“Call it Angels, Call it The Universe, Call it Spirit, Call it Your Inner Guide, Call it God. I don’t care just call on it” In this statement Gabby Bernstein is referring to connecting back to our Higher Power
Usually on my Birthday I set some intentions. Have a little reevaluate and on this Occassion I Am called back to “Surrender” and practice the “Art of Allowing”
To often we try to fix things. We see a problem. Desire an outcome and set to work to solve it, fix, create it (Level 2 ~ “By Me”)
The first few months of 2025 I have been definitely been in creation, fix it mode but I have done the work I needed to do.
I built my new Foundation. It is done ☑️
Now is time to Surrender and Allow the Highest to come through.
It’s time to reconnect and follow Inspired Guidance
The problem with fixing things is, it is usually motivated by “Fear” and the trouble with “Fear” is, we are blocking the supportive Power that is always available to us so this weeks Wealth Wednesday Affirmation is based in Surrender
It’s about surrendering to The Universe and Trusting and Allowing Unlimited Creative Possibilities of Abundance to Come to You Effortlessly in Ways You Never Expected that are far better than we can ever imagine
Let go and trust and be Open to The Possibilities of Abundance Crowding upon You
When Fear tries to take control with thoughts like “How’s this going to happen? When’s it going to happen? Why Can’t I …. fill in the blank mentally say, write, speak, repeat “I Am Open to Creative Possibilities to Abundance”
“Hustle and Grind is a bind but Aligned is Divine, I now Attract Money With Grace, Ease & Flow”
Only last night I saw a very Masculine Hustle & Grind kind of post that said “You won’t get much done if you only grind on the days you feel good”
I’ve even seen women post this style of content saying unless you are bleeding out of your eyeballs you have to show up 🥱
These are just beliefs that worked for them and they are passing on to others that make me feel sick 🤮
Recently I heard someone say something that I was more Aligned to about it being ok to maybe only post one piece of content a week or less as long as it felt good and from the heart to you instead of going out in your little metaphorical life boat desperately trying to get clients, be the light house that attracts your Soul Aligned Clients
I know which one I prefer and just out of interest
All of these people are very successful and wealthy in their fields of business proving it is not the Labor but their belief in their own Worthiness
They believe in themselves and that their way is correct because it got them results and deep down they care about people and want them to have success too and that’s why they are trying to sell the thing they believe in
Not to long ago I saw things I desired Manifest into my Life Effortlessly and with Ease and no effort from me apart from the Desire
Understandably it made me stop and think “Hmm? The Hustle and Grind, I inadvertently always revert to causes stress without little results and being in Flow and having Faith in the Yet unseen at some point always Manifests results far more Miraculously than I could have ever imagined. There must be something in this?”
From then on I felt repelled by the Hustle & Grind type of old outdated Mindset
Talking of Grace, Flow and Ease …
Then Regan Hillyer came into my Life who is the epitome of my ideal of Living and Manifesting without Hustle and Grind and she actually uses the terminology “Grace, Ease and Flow” and she is currently ranked in some peoples view as the Worlds No.1 Manifestation Queen
And oh yes, she is a self made Multi-Millionaire and I have no doubt soon to be Billionaire
But you maybe thinking “I Struggle with belief in my own Worthiness, How Will I be Able to Create Wealth?”
Funnily enough Regan has you covered in her monthly program “IGNITE” that has a Self Love Tool Kit inside along with many, many, many other free Training’s included like Activating Abundance and a 5 Day Manifestation Intensive along with a live with Regan Zoom Monthly Activations to help clear limiting beliefs etc
Click on the word “IGNITE” to see how you can make this #wealthwednesday one you start manifesting wealth with ease instead of hustle and grind
“Take ownership of the result before you know the path” ~ Myron Golden
When you want to travel to a destination these days we usually use the browser on our phones and click directions or go to the Maps App and type in the address and press start
Question? ~ Do you check out the whole route before you start or do you trust that it is going to give you the steps you need before you need them to guide you to the place you want to get to?
Even if you missed a turning because the route is totally unknown to you and you hesitate and think is it this one or the next one. “Dam missed it, missed it.” it will reroute you and still guide you towards your destination
Getting to that destination is the “Result”
GPS only gives you steps not the whole journey at once
It’s the same with a desired outcome. A result we want.
You can set out on the journey without knowing the how
You only need to know the result you want and take the first step and then trust that the next step will show up and the next and the next …
I call it have “Faith in The Yet Unseen”
When it looks like nothing is happening, I have to much evidence from past experience to know miracles show up when I least expect it usually in the most effortless way
But when I overthink it or try and “Fix It” myself it effects my energy and closes off the access to Miracles and Inspiration
When I am 100% focused on my result and have Faith no matter how unrealistic it looks due to current circumstances Inspired Ideas drop in and Inspired Actions steps nudge me.
The right People and the right Circumstances appear seemly out of nowhere but in reality this is the ‘Law of Resonance’ in action
Because I am focused on the result I want I resonate out and energy that Attracts back the right resources I require
A bit like the actions steps to take on a GPS system on our phones to get us to our desired destination but unfortunately most people think they need to know the whole route to take before they start to get a desired result and they get overwhelmed.
Then the fear and doubt set’s in of all the reasons they can’t or it won’t work and they quit before they even start.
Why not try this instead? ….
Truly ask yourself a desired result you would like and take ownership of your desire
Say Yes to Yourself and admit “Yes I would Like this Result in My Life” Regardless what anyone else thinks” (better still don’t even tell anyone your desires)
And admit to yourself I do “NOT” have a scooby doo how I can get this result at this point in time but I know I would like it/want it and just leave it there for a little while ….
Your only job at this point is to take time to revisit that desire at some point every day.
Even if it is only for 30 seconds
Set an alarm on your phone if you have to at a time you know you will get a few seconds to yourself
The alarm time can change daily based on your schedule but the important thing is to spend some time focused on the desired result you would like as often as possible
Nothing else !!!
Get that energy resonating out into the Universe is the most important “Action Step” to take then the path will appear
Don’t put a time line on it. Don’t put a date on it. Time is fake any way. There is only NOW
Being relaxed and having Faith in the Yet Unseen creates Miracles
Deadlines and Dates create Stress aka Miracle Blocking Energy
So today why not take time to take ownership of a result you would like. You may have to sit with this a while to remember something you truly want then wallow in that result already having happened and “FEEL” the essence of it.
That’s the place to go each day
And if you miss a day. No worries !!
Just acknowledge that you ‘Acknowledge’ that you missed a day and say ‘good job for acknowledging I missed a day’ and make a date for the next day or even better just do it then
Everything and I mean everything adds up. We just have to have Faith in the Yet Unseen
Don’t be fooled by what you see in your current reality
No one knows what’s going on behind the scenes
Working on my dream while working for someone to build there’s
No shame !!!
I’ll explain more later …
There’s a quote by Farrah Gray that says :-
“Build Your Own Dreams, or Someone will Hire You to Build Theirs”
There are a lot of people hired to help build other people’s dreams or the world wouldn’t function
Some people don’t feel compelled to change the world and that’s ok 👌
What we don’t see when we see super successful people that are now worth probably multiple millions is. And I know for a fact, some people were working job’s that were contributing to building other people’s dreams while they were starting out on their’s
Several jobs at once in some cases until Their dream became profitable enough that they felt secure enough financially to let them go …
I don’t see that as selling out. I see it as Savvy
This quote can seem negative and come across as a be all or end all (I know that’s not quite the correct sentence but I was making a point)
Perhaps it should be “Build Your Own Dreams whilst working for other people who dared to go for theirs until it’s time to go it alone” or words to that effect
It’s easier for me to tell me people I let my Brick n Mortar business go because of Covid-19 and yes there is no doubt it was dramatically effected by Covid but I had a vision for something long before Covid and I knew I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life spinning my wheels being landlocked and constantly trading time for money
I see the events leading up to me letting it go were simply steps towards the manifestation of my Ultimate Desire
I made some decisions that seemed right at the time to move things forward but in reality they didn’t work out to serve my plan as I envisioned they would but that’s ok ….
Inside nothing changed. The Big Picture Reality Remains the same
I just had to Pivot and move on to the next step ….
Then in March I underwent an unexpected shift following taking part in a Regan Hillyer Activation
I went through what could only be described as a “Transformative Experience”
I saw life events line up like dots showing me their purpose but also showed me they were only a tool to serve a Higher Purpose
Then …
But then I felt this shift. I felt I had outgrown everything I had ever created and everything I thought was significant was merely a beautiful stepping stone to something more ????
At first I thought I was stripping back but now it is more like a strip out …
I have stopped creating anything until I align and act from Inspiration
Thankfully I am employed now because we all have bills to pay
Being employed by someone who had a vision and implemented it has in no way meant I have given up on my Big Picture Reality
It’s given me the Freedom to be flexible and reassured life’s necessities are taken care of and I don’t feel forced to create anything that is out of alignment for fear of not paying the Bills
And you can do the same
Never give up on your dream just because you work for someone who built there’s
This is an All and Everything Life … not an all or nothing !!!
I feel inspired to write this post because nobody know what is going on behind the scenes
Shortly after I started this new role I came face to face with someone who previously knew me in a very senior Managerial Position and sarcastically looked me up and down and said “Living the Dream I see’
And I replied “Yes I am Am” with a big Smile because I know I am
Working currently serves a means to an end and I actually enjoy it and the time goes really fast and it also allows me lots of free time to follow one Inspired Action after Another until I eventually catch up with my Big Picture Reality and the next and the next ….
I have caught up with and manifested one Big Picture Reality after another but to an on looker it may look I haven’t manifested much … (Yet !!)
it was just that those Big Picture Realities were a lot smaller in stature so may not seem like I manifested anything but now my BPR’s are absolutely massive and while in this 3D reality it looks like nothing has changed …
I know from previous experiences “Manifestation Miracles” happen in the most unexpected ways at the least expected times in the most Miraculous Ways usually with little help from me
My part is to hold the Faith in the Yet Unseen even when what is seen looks nothing like my current Big Picture Reality that I focus on Everyday
My suggestion to use is ….
DON’T Focus on “What Is”, Focus on What You Truly Desire to the Exclusion to All Else that You Currently See but Be Grateful for it all because it All serves a Purpose even if it doesn’t feel like it.
“Life is Happening for Us, Not to Us”
I still have my digital products available and they may actually be the perfect thing for someone reading this right now for where they are in their journey
For me they are in maintenance mode and I could tweak them if I so wished but I cannot add to them which suits me fine
It is the dawning of a New Era …
A New Era of Creation and I am excited and Open for it ALL !! 🔥
The Art of Surrendering: Exploring Ho’oponopono as a Path to Inner Peace
Introduction:
In the fast-paced and often chaotic world we live in, finding inner peace can feel like an elusive goal. As we navigate the challenges of daily life, it’s not uncommon to accumulate stress, resentment, and emotional baggage. However, the ancient Hawaiian practice of Ho’oponopono offers a unique and powerful approach to achieving inner harmony through surrendering and forgiveness.
Understanding Surrender:
Surrendering is not a sign of weakness; rather, it’s a courageous act of releasing control and allowing the natural flow of life to guide us. In the context of Ho’oponopono, surrendering involves letting go of the need to be right, releasing judgments, and accepting responsibility for our own experiences.
In my 5 Step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ I talk about responsibility. Sometimes it is something we want to avoid, but it is like trying to drive a car in park if we avoid it but if we take responsibility it is like taking the brakes off. It actually gives us power and that’s why I resonated to Ho’Oponopono so much and studied to become an Advanced Practitioner in this ancient art.
Ho’oponopono: A Brief Overview:
Ho’oponopono, rooted in traditional Hawaiian spirituality, is a profound practice that centres around reconciliation and forgiveness. The word itself can be broken down into two parts: “ho’o,” meaning to make, and “pono,” meaning right. Together, Ho’oponopono can be translated to “to make right.”
At its core, Ho’oponopono is a process of making things right within ourselves, our relationships, and our world. Dr. Ihaleakalá Hew Len, a modern proponent of Ho’oponopono, popularised a simplified version of the practice that involves repeating four powerful phrases: “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.”
The Four Phrases:
1. “I’m sorry”: Acknowledge and take responsibility for the challenges or disharmony present in your life, even if you don’t fully understand their origins.
2. “Please forgive me”: Express a sincere desire for forgiveness, recognizing the need to heal and release the negative energy associated with the situation.
3. “Thank you”: Cultivate gratitude for the opportunity to address and rectify the imbalances in your life. Gratitude has the power to transform our perception and open the door to positive change.
4. “I love you”: Embrace the unconditional love that transcends judgement and separation. This phrase is a recognition of the interconnectedness of all things and the healing power of love.
The Power of Surrender in Ho’oponopono:
Surrender is an integral aspect of Ho’oponopono, as it involves letting go of ego-driven desires, control, and the need to assign blame. By surrendering to the process, individuals open themselves to the transformative power of forgiveness, paving the way for inner peace and healing.
Benefits of Ho’oponopono:
1. **Inner Peace**: Ho’oponopono facilitates the release of internal conflicts, allowing individuals to experience a profound sense of inner peace.
2. **Improved Relationships**: By practising forgiveness and taking responsibility for our experiences, Ho’oponopono can mend and strengthen relationships.
3. **Emotional Healing**: The practice helps individuals heal emotional wounds, liberating them from the burden of past traumas and negative emotions.
4. **Increased Self-Awareness**: Surrendering in Ho’oponopono involves self-reflection, leading to heightened self-awareness and personal growth.
Conclusion:
In 2010 I fully embraced the philosophy of the Law of Attraction and it had a profound effect on me and I still believe there is a place for it but I feel the earth is evolving and Transitioning and it is time to take things to another level.
The Law of Attraction can be used to manifest specific material items and experiences but this methodology is based mainly in physical solitary practices created and carried out by the individual that are focused on singular specific detailed outcomes that can feel like work to manifest but creation does not have to be a solitary practice.
Many people found/find themselves frustrated with the Law of Attraction and feel it doesn’t work. The Law of Attraction is a natural law and is always working but we subconsciously take on programming from society that create blocks in our unconscious and create negative thought processes that create fear, anxiety and doubt that stop our ability to achieve the harmonious lives we desire.
In a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, the ancient wisdom of Ho’oponopono provides a refreshing perspective on surrendering and forgiveness that can release these blocks.
By embracing the power of these four simple phrases, and repeating them as often as possible individuals can embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and transformation. The art of surrendering through Ho’oponopono ultimately leads to a more harmonious and fulfilling life, both within ourselves and in our interactions with the world around us.
Prior to my coming into contact with Ho’Oponopono I became aware in my own practices and experiences with The Law of Attraction that things I tried to manifest myself were often hard and often afflicted by what I called “Curveballs” but whenever I surrendered. Consciously or Subconsciously then the Universe (as I like to call it but Dr Hew Len liked to call it Divinity) would manifest something so miraculously amazing and so perfect and beyond my wildest imaginings in such an unbelievably effortless way I knew there was something undoubtedly more than meets the eye to this thing we call Human existence.
Maybe that’s why when I became aware of Ho’Oponopono it resonated to me so much.
It’s in the surrendering we allow the Divinity that’s in us. That is closer than our own breath to bring us inner harmony in a way we can never perceive or create with our physical perspective alone.
Now is the time to move beyond the struggles of Manic Manifesting and move into the art of
“Surrendered Manifesting”
Surrender and allow the UNIVERSE to guide us to what is more perfect for us than anything we can ever imagine …
Now is the time to Surrender and listen to and act upon the Aligned Actions steps whispered to us by our Divine Self. The Highest Embodiment of our Natural Being.
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