Hi My Name is Ali
In my late 40s I found myself in a dark place of disappointment and frustration. I took a step back and thought, ‘If this is how I’m going into my 50s, I’m going to be miserable!’
I didn’t want a gloomy life. I wanted a wonderful life of freedom and joy. I had worked all my life without much real joy at all. I decided that something had to change.
I became aware that people with similar backgrounds to me were creating fulfilling lives, enjoying lifestyles full of success and happiness, doing what they loved and loving what they were doing.
This inspired me to believe I could implement the skills I learnt from them and consistnently practice personal development. This belief and using The Law of Attraction and Positive Mindset I too have attracted my best life of freedom and joy – in my 50s!
My life is only just beginning and I am so excited about the future, that I am now on a mission to help other women to use the same techniques I did, to feel fabulously fulfilled after turning 40.
I can show you that there is more to the world to look forward to than menopause and an expanding midriff!
If this sounds like someone you want to be, we need to connect so that you can learn how to open your mind to new opportunities.
Message me and together learn how to Love the Law of Attraction. It’s never too late!
Migraine, Stinking Cold (never get colds) fall down stairs on Monday (still see & feel the effects of the bruises) dodgy digestive system since Tuesday
I think mentally I feel fine but I believe physical conditions are connected to emotional unrest so today I am on project “Joy” and I am having what I call a LGLG Day … and thankfully I can have an LGLG day any day I want because I haven’t got a boss saying I can’t ??
An LGLG day ? – I am not a religious person but cool if anyone is but in Wayne Dyer’s book “You’ll See it when You Believe it” he uses a phrase “Let Go Let God” and whenever I am overwhelmed etc I have an LGLG day because nothing gets solved down in despair . All solutions to problems etc are shut down in a negative state of mind
Solutions are only at the top of your spiral in a state of Joy where inspired action can come in.
I don’t feel I have any problems that I believe need solving but all of the physical conditions that have happened recently make me feel the Universe is saying “Hey, sister. Just chill !!” So I am just going to consistently check in with myself and ask what will me bring the most joy next before taking any action.
I love the ‘Over’ app and made myself the joy,joy,joy LGLG picture to save as a screen saver as a reminder just in case I forget today I am Captain Joy
I hope you remember to keep checking in with yourself today and whatever you are doing you do from a place of Joy
PS: Feel free to save the photo as your own screensaver if you need a reminder
When I started this blog, I felt compelled to (burning desire that wouldn’t go away) for a start, I wanted to share my observations of The Law of Attraction in action in my life and called the category “Just Me Rambling”
And I suppose in an arrogant type of way I wanted to try and say “Hey, this is happening in my life and it is happening to you in yours and hopefully generate a thought that would make people question both the good and the bad in their lives and see there are no accidents (blogged about that) and then start using deliberate creation to attract life’s circumstances intentionally
What I didn’t mention was that when I started I was terrified. Terrified of pressing the publish button. Terrified about my content (despite being from the heart) Terrified of telling people I know and love that I created this blog. I would tremble, my heart rate would rise so much I swear it was going to fly out of my chest and take flight like one of those moths above
I literally didn’t know one single soul who talked about The Law of Attraction. Practiced daily Personal Development. Watched Video’s on YouTube. Read Personal Development books and books on Quantum Physics. I got a lot of stick about my books from my partner. How it was all rubbish and I should throw them away but still I felt compelled to read them but just tried to be more discreet. iPad and iPhones are great for that with YouTube & iBooks, Kindle apps 😉
It did always stick with me what Jim Rohn says about being the sum of the 5 people around us and I thought “Ok, I’ll have to create my 5% virtually” but still I stayed in the shadows and practiced my Woo Woo in secret.
It has always been a dream of mine to be self-employed and in 2016 whilst off work (from a job I hated) due to a broken leg that I broke the day after making a Bob Proctor inspired goal card saying “I Am Successfully Self-Employed Doing What I love and Loving What I Do” and I know, extreme way to get time away from it and making me miss my daughters wedding in to the bargain (more blog posts) I started writing a book about experimenting attracting things via the path of least resistance, however hands up I still haven’t finished the book because I returned to work quicker than diagnosed because I decided to self heal inspired by Anita Moorjani’s book “Dying to Be Me” and every morning on my return I placed the goal card in front of me by my PC screen and after a very strange series of events when I least expected it in a path of least resistance way a business opportunity arose almost 2 years ago doing what I love and loving what I do but that’s not the point of this post (just a little back story that fell out of my brain)
The point is about something that only just occurred to me today …….
Whilst doing what I love I listen to a lot of podcasts, ebooks, YouTube Video’s etc and as well as the physical business (Painting Wooden Ducks) in the summer of 2017 another business opportunity arose in Network Marketing and learning from the previous situation that to get anywhere you have to take risks and do the things that other people aren’t willing to do to get where you want to be
Now, I knew nothing about NWM and I have probably been the worlds worst NWM because I followed the advise I saw from the ‘Lives’ and Training video’s and despite the products being amazing and Training material contributors getting amazing results I got none. Before implementing them I felt icky in my gut (and despite always aiming to be a gut listener) I tried their way because I didn’t know any different and talking of trying and my gut recently something said stick with it but aim to be more authentic and come from a place of alignment and not a sheep. Thanks Universe, no soft soaping there Baby.
This morning I listened to an incredible Ali Brown Podcast about how we hide our important messages in our safe space and challenging us to get our true message out there in full public view and of course it resonated with me with my new desire to be completely authentic and aligned in ALL things regardless of the consequences but to be perfectly honest …….
Network Marketing has given me the confidence to do that for a long time in regards to my own personal offers about myself but I just wasn’t doing it in my Networking practices with my products because I didn’t have the confidence in my own abilities in that business arena
I have other aspirations now in business for 2019 and I am 100% assured I only move forward doing something for this venture when it is authentic and aligned (and gut checked) and the authentic and aligned in all areas is getting more natural now
Wow this is longest Blog post I have written in months … thank you so much if you have stuck with it this far. I appreciate you so much
And while I have been doing the authentic and aligned in recent days I have attracted more friends and followers than I have done …. ever !! And most of them have been in the business and MLM environment and this is where is shows authentically complete honesty …..
I had the thought …. I really hope they don’t try to spammy pitch me their opportunity and try to poach me because I love my company and it’s products and I am staying put (and we are NO.3 in the top Ten MLM Companies to work for in 2019) and we have a no spam policy but usually when I get business followers this happens (Yuck) so I checked my messages …. no eggy spam – Hoorah !!
And then I thought the light bulb thought …. I maybe wrong but maybe they added me as a peer, or they liked my (authentic) content and genuinely want to follow me because I put out my Woo Woo on my wall and they relate to it.
See, I am not terrified who knows the real me any more so it is all out there for everyone to see
I love Frazer Brookes, seriously check him out because he is all about the authentic message in Network Marketing and the other day Frazer posted “Be so positive that negative people delete you on Facebook”
And the negative partner who said throw the books away …. now he’s all positive, positive and eradicates the negative. No News in our house or Negative people on his social feed
And the 5%? I have to admit it still surprises me and I don’t know why. When I joined my NWM Company I joined because I felt it was a great opportunity but I never expected a community of people who like me, watch motivational material every morning. Read Personal Development books all the time and openly talk about The Law of Attraction on their Social Media platforms
I secretly wanted to be self-employed with as Bob Proctor advises ‘Multiple Streams of Income and I secretly wanted to connect to like minded people who would stimulate me and I attracted both it almost feels like, by accident or should I say “The Path of Least Resistance”
The last couple days I have been getting excited that B-School is coming up soon and I get to take it again for the third year running and forever. Once you are in your in but if you don’t want to be a B-schooler do yourself a favour get yourself on Marie’s MF insiders email list or follow her on YouTube.
Not only if she is hilarious she is so insightful and if you have that Monkey Mind voice that’s is constantly beating yourself up check this Video out ……… is also shows you that people we think have it all figured our have self doubt and lack in confidence.
Let’s take Maries advise and Big each other and ourselves up. We are ALL AWESOME xx
I was listening to an audiobook yesterday by #sarahrobbins and in it she tells a story of someone that recruited an individual into their Network Marketing company and the recruiter gave up shortly after and the person they recruited went on to be a top earner in the Company and this made me think of this question.
“What would we achieve if we don’t quit?”
Yes we always think of quitting sometimes. Feel overwhelmed etc. It’s easier to think of a million reasons not to do something than one reason why we should continue but maybe this is the question we should always apply when we feel like quitting – “What if”
What if I give it one more day?
What if I give it one more try?
What if I act on that gut instinct (which is always our Higher Self guiding us to the best possible outcome)
“What would you achieve if you don’t quit’ The outcomes are endless and I believe far more rewarding that quitting
Let’s not regret anything in 2019 and make it our best year ever which is also just prequel for 2020 which will then be our best year ever
My morning motivation from Youtube this morning was Wayne Dyer.
This quote really struck me when I first read it. In which book, I am not sure as I have read so many Wayne Dyer books but I do or know I was sat on a Coach on my way back from London after spending a whole day walking around Tate Britain.
Many say to Manifest something see your self already having it (otherwise you are just living in the lack of it) Visualise living that life and I tell myself I am rubbish at visualising but her I am Visualising that memory.
Zig Ziglar says motivation is like bathing. You have to do it daily.
Here’s proof as it was several years ago I read this quote but I completely forgot about it but it is a perfect reference to how I am choosing to live my life now and instigated in me to see that I can visualise.
I just need to daily visualise a future I choose to live in not regurgitate a past
I can’t even remember the last time I posted on my blog ….. but that’s ok. I am acknowledging that, that is all part of the Experiment I am running on myself at the moment.
Several weeks ago I was feeling complete overwhelm over a circumstance. More so than I had done for a very long time but acknowledged that there was always some sense of anxiety in my gut recently and I was fed up of living like this.
Since Manifesting my own business last year there were certain pressures I believed were all part and parcel of being an entrepreneur. The uncertainty of clients, income, business development etc and my Personal Development had all become Business Personal Development.
Intense, Hustle, hustle, hustle. Hard work and lots of effort if you want to crush it. You can only be a success if you deprive yourself of Fun time for X amount of years.
If you spend time on Social Media then your are a loser and how do you expect your business to build but then saying you need to spend so much time on this type of Social Media and do this on Social Media or how do you expect your business to build but be aware of the algorithm changes or you might go to jail !!!!!!!!
Is your head hurting just reading this?
Thankfully that little Voice in my head (that we all have) said “Tomorrow have an LGLG day. Nothing major is going to happen if you let yourself have 24 Hours not focusing on the issue and just go with the flow and do what you enjoy.
Well something did happen. A Miracle !!
(Yet again) An effortless series of events happened and everything fell into place and the situation was sorted in less that 24 hours in fact.
At the same time a series of Materials came into my awareness that all connected together and keep on coming to me and one of the Sources came to me via MindValley.
I was made aware of the book “The Surrender Experiment” by Michael A. Singer and instinctively knew I had to read it and I couldn’t stop. I was addicted to it. It wasn’t what I was expecting but it showed me how everything can fall in to place when we remove our resistance and go with the flow. The book (for me) started out with the author just needing to get away from the negative chatter in his head and I thought ‘this sounds like the book for me’
As I mentioned several other materials came into my awareness and virtually all had the same message that suggests Meditation and Allowing.
Over the weekend my partner had subconsciously said a couple things that have stung but I remembered a quote that really stuck with me from the film with Oprah Winfrey in “A Wrinkle in Time” – “Find the Right Frequency and Have Faith” so now when anything causes a negative reaction or the Negative Monkey chatter starts I remind myself to let go and have Faith which I did when these remarks happened which were generally about their lack of Faith because what I am focusing on in their eyes hasn’t arrived “Like, Yesterday”
They are still in the “I will believe it when I see it mode” where I am in the “I will see it when I believe it” mode which incidentally is the title of the Wayne Dyer book that I got the phrase “Let Go and Let God” from.
So it was so funny that I picked this YouTube video above for my Morning Motivation whilst dressing that shows just what can happen when one person believes and the other person doesn’t. It was just what I needed to hear.
And again there is a lot of Material in this video that aligns with the Experiment I am practicing on myself at the moment.
Remember “There Are No Accidents” and have a Let Go Day. After you have Meditated of Course. Because when you Meditate and Align All Things Are Possible
“Do not wait. The time will never be ‘just right’. Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.” Napoleon Hill
I agree and disagree to a certain extent. Procrastination is the thief of time they say and that is so true so the time is just right. “This red hot minute” is ‘Just Right’ because it is Monday and it is the start of a New Month.
I have had several such tools show up for me in recent days in the shape of just the right books and YouTube video’s and I am embarking on October with a new philosophy and I am trying out my own type of Buckminster Fuller experiment on myself and I am excited to see where it takes me.
Just look at what these formidable people achieved without the resources we have at our finger tips. We are so lucky and most of the time we don’t even stop to appreciate it. No excuses !!! Slay October starting today xxx
“We can start over. Every day. We get second chances to become who we always wanted to be. We can leave our past behind or we can learn from it and honour it. We can decide it is never to late to change”
I nicked the above from an episode of Greys Anatomy ages ago and wrote it in my daily Journal with list of daily affirmations I read as well as my “Definiteness of Persistent Purpose” statement made after reading Napoleon Hills “Think & Grow Rich” and important life goals
Talking of goals. I set goals at the end of a month ready for a new month and mine got slightly off track (for a good reason) and I was hungry to get back on track to resume my DMO.
This weekend I have been watching incredible Lives and seeing lots of amazing photos from the Canada Convention of the Company I am an Independent Representative for From the awesome people I am connected to who are there physically or in spirit as they have won awards, given speeches and/or featured in the magazine and they have shared lots of exciting news.
One Live in particular made me think scrap the old DMO and start again. Start a fresh DMO like I am a newbie. Set new goals because there are lots of new things coming in this Company so it is a fresh start and like Meredith says “Everyday we get a second chance” it doesn’t have to be a Sunday, or Monday, a new year or a new month. It can be right this hot minute ….. so here I go. Buckle up baby because it is Day 1
On a mission to help others create a life of freedom and joy using the Law of Attraction