Yeah… a bit scary, I know, but this was literally my face this morning while putting on my face!
I’ll be honest—I was feeling grumpy. These are meant to be my “ME” days, yet somehow they’ve become filled with other people’s stuff, appointments, and obligations.
Have you ever found yourself asking: “Where’s MY time?”
If so, you’re not alone. Drop a TIME in the comments if you’re feeling me right now.
The Gift of a Morning Routine
Years ago, without realizing it, I created my own morning routine. And let me tell you: if I can even do a small part of it, I am a happier bunny.
This morning, even though I had a full day ahead, my inner guidance (what I call Inspired Action) nudged me: “Go back to that training section on Masterminding you started—listen while you get ready.”
Normally, I’ll put on an audiobook or a YouTube video while getting dressed or commuting. But this was different—it was a full-on training. And wow… what my ears absorbed was pure GOLD.
Out came the notes app on my phone. I jotted down the ideas before my ego could convince me they weren’t important.
That’s a little Law of Attraction lesson right there: act on the sponsoring thought before it fades. Inspired ideas are like divine breadcrumbs leading us toward what we’ve asked for.
My Law of Attraction Lightbulb Moment
My love affair with the Law of Attraction began years ago when I first picked up the book The Secret.
That book was my lightbulb moment. It was like a switch flipped, and I finally understood why my life looked the way it did—and how I had the power to change it.
I realized that every “bad day” I was declaring into existence was simply the Law of Attraction serving up more of what I was broadcasting. And every time I dared to imagine a different story—even for a few seconds—I shifted my energy and started attracting better.
That’s why I guard my mornings so fiercely now. They’re my foundation. My reset button. My daily reminder that I get to choose how my life unfolds.
Why This Matters for Business Too
Here’s the thing: carving out time for yourself isn’t just about feeling good. It’s also the energetic foundation for building a business you love.
When women come to me wanting to build an online business, I see the same pattern again and again—they’re overwhelmed, exhausted, and trying to push their way to success. But forcing never works for long.
The businesses that thrive—the ones that feel like freedom, joy, and abundance—are the ones built on alignment.
And alignment starts with how you start your day. It’s the deliberate choice to:
Tune in before tuning out.
Create before consuming.
Take Inspired Action instead of frantic action.
Even 5–10 minutes spent doing something that raises your vibration—whether journaling, listening to a training, or sitting in gratitude—will shift how you show up for your business.
Because when your energy shifts, the clients, opportunities, and income you’ve been asking for can finally find you.
Note It. Do It.
That’s why I always jot down inspired ideas, even if I can’t act on them right away. Writing them down keeps the energy alive.
And it’s the same for business: you don’t have to do it all at once. You just have to capture the inspiration and act when you can.
This is how you move from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to creating a soul-aligned business that actually lights you up.
The Energy of Intention
It’s said that a day started deliberately goes far better than one stumbled into. When we begin with even a few seconds of intention, the energy reverberates through the whole day.
On the flip side, when we oversleep, rush around, stub our toe, get cut off in traffic, and then declare, “Ugh, today’s a bad day”—what do you think the Law of Attraction delivers more of? Exactly.
But here’s the magic: just 17 seconds of focusing on gratitude can raise your vibration and change the trajectory of your entire day—and your business.
Your Invitation
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, craving more “YOU time,” or struggling to build a business that feels aligned instead of draining, I want to gift you my morning routine—for free.
It’s simple. It’s doable. And it’s designed to raise your vibration, feed your soul, and set you up to attract not only a better day—but also a business that feels like freedom.
One “Do” is always “Doing”. Doing the work, hustling. Pouring ALL of You into Everything and Everybody else’s Desires and I bet ….
For years, you’ve poured your energy into everyone else’s dreams.
Me too and I keep falling back in to doing the “Do” for others subconsciously
BUT !!
There’s usually signs and the trick is to start noticing the signs and calling a “STOP” to Doing the “Do” and do another kind of “Do” instead.
Overwhelm ~ Frustration ~ Anger ~ Feeling there is not enough Time is a sign …
A sign you are “Doing” too much for others and NOT Doing enough for YOU !!
But what if the next chapter of You, what You “DO” is all about You —Your Passions, Your Purpose, and Your Prosperity?
What if …
You start “Doing” the Things You LOVE and Quit “Doing” for Everyone else
And what if …
If Doing those things You love could be monetised?
Now it is easier than ever to Monetise Your Gifts
“Your Wealth Begins with Your Belief.”
What You “DO” need is belief. Belief that Your gifts matter. Belief that Your story can inspire. Belief that the life You dream of is calling because it’s meant for You.
Your Desires are Your Soul Calling You forward to what You are Truly Meant to “Do”
Here’s the truth:
Regardless of How much of Yourself You have given to Doing for others …
It’s not too late. You’re not too old. And You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to give Yourself Permission to Do the Things You LOVE !!
It doesn’t have to be hours …
Start with small amounts of time “Each” day ….
Maybe 5 minutes in the Morning to Connect with Your Inner Self and allow the ideas and Inspirations of Your Soul “Time” to Speak to You …
Take a Journal with You and step away from the Hustle of the Day and write the above Affirmation 5 times
Set alarms to remind You, You deserve to “Do” the Things You were brought here to “Do”
Belief is “Your” currency
Belief is the first currency of any business. Before the income, before the clients, before the impact— There must be belief in YOU.
✨ Belief that your Passion matters. ✨ Belief that your aquired Wisdom is enough. ✨ Belief that you are not “too late”—you are right on time.
💡 You don’t need to start with a plan.
You start with permission—to dream again, to try again, to rise again.
If this is the First time You have given Yourself permission to Dream about what You want to Do and it all seems a little overwhelming …
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Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible to Build a Business and Life You Love And Wake UP Happy !!
“Your Passion is Your Power—And Your Path to Wealth”
Let’s talk about wealth—not just in your bank account, but in Your Soul, Your time, and Your Legacy.
If you’re a woman over 40, you’ve already lived enough life to know what matters—and chances are, you’ve spent too much time pouring into others and too little into your own dreams.
But here’s the truth no one told us when we were younger:
🌱 It’s never too late to start over.
🌱 It’s never too late to grow wealth.
🌱 And it’s absolutely never too late to build something powerful from your passions.
In fact, Your life experience is Your Superpower. Whether You love wellness, writing, fashion, coaching, spirituality, creativity—or something uniquely yours—there’s a way to turn that passion into a Brand and Business that creates Income and Impact.
You don’t need to hustle like you’re 25. In this new Era, You need Alignment, clarity, and a system that works with Your values, not against them.
So on this Wealth Wednesday, I want you to sit with this affirmation and Truly appreciate Your Value:
“I am open to receiving limitless abundance. My gifts are valuable, and I am worthy of wealth.”
Say it. Write it. Breathe it. And most importantly—believe it.
If You have a desire to Build something that is “YOUR” own? That is not an accident. It’s an Assignment from The Universe !!
When I was a small child an event happened to me on a Sunday afternoon car drive with my parents that Ignited a desire in Me. That desire was to be an Entrepreneur even though I didn’t know what that meant or that word exsisted.
It’s driven Me ever since but I repeatedly tried to surpress it and put other peoples desires over mine and did the Corporate “Thingy” until I couldn’t deny it anymore (thankfully)
Through the route this led me onto I realied the Universe has Given Me the Gift to see in Others what They can’t see in Themselves and can draw it out of them and make them see that ….
You can create a soul-aligned business that gives you the Freedom You crave—Time Freedom, Location Freedom, Financial Freedom—all on Your terms.
But These Beautiful Souls usually gave Me one, two or all three of the same Objects !!
No Time
No Money
Too Old
This made me Sad that these Fabulous People who obviously had an assignment to Serve and Build Something that would Make them Wake UP Happy were writing themselves off before they even started
I didn’t finally fulfil my Dream to be an Entrepreneur until I was in my 50’s. I started by using free assests and I did it and still do using tiny pockets of time
💥 Busting all those Myths and False Beliefs 💥
Have I touched a nerve?
Have I touched a point within You?
Have I reignited a Desire in Your Soul?
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I have a confession to make this #motivationalmonday ….
I have been suffering from a little bit of comparisonitis in the last few days
It came about from attending a Virtual Event over the Weekend called Thrive In 2025 with Dean Graziosi and Tony Robbins and I saw a post by a mutual Facebook friend who was also attending and like me, attended previous events and they shared their successes they credited to these events
And I started or should I say. My Ego Mind started to berate me, calling me a loser and why wasn’t I further along by now ?
Thankfully just prior to this Inspired Action had suggested I partake in Regan Hillyer’s 5 Day Manifestation Intensive that is part of her Membership Program I invest in called “IGNITE” to juice things on a bit.
Now there are 3 nonnegotiable’s for me every month that I invest in …
My Clickfunnels membership. My Rob Moore Gold Membership and “IGNITE” with Regan Hillyer.
There are other mentorship programs I invest in but if push came to shove. These are my must have’s plus my Gym Membership
I’m not trying to sell you on “IGNITE” or maybe I Am but think about this, it is $9.99 dollars a month so here in the UK that is with the current exchange rate just over £7.00. Break that over 30 days and I think that is incredible value but I know people who will pooh-pooh that investment and say I am never going to do that but will spend that on a coffee “Everyday” !!! because they see that as nonnegotiable. Everyday !!!
So let’s get real and raw here and break it down. £7 a day, say over 5 days a week to knock off weekends and that is £140 a month (or more if they go twice a day or buy a croissant or cake or buy a drink for a companion) yet they won’t invest $9.99 a month to support them in making their dreams a reality and then they moan about their lives 🤔
And a quick side note. That nonnegotiable caffeine hit costs more than all my nonnegotiable’s put together and I know I am getting far more from them to pull me towards my BPR.
But I have to say gradually as the weekend went on I got so much value from this event. So much wisdom. So many ideas. So many content ideas for my own work.
As Jay Shetty‘s wife Radhi Devlukia Shetty said on day two “We Are All Bridges of other peoples Wisdom” her meaning was, some people feel they are never ready to start because they are not qualified enough but if we are passionate about something the chances are we have invested in books, courses etc and gained knowledge on those subjects and we can all start communicating our own interpretations of that gained knowledge and inform others who have most likely not been aware of it before and aid and encourage them on their journeys which is just what I feel I Am doing
Two takeaways I got from Dean Graziosi that I wrote down that I will share now were “There’s a Gift Inside ALL Of us that someone is waiting for”
and second “The People Who Don’t Live Their Dreams are The Ones Who Gave Up. Don’t Give Up. Just Keep Going”
Which is very much like the Lisa Nichols quote I included in the Image “Quitters Never Win and Winners Never Quit”
You, I will only succeed if we keep going
Another confession I have is ….
I used to quit all the time. Usually at the first road block. Then I inadvertently started building a subconscious Morning Routine that you can get for FREE at www.mywakeuphappy.com and part of that Morning Routine was Personal Development like watching and listening to YouTube videos of people like Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor and a personal favourite. Tony’s mentor. Jim Rohn and then one day I noticed something ….
I stopped quitting. No matter how sxxt things got. I built what Lisa calls “Your Bounce Back Muscle”
I would sometimes feel a little defeated, jaded but then something would motivate me on like this morning …
And then while listening I had some realisations and started journalling them down. I noticed I manifested the bed I was, am laying in. I manifested this bedroom and everything in it. I manifested my current weight loss and health goals that are part of my own BPR. My Macbook I am using. Cars etc and perhaps when your ego is trying to telling you you are a loser and remind you of all the things you haven’t yet got or want to become remind yourself of all the things you have achieved to date and this can be a tool to keep the “Faith in the Yet Unseen” when doubt starts to bubble up and it looks like your BPR is not happening
Then I had the thought that maybe it wasn’t my Ego after all and maybe it was my 5D version of me shaking me up. Making me uncomfortable because maybe I have got a little to comfortable in my current reality and it was saying “Hey, Hey, Hey ! We are not done yet. You are not where I am in your 3D reality and there is still some work to be done” and when I say work. I mean some more envisioning to be done. Some more focusing on my BPR to become an energetic match for it
I hope this weeks edition of Motivational Monday has inspired you to focus on Your Big Picture Reality or if this term is new to you. Actually start to write down what it would look like and give you some tools to keep focused when it looks like nothing is happening or even better why not invest in yourself by investing in “IGNITE”
It might mean forgoing something like one coffee but trust me, the results will taste so much better
Until next time
Have a Fabulous Day, Week, Month, LIFE !! Because I Truly Believe it is Possible for Us to Build a Business and Life we All Love And Wake UP Happy !!
If you haven’t already, please read the quote from Amanda Frances’s book “Rich As Fxxk” above.
Amanda Frances is a very successful multimillionaire yet every day she still has negative thoughts relating to money and everyday she works on those beliefs.
Now I can relate to this because like most people I have grown up with a negative Money Mindset subconsciously picked up from my environment.
One of me earliest memories was coming down stairs when I couldn’t sleep to find my mum doing sums on a tiny notepad in the middle of the night.
This wasn’t going to be the first time I found these notepads or saw her making calculations but I was bemused by why my Mum who didn’t go to school want to do Maths voluntarily?
I now know, many years later. She was trying to balance the books as it were and decipher how on Earth she could make ends meet and pay the bills.
I have sooooo many things to be grateful for, and I Am.
Via The Level 2 of awareness on the Four Levels of consciousness I have manifested many incredible things, experiences and opportunities but financial success was not one of them and I truly believed I would never master my poor money mindset which is a negative self fulfilling prophecy right there of my own creation.
Then I would read a really good money mindset book. Attract money and think I got it sussed and stop doing the positive money mindset stuff and attract lots of circumstances for the money to gradually go away and then as I saw it dwindle “fear and doubt” would set in of how I am going to pay this bill etc and I would reenforce by belief that I couldn’t cure my bad money mindset.
Not aware I was just activating The Law of Expansion.
What you focus on expands so focusing on lack of money expanded and attracted more situations for a lack of money.
I see now I thought mastering your money mindset was a one time event.
When the money came rolling in you had cracked it and bingo. No more crapadoodle money thoughts and the money would increase and keep on rolling in kinda thing.
Wrong !
I think it was Amanda that first introduced me to the concept that “It’s never going to go away and like Zig Ziglar says about bathing I’m going to have to work on it every day.
That’s not such a bad thing.
To me, It was a liberating thing.
It’s liberating to think I’m not a failure and I can improve my money mindset and consistently working on my money mindset is part of the deal I have to live with and it’s normal.
I can honestly say I truly think I am making progress in my way of looking at and thinking about money. So much so I am now picking up on other people’s negativity around money and their subconscious speech around money.
It’s actually a bit of a weird passion of mine of hopefully switching people on to their subconscious negative language and hopefully helping them understand the detrimental effects of things they say innocently that don’t serve them and hopefully help them change their language to something more constructive.
Remember what I said above about The Law of Expansion?
I was actually inspired to write this blog post because the exact opposite happened to me recently.
I was in a room with several people and one of them mentioned a holiday they booked and someone said how expensive holidays are now and they replied “well the money’s gone now and I’ll just have to learn to deal with it” or words to that effect.
I gave them a positive affirmation to say about letting go and trusting more money will come and suddenly it triggered a whole set of negative comments about money from the other occupants of the room.
Whoa ! I was aghast of the spontaneity of this verbal deluge of negativity around money.
Instead of inspiring people it seemed to create this flood gate of ‘not on my watch will you convince me that money is easy to come by” dialogue.
One person said “it always goes out faster than it comes in”.
“Careful. There’s a negative affirmation about money you are creating there” I replied but the negative affirmations around money continued and I said something I never say out loud. I said “sorry guys but I am going to have to take myself out of this conversation because it’s making my energy crash right down” and I opened Amanda’s book on my phone to put me in a more positive mood. Normally I just out myself inside an Energy Bubble.
I admit I was thinking in quite an indigent manner after the conversation ended and thought “Can these people hear themselves? I gave them a positive affirmation around money and pointed out their subconscious negative speech around money and the detriment of that and it only fuelled them to continue more.
Ahh hello Ali. That’s The Law of Expansion right there. You were focusing on not being surrounded by negative money mindset so activated more negative money mindset.
Then I chose to see it as a gift.
In Ho’Oponopono it is suggested to say mentally “Thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks” over and over again when faced with someone who sees negatively and to clean on the situation or think “Thank you, I love You” repeatedly to take responsibility and clean on the negative emotions that are showing up.
Both The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono say ….
Everything is a mirror. There is no “Out there”.
Everything we see is a physical representation of our inner thoughts and feelings.
I chose to see this situation as a gift because it reminded me to be working on my own money mindset and I can see now. Whenever I hear any negative things being said I can choose to see this as a reminder to clean by saying “Thank you. I love you” over and over because we can become complacent or distracted and the cleaning never ends.
We pick up negative thoughts and energies all the time.
Now that you have read this post. Maybe, whenever you catch yourself thinking or speaking negatively or are in an environment where the conversation matter is negative try mentally repeating “Thank you I love you” and know you are cleaning out old negative thought, programming and beliefs.
You may think it is Hogwash but what have you got to loose? I started a simple Gratitude Practice in 2010 (me the former “Most Negative Person in the World) and I didn’t know then how it was going to change my life. I just followed Inspired Action.
Talking of changing beliefs Dr Joe Vitale my Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono Mentor who was once homeless and is now a multimillionaire doing what he loves started saying to himself “the more money I spend the more money I receive and you can tell from the above statement how that worked out for him.
Now whenever I “Feel” anxiety “Feelings” around money and say a large purchase I immediately repeat “I will not worry, I let go and trust. I now have more money than I can spend. I always receive more money than I spend.
I admit I only just starting to dabble with this but to maybe encourage you to try it the other day I felt inspired to give to a colleagues raffle and I won a £25 voucher for a meal in a local restaurant.
I didn’t give to receive. I genuinely wanted to help the cancer charity but I didn’t just let the occurrence go. I acknowledged this as evidence of my thought process and beliefs as changing that more money comes in than I spend, then another situation where I felt inspired to give £10 to another colleagues daughter’s charity fund raising event and they said that’s too much. Let me give you some back. But I checked in with myself and thought “No, Inspired Action suggested this amount.” So insisted I kept it to the same amount and moved on with my day.
A couple days later I was having the tyres changed on my car and I was talking to my partner and he went on his phone mid conversation and thought he’s gone into a scroll hole and stopped talking. He then said “I have just sent you £100 towards the tyres as I drive your car more than mine now”.
I use all situations like this as evidence my beliefs are changing and my affirmations are working which only fuels me to do it more.
Hopefully this post will inspire you to try changing your beliefs to “there is always more money coming in than going” out and use any evidence like examples above to validate change and inspire you to do it more and more and activate The Law of Expansion in Your favour.
After all it worked for Joe and it can work for all of us to and I highly recommend a great book by Catherine Ponder “The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity”. just tap on the title to be taken through to grab a copy. In it Catherine has some amazing affirmations around multiplying the money you have spent to come back to you tenfold or even a hundredfold.
Now who doesn’t want some of that?
I believe You reading this now. Are a good person. And the world needs good people to prosper and serve the world with their purpose and prosperity and kind hearts.
Ali xoxo
PS: As a gift to you for reading this post I am giving you my Life Changing Morning Routine. It’s a 5 Step Framework I used to change my life and it includes the Gratitude Practice I mentioned earlier that started the whole ball rolling that makes me wake up happy and I want that for You to so that’s where you can find it at mywakeuphappy.com
Before I sign off officially. If you want to find out what my energy bubble tool is as well as other Law of Attraction Life hacks why not hop over to the Loalovers Club at loalover.club . I hope to see you on the inside where it is my Intention to create the largest community of like minded earth changing movers and shakers 🙂
I’d love to hear your Law of Attraction stories so why not drop them in the comments below
I haven’t blogged recently but I am ok with that. This maybe the first time you have read my blog so those words are irrelevant and if you like what you read you may choose to go back through the archive and then it is truly irrelevant if I posted last month or last year or even 5 years ago. In truth I started this blog in 2012 after following “Inspired Action” and I had no idea the journey it would take me on or the person I would become.
In my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show I created an episode about a perspective I gained after listening to someone else’s podcast that had a long gap
I have recently blogged prior to this one and you may want to go back at read that one first before reading what I have placed below and listen to the beautiful piece of music included
It’s entitled Please, Please, Please … Pause !! Inspired by hearing some sad news and unfortunately manifesting something I felt would happen in this situation but hoped would not
In that blog I posted a piece of music that created a Paradigm shift in me
The content below may do such a thing for you
My hope it or my words will do so
The music reminded me of the message I was trying to convey during my Art Degree Finals but wasn’t actively sharing or was sharing subliminally instead of constructively
My ethos is, it is never too late to do what you love and take time to enjoy life because we never know what tomorrow may bring and thanks to Ho’Oponopono to practice “The Art of Surrender”
Because my Brick n Mortar business (that I was no longer Passionate about) was failing due to the lack of footfall and the effects of covid (or was it?) I took inspiration from the book The Cashflow Quadrant and took a job, an easy job. To pay the bills and take the pressure off my finances with hours that allowed me to build my dream business ….
Or so I thought.
The reality. The hours were not what was sold on the tin with often longer days than anticipated and never knowing from one day to the next what time we are going to finish makes it difficult to plan or schedule appointments etc.
I was also carrying on a bit, my physical business online to create a little extra income to the detriment to the time I had spare to invest in what I truly desire but I recently ditched all that to really focus on what I am purposely led to create
It was that first morning of “Me” time that I saw a quote by the author of the music piece I mentioned and I messaged them to say the reaction it created in me
They messaged they felt our Passions and Purpose work were alignment and would like to collaborate
I was literally driving home the previous day excited at the thought “The Universe abhors a vacuum and just has to fill it” and now I have completely stopped the physical product business I am excited to see how that vacuum will be filled and that happens less than 24 hours later
This is truly the Ho’Oponopono Way of doing things and potentially Business
“Once You Make a Decision The Universe Conspires to Make it Happen” is my favourite quote of all times because it literally does and talking of quotes
I found a very beautiful and very unexpected message in my WhatsApp yesterday afternoon from a colleague who said they found a quote in their phone and thought of me as they felt it was my ethos and they also added an extra message that honestly I did not expect
I feel the real Ali, the Law of Attraction Ali I don’t fully divulge at work but even the filtered down version of me inspired them and they followed Inspired Action to send me this quote and I am following Inspired Action to share it with you, Dear Reader and it may inspire you to look at life differently and live differently
So here goes:
Barely the day started and… it’s already six in the evening.
Barely arrived on Monday and it’s already Friday.
… and the month is already over.
… and the year is almost over.
… and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.
… and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.
and we realize it’s too late to go back…
So… Let’s try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time…
Let’s keep looking for activities that we like…
Let’s put some color in our grey…
Let’s smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.
And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left.
Let’s try to eliminate the afters…
I’m doing it after…
I’ll say after…
I’ll think about it after…
We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.
Because what we don’t understand is that:
Afterwards, the coffee gets cold…
Afterwards, priorities change…
Afterwards, the charm is broken…
Afterwards, health passes…
Afterwards, the kids grow up…
Afterwards parents get old…
Afterwards, promises are forgotten…
Afterwards, the day becomes the night…
Afterwards life ends…
And then it’s often too late….
So… Let’s leave nothing for later…
Because still waiting, see you later, we can lose the best moments
The best experiences,
Best friends,
The best family…
The day is today…
The moment is now…
We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone what needs to be done right away.
My message at Uni was we are all living busier and busier lives and experience more and more stress. Take time every day even if it is for 5 minutes to feel Gratitude and appreciate a beautiful blue sky, birds singing, children playing, flowers and their colours, the eyesight to see them etc. To literally stop and smell the flowers literally and metaphorically and take a few deep relaxing breaths and experience the perfect moment of NOW …. before it’s to late !!!
“Don’t Die With You Music Still in You” is the quote I heard Wayne Dyer say that Inspired me to start this blog.
Talking of smelling the flowers. I have a breathing technique and others ideas and tools to help live a more peaceful, rewarding life in The Law of Attraction Lovers Club
I followed Inspired Action recently to listen to Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now”
On my original reading, this book taught me to appreciate the little things we take for granted like the simple task of washing dishes and whenever I get to much in to my own head trying to fix things and feeling stuck. Stepping away and indulging in a mundane task gives my brain the opportunity to pop the solution into my thoughts
Last week a dear friend Ray Coates sent me a piece of his music to listen to and it caused me to have a paradigm shift
It reminded Me of the message I was trying to express with my work for my Art Degree finals
Despite still holding to this value and occasionally expressing it I realised my purpose was to express it consistently
Sadly last night I heard some news I had premonitioned
I hope this now also creates a paradigm shift to
I have resonated “away” from the people who advocate go, go, go ! Hard work and not much down time and God forbid taking time to watch Netflix or have a TV full stop 🛑
My philosophy is buy the shoes, eat the chocolate, take the vacation and snuggle up with your significant other and watch Netflix because while you’re building, building, building none of us know what tomorrow will bring and what opportunities will have been lost to experience
This morning while driving in our favourite car my favourite culture club song came on the stereo and the morning sun was shining on my face
That’s all it takes to experience the Power of Now and being in the presence of Bliss
But do you ?
Do you just take time out in any given day and just relax and breath?
Feel appreciation for all that you have or are you living in the past and fearing the future?
I truly believe (and I have read it is scientifically proven) that not giving our bodies time to relax and being in a constant state of stress and reaction causes blockages in the body that manifest into physical pain and illness
That’s what I feared would happen for these hard work advocates and now I see that manifesting … unfortunately !!!
I have a vision for an easier way. The Ho’OPonoPono Way of living and building businesses we love. In flow and living in Gratitude and that’s where my focus is now going as well as inspiring others to take time to enjoy the Power of Now 🙏🏻
The piece of music I mentioned. I have dropped it below
There have been some very long days this week as I attempt to finish the majority of the Christmas orders and honestly frustration as many took longer than expected
But there have also been positives as decisions have been made that sooth my soul
With the full backing of my partner as he see’s so much time I invest for little recompense I am letting LoveDucks go in 2023
Fulfilling a life long dream to be an entrepreneur was amazing but the reality of a time bound business has been an eye opener
But it’s all good …
Having a brick n mortar business open 6 days a week and cutting your income stream off as you close the door with little down time because you added the element of social media or knowing you have to return to fulfil orders when you do get time away let me to decide how I would like a future business to be
Online, digital and location free. A business than can be run from anywhere or regardless of what else I decide to do using evergreen types of methods and platforms
The landscape of physical businesses has changed with Covid but …
To be honest I had the idea and I have been building this assets for a while but have never been able to invest the time I have wanted to give them due to what I mentioned above
But much like my Favourite building featured. A strong foundation has been built and I am positive everything happens for us in the perfect time if we just get out of the way and surrender to the highest possible outcome
Abraham Hicks says “We need the contrast, to know what we don’t want to see what we do want”
Inspired by the book “The Cashflow Quadrant” by Robert Kiyosaki when concerned about dwindling finances from the Brick n Mortar and non from the as yet non established new business mentioned above I sought employment to take care of the day to day expenses and take the pressure off building my new dream in the “B” and “I” quadrants
I’m loving the idea of the Freedom I shall have to build my Empire my way from the vacuum created by no longer having to worry about time bounded orders
I am grateful for the opportunity my first venture gave me and all the learning curves endured and one of the things I learned a long the way was how many people have a dream and a passion and never started because they thought business was an all or nothing game and they had responsibilities and loved ones to financially support so they stop before they start
I learned from one of my very first mentors Marie Forleo who worked 3 part time jobs while building her business you can do both and should in the beginning
And that’s where I am now (virtually) at the beginning of a new exciting era utilising this incredible digital age available to All
I have seen 2022 be a major Transformational year for so many people and many starting a new and moving away from already established careers because they felt no longer aligned to them
What are you no longer aligned to…
What do you truly want to start to build a foundation for while still working for someone building theirs ?
The Secret is to just get started by taking one Inspired Action step after another and you could get that first nudge today, this minute even from reading this post
You don’t need to wait until 2023 to make 2023 amazing
If you have buried your dreams so deep you can’t even remember what they are any more
Even worse, never allowed yourself the time to know what you are truly Passionate about is
I’m here for you and I have tools that can help
First being my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder a simple tool that can help you see what you are most passionate about and show you how you can start to monetise it online
Have you ever like me, felt like a freaky geek? A black Sheep? Never Fitted In ???
I have never sent on a chain message ~ 😱 Yep OMG !! It was me that broke it !!
I never accepted an ice bucket challenge
I have never bought matching Christmas PJ’s
Not saying there is anything wrong with these things .. it’s not just in my nature
I don’t feel inspired by these things
But what I did feel Inspired by were Goals ~ boy did I love a Goal and December 2020 I set some Magnificent Babies but …..
If you have seen some of my posts you will be aware of the Law of Attraction but for a long time I have been aware of something
Some Goals Manifest and some don’t and usually the ones that don’t have massive expectations surrounding them and when you notice something you expect isn’t manifesting you can become focused on lack
When you focus on lack, you manifest “The Lack of Something You Desire”
But this is easier said than done not to have expectations but thankfully in the latter part of 2021 I found something that I believe has the answer I was looking for
I know what I have instore for myself 2022 is different from many of my peers
I am now in 2022 trialling The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono
I have NOT set any goals, I am going back to Zero, I will aim to stay in the present moment as much as possible, act on Inspiration only and practice detachment daily
There is more involved to this but if anything I have said resonates to You and You feel inspired to find out more about The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono do not hesitate to leave a comment
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