
I have a vision for an easier way. The Ho’OPonoPono Way of living and building businesses we love. In flow and living in Gratitude and that’s where my focus is now going as well as inspiring others to take time to enjoy the Power of Now 🙏🏻
The piece of music I mentioned. I have dropped it below
There have been some very long days this week as I attempt to finish the majority of the Christmas orders and honestly frustration as many took longer than expected
But there have also been positives as decisions have been made that sooth my soul
With the full backing of my partner as he see’s so much time I invest for little recompense I am letting LoveDucks go in 2023
Fulfilling a life long dream to be an entrepreneur was amazing but the reality of a time bound business has been an eye opener
But it’s all good …
Having a brick n mortar business open 6 days a week and cutting your income stream off as you close the door with little down time because you added the element of social media or knowing you have to return to fulfil orders when you do get time away let me to decide how I would like a future business to be
Online, digital and location free. A business than can be run from anywhere or regardless of what else I decide to do using evergreen types of methods and platforms
The landscape of physical businesses has changed with Covid but …
To be honest I had the idea and I have been building this assets for a while but have never been able to invest the time I have wanted to give them due to what I mentioned above
But much like my Favourite building featured. A strong foundation has been built and I am positive everything happens for us in the perfect time if we just get out of the way and surrender to the highest possible outcome
Abraham Hicks says “We need the contrast, to know what we don’t want to see what we do want”
Inspired by the book “The Cashflow Quadrant” by Robert Kiyosaki when concerned about dwindling finances from the Brick n Mortar and non from the as yet non established new business mentioned above I sought employment to take care of the day to day expenses and take the pressure off building my new dream in the “B” and “I” quadrants
I’m loving the idea of the Freedom I shall have to build my Empire my way from the vacuum created by no longer having to worry about time bounded orders
I am grateful for the opportunity my first venture gave me and all the learning curves endured and one of the things I learned a long the way was how many people have a dream and a passion and never started because they thought business was an all or nothing game and they had responsibilities and loved ones to financially support so they stop before they start
I learned from one of my very first mentors Marie Forleo who worked 3 part time jobs while building her business you can do both and should in the beginning
And that’s where I am now (virtually) at the beginning of a new exciting era utilising this incredible digital age available to All
I have seen 2022 be a major Transformational year for so many people and many starting a new and moving away from already established careers because they felt no longer aligned to them
What are you no longer aligned to…
What do you truly want to start to build a foundation for while still working for someone building theirs ?
The Secret is to just get started by taking one Inspired Action step after another and you could get that first nudge today, this minute even from reading this post
You don’t need to wait until 2023 to make 2023 amazing
If you have buried your dreams so deep you can’t even remember what they are any more
Even worse, never allowed yourself the time to know what you are truly Passionate about is
I’m here for you and I have tools that can help
First being my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder a simple tool that can help you see what you are most passionate about and show you how you can start to monetise it online
I’m passionate about helping others using or finding their Passions to unlock a future of Freedom by using my skills and expertise to hone in on what makes individuals tick and then taking the pressures off of setting that up into an Online Business
Today I am Launching My “Passion Based Business Building Funnel Bundle”
This is my first High Ticket “Done For You” Offer but today I am offering it at a ridiculously low ticket cost
I have several levels starting at 999 and upwards Inspired by When I saw The Angel Number 999
I don’t want to go into all the in’s and out and details of all the levels here but here are some of the elements
🤩 A Dig into Your True Passion 121 Zoom then using my 5 Step Framework to plan out your own unique offer
🤩 I create your Lead Magnet based on the results of the above
🤩 I create your Paid Offer
🤩 Set up payment gateway
🤩 Write Sales Copy for email campaign and Create the automated Campaign for you
🤩 I Create and Build your own Unique Sales Funnel and the copy (words) for it
🤩 And then Share the Funnel to You all pre-built
And so much, much more !!
Wait before you think Yeah, yeah I have read about these services before !!
There are nearly 8 Billion people on the Planet as I type and none of us are cookies so cookie cutter business plans won’t work for Creative Entrepreneurs because they don’t go deep into our own unique gifts and talents and only we can share our unique individual message in our own Perfect way in our own perfect time, not via planned out soulless content calendars etc
“Everyone has the seed of greatness sown in them, the problem for most people is no one watered it” ~ Myron Golden
I believe in “Intuitive Marketing” and I am here to water “Your” own special Individual unique seed of greatness 👑
I am a Proponent of The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono and I am here to say now is the time to do Business Differently and now like no other time in History has it ever been easier to share our own Unique Skills and Talents with the world
Don’t Wait. Don’t Hesitate. Don’t do the World a Disservice of not sharing Your Seed of Greatness
If this sounds like something you are interested in drop an email @ alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com or if you want to see some of my work in action click on MY Bio while there don’t forget to click on the Freedom Making Morning Routine to join my email list and get a free gift at the same time
And ……
For 5 lucky people I am giving the Highest Level content plan at 999 instead of the 5555 but you’ll have to be fast 💨 this is a one time offer to only 5 people !!!!!
Every-time we grow we interact with the new and unknown and it can FEEL scary
Don’t be scared
It’s just a sign
A sign we have encountered a new edge
But remember my love …
We are infinite beings with unlimited potential
Once we couldn’t walk talk ride a bike, drive a car, navigate a smartphone
These are just a few finite examples of the things we learned that were once an edge but if our intention is powerful enough our desires true and Passions full we can learn new skills and break through those edges and be inspired to expand passed the next and the next and the next and create a life of Freedom and Joy on our Terms
Listen to Your Heart ❤️ everything you need to know is inside You
Law of Attraction Lover 