I followed Inspired Action recently to listen to Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now”
On my original reading, this book taught me to appreciate the little things we take for granted like the simple task of washing dishes and whenever I get to much in to my own head trying to fix things and feeling stuck. Stepping away and indulging in a mundane task gives my brain the opportunity to pop the solution into my thoughts
Last week a dear friend Ray Coates sent me a piece of his music to listen to and it caused me to have a paradigm shift
It reminded Me of the message I was trying to express with my work for my Art Degree finals
Despite still holding to this value and occasionally expressing it I realised my purpose was to express it consistently
Sadly last night I heard some news I had premonitioned
I hope this now also creates a paradigm shift to
I have resonated “away” from the people who advocate go, go, go ! Hard work and not much down time and God forbid taking time to watch Netflix or have a TV full stop 🛑
My philosophy is buy the shoes, eat the chocolate, take the vacation and snuggle up with your significant other and watch Netflix because while you’re building, building, building none of us know what tomorrow will bring and what opportunities will have been lost to experience
This morning while driving in our favourite car my favourite culture club song came on the stereo and the morning sun was shining on my face
That’s all it takes to experience the Power of Now and being in the presence of Bliss
But do you ?
Do you just take time out in any given day and just relax and breath?
Feel appreciation for all that you have or are you living in the past and fearing the future?
I truly believe (and I have read it is scientifically proven) that not giving our bodies time to relax and being in a constant state of stress and reaction causes blockages in the body that manifest into physical pain and illness
That’s what I feared would happen for these hard work advocates and now I see that manifesting … unfortunately !!!
I have a vision for an easier way. The Ho’OPonoPono Way of living and building businesses we love. In flow and living in Gratitude and that’s where my focus is now going as well as inspiring others to take time to enjoy the Power of Now 🙏🏻
The piece of music I mentioned. I have dropped it below
There have been some very long days this week as I attempt to finish the majority of the Christmas orders and honestly frustration as many took longer than expected
But there have also been positives as decisions have been made that sooth my soul
With the full backing of my partner as he see’s so much time I invest for little recompense I am letting LoveDucks go in 2023
Fulfilling a life long dream to be an entrepreneur was amazing but the reality of a time bound business has been an eye opener
But it’s all good …
Having a brick n mortar business open 6 days a week and cutting your income stream off as you close the door with little down time because you added the element of social media or knowing you have to return to fulfil orders when you do get time away let me to decide how I would like a future business to be
Online, digital and location free. A business than can be run from anywhere or regardless of what else I decide to do using evergreen types of methods and platforms
The landscape of physical businesses has changed with Covid but …
To be honest I had the idea and I have been building this assets for a while but have never been able to invest the time I have wanted to give them due to what I mentioned above
But much like my Favourite building featured. A strong foundation has been built and I am positive everything happens for us in the perfect time if we just get out of the way and surrender to the highest possible outcome
Abraham Hicks says “We need the contrast, to know what we don’t want to see what we do want”
Inspired by the book “The Cashflow Quadrant” by Robert Kiyosaki when concerned about dwindling finances from the Brick n Mortar and non from the as yet non established new business mentioned above I sought employment to take care of the day to day expenses and take the pressure off building my new dream in the “B” and “I” quadrants
I’m loving the idea of the Freedom I shall have to build my Empire my way from the vacuum created by no longer having to worry about time bounded orders
I am grateful for the opportunity my first venture gave me and all the learning curves endured and one of the things I learned a long the way was how many people have a dream and a passion and never started because they thought business was an all or nothing game and they had responsibilities and loved ones to financially support so they stop before they start
I learned from one of my very first mentors Marie Forleo who worked 3 part time jobs while building her business you can do both and should in the beginning
And that’s where I am now (virtually) at the beginning of a new exciting era utilising this incredible digital age available to All
I have seen 2022 be a major Transformational year for so many people and many starting a new and moving away from already established careers because they felt no longer aligned to them
What are you no longer aligned to…
What do you truly want to start to build a foundation for while still working for someone building theirs ?
The Secret is to just get started by taking one Inspired Action step after another and you could get that first nudge today, this minute even from reading this post
You don’t need to wait until 2023 to make 2023 amazing
If you have buried your dreams so deep you can’t even remember what they are any more
Even worse, never allowed yourself the time to know what you are truly Passionate about is
I’m here for you and I have tools that can help
First being my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder a simple tool that can help you see what you are most passionate about and show you how you can start to monetise it online
Stop it !! Stop it right now !! Stop expecting perfection !!
Why, why, why do people expect perfection on the first attempt?
So I am not great with reality TV and on screen drama and bitchiness but I saw this program recommended and as it was about luxury property and I love architecture and magnificent property design I decided to check it out
Side note as a child I had a dream to be an architect
I was interested in the business model and guessing by the quick success of the business in it’s short life time I was intrigued thinking there must be a “Blue Ocean” approach going on here
Another side note I am obsessed with business and the “Blue Ocean”
If you are not aware there is a book called “The Blue Ocean strategy” that in a basic explanation is taking an over saturated market and standing out alone because you have a different edge
In the book it describes an ocean where there is a feeding frenzy of sharks making the ocean go red with blood
A metaphor for lots of businesses all trying to get the same clients in the same area
But a business that stands alone in the same industry is out on it’s own in clear water and clients come to them because of their unique edge where the water in still blue
I also felt there maybe a conscious or subconscious intuitive edge going on with the founder who created this Unique successful Real Estate business and I was interested to know
In Ho’Oponopono when we go to Zero. Back to the place where we are free from the negative energies or “Data” we have picked up over the years we are free for Inspired Action to come through and it’s the place where miracles can occur
Also in the #funnelhacker world. Researching someone and there success is called Funnel Hacking and that is what I was doing but ……
In the first couple episodes I was watching this young new Agent starting out. Probably full of nervous anxiety that clouds the thinking potential because we are in fight or flight mode and all the blood runs to our legs and away from our brains, making mistakes and then listening to the woman judging her and sitting in sanctimonious disapproval
Ahh Hello ladies so were you perfect first the first in your career?
Did you walk perfectly on the first attempt?
Did you drive a car perfectly on the first time behind a wheel ?
Ahh Hell no I bet you didn’t !!
So for God sake give the girl a break !!
This scenario has come up quite often recently in the last couple days where I have seen people learning a new skill and the Trainer expecting perfect results first time thus adding unnecessary pressure to the learning process and piling on more fight or flight anxiety and blocking the thinking process
I have also seen someone referring to my frame of reference when Training someone recently
You see I used to be a Company Trainer and I do still train people with my Online Courses. Digital Products and 121
I see now looking back how all the Dots joined together to get me to that place and get me to place I now currently sit in the Training capacity
A place I never saw myself being because I was soooo nervous when placed in a Training capacity but the Universe forced me into a scenario I had no escape from and I am so glad it did
I am also currently reassessing my own current Training as a Advanced Life Coach because it has been a while since going through that process and I am feeling ready to start the NLP course I signed up on and signing up for the Advanced Ho’Oponopono Practitioner course.
I am already a qualified Ho’Oponopono Practitioner but feel ready to Level Up
I am always Transforming and learning and improving my skills but I understand my learning process and that it is incremental and a gradual process as I build new muscle memory
I am looking to a Master a certain business skill that is my own Blue Ocean but I know it won’t happen over night
So what is my point ?
Be kind to yourself ?
Really you maybe thinking, that’s your point?
Yes Really?
As long as we live if we do it right we are always going to be growing and Transforming and learning new skills in some area of our life …
Pause for a minute and think what you are currently going through is there something new you are currently learning?
Have you just started a new job where things feel alien even if you got the job on previous skills but that companies processes are different.
Have you recently become a parent, learning a new hobby or exercise routine, learning to drive etc
Now think of things that you already know how to do like driving a car for example if you are not a driver pick another skill like swimming or riding a bike
I would say walking but most of cannot remember that process
We all wobble at first. Stall, sink a little maybe but gradually it becomes easier and eventually natural and that’s become with have literally built new pathways in our brain for that skill that were not there before
These very sanctimonious seemingly joyless individuals need to remember when they were learning their new skills and be more sympathetic
Speaking of joyless. In their obvious expectation for perfection in others first time round and in themselves they came across to be as very judgmental unhappy individuals who were most possibly aging themselves very rapidly from all their frowning that they were probably paying to avoid showing
They appeared to be very proud of their perfectionism but I feel deep down they weren’t very happy as they put themselves under this inscrutable stress of always doing and being the best
No matter how many beauty treatments we invest on the outside the body always knows on the inside what we are thinking and feeling and if not addressed and listened to will manifest itself in something unpleasant in the long run
After I read the book “The Biology of Belief ” by Bruce Lipton I began to understand the silence damage we are doing to our bodies when we are stressed and unhappy etc and that’s why I am passionate about not being so hard on ourselves. Being kind to our body. Cutting ourselves some slack and kicking perfectionism to the curb
Stop it !! Stop it right now !!
Stop trying to be perfect !!
You are already perfect !!
You were born perfect !!
You are still perfect in whatever shape or form You currently stand
In my Club the Law of Attraction Lovers club I recently added a video about what I learned from Abraham Hicks should be our only core beliefs and I have written them down and created a pinned post for myself in my note app that I use to create all my content and if you want to see that video and all the other video’s currently in the library that is growing all the time simply go over to loalover.club and check it out
I also highly recommend you getting a copy of Bruce’s book in whatever format you prefer. Just simply click on the title here The Biology of Belief to be able to view purchasing options
And for now have a Fabulous day and most of all ….
and I am just going straight to the point because I believe certain people need to hear this
Ok I lied, I’m not sure if you are aware I now have a podcast that is called The Fab Over Forty show so if you prefer listening the same content it’s over on all the usual podcast platforms and starting with the content here, also on YouTube
I have mentioned in previously in various types of content I have created that I have a hard time of breaking out of level 2 and keep reverting back to Level 2 on the 4 levels of Consciousness despite wanting to be more Level 3 and 4
Level 2 is Deliberate creation. By us, usually hard work mode. We can manifest from this level but it is limited or a darn struggle getting there. Forgetting or shutting out the non physical help that is always available
I see this now thanks to the practice of Ho’Oponopono (an ancient Hawaiian art of problem solving) as the intellect trying to rationalising things and talking me out of things and making me feel guilty
That Monkey Mind voice nagging us to do this, not do that, do more, you idiot. You say you want that but you failed to take that action so now you will fail. Blah, blah, blah
I had my light bulb on a plane back from Barcelona then I made my decision I’m about to tell you about while cooking Tea the following evening based on something that happened whilst on that plane that niggled away at me
It just popped in my head
Level 3 or maybe 4 in action which is when we are more in flow state with the Universe or become one with the Universe
A far more pleasurable way to manifest
As I made the decision simultaneously I was listening to Dr Joe Dispenza on YouTube on my TV whilst cooking and Dr Joe said
“we get to a point where we make a decision and that decision is so strong we will always remember where we were and what we were doing”
Wow !!
I could have been shocked but these kinds of synchronicities are common place now
“Yeah I am in my kitchen cooking Tea” as we call it in the part of the UK I am from but more likely Dinner or evening meal elsewhere
I just see them as validation and communication from the Universe
I need to give you a bit of back story before I explain what that decision is and I am writing this because I truly believe it may help at least one other person but looking at today’s society and my own life as an example
Probably more
I had decided I wanted to achieve a certain task before I went to Barcelona however I picked up a voicemail from my Dad whilst taking a break the day before travelling
I know this sounds terrible but my Dad is 90 and I am his next of kin and apart from son I don’t get much support from other family members despite juggling far more than most of them and my heart sank at the sight of the call
Then I felt terrible that my heart sank but
I had it all planned out that I had some me time to carry out this task I wanted to achieve before travelling and I knew this was just an unnecessary act by my Dad to get my attention because I was travelling
My Dad is very Level 1 and I can’t see him changing now
He’s been like it all his life and had a mother that used the same techniques and I see them in another family member and other people and don’t get me wrong, I was there for a long time to and still catch myself going there at times
He subconsciously becomes very poor me when he is feeling insecure and becomes very attention seeking and uses certain methods to get sympathy as his default mechanism
Usually some kind of ailment
Sound familiar?
Do you know anyone who uses illness to manipulate people into getting their own way?
Or some kind of personal disaster to get attention ?
This is level 1 ~ Victim state
And like I said I had been there ….. alot !!
And I now know these default ways of acting are completely subconscious so don’t blame the person or yourself for being this way
Sure enough he claimed he needed one solitary item of shopping that I new farewell he didn’t really need but the loyal daughter I am went well out of my way to get it and I decided before entering his property I would tell him I can’t stay which I don’t normally do but I had already spent more time than usual with him in recent days and I felt on this occasion it was ok and warranted to say this
Which I did however he completely ignored it and started regaling me all these stories of things that could have waited and added an alignment just as I was leaving but when I suggested we make a doctors appointment he declined and usually he has no hesitation in contacting the doctor so I knew it couldn’t be something serious
And he is in amazing shape despite his age and that he made a miraculous recovery from a stroke 2 years ago that I have no doubt was brought on stress he was creating for hisself
I left there a while later I admit annoyed and frustrated because I knew with the time I had remaining my window was very limited to achieve this task if at all
Then my partner came home earlier than expected cutting off all opportunities because I like my own space when doing these kind of tasks and asked if I could go and sort some euros while he attended to business tasks and calls before packing
I decided I would attend to this delayed task immediately on my return from Barcelona as it was totally pointless now
but first get I would get my Dad’s weekly shop out of the way to give me a clear run at it however when I called him for his list he was getting all out of shape about his medication not arriving and I was trying to tell him I had been informed while away there was a national shortage on that item and I had been advised we (I) would have to arrange an alternative but I couldn’t get through his ranting to explain
I was no not in a good head space after that and knew the visit would be stressful when I dropped the groceries off later
My Dad has always allowed and relied on other people to deal with everything for him Ie his mother then my mother and now me
He is capable but always comes up with excuses not to take responsibility and manipulate people, me into doing stuff for him and as a result I have noticed he has very little coping skills and cannot seem to accept that life doesn’t always go smoothly and anything out of the norm he completely melts down and uses anger as a coping mechanism to try to get people to comply with his world view to restore the status quo for him as he sees it and all my efforts to try and make him see that life is never 100% perfect and that’s the way life is falls on deaf ears so quiet often when I arrive he says he’s having a disaster
he also watches all the doom and gloom on the news and despite me telling him multiple times I do not watch the news for this very reason he still continues to discuss and relay it all on to me
After a very long visit of waiting on hold and trying to sort this replacement medication and telling me of another situation that he had got himself all anxious over and passing the reins to me to sort I was emotionally fatigued when I got home but still aimed to complete my task only to find the thing I wanted to apply for had expired
These days it takes a lot to rock my mood to this extent but on this occasion I was seriously annoyed and frustrated to say the least
I had allowed myself to be taken away from what I needed to do
I emphasise the word “I”
and now my desires were suffering as a result and I was angry and then feeling guilty for feeling angry towards him and my other family members for always being the one whose life is effected
I felt that they live their lives and put themselves first and him last while I put him first and me last and I tried to tell myself everything was happening for a reason and maybe I wasn’t supposed to apply for that thing after all and this is the Universes way to stop me but it wasn’t really working
I was still seriously pissed off
and then maybe because I was focusing on another task
Cooking Tea I went back to zero and allowed the space for Inspired Action
In ho’oponopono Zero is the place we connect to our true self unencumbered by outside forces and old negative programming
I realised I was frustrated because in the back of my mind I felt I should be recording some podcasts and write some blog posts and marketing my products and all these curveballs were delaying the process and then ….
I realised
My intellect was creating all these coulda, woulda, should haves
and who sets the rules anyway ?
I am just going to accept what is … is what it is and if I do, I do and if I don’t , no biggy …
Go with the flow
let go and trust
Accept everything is perfect just as it is and everything is happening for a reason
I heard the other day ‘true gratitude is being grateful for things like being cut up in traffic because we don’t truly know what is happening for us and being cut up in traffic could have helped us avoid being in an accident etc
I think what was part of this was that on the plane home from Barcelona my friend mentioned a podcast she was listening to
She had literally been present for the Live stage recording on that actual episode a couple days before we flew out
I was feeling a little board but not feeling like watching my ipad or listening to a book and I thought I wonder if I have any podcasts downloaded to listen to?
I saw one that caught my eye about network marketing
Having a mission to make Network Marketing sexy and non spammy and prove what an amazing serious business opportunity it is if treated like a business and that it should not be the be all and end all of your business but be a facet of the large brand of “You” and compliment your Purpose
I thought I would give it a go but I was confused
I listened to an episode and this person was in full on topic mode and obviously had a bit of previous experience with her podcast and felt comfortable with it and talked about up and coming episodes and sounded committed to longevity when something happened
The episode ended and then there was a massive jump date wise to the next episode
What had I done
Had I made a mistake
I searched for episodes in between but there were none
Then I started to listen to the next episode and it was all about why there was a massive gap
They had obviously intended to continue to record future episodes but then something happened and they made the decision to stop
They looked at their life at the time of their last episode and they had a lot on and something had to give and they chose the podcast
No guilt, just the explanation of why they just stopped recording
They just thought it was for the best at that time and now they were ready to come back
This struck me for some reason. Probably because now I was in the position of wanting to record and then curveballs keep flying at me and the podcast flies out the window I and I was feeling like a failure
I’d promised myself and listeners I wouldn’t quit
Inspired by this persons decision to drop off for just over a year made me decide
I will not care anymore
If it gets recorded and then I don’t record for another 3 months 6 etc
No big deal
My content is going to be evergreen anyway, meaning unlike some social media content once I have created it, it is out there forever and that’s always been my intention for my main area of focus
Evergreen content. Things like Podcasts, YouTube videos and blog posts
I will let go and trust that whatever is right for the moment will get done and what doesn’t get done was not meant to be or will get done at the perfect time
I have to tell you after making this decision and giving myself the permission to let myself off as it were was liberating
The intellect, the Monkey Mind. Level 2 thinking was making me feel bad for missing weeks and sometimes months despite having the full intention to create but the Level 3, in state. Zero level everything just is. It is always perfect just as it is whatever “Is” looks like
So why I am telling you dear listener
Because I feel in today’s society life is full of shoulda, woulda, couldas
We should do this
do that
be this be that
but that is our intellect talking
In reality nobody is keeping track if we do this or do that
Nobody is keeping track of how many blog posts or podcasts I am recording or social media posts I am putting out and the length of duration in-between each piece of content
Nobody but me …
and I can only imagine nobody is really tracking what you are telling yourself you should be doing or not doing apart from you and we are all putting ourselves under unnecessary pressure
In Ho’Oponopono speak, in reality everything is perfect, we are perfect everything else is just data taking us away from Zero
I recently heard a Abraham Hicks YouTube video about Core beliefs and I wrote them down to review often and recorded a video for the Law of Attraction Lovers club that states what all those Core beliefs are but I’ll share on of them with you now
Abraham said In truth
“We are all perfect beyond description and anything away from this is a flawed premise”
I have had a little conflict with myself and The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono recently in certain areas however I feel more and more there is a definite significance between Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono and trusting what Zero is and the Core beliefs as stated by Abraham there is complete correlation
If you want to know what those core beliefs are and what I believe Zero is I have recently added these topics to the Law of Attraction Lovers Club and you can check it all out plus more nuggets by visiting loalover.club
I hope by recording this episode you to may be kinder to yourself and stop setting yourself up for failure with to many shouda, woulda couldas and accept everything is perfect and everything is for our Highest good and what should be done will get done in the perfect time in the perfect way
I’m going to leave it there but don’t forget to check out that link I mentioned for the Law of Attraction Lovers club and if you haven’t already grab my free gift to you to help you start waking up Happy with my 5 Step Framework Morning Routine at mywakeuphappy.com
And for now Fabulous reader, know that I love you and want you to be happy doing what you love and loving what you do and until next time have a Fabulous day week month year
I’m passionate about helping others using or finding their Passions to unlock a future of Freedom by using my skills and expertise to hone in on what makes individuals tick and then taking the pressures off of setting that up into an Online Business
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Every-time we grow we interact with the new and unknown and it can FEEL scary
Don’t be scared
It’s just a sign
A sign we have encountered a new edge
But remember my love …
We are infinite beings with unlimited potential
Once we couldn’t walk talk ride a bike, drive a car, navigate a smartphone
These are just a few finite examples of the things we learned that were once an edge but if our intention is powerful enough our desires true and Passions full we can learn new skills and break through those edges and be inspired to expand passed the next and the next and the next and create a life of Freedom and Joy on our Terms
Listen to Your Heart ❤️ everything you need to know is inside You
The things you are jealous about are the Desires The Divine or Universe (enter any preferred choice of word) put in your heart
A pang of jealousy is a signal you don’t have those desires in your life
Your desires are not wrong. See Jealousy as your friend reminding you what you really love
I heard it stated recently that your desires were given to you by God. God wants you to have whatever you desire
For some people the “G” word can muster up some uncomfortable feelings but for me it has nothing to do with organised religion. To me it stands for Good~ Orderly~Design. What I see this Universe as. With this in mind just read that again
“Your desires were given to you by God. God wants you to have whatever you desire”
How does it make you feel now about your desires, however big, if you can imagine an ever loving Higher Power wanting to give you everything and anything you desire
Now does it feel so crappy and wrong to want the things the other people have?
If “they” have them why not you?
Make a list of anything you are jealous about and then Visualise yourself having those things
Be it a smoking new sexy designer skirt, the latest Macbook or a Bad Ass Big MoFoFing boat
When people around me blurt out subconscious half glass empty statements to protect my energy I say “careful, we bring about what we think about”
Recently I analysed that statement more when I thought about some things that had happened in my life and while that statement seems frivolously quick to say whatever we focus on we give power too and attract it back into our lives
The thought that I am giving power to whatever I am thinking about and giving it the potential to turn up in my life makes my thoughts far more important and not frivolous at all
It makes me want to monitor them and utilise them
So instead of giving power to the lack of a big ass boat (fill in your desire) and feeling jealous about everyone who has one and being in the energetic state of attracting “No” BIG ASS BOAT
Yes we can create a lack of something just as easily as having something
So imagine being on that Big Ass boat and drink in all those details
Being greeted with a Big smile at the deck by “Your” personal Big Ass Boat crew and Captain with a glass of Pink Champagne
Taking off your very expensive shoes probably with red bottoms and feeling the deck under your feet
Walking to your Luxury Master Suite and finding all your luggage already put away for you and a beautiful bathing suite, flopping hat and gorgeous kemono laid on the bed ready for you to change into so you can relax on a lounger at the front of the Big Ass Boat as you set sail to somewhere exotic with, of course more Champagne
Now you have switched on the Big Ass Boat Attractor Power or Anything You Want Attractor Power
Now go be Fabulous xoxo
Alison K Parsons serving others (and myself) to turn one negative belief at a time into a new more positive empowering way to look at the world
Wow, wow, wow !! What is happening in the world right now?
Should I be surprised?
I know everything is energy so why am I surprised?
One of the most important pieces of information I received in my life is by the late Bob Proctor and that piece of information was “Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income”
Just after I attracted my first income stream after creating a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card the Universe presented me with another opportunity and seeing this as multiple streams of income “no accident” I expressed and interest.
Wait for the eye roll 🙄
That Opportunity was a Network Marketing Opportunity however when it was first presented to me I had no idea it was a Network Marketing Opportunity and I had no idea that this kind of Opportunity had a negative connotation to it so the beauty of this was I went in with fresh open minded eyes and I found a wonderful Community of like minded people.
However gradually over time I found …
There were parts of the industry that didn’t resonate to me but because it was and still is, even more so now such an incredible industry to be in with literally the “Opportunities” it allows people for Personal Freedom to allow anyone and everyone to create an income whilst spending time with their children, not missing a sports day or birthday etc or partners can build together and earn while they travel etc but knowing of the True value from it but it’s tendency to draw a negative reputation I had a vision …
I had this version a while ago so much so I bought a specific domain name for it and this Vision was in part, a different way to build Personal Branded Passion Based Businesses with multiple location free assets with the Network Marketing Opportunity built in integrally but the real Attractor Factor is the Person being the brand and Their Passion and enthusiasm for a certain topic and if people decide to buy the products or join the Opportunity that’s Their prerogative if they see the benefit in it or not, whatever the choice maybe
There is more to it than this and My Vision that I, as yet I have really not seen implemented elsewhere but what I have seen as late is a table turning of some of the people that I follow who I resonate to but at the same time that who adopt through no fault of their own, some elements of the industry my gut just doesn’t sit right with and is out of alignment with my personal preference and why I wanted to work in a different way.
Don’t get me wrong. It is NOT illegal because let’s just get it out on the table here. Network Marketing is not illegal and some of the big Household name Companies are Network Marketing Opportunities and people don’t even realise it and some of the Biggest Household Personal Development names actively endorse Network Marketing as an amazing low point of entry way to start a business but some of the methods people adopt are methods I call “The Hit Em Up Method” and MY Vision was and is different.
I have been building infrastructures and various digital assets to help people identify Their Passions and see how they can monetize Them for several months if not longer but I haven’t as yet completed the full picture of how to move forward on my own Personal Area under the domain name I mentioned earlier.
That’s not to say I won’t because I have already created so much when at first I only had an idea but ‘no idea how’ and I have seen so many synchronicities happening to evidence to me it will manifest and these digital assets are already out there and can be purchased right now and people can already join my Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” but I haven’t at present found, for me the perfect umbrella how to market it all under that domain name that I purchased but what I have found at present is certain people seem to be moving in the same energetic thought process that the “Hit Em Up Method” may not be the way forward any more but instead of being frustrated that I have had this idea for such a long time and kept it to myself in “Faith” that it will manifest in perfect Divine Timing and these people who appear to being having a paradigm shift, because they are more in the public with a larger following and it may seem they moved their first. The Energetic Transformation excites me as a species.
When Edwin C. Barnes as discussed in Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich first had the burning desire to become business partners with Thomas Edison he was in no position to implement it but he was not willing to compromise on his vision and he was not discouraged about the potential amount of time it may take to fulfil his desire.
Seeing the change of outlook in these people and I am sure more will follow fills me with even more Passion for MY Vision. This evidences to me that this energy soup we are all part of is evolving.
Talking of evolving …
What ideas have you NOT acted on because You could not see how it could possibly manifest or it seemed so far out of reach in time, space and reality?
I tell You now. You don’t need to know how. The fact that you had the Inspired Idea is enough to know it is possible and if You act on Any inspired action step that seemingly “Just Pop’s in Your Head” I am convinced the ways and the means will follow but first
You have to start !!!!
How do I know …
A couple years ago (or more, I’m not counting but I knew I was in LoveDucks) I had this Vision of a totally location free automated way of doing business and Network Marketing in a non spammy authentic way with an added twist but when I expressed My Full Vision to some people they weren’t getting my ideas and giving ideas of their own that didn’t align with mine and weren’t able to help me in the way I thought they would and I admit I ‘was’ a little frustrating but it is ok because I heard an amazing quote since that said
“it is ok that other people don’t understand what you are doing because the vision was given to You and not them”.
I heard Bob Proctor make that Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income Quote Years ago when I hadn’t even made one income stream apart from my salaried job and had no idea how but …
Since then, when I wasn’t trying to force it synchronicity after synchronicity have lined up showing me how and a year ago I didn’t know how to create a sales funnel or a Lead magnet or Landing page and at first it took me months to learn these new skills but now I could do it in minutes and I have gone on to learn even more skills like how to start a Podcast, build a subscription platform, Membership sites including an exclusive one for the “Freedom Empire Builders” and though I am still building some of these assets and My own Freedom Empire, now I can teach others how to build Theirs in Their own unique way and style.
People talk alot about branding but I believe we are Our brand and everything else, colours logos etc are just gravy. People buy People not a perfectly executed Logo design.
When Frank W. Abagnale of “Catch Me if You Can” fame was asked how he managed to teach a class of University Students for a whole semester when in fact he was meant to be a student himself before getting caught his answer was “Simple. I just stayed one chapter ahead” he took the book set out for the curriculum home and simply read one chapter ahead of the rest of the class and taught it back to them. My point being.
There is something “We Are ALL” Passionate about and because of it we are just one chapter ahead of someone else also Passionate about that subject and we can teach it back to them and they would be willing to pay us for our knowledge to fast track them ahead on their own journey doing what they love and loving what they do and why shouldn’t we be financially rewarded for the skills and expertise we have. We do it everyday ourselves to people like trades people that fix our boilers, repair our cars etc and when we find a really good one we hang on to them like goldust and even more. We recommend them to friends and family because we care about them and we want them to have, like us. Excellent service too. PS: This is just Network Marketing.
It’s time to know Your Worth and dust off those Dreams and Ideas and just take one tiny Inspired Action step and trust the Universe will Conspire to Make it Happen.
When we want to fly from London to New York or even travel from London to York we don’t need to see York first before we leave home. These days we trust our navigation systems to lead the way and the same is with Us. We are all built with our own Internal Navigation system ….
Our Intuition and that’s why my Vision is to be the “Intuitive Networking Coach” and Teach people how to do Network Marketing and Business a new way Using Transrational Techniques and move away from the cookie cutter DMO (Daily Method of Operating) and build our businesses from as Dr Hew Len would call it from a Ho’oponopono perspective ~ Zero.
If Your Intuition is crying out to know more about what all this is about? Do not hesitate to contact me
The easiest way to contact me is by grabbing my free gift at mywakeuphappy.com where you can get my Life Changing Morning Routine and join my email list (feel free to unsubscribe at any time) and just email me telling me you are interested in learning more about Intuitive Networking and starting Your own Passion Based Business or otherwise think that is a pfaff and want to know more asap just email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com
I look forward to learning about Your Own Freedom Empire Building ideas 💡 and hopefully helping You on Your Journey.
When I followed “Inspired Action” to get up a few minutes earlier every day and “write” 3 things “I Am” Grateful for every morning I couldn’t have anticipated the impact that small action would have on me.
Inspired by the now late Legend Bob Proctor I would write “I Am so Happy and Grateful now that” followed by the things I was grateful for They weren’t complicated. Just like having a warm bed, a roof over my head and hot and cold running water and in these turbulent times when so many have lost that luxury, now more than ever there is a need to be Grateful for these small everyday basics we can take for granted.
Gradually as my life started to improve and I continued my practice I started to notice I no longer needed to write them down. I started to think them automatically as I became aware I was waking.
That’s why I am so passionate about the study of neuroplasticity and our ability to reshape our thinking habits into more proactive positive habits regardless of age.
Since Studying and qualifying to be a Ho’OPonoPono Practitioner towards the end of 2021 on top of my other certifications of Advanced Life Coach and Law of Attraction Practitioner I have now replaced my simple habit with the Ho’OPonoPono Prayer and repeat it mentally at any opportunity.
I dedicated my recent book “The Law of Attraction and beyond with Ho’OPonoPono ~ To Beat the Bullies” to the Ho’OPonoPono Master Dr Hew Len and Bob Proctor who are both featured in the book and both passed while completing it.
You’ll notice the Ho’OPonoPono Prayer actually features the simple practice of Gratitude by saying “Thank You” and it’s why my 5 Step Framework The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ Starts with “G” for Gratitude because I have no doubt that simply starting your day with Gratitude has life changing properties and best of all it easy, simple quick to do and costs nothing and you can start today.
You could start by saving the Ho’OPonoPono Prayer above. Start to learn it off by heart and mentally say it as you go about your day and nobody even needs to know you are doing it but I guarantee they start to notice a difference in you.
A comment that was made to Me yesterday actually instigated this post because someone said “You can’t help yourself. You can’t help look for the positive” and this is about someone who was the most negative (poor me person) ever and I admit I did fall out of alignment towards the end of last year through fear and attachment to a specific outcome but It seems inevitable now as I look at recent months due to the changes in my neural programming I had to find my way back into alignment.
In my book I wrote a quote by Bob Proctor and this was before his passing that Bob stated “Everything that is happening to you is happening to bring you closer to your goals and desires”.
Also in recent months I have become more and more aware certain Successful People had so it seems, more than their fair share of trials and tribulations and like I talked about in a recent blog post reality sometimes doesn’t look like on the tin the life they desire and advocate but they seem to share one attribute “Persistence”.
When it all looks like it is going to sxxt if we could reassure ourselves that everything that is happening is happening to bring ourselves to our desired outcomes and resist attachment to a specific outcome I feel confident it does definitely work out in our favour.
At the beginning of the year I saw my error of focusing on a certain expectation and becoming attached to a certain outcome and therefore cutting off all other opportunities I decided to following my intuition to realign to the practice of letting go and the art of allowing and this week an Intention I first had in 2020 manifested.
I see now that everything was definitely working out for me but because I was fixated on a specific outcome instead of seeing the gift in it all I allowed myself to become overwhelmed with fear and doubt proving I Am still a work in progress but thanks to the tools I have learned over previous years due to my obsession with The Law of Attraction and Personal Development.
Despite my book being about using The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono to overcome bullying the tools in the book can be applied to all sorts of situations and all sorts of people. Including the author and you can grab a copy on Amazon
My Morning Routine of Gratitude turned into a 5 Step Framework and I have created a tool at absolutely no cost because I want it to help as many people as Possible Wake Up Happy so if you would like to grab a copy please do not hesitate to go on over to mywakeuphappy.com
Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us
It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey
What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently
Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support
I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools
I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them
I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender
I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol
What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above
Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time
I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key
Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me
I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)
This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)
When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action
While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb
I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it
(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)
Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment
Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging
Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come
The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)
But this time I felt assured
I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day
I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic I say unusually …..
It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously
I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask
I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all
Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”
Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock
But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing
In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business
Every night several things come to bed with me …
A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.
I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons
It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up
But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….
Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?
When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”
Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”
I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”
I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.
All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential
What’s my point to all this ?
When I tuned into my body the penny dropped
There was my answer to my financial questions
I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …
It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show
I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives
I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment
The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money
You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously
I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools
Thankfully using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago
Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise
I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”
As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor
“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”
That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift
Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts. If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …
And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled … Of course the international day of Love 💕
I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all
I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍
Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look
Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo
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