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The Art of Surrendering: Exploring Ho’oponopono as a Path to Inner Peace

The Art of Surrendering: Exploring Ho’oponopono as a Path to Inner Peace

Introduction:

In the fast-paced and often chaotic world we live in, finding inner peace can feel like an elusive goal. As we navigate the challenges of daily life, it’s not uncommon to accumulate stress, resentment, and emotional baggage. However, the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono offers a unique and powerful approach to achieving inner harmony through surrendering and forgiveness.

Understanding Surrender:

Surrendering is not a sign of weakness; rather, it’s a courageous act of releasing control and allowing the natural flow of life to guide us. In the context of Ho’oponopono, surrendering involves letting go of the need to be right, releasing judgments, and accepting responsibility for our own experiences.

In my 5 Step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ I talk about responsibility. Sometimes it is something we want to avoid, but it is like trying to drive a car in park if we avoid it but if we take responsibility it is like taking the brakes off. It actually gives us power and that’s why I resonated to Ho’Oponopono so much and studied to become an Advanced Practitioner in this ancient art.

Ho’oponopono: A Brief Overview:

Ho’oponopono, rooted in traditional Hawaiian spirituality, is a profound practice that centres around reconciliation and forgiveness. The word itself can be broken down into two parts: “ho’o,” meaning to make, and “pono,” meaning right. Together, Ho’oponopono can be translated to “to make right.”

At its core, Ho’oponopono is a process of making things right within ourselves, our relationships, and our world. Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len, a modern proponent of Ho’oponopono, popularised a simplified version of the practice that involves repeating four powerful phrases: “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.”

The Four Phrases:

1. “I’m sorry”: Acknowledge and take responsibility for the challenges or disharmony present in your life, even if you don’t fully understand their origins.

2. “Please forgive me”: Express a sincere desire for forgiveness, recognizing the need to heal and release the negative energy associated with the situation.

3. “Thank you”: Cultivate gratitude for the opportunity to address and rectify the imbalances in your life. Gratitude has the power to transform our perception and open the door to positive change.

4. “I love you”: Embrace the unconditional love that transcends judgement and separation. This phrase is a recognition of the interconnectedness of all things and the healing power of love.

The Power of Surrender in Ho’oponopono:

Surrender is an integral aspect of Ho’oponopono, as it involves letting go of ego-driven desires, control, and the need to assign blame. By surrendering to the process, individuals open themselves to the transformative power of forgiveness, paving the way for inner peace and healing.

Benefits of Ho’oponopono:

1. **Inner Peace**: Ho’oponopono facilitates the release of internal conflicts, allowing individuals to experience a profound sense of inner peace.

2. **Improved Relationships**: By practising forgiveness and taking responsibility for our experiences, Ho’oponopono can mend and strengthen relationships.

3. **Emotional Healing**: The practice helps individuals heal emotional wounds, liberating them from the burden of past traumas and negative emotions.

4. **Increased Self-Awareness**: Surrendering in Ho’oponopono involves self-reflection, leading to heightened self-awareness and personal growth.

Conclusion:

In 2010 I fully embraced the philosophy of the Law of Attraction and it had a profound effect on me and I still believe there is a place for it but I feel the earth is evolving and Transitioning and it is time to take things to another level.

The Law of Attraction can be used to manifest specific material items and experiences but this methodology is based mainly in physical solitary practices created and carried out by the individual that are focused on singular specific detailed outcomes that can feel like work to manifest but creation does not have to be a solitary practice.

Many people found/find themselves frustrated with the Law of Attraction and feel it doesn’t work. The Law of Attraction is a natural law and is always working but we subconsciously take on programming from society that create blocks in our unconscious and create negative thought processes that create fear, anxiety and doubt that stop our ability to achieve the harmonious lives we desire.

In a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, the ancient wisdom of Ho’oponopono provides a refreshing perspective on surrendering and forgiveness that can release these blocks.

By embracing the power of these four simple phrases, and repeating them as often as possible individuals can embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and transformation. The art of surrendering through Ho’oponopono ultimately leads to a more harmonious and fulfilling life, both within ourselves and in our interactions with the world around us.

Prior to my coming into contact with Ho’Oponopono I became aware in my own practices and experiences with The Law of Attraction that things I tried to manifest myself were often hard and often afflicted by what I called “Curveballs” but whenever I surrendered. Consciously or Subconsciously then the Universe (as I like to call it but Dr Hew Len liked to call it Divinity) would manifest something so miraculously amazing and so perfect and beyond my wildest imaginings in such an unbelievably effortless way I knew there was something undoubtedly more than meets the eye to this thing we call Human existence.

Maybe that’s why when I became aware of Ho’Oponopono it resonated to me so much.

It’s in the surrendering we allow the Divinity that’s in us. That is closer than our own breath to bring us inner harmony in a way we can never perceive or create with our physical perspective alone.

Now is the time to move beyond the struggles of Manic Manifesting and move into the art of

“Surrendered Manifesting”

Surrender and allow the UNIVERSE to guide us to what is more perfect for us than anything we can ever imagine …

Now is the time to Surrender and listen to and act upon the Aligned Actions steps whispered to us by our Divine Self. The Highest Embodiment of our Natural Being.

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Namaste 🙏🏻

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on December 8, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

Tags: Aligned Action, Gratitude, Law of Attraction, Manifestation, manifesting, Surrendering, theloalover, Universe

Thank You

18 Aug

Use BS as rocket fuel to transport you towards your dreams

Bothered by other peoples Bull Sxxt?

Good 👍

Not gonna lie, being spoken to like Dog, Do Do unnecessarily or a passing unwarranted passive aggressive comment will most likely wrankly for a bit

And let’s face it, whenever is being spoken to like excrement or passively aggressively ever expected, necessary or warranted? So yes it will smart a little ….

But be smart about it ASAP !!

Instead of brooding on it or plotting your revenge

Serious Neg Abundance Blocking Energy

Use Ho’Oponopono and say “Thank You, I Love You” 🥰 (repeatedly if necessary, sorry advisabley)

Am I nuts?

(Probably, but not for this reason)

Forgiveness is one of , if not the Highest Form of Vibration. Even more than Gratitude

It’s been tested, people have had their brains wired up everything and the results were profound and Personal progress was made where before none could be achieved regardless of whatever Personal Development they undertook thanks to the act of Forgiveness

Maybe that is why “Please Forgive Me” is one of the Four main Ho’Oponopono phrases because really there is no “out there”.

Maybe being disrespected is a message to remind you to respect yourself more or that you are not in the best environment for ‘You’ and that you are playing small and deserve better and in this BS situation it is a gift because we can all play small and get complacent at times.

It can also be the superbooster you need to jet propel you towards your dreams

If you find yourself in this situation use it as a catalyst to say “You know what. Enough is enough. I don’t deserve this and I am going to ….” fill in the blank for whatever you desire to do be or have but have been drifting on or never actually taken action on before

Indecisiveness is the killer of dreams but a dream or goal cannot be killed if you never quit.

It’s ok and it’s common to drift. Let life get in the way but use the BS as a trigger button to jolt you back into the present moment and say “oh yes, I forgot myself for a time there. Where was I? What was I doing? Where do I want to go? Do? Achieve?

Not even sure you know what you want? 98% of the World Population don’t apparently according to the book I am immersing myself in at the moment.

No problem 😉

Let the BS be the reminder you need to say now is the time to find out because “WE ALL” have a purpose and start to be one of the 2%

Nobody needs to know and on the surface for a while it will look like nothing has changed but as my favourite quote says

“Once You Make a Decision The Universe Conspires to Make it Happen” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

In my Law of Attraction Club I have an exercise called “Switch it To Ditch It”

I used this very exercise for myself once I heard about it and everything I wrote down has manifested in a very short space of time but I admit I have been guilty of drifting too and that’s why I have been probably getting my own BS button triggered so it’s time to do a new updated version of “Switch it to Ditch” It for myself and I have started using my own form of BS

Marie Forleo’s B-School

As a B School Alumni I can take B School at any time for any project old or new but B School is currently running a Live Summer School version and I intended to start it but as can normally happen it is currently on week 3 and I hadn’t started until today

Today I used BS to propel me to start B~School because one of the first things I learned from B~School is

There is no behind in B~School and there is no behind in whatever you desire as long as you decide to just keep going and not quit

Most importantly “Don’t Quit on Yourself because in reality we are all made of Stardust capable of Infinite Possibilities”

If you want to know more about the LOA Club just click on the link below

Law Of Attraction Lover Club

PS: I will be dropping some new modules on Ho’Oponopono and EFT in there shortly as I am an Advanced Ho’Oponopono and Law of Attraction Practitioner if you are not aware as soon to be an EFT Practitioner

Namaste 🙏

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on August 18, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

Tags: Gratitude, Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

The “Work” is …

11 Mar

For a long time, I don’t know why or where from but I desired to be an entrepreneur

For a long time I read biographies of successful people

For a long time I believed being an entrepreneur was something you were born with

For a long time from reading those biographies I felt I was not born with the skill

Then my world changed after writing a simple statement on a card from following and inspired idea and reading it often

That statement was “I Am successfully self employed. Doing what I love and loving what I do”

Then a set of circumstances occurred most miraculously and I manifested my first business …. Effortlessly !!

And when I say effortlessly, with zero work on my part. It came about by a set of synchronistic events

Then I became obsessed by successful people and learning from them … but soon.

Soon I started to get a yucky feeling in my gut when I heard certain aspects they were advising

Work hard now. Play later

You have to work 16 hour plus days and sacrifice time with your family but explain to them what you are doing and why and then help them invest in what you are doing by choosing something you all want to do together when you hit a certain level of success

Take no vacations

No TV watching. That’s time you could be spending on your business. Even better do away with the TV and in some cases they came across as sanctimoniously boasting about their lack of TV home like they were some higher Business mortals for the lack of Netflix watching or even better no device to stream Netflix on

Any speak of hard work or God, how hard “they” work or how hard the work is made me just resonate away from them

Please for the love of gooseberries shut the “F” up about how frickin hard it all is

We are all “self-filling” machines

Self fulfilling inside out what we think, feel, and say

Yeah, it’s hard work because that’s what you “feel” and believe and talk about all the time and voila what ever you try to create is hard work in the process

It’s Law. It cannot be any other way

Have you ever seen those bright light beams they can send up into the sky now. Not the nicest analogy but what they do on the anniversary of 9/11

Now imagine every thought, feeling sensation and words we speak shoot up into the sky like one of those beams attracting to it like a Radio transmitter the exact manifestation of the thing we thought, felt or said

I assume me all know how magnets work?

Now imagine standing in a field innocently like a scarecrow but a magnetic scarecrow and items start resonating to you out of nowhere and start sticking to you. All over you body

If you can perceive this scenario you don’t want to be thinking about elephants

Now look, you only have yourself to blame. I told you not to think about elephants. Only kidding

Everything we think feel and say sends out a frequency signal to attract back the attention of our focus

Good, Bad, Wanted or Unwanted

We are All powerful creators and we can create the lives we have consciously but mostly, we do it unconsciously

Now I want to create a new way of creating businesses we love. An easier way, without hard work

The work is, if you can call it work is to lower our resistance as much as possible to the things we say we want

The type of people I mention above would never advocate what I am saying but I am saying follow your inspired actions, to do the things that bring you joy

If you think you should be working on you dream, goal or business but fancy watching a movie with a loved one. Watch the movie. You are lowering the resistance to the thing you desire making it more able to come to you

Any uncomfortable sensation in your body is telling you, you are out of alignment with the thing you think you should be doing so don’t do it

If a particular person says you must focus on building an email list to have a successful business and it makes sense to you by what they say about their own personal experience so you sit down with every intention to research and do such a thing and it feels like walking through mud but suddenly you get the inspiration to learn about podcasting instead and the thought of that lights you up ….

Do the thing that lights you up instead

That idea is being channelled through you and that’s the true inspiration

That thought, idea, inspiration came from Zero

The true Source of all Inspiration and that’s the idea you should follow

Zero in Ho’Oponopono is the place, space where everything is perfect before we started to take on negative beliefs and programming from the outside world and all it’s woulda, shouda, coulda’s

We can go to zero through practices like gratitude, meditation, walking in nature, enjoying a good meal, laughing with friends and loved ones even sleeping

What we are doing at Zero is lowering the resistance we have to anything we desire and allowing it to come to us easily

No hard work required

Like my story above about getting my first business. I simply wrote a statement on a card and let go of the outcome. The how, the when and the why and got on with other things and it manifested effortlessly

I was holding no resistance to the how and when it came and boy did it come in a way I never anticipated in a format I never envisaged

What this did was, create a Faith in me that other things could come to me effortlessly and in more perfect ways than I ever envisioned and that me getting in the way trying to do things “My” way only limited and slowed down the process

What I didn’t know then was I was subconsciously using Techniques practiced in Ho’Oponopono. I only found this out after feeling an Inspiration (that wouldn’t leave me alone). A strong desire to study to be a Ho’Oponopono Practitioner

Ho’Oponopono made so much, makes so sense to me that I had felt intuitively before

I felt like I should be keeping a planner and to be a good business woman I should schedule in certain tasks and let nothing sway me from these tasks but the in reality ….

I always got swayed and the things that swayed me were far more fun or beneficial than anything I could have produced with my limited perception

Now I trust to do the thing that feels right in the moment and then trust and follow any Inspired Action that pops up via those actions or any other time I get what I call Divine Downloads

History is littered of stories of inventions and hit songs and movie plots and classic manuscripts, masterpiece pieces of art, aeroplanes, cars, phones and the list goes that came about in the weirdest scenarios and sets of synchronicities and effortlessly seemingly out of nowhere and normally taking minutes if not seconds to flow through and come to the artist/creator and usually after they had spent years previously trying to create hit records, blockbuster films and classic manuscripts etc on their own

Take JK Rowling for instance or Oprah Winfrey’s efforts to be in my favourite film “The Color Purple”. Oprah desperately wanted to be in that film and tried everything to no avail and exhausted checked herself into a Health Farm and whilst on a Dreadmill, oh sorry Treadmill she was informed Steven Spielberg was on the phone and he offered her the part she wanted.

She didn’t know how he got the number or even how he knew she was there but what Oprah had done subconsciously was surrender and get out of the way to let the Universe (as I prefer to call it) do it’s thang

She was sending out a vibration of lack, desperation and frustration at not getting the part she so wanted

That’s what I mean by resistance.

We say we want something but then immediately doubt the possibility and think it’s taking to long. Thus setting up resistance aka “Blocking Energy”

So the work is my friend. If you can call it work, is …..

Get out of your own way. Have fun doing the things you love and follow any Inspired Ideas that come through and take the action that seems most aligned and joyous to fulfill that Inspiration and keep it fun.

Don’t get bogged down with the how and when. That creates fear and doubt. The two worst blocking energies to whatever you want

Trying to figure out how or observing it is not here yet only creates more not having the thing you want because that is where you focused attention is going and therefore magnetizing to you “Not having the thing” ~ “Resistance”

Trust that it will come at the perfect time in the perfect way and the irony is, it will probably come more quickly and more miraculously perfect than you could have ever anticipated because you eliminated the Resistance

Quick tip: Do the things you are most passionate about regardless if you were getting paid for them or not. The how it happens is not our business.

Bob Proctor says we should always focus on what we are most Passionate about and nothing else

If you are unsure what makes you tick anymore because you have been to busy doing the things that suck the life force out of you. Via my Passions, fuelled by my first business I created a simple quick easy tool to help you tap into what makes you Unique and explains how you can turn that into an income creating idea to be able to share with the world the gifts you were meant to give and it is called “Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder” and you can find it here at fabfreedom.live

My current Inspired “Passion” Idea is to share how to make businesses you love The Ho’Oponopono Way. The Ho’Oponopono Business Way so for more Ho’Oponopono Business ideas why not head over to the Facebook page called The Ho’Oponopono Business Way

I first started my journey with The Law of Attraction and created many amazing things but felt there was something missing. I then became aware of the Four Levels of Consciousness and Level 2 is very Law of Attraction. Decide what you want and deliberately create it or more commonly known “Manifest It” but the Universe could have so much more in store for you, far beyond your expectations or capacity to believe and you could be cutting yourself off from this by only “Deliberately Creating” with your limited physical view point (Level 2) when I Believe there is another way and another Level. Level 3.

That is the Art of Allowing level. That’s the effortless level I mention above. This is where we surrender and let go and trust that the Universe knows best for us. We let go and allow something even more miraculous to come to us and through us

I don’t align anymore with the Level 2 methodology of if you want a house. Write it down in every minute detail so the Universe knows what to give you. I don’t buy into the premise of “Only giving the Universe wishy washy details creates wishy washy results

We are dealing with Infinite Intelligence here. Infinite Intelligence knows what we “Truly” desire without us ever writing it down and it wants to give us something even more incredible that’s not even on the whiteboard of our desires. It’s completely off the scale

We are Infinite Intelligence and it is Us. It resides within us and it is closer than our own breath. Heck it creates the breath in this physical incarnation. How else could our lungs keep breathing and our hearts keep beating while we sleep. Not to mention all the other millions of bodily functions happening every second of every day without any assistance on our part

Oh PS: This blog post wasn’t written by me. I was just a conduit for the information I felt Inspired to transcribe

I leave it there to let you chew on that thought for a bit but if I have struck a chord and I hope I have remember “Only focus on what you are most Passionate about” The secrets for Freedom lie within

#theloalover #lawofattraction #hooponopono

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on March 11, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction, Passion Economy

Tags: #theloalover, Gratitude, HoOponopono, Law of Attraction, Universe

Thank you, thank you, thank you…. for reminding me to work on my f’d up money mindset!!

09 Mar

Thank you, thank you, thank you …. for …..

reminding me to work on my f’d money mindset.

If you haven’t already, please read the quote from Amanda Frances’s book “Rich As Fxxk” above.

Amanda Frances is a very successful multimillionaire yet every day she still has negative thoughts relating to money and everyday she works on those beliefs.

Now I can relate to this because like most people I have grown up with a negative Money Mindset subconsciously picked up from my environment.

One of me earliest memories was coming down stairs when I couldn’t sleep to find my mum doing sums on a tiny notepad in the middle of the night.

This wasn’t going to be the first time I found these notepads or saw her making calculations but I was bemused by why my Mum who didn’t go to school want to do Maths voluntarily?

I now know, many years later. She was trying to balance the books as it were and decipher how on Earth she could make ends meet and pay the bills.

I have sooooo many things to be grateful for, and I Am.

Via The Level 2 of awareness on the Four Levels of consciousness I have manifested many incredible things, experiences and opportunities but financial success was not one of them and I truly believed I would never master my poor money mindset which is a negative self fulfilling prophecy right there of my own creation.

Then I would read a really good money mindset book. Attract money and think I got it sussed and stop doing the positive money mindset stuff and attract lots of circumstances for the money to gradually go away and then as I saw it dwindle “fear and doubt” would set in of how I am going to pay this bill etc and I would reenforce by belief that I couldn’t cure my bad money mindset.

Not aware I was just activating The Law of Expansion.

What you focus on expands so focusing on lack of money expanded and attracted more situations for a lack of money.

I see now I thought mastering your money mindset was a one time event.

When the money came rolling in you had cracked it and bingo. No more crapadoodle money thoughts and the money would increase and keep on rolling in kinda thing.

Wrong !

I think it was Amanda that first introduced me to the concept that “It’s never going to go away and like Zig Ziglar says about bathing I’m going to have to work on it every day.

That’s not such a bad thing.

To me, It was a liberating thing.

It’s liberating to think I’m not a failure and I can improve my money mindset and consistently working on my money mindset is part of the deal I have to live with and it’s normal.

I can honestly say I truly think I am making progress in my way of looking at and thinking about money. So much so I am now picking up on other people’s negativity around money and their subconscious speech around money.

It’s actually a bit of a weird passion of mine of hopefully switching people on to their subconscious negative language and hopefully helping them understand the detrimental effects of things they say innocently that don’t serve them and hopefully help them change their language to something more constructive.

Remember what I said above about The Law of Expansion?

I was actually inspired to write this blog post because the exact opposite happened to me recently.

I was in a room with several people and one of them mentioned a holiday they booked and someone said how expensive holidays are now and they replied “well the money’s gone now and I’ll just have to learn to deal with it” or words to that effect.

I gave them a positive affirmation to say about letting go and trusting more money will come and suddenly it triggered a whole set of negative comments about money from the other occupants of the room.

Whoa ! I was aghast of the spontaneity of this verbal deluge of negativity around money.

Instead of inspiring people it seemed to create this flood gate of ‘not on my watch will you convince me that money is easy to come by” dialogue.

One person said “it always goes out faster than it comes in”.

“Careful. There’s a negative affirmation about money you are creating there” I replied but the negative affirmations around money continued and I said something I never say out loud. I said “sorry guys but I am going to have to take myself out of this conversation because it’s making my energy crash right down” and I opened Amanda’s book on my phone to put me in a more positive mood. Normally I just out myself inside an Energy Bubble.

I admit I was thinking in quite an indigent manner after the conversation ended and thought “Can these people hear themselves? I gave them a positive affirmation around money and pointed out their subconscious negative speech around money and the detriment of that and it only fuelled them to continue more.

Ahh hello Ali. That’s The Law of Expansion right there. You were focusing on not being surrounded by negative money mindset so activated more negative money mindset.

Then I chose to see it as a gift.

In Ho’Oponopono it is suggested to say mentally “Thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks” over and over again when faced with someone who sees negatively and to clean on the situation or think “Thank you, I love You” repeatedly to take responsibility and clean on the negative emotions that are showing up.

Both The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono say ….

Everything is a mirror. There is no “Out there”.

Everything we see is a physical representation of our inner thoughts and feelings.

I chose to see this situation as a gift because it reminded me to be working on my own money mindset and I can see now. Whenever I hear any negative things being said I can choose to see this as a reminder to clean by saying “Thank you. I love you” over and over because we can become complacent or distracted and the cleaning never ends.

We pick up negative thoughts and energies all the time.

Now that you have read this post. Maybe, whenever you catch yourself thinking or speaking negatively or are in an environment where the conversation matter is negative try mentally repeating “Thank you I love you” and know you are cleaning out old negative thought, programming and beliefs.

You may think it is Hogwash but what have you got to loose? I started a simple Gratitude Practice in 2010 (me the former “Most Negative Person in the World) and I didn’t know then how it was going to change my life. I just followed Inspired Action.

Talking of changing beliefs Dr Joe Vitale my Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono Mentor who was once homeless and is now a multimillionaire doing what he loves started saying to himself “the more money I spend the more money I receive and you can tell from the above statement how that worked out for him.

Now whenever I “Feel” anxiety “Feelings” around money and say a large purchase I immediately repeat “I will not worry, I let go and trust. I now have more money than I can spend. I always receive more money than I spend.

I admit I only just starting to dabble with this but to maybe encourage you to try it the other day I felt inspired to give to a colleagues raffle and I won a £25 voucher for a meal in a local restaurant.

I didn’t give to receive. I genuinely wanted to help the cancer charity but I didn’t just let the occurrence go. I acknowledged this as evidence of my thought process and beliefs as changing that more money comes in than I spend, then another situation where I felt inspired to give £10 to another colleagues daughter’s charity fund raising event and they said that’s too much. Let me give you some back. But I checked in with myself and thought “No, Inspired Action suggested this amount.” So insisted I kept it to the same amount and moved on with my day.

A couple days later I was having the tyres changed on my car and I was talking to my partner and he went on his phone mid conversation and thought he’s gone into a scroll hole and stopped talking. He then said “I have just sent you £100 towards the tyres as I drive your car more than mine now”.

I use all situations like this as evidence my beliefs are changing and my affirmations are working which only fuels me to do it more.

Hopefully this post will inspire you to try changing your beliefs to “there is always more money coming in than going” out and use any evidence like examples above to validate change and inspire you to do it more and more and activate The Law of Expansion in Your favour.

After all it worked for Joe and it can work for all of us to and I highly recommend a great book by Catherine Ponder “The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity”. just tap on the title to be taken through to grab a copy. In it Catherine has some amazing affirmations around multiplying the money you have spent to come back to you tenfold or even a hundredfold.

Now who doesn’t want some of that?

I believe You reading this now. Are a good person. And the world needs good people to prosper and serve the world with their purpose and prosperity and kind hearts.

Ali xoxo

PS: As a gift to you for reading this post I am giving you my Life Changing Morning Routine. It’s a 5 Step Framework I used to change my life and it includes the Gratitude Practice I mentioned earlier that started the whole ball rolling that makes me wake up happy and I want that for You to so that’s where you can find it at mywakeuphappy.com

Before I sign off officially. If you want to find out what my energy bubble tool is as well as other Law of Attraction Life hacks why not hop over to the Loalovers Club at loalover.club . I hope to see you on the inside where it is my Intention to create the largest community of like minded earth changing movers and shakers 🙂

I’d love to hear your Law of Attraction stories so why not drop them in the comments below

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on March 9, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

Tags: #theloalover, Gratitude, Inspired Action, Law of Attraction, Universe

Be Here NOW !!

01 Mar

I haven’t blogged recently but I am ok with that. This maybe the first time you have read my blog so those words are irrelevant and if you like what you read you may choose to go back through the archive and then it is truly irrelevant if I posted last month or last year or even 5 years ago. In truth I started this blog in 2012 after following “Inspired Action” and I had no idea the journey it would take me on or the person I would become.

In my Podcast The Fab Over Forty Show I created an episode about a perspective I gained after listening to someone else’s podcast that had a long gap

I have recently blogged prior to this one and you may want to go back at read that one first before reading what I have placed below and listen to the beautiful piece of music included

It’s entitled Please, Please, Please … Pause !! Inspired by hearing some sad news and unfortunately manifesting something I felt would happen in this situation but hoped would not

In that blog I posted a piece of music that created a Paradigm shift in me

The content below may do such a thing for you

My hope it or my words will do so

The music reminded me of the message I was trying to convey during my Art Degree Finals but wasn’t actively sharing or was sharing subliminally instead of constructively

My ethos is, it is never too late to do what you love and take time to enjoy life because we never know what tomorrow may bring and thanks to Ho’Oponopono to practice “The Art of Surrender”

Because my Brick n Mortar business (that I was no longer Passionate about) was failing due to the lack of footfall and the effects of covid (or was it?) I took inspiration from the book The Cashflow Quadrant and took a job, an easy job. To pay the bills and take the pressure off my finances with hours that allowed me to build my dream business ….

Or so I thought.

The reality. The hours were not what was sold on the tin with often longer days than anticipated and never knowing from one day to the next what time we are going to finish makes it difficult to plan or schedule appointments etc.

I was also carrying on a bit, my physical business online to create a little extra income to the detriment to the time I had spare to invest in what I truly desire but I recently ditched all that to really focus on what I am purposely led to create

It was that first morning of “Me” time that I saw a quote by the author of the music piece I mentioned and I messaged them to say the reaction it created in me

They messaged they felt our Passions and Purpose work were alignment and would like to collaborate

I was literally driving home the previous day excited at the thought “The Universe abhors a vacuum and just has to fill it” and now I have completely stopped the physical product business I am excited to see how that vacuum will be filled and that happens less than 24 hours later

This is truly the Ho’Oponopono Way of doing things and potentially Business

“Once You Make a Decision The Universe Conspires to Make it Happen” is my favourite quote of all times because it literally does and talking of quotes

I found a very beautiful and very unexpected message in my WhatsApp yesterday afternoon from a colleague who said they found a quote in their phone and thought of me as they felt it was my ethos and they also added an extra message that honestly I did not expect

I feel the real Ali, the Law of Attraction Ali I don’t fully divulge at work but even the filtered down version of me inspired them and they followed Inspired Action to send me this quote and I am following Inspired Action to share it with you, Dear Reader and it may inspire you to look at life differently and live differently

So here goes:

Barely the day started and… it’s already six in the evening.

Barely arrived on Monday and it’s already Friday.

… and the month is already over.

… and the year is almost over.

… and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.

… and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.

and we realize it’s too late to go back…

So… Let’s try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time…

Let’s keep looking for activities that we like…

Let’s put some color in our grey…

Let’s smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.

And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left.

Let’s try to eliminate the afters…

I’m doing it after…

I’ll say after…

I’ll think about it after…

We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.

Because what we don’t understand is that:

Afterwards, the coffee gets cold…

Afterwards, priorities change…

Afterwards, the charm is broken…

Afterwards, health passes…

Afterwards, the kids grow up…

Afterwards parents get old…

Afterwards, promises are forgotten…

Afterwards, the day becomes the night…

Afterwards life ends…

And then it’s often too late….

So… Let’s leave nothing for later…

Because still waiting, see you later, we can lose the best moments

The best experiences,

Best friends,

The best family…

The day is today…

The moment is now…

We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone what needs to be done right away.

My message at Uni was we are all living busier and busier lives and experience more and more stress. Take time every day even if it is for 5 minutes to feel Gratitude and appreciate a beautiful blue sky, birds singing, children playing, flowers and their colours, the eyesight to see them etc. To literally stop and smell the flowers literally and metaphorically and take a few deep relaxing breaths and experience the perfect moment of NOW …. before it’s to late !!!

“Don’t Die With You Music Still in You” is the quote I heard Wayne Dyer say that Inspired me to start this blog.

Talking of smelling the flowers. I have a breathing technique and others ideas and tools to help live a more peaceful, rewarding life in The Law of Attraction Lovers Club

Why not check it out

Just Tap of the words Law of Attraction Lovers Club to be taken through to link of how to join

Have a Fabulous day and thank you for reading

Ali xoxo #theloalover

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on March 1, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

Tags: Dr Wayne W. Dyer, Gratitude, Inspired Action, Law of Attraction, Universe, Wayne Dyer

Please, Please, Please ….Pause !!

01 Mar

Please Please Please ……

Pause !!!

I’ll explain why below ⬇️

I followed Inspired Action recently to listen to Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now”

On my original reading, this book taught me to appreciate the little things we take for granted like the simple task of washing dishes and whenever I get to much in to my own head trying to fix things and feeling stuck. Stepping away and indulging in a mundane task gives my brain the opportunity to pop the solution into my thoughts

Last week a dear friend Ray Coates sent me a piece of his music to listen to and it caused me to have a paradigm shift

It reminded Me of the message I was trying to express with my work for my Art Degree finals

Despite still holding to this value and occasionally expressing it I realised my purpose was to express it consistently

Sadly last night I heard some news I had premonitioned

I hope this now also creates a paradigm shift to

I have resonated “away” from the people who advocate go, go, go ! Hard work and not much down time and God forbid taking time to watch Netflix or have a TV full stop 🛑

My philosophy is buy the shoes, eat the chocolate, take the vacation and snuggle up with your significant other and watch Netflix because while you’re building, building, building none of us know what tomorrow will bring and what opportunities will have been lost to experience

This morning while driving in our favourite car my favourite culture club song came on the stereo and the morning sun was shining on my face

That’s all it takes to experience the Power of Now and being in the presence of Bliss

But do you ?

Do you just take time out in any given day and just relax and breath?

Feel appreciation for all that you have or are you living in the past and fearing the future?

I truly believe (and I have read it is scientifically proven) that not giving our bodies time to relax and being in a constant state of stress and reaction causes blockages in the body that manifest into physical pain and illness

That’s what I feared would happen for these hard work advocates and now I see that manifesting … unfortunately !!!

I have a vision for an easier way. The Ho’OPonoPono Way of living and building businesses we love. In flow and living in Gratitude and that’s where my focus is now going as well as inspiring others to take time to enjoy the Power of Now 🙏🏻

The piece of music I mentioned. I have dropped it below

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on March 1, 2023 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

Tags: #theloalover, Culture Club, Gratitude, HoOponopono, Inspired Action, Law of Attraction

It’s Finally time and I Am so Excited !!

20 Oct

It’s finally time and I am so excited 😆

What are you Passionate about?

I’m passionate about helping others using or finding their Passions to unlock a future of Freedom by using my skills and expertise to hone in on what makes individuals tick and then taking the pressures off of setting that up into an Online Business

Today I am Launching My “Passion Based Business Building Funnel Bundle”

This is my first High Ticket “Done For You” Offer but today I am offering it at a ridiculously low ticket cost

I have several levels starting at 999 and upwards Inspired by When I saw The Angel Number 999

I don’t want to go into all the in’s and out and details of all the levels here but here are some of the elements

🤩 A Dig into Your True Passion 121 Zoom then using my 5 Step Framework to plan out your own unique offer

🤩 I create your Lead Magnet based on the results of the above

🤩 I create your Paid Offer

🤩 Set up payment gateway

🤩 Write Sales Copy for email campaign and Create the automated Campaign for you

🤩 I Create and Build your own Unique Sales Funnel and the copy (words) for it

🤩 And then Share the Funnel to You all pre-built

And so much, much more !!

Wait before you think Yeah, yeah I have read about these services before !!

There are nearly 8 Billion people on the Planet as I type and none of us are cookies so cookie cutter business plans won’t work for Creative Entrepreneurs because they don’t go deep into our own unique gifts and talents and only we can share our unique individual message in our own Perfect way in our own perfect time, not via planned out soulless content calendars etc

“Everyone has the seed of greatness sown in them, the problem for most people is no one watered it” ~ Myron Golden

I believe in “Intuitive Marketing” and I am here to water “Your” own special Individual unique seed of greatness 👑

I am a Proponent of The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono and I am here to say now is the time to do Business Differently and now like no other time in History has it ever been easier to share our own Unique Skills and Talents with the world

Don’t Wait. Don’t Hesitate. Don’t do the World a Disservice of not sharing Your Seed of Greatness

If this sounds like something you are interested in drop an email @ **alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com** or if you want to see some of my work in action click on **MY Bio**
while there don’t forget to click on the **Freedom Making Morning Routine** to join my email list and get a free gift at the same time

And ……

For 5 lucky people I am giving the Highest Level content plan at 999 instead of the 5555 but you’ll have to be fast 💨 this is a one time offer to only 5 people !!!!!

#dowhatyoulove #theloalover #passionbasedbusiness #lovewhatyoudo #passionbasedbusinessowner #creativeentrepreneur #lawofattraction #selfcarecityvibe #hooponopono #business

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on October 20, 2022 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction, Passion Economy

Tags: Business, Creative Entrepreneurs, entrepreneur, entrepreneurship, Gratitude, Ho'Oponopono, Intuitive Marketing, Law of Attraction, online business, Passion Economy

I had a Vision but now what is happening? …

18 Mar

Wow, wow, wow !! What is happening in the world right now?

Should I be surprised?

I know everything is energy so why am I surprised?

One of the most important pieces of information I received in my life is by the late Bob Proctor and that piece of information was “Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income”

Just after I attracted my first income stream after creating a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card the Universe presented me with another opportunity and seeing this as multiple streams of income “no accident” I expressed and interest.

Wait for the eye roll 🙄

That Opportunity was a Network Marketing Opportunity however when it was first presented to me I had no idea it was a Network Marketing Opportunity and I had no idea that this kind of Opportunity had a negative connotation to it so the beauty of this was I went in with fresh open minded eyes and I found a wonderful Community of like minded people.

However gradually over time I found …

There were parts of the industry that didn’t resonate to me but because it was and still is, even more so now such an incredible industry to be in with literally the “Opportunities” it allows people for Personal Freedom to allow anyone and everyone to create an income whilst spending time with their children, not missing a sports day or birthday etc or partners can build together and earn while they travel etc but knowing of the True value from it but it’s tendency to draw a negative reputation I had a vision …

I had this version a while ago so much so I bought a specific domain name for it and this Vision was in part, a different way to build Personal Branded Passion Based Businesses with multiple location free assets with the Network Marketing Opportunity built in integrally but the real Attractor Factor is the Person being the brand and Their Passion and enthusiasm for a certain topic and if people decide to buy the products or join the Opportunity that’s Their prerogative if they see the benefit in it or not, whatever the choice maybe

There is more to it than this and My Vision that I, as yet I have really not seen implemented elsewhere but what I have seen as late is a table turning of some of the people that I follow who I resonate to but at the same time that who adopt through no fault of their own, some elements of the industry my gut just doesn’t sit right with and is out of alignment with my personal preference and why I wanted to work in a different way.

Don’t get me wrong. It is NOT illegal because let’s just get it out on the table here. Network Marketing is not illegal and some of the big Household name Companies are Network Marketing Opportunities and people don’t even realise it and some of the Biggest Household Personal Development names actively endorse Network Marketing as an amazing low point of entry way to start a business but some of the methods people adopt are methods I call “The Hit Em Up Method” and MY Vision was and is different.

I have been building infrastructures and various digital assets to help people identify Their Passions and see how they can monetize Them for several months if not longer but I haven’t as yet completed the full picture of how to move forward on my own Personal Area under the domain name I mentioned earlier.

That’s not to say I won’t because I have already created so much when at first I only had an idea but ‘no idea how’ and I have seen so many synchronicities happening to evidence to me it will manifest and these digital assets are already out there and can be purchased right now and people can already join my Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” but I haven’t at present found, for me the perfect umbrella how to market it all under that domain name that I purchased but what I have found at present is certain people seem to be moving in the same energetic thought process that the “Hit Em Up Method” may not be the way forward any more but instead of being frustrated that I have had this idea for such a long time and kept it to myself in “Faith” that it will manifest in perfect Divine Timing and these people who appear to being having a paradigm shift, because they are more in the public with a larger following and it may seem they moved their first. The Energetic Transformation excites me as a species.

When Edwin C. Barnes as discussed in Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich first had the burning desire to become business partners with Thomas Edison he was in no position to implement it but he was not willing to compromise on his vision and he was not discouraged about the potential amount of time it may take to fulfil his desire.

Seeing the change of outlook in these people and I am sure more will follow fills me with even more Passion for MY Vision. This evidences to me that this energy soup we are all part of is evolving.

Talking of evolving …

What ideas have you NOT acted on because You could not see how it could possibly manifest or it seemed so far out of reach in time, space and reality?

I tell You now. You don’t need to know how. The fact that you had the Inspired Idea is enough to know it is possible and if You act on Any inspired action step that seemingly “Just Pop’s in Your Head” I am convinced the ways and the means will follow but first

You have to start !!!!

How do I know …

A couple years ago (or more, I’m not counting but I knew I was in LoveDucks) I had this Vision of a totally location free automated way of doing business and Network Marketing in a non spammy authentic way with an added twist but when I expressed My Full Vision to some people they weren’t getting my ideas and giving ideas of their own that didn’t align with mine and weren’t able to help me in the way I thought they would and I admit I ‘was’ a little frustrating but it is ok because I heard an amazing quote since that said

“it is ok that other people don’t understand what you are doing because the vision was given to You and not them”.

I heard Bob Proctor make that Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income Quote Years ago when I hadn’t even made one income stream apart from my salaried job and had no idea how but …

Since then, when I wasn’t trying to force it synchronicity after synchronicity have lined up showing me how and a year ago I didn’t know how to create a sales funnel or a Lead magnet or Landing page and at first it took me months to learn these new skills but now I could do it in minutes and I have gone on to learn even more skills like how to start a Podcast, build a subscription platform, Membership sites including an exclusive one for the “Freedom Empire Builders” and though I am still building some of these assets and My own Freedom Empire, now I can teach others how to build Theirs in Their own unique way and style.

People talk alot about branding but I believe we are Our brand and everything else, colours logos etc are just gravy. People buy People not a perfectly executed Logo design.

When Frank W. Abagnale of “Catch Me if You Can” fame was asked how he managed to teach a class of University Students for a whole semester when in fact he was meant to be a student himself before getting caught his answer was “Simple. I just stayed one chapter ahead” he took the book set out for the curriculum home and simply read one chapter ahead of the rest of the class and taught it back to them.
My point being.

There is something “We Are ALL” Passionate about and because of it we are just one chapter ahead of someone else also Passionate about that subject and we can teach it back to them and they would be willing to pay us for our knowledge to fast track them ahead on their own journey doing what they love and loving what they do and why shouldn’t we be financially rewarded for the skills and expertise we have. We do it everyday ourselves to people like trades people that fix our boilers, repair our cars etc and when we find a really good one we hang on to them like goldust and even more. We recommend them to friends and family because we care about them and we want them to have, like us. Excellent service too. PS: This is just Network Marketing.

It’s time to know Your Worth and dust off those Dreams and Ideas and just take one tiny Inspired Action step and trust the Universe will Conspire to Make it Happen.

When we want to fly from London to New York or even travel from London to York we don’t need to see York first before we leave home. These days we trust our navigation systems to lead the way and the same is with Us. We are all built with our own Internal Navigation system ….

Our Intuition and that’s why my Vision is to be the “Intuitive Networking Coach” and Teach people how to do Network Marketing and Business a new way Using Transrational Techniques and move away from the cookie cutter DMO (Daily Method of Operating) and build our businesses from as Dr Hew Len would call it from a Ho’oponopono perspective ~ Zero.

If Your Intuition is crying out to know more about what all this is about? Do not hesitate to contact me

The easiest way to contact me is by grabbing my free gift at mywakeuphappy.com where you can get my Life Changing Morning Routine and join my email list (feel free to unsubscribe at any time) and just email me telling me you are interested in learning more about Intuitive Networking and starting Your own Passion Based Business or otherwise think that is a pfaff and want to know more asap just email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com

I look forward to learning about Your Own Freedom Empire Building ideas 💡 and hopefully helping You on Your Journey.

Either way

Have a Fabulously Attractive Day oxox

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on March 18, 2022 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction, Passion Economy

Tags: #theloalover, creator economy, Law of Attraction, Passion Economy, Ralph Waldo Emerson

IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK IT MAY NOT BE A DUCK

27 Jan

Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us

It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey

What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently

Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support

I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools

I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them

I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender

I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol

What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above

Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time

I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key

Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me

I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)

This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)

When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action

While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb

I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it

(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)

Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment

Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it
There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging

Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come

The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)

But this time I felt assured

I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day

I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic
I say unusually …..

It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously

I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask

I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all

Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”

Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean
Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock

But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing

In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business

Every night several things come to bed with me …

A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.

I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons

It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up

But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….

Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?

When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house
One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”

Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”

I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”

I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me
I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.

All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential

What’s my point to all this ?

When I tuned into my body the penny dropped

There was my answer to my financial questions

I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …

It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show

I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives

I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment

The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money

You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously

I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools

Thankfully using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago

Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise

I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”

As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor

“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”

That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift

Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts.
If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …

And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled …
Of course the international day of Love 💕

I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all

I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍

Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look

Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on January 27, 2022 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction, Passion Economy

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OK ! I ADMIT IT. I’M A FRAUD

08 Jan

Yep, I admit it …. I’m a fraud !!

Disclaimer: before I go any further I am not trying to recruit you

I am just expressing something that I felt inspired to express that may help you the reader but it does discuss in part network marketing something that I am part of and believe has amazing potentiality but yes I admit it has its flaws (usually the people who act inappropriately and give it a bad name but those dudes are in all walks of life right) so can have a preconceived bad reputation

So I am taking part in something called a 90 day run at the moment and we are being asked to carry out some tasks that are completely against what I stand for and what I don’t like about the industry and I feel are outmoded but Inspired Action caused me to join and one of my invested mentors Marie Forleo asked that we be open and NOT say “Hey I know this already” and because I knew I was closing myself off to what I felt uncomfortable about I was in actuality doing exactly that

closing myself off and saying I know this already when there could be something massive there for me but I am here to tell you now

I’m a freud

because as well as being open to the challenge we are suggested to just do what the Leader of the Challenge says

Ahh but I know in my soul that may not be the case with me

so I am a freud

A freud to being open and a freud to the challenge

Or am I

As well as being open we are not sheep and we are entitled to have discernment

Why

because we are all infinite beings with infinite soul missions so we can’t all fit into one box

All trying to do the same thing because “Simon says” is denying our true purpose

It is not coming from Zero

What is Zero

In Ho’oponopono we are taught there are three levels of state or consciousness

Consciousness

Subconscious

And Superconscious

Subconsciousness is where we store all our memories (data) and they are like records playing over and over again whispering were are not worthy, capable, strong enough etc etc etc. It is what creates our fears and doubts, anxiety

but it is just memories playing on a loop

It is not real but it is a “Reel”

Our job if any, is to get clear or clean of these memories and get back to our superconsciousness or Zero where we are clear, perfect, our true selves and have access to unlimited possibilities

How does hearing having unlimited possibilities sound to you instead of playing old fearful memories of doubt and insecurities

Sounds amazing right !!!

Now who wants to get clean ????

In a minute I’ll give you a couple tips how to start but first I’ll tell you something miraculous about coming from or being at Zero

From that state without being encomboarded by our memories our soul has an opportunity to speak to us

To whisper inspiration in to our minds

That tell us what action step to take next

Tells us what is right for us and what action steps do not align with our true being

Discernment

Why do I tell you this and what does it have to do with a 90 day challenge and being a freud

Honestly when I heard about the 90 Day challenge I had fallen in to anxiety and overwhelm from something as simple as the Festive Season

Those few days had taken me out of my usual patterns and I felt lost and not sure which way to go

Totally unexpected 😱

I had spent a fantastic few days with my partner using the time to clear our house of clutter and in a way take our house back to zero which I feel intuitively is creating a vacuum for something I was desiring to manifest

And I went with the flow and enjoyed the process but at the same time when I went back to my normal daily routine or tried to those few days were enough to knock me off course and allow the subconscious fear based memories creep in and cloud my judgement

Thanks to Ho’oponopono I started trying to drown out the noise in my head and practice simple Ho’oponopono techniques and initially it can be a battle with the two states and we have to use the third state, the conscious mind to focus on the and carrying out the practices especially when the data mind seems louder and there is no evidence of being at zero

but Zero is always there

always with us

the key is no expectations

Just practice and try to listen to the voice of inspiration and I saw a post about an opportunity to join a 90 day challenge group from another Leader that was not my upline and something in me from zero sent and inspired action step to comment on the post

shortly after I received a message from the said Leader

Now I am in it I am catching up on all the videos being accountable and turning up or the trainings as much as Possible and taking notes on the actions steps to be followed

but honestly I will not be a sheep

I will be open and present and I have got some gold already that I wouldn’t have got if I hadn’t been open to join by saying I know this already and it is not my cup of tea and I will probably try some things that I am not a fan of purely for being open to new opportunities because I trust that Inspired Action nudged me to join

When I was taking my Ho’oponopono training the Trainer Joe Vitale said go to zero as often as possible and then follow those nudges however crazy they seem

I call this Inspired Action and following inspired action after reading the book The Secret coincidently where I came across Joe is what changed my life

And I am currently studying and reading Mabel Katz books that I came across via my ho’oponopono training and when I woke on New years day with an overwhelming sense of fear and dread and tooks some deep Ho’oponopono breaths and then laid quietly and tuned in and asked for guidance and the Universe spoke to me from the whiteboard and said listen to Mabel’s audiobook “The Easiest Way: Solve Your Problems and Take the Road to Love, Happiness, Wealth and the Life of Your Dreams”

While walking around physically clearing house with my partner unbeknown to him I had one ear bud in with my phone in my pocket and I was listening to Mabel over and over again for hours, days in fact and I still am but a different book now and that’s where I got the tips I am about to share with you that I used to quiet the chatter in my head and yesterday the 7th of January just as Mabel advised if we do this I had a major breakthrough and feel like the clouds have broken and sunlight has come flooding through and along with that I feel like a funnel again and Divine Downloads and ideas are like, the sunshine flooding through and I literally am writing this at 5 am after being awake since 1am noting down whatever is coming through

I am not saying it will work as quickly as this for you but what I would advise as Mabel was encouraged to do as she speaks about in the book I am currently reading is “release expectations”

Expectations raise fear and anxiety

Read on if you want to know what those tips are:

One of those downloads was the title I am a Freud

I may feel a bit of a freud because I have joined the challenge but know deep down I will not carrying out all the tasks to letter if at all and it may be that some will be a springboard to do the opposite or validate my reasoning why I feel some of the techniques while I am sure will work for some are outmoded because they come at a price and don’t resonate with my personal philosophy that hard work is bullshit and not necessary especially if you follow the Ho’oponopono ways and in that way it may seem inauthentic so I am a freud to the process

But I reiterate we are not sheep

We are Infinite Beings with Unlimited potentiality and only acting out in one way is stifling that gift but I am not saying there are not gifts in the challenge so I am remaining open practicing zero and acting on inspired action and oh yeah documenting the findings in another Inspired Idea I had to write a book in 2022 following my progress and logging my results of aiming to stay present and detached aiming to minimise expectations and not setting goals so I can share with others my findings on that journey and show what is possible with Ho’oponopono

Talking of which those Ho’oponopono tips

In Ho’oponopono there is a Ho’oponopono Prayer that goes “I’m sorry please forgive me thank you I love you” as pictured above so feel free to save the photo and or save it as a screensaver so you can see it often and repeat it to clear you own house

When we say I’m sorry please forgive me we are taking full responsibility for what is in us subconsciously, those old memories playing on repeat and to forgive ourselves for not knowing they were playing and therefore creating the less desired outcomes in our lives

Sidenote: This does not mean guilt of Any, any kind !! See below ….

In my 5 step Program The G.R.E.A.T formula™️ created before my Ho’oponopono certification I talk of my love of Responsibility and is what the ‘R’ stands for because I believe when we take responsibility it gives us the power to take control back for our life and not be a victim where no power exists

By saying this we are clearing and cleaning those memories and saying “No more!!”

For me Thank You I love You is thank you to that uncomfortable situation like my anxiety over the festive season for showing me I still have some old memory data playing that I still need to clear and I love you because cleaning this gives me the opportunity to get closer to Zero and a more peaceful abundant life

Years ago I read a book by my hero Wayne Dyer and in it he used the phrase “Let go and let God” if anyone was the eptimany of Ho’oponopono practices of detachment and no expectations it was Wayne and I always found by using this phrase I found peace even though I am not religious

I see God as the creator of all things with no denominations

It is the creator that makes trees grow and winds blow and our heart beating and our lungs breathing while we sleep and in Mabel’s books she uses Let Go and Let God and and Let go and Trust

and when I felt really overwhelmed I kept repeating the Ho’oponopono Prayer and “I let go and trust I let go and let God”

Above I mentioned the Whiteboard this was something Dr Hew Len who is featured in the Training I did and who was also Mabel’s Trainer and who Mabel took over from when he retired mentions and I love the analogy and I won’t discuss it here but by letting go and surrendering I feel I am allowing myself to access the possibilities of the whiteboard

All things far greater for Me than I could ever anticipate

Let me know in the comments if you have set your sights on a goal or set an intention after learning about The Law of Attraction and it hasn’t manifested and you have felt yucky and then when you least expect it something far more miraculous than you could have ever anticipated shows up effortlessly after a weird series of events or synchronicities ?

That’s what can happen when you remain open, coming from Zero and why I am not a fan of hard work trying to manufacture outcomes that are limited compared to what the Universe has in store for us

I hope these words help you when the subconscious try to take the wheel

Even just repeating thank you over and over again or thank you I love you will have a profound effect

The First and to me the most important part of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ is ‘G’ for Gratitude and there are scientific studies now advocating the benefits of Gratitude which coincidentally was the first Inspired Action step I took in 2010 when I read The Secret

Write 3 things I am grateful for first thing in the morning in a journal

It is so profound it was even mentioned in Grays Anatomy the other day and I love how Life has Transformed since I started my Law of Attraction journey in 2010 because of The Secret and was afraid to discuss openly my love of LOA to where such things are spoken about openly and advocated by social media influencers movie stars , musicians and Oprah

Let me know in the comments you successes and even non-success stories in the comments and I would love to share the success stories on my blog and help the people didn’t achieve the success they desired

I have just had another Inspired Action idea …..

With Your permission these could be featured in my 2 books I am currently working on. The one I am mentioned earlier as I document my surrender goalless journey in 2022 and another book about The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono

If you want to share your stories with me and they maybe to private or to long for the comments and or want to be featured in the books drop me and email by clicking on mywakeuphappy.com

By following the link you will be taken to a page to sign up for my email list where I will share more tips and get a copy of my free morning guide including the Gratitude practice I mentioned in the process but that way Your story will go straight to my business email account and we can create a conversation and you are free to unsubscribe at any time

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Posted by Alison K Parsons #loalover on January 8, 2022 in Ho'Oponopono, Law of Attraction

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