How I Went From Chasing to Attracting (and Found My Purpose)
I used to think that owning a brick-and-mortar business meant I had “made it.” On the outside, it looked successful. But the truth? ✨ Longer hours. ✨ Less money. ✨ No freedom.
I was constantly chasing clients, chasing time, chasing money… and the more I chased, the further it all seemed to run.
The Law of Attraction teaches us that what we focus on expands. And all my focus was on stress, lack, and overwhelm. So guess what? That’s exactly what I got.
But here’s the magical part ✨—even while I was drowning in “busy,” women kept showing up in my life asking me for advice on building businesses. At first, I saw it as a distraction. But the Universe had other plans.
One day, after helping a complete stranger with her Facebook page (for free, all day 🤦🏻♀️), I realised something huge: 👉 I actually loved helping women with this more than anything else I was doing.
The Universe was whispering: This is it. This is your path. Follow the energy.
And when I finally leaned into that passion instead of resisting it, everything shifted. I stopped forcing. I stopped chasing. I started attracting.
Because here’s the truth: when you align with what lights you up, you become magnetic. Opportunities, people, ideas, and success all start to flow toward you instead of you running yourself ragged trying to grab them.
Now, my purpose is clear: to inspire women over 40 to align with their passions and create online businesses they love. Because when you wake up excited about what you’re doing, the Law of Attraction works for you in ways you can’t even imagine.
💜 If this resonates, the Universe may be nudging you too. That’s why I created a FREE course to help you attract and build a business and brand you love—without the hustle, overwhelm, or excuses.
✨ The Law of Attraction says you can’t receive what you don’t believe is possible. So here’s your chance to believe bigger.
There have been some very long days this week as I attempt to finish the majority of the Christmas orders and honestly frustration as many took longer than expected
But there have also been positives as decisions have been made that sooth my soul
With the full backing of my partner as he see’s so much time I invest for little recompense I am letting LoveDucks go in 2023
Fulfilling a life long dream to be an entrepreneur was amazing but the reality of a time bound business has been an eye opener
But it’s all good …
Having a brick n mortar business open 6 days a week and cutting your income stream off as you close the door with little down time because you added the element of social media or knowing you have to return to fulfil orders when you do get time away let me to decide how I would like a future business to be
Online, digital and location free. A business than can be run from anywhere or regardless of what else I decide to do using evergreen types of methods and platforms
The landscape of physical businesses has changed with Covid but …
To be honest I had the idea and I have been building this assets for a while but have never been able to invest the time I have wanted to give them due to what I mentioned above
But much like my Favourite building featured. A strong foundation has been built and I am positive everything happens for us in the perfect time if we just get out of the way and surrender to the highest possible outcome
Abraham Hicks says “We need the contrast, to know what we don’t want to see what we do want”
Inspired by the book “The Cashflow Quadrant” by Robert Kiyosaki when concerned about dwindling finances from the Brick n Mortar and non from the as yet non established new business mentioned above I sought employment to take care of the day to day expenses and take the pressure off building my new dream in the “B” and “I” quadrants
I’m loving the idea of the Freedom I shall have to build my Empire my way from the vacuum created by no longer having to worry about time bounded orders
I am grateful for the opportunity my first venture gave me and all the learning curves endured and one of the things I learned a long the way was how many people have a dream and a passion and never started because they thought business was an all or nothing game and they had responsibilities and loved ones to financially support so they stop before they start
I learned from one of my very first mentors Marie Forleo who worked 3 part time jobs while building her business you can do both and should in the beginning
And that’s where I am now (virtually) at the beginning of a new exciting era utilising this incredible digital age available to All
I have seen 2022 be a major Transformational year for so many people and many starting a new and moving away from already established careers because they felt no longer aligned to them
What are you no longer aligned to…
What do you truly want to start to build a foundation for while still working for someone building theirs ?
The Secret is to just get started by taking one Inspired Action step after another and you could get that first nudge today, this minute even from reading this post
You don’t need to wait until 2023 to make 2023 amazing
If you have buried your dreams so deep you can’t even remember what they are any more
Even worse, never allowed yourself the time to know what you are truly Passionate about is
I’m here for you and I have tools that can help
First being my Fabulous Freedom Passion Finder a simple tool that can help you see what you are most passionate about and show you how you can start to monetise it online
I’m passionate about helping others using or finding their Passions to unlock a future of Freedom by using my skills and expertise to hone in on what makes individuals tick and then taking the pressures off of setting that up into an Online Business
Today I am Launching My “Passion Based Business Building Funnel Bundle”
This is my first High Ticket “Done For You” Offer but today I am offering it at a ridiculously low ticket cost
I have several levels starting at 999 and upwards Inspired by When I saw The Angel Number 999
I don’t want to go into all the in’s and out and details of all the levels here but here are some of the elements
🤩 A Dig into Your True Passion 121 Zoom then using my 5 Step Framework to plan out your own unique offer
🤩 I create your Lead Magnet based on the results of the above
🤩 I create your Paid Offer
🤩 Set up payment gateway
🤩 Write Sales Copy for email campaign and Create the automated Campaign for you
🤩 I Create and Build your own Unique Sales Funnel and the copy (words) for it
🤩 And then Share the Funnel to You all pre-built
And so much, much more !!
Wait before you think Yeah, yeah I have read about these services before !!
There are nearly 8 Billion people on the Planet as I type and none of us are cookies so cookie cutter business plans won’t work for Creative Entrepreneurs because they don’t go deep into our own unique gifts and talents and only we can share our unique individual message in our own Perfect way in our own perfect time, not via planned out soulless content calendars etc
“Everyone has the seed of greatness sown in them, the problem for most people is no one watered it” ~ Myron Golden
I believe in “Intuitive Marketing” and I am here to water “Your” own special Individual unique seed of greatness 👑
I am a Proponent of The Law of Attraction and Ho’Oponopono and I am here to say now is the time to do Business Differently and now like no other time in History has it ever been easier to share our own Unique Skills and Talents with the world
Don’t Wait. Don’t Hesitate. Don’t do the World a Disservice of not sharing Your Seed of Greatness
If this sounds like something you are interested in drop an email @ alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com or if you want to see some of my work in action click on MY Bio while there don’t forget to click on the Freedom Making Morning Routine to join my email list and get a free gift at the same time
And ……
For 5 lucky people I am giving the Highest Level content plan at 999 instead of the 5555 but you’ll have to be fast 💨 this is a one time offer to only 5 people !!!!!
Wow, wow, wow !! What is happening in the world right now?
Should I be surprised?
I know everything is energy so why am I surprised?
One of the most important pieces of information I received in my life is by the late Bob Proctor and that piece of information was “Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income”
Just after I attracted my first income stream after creating a Bob Proctor inspired Goal Card the Universe presented me with another opportunity and seeing this as multiple streams of income “no accident” I expressed and interest.
Wait for the eye roll 🙄
That Opportunity was a Network Marketing Opportunity however when it was first presented to me I had no idea it was a Network Marketing Opportunity and I had no idea that this kind of Opportunity had a negative connotation to it so the beauty of this was I went in with fresh open minded eyes and I found a wonderful Community of like minded people.
However gradually over time I found …
There were parts of the industry that didn’t resonate to me but because it was and still is, even more so now such an incredible industry to be in with literally the “Opportunities” it allows people for Personal Freedom to allow anyone and everyone to create an income whilst spending time with their children, not missing a sports day or birthday etc or partners can build together and earn while they travel etc but knowing of the True value from it but it’s tendency to draw a negative reputation I had a vision …
I had this version a while ago so much so I bought a specific domain name for it and this Vision was in part, a different way to build Personal Branded Passion Based Businesses with multiple location free assets with the Network Marketing Opportunity built in integrally but the real Attractor Factor is the Person being the brand and Their Passion and enthusiasm for a certain topic and if people decide to buy the products or join the Opportunity that’s Their prerogative if they see the benefit in it or not, whatever the choice maybe
There is more to it than this and My Vision that I, as yet I have really not seen implemented elsewhere but what I have seen as late is a table turning of some of the people that I follow who I resonate to but at the same time that who adopt through no fault of their own, some elements of the industry my gut just doesn’t sit right with and is out of alignment with my personal preference and why I wanted to work in a different way.
Don’t get me wrong. It is NOT illegal because let’s just get it out on the table here. Network Marketing is not illegal and some of the big Household name Companies are Network Marketing Opportunities and people don’t even realise it and some of the Biggest Household Personal Development names actively endorse Network Marketing as an amazing low point of entry way to start a business but some of the methods people adopt are methods I call “The Hit Em Up Method” and MY Vision was and is different.
I have been building infrastructures and various digital assets to help people identify Their Passions and see how they can monetize Them for several months if not longer but I haven’t as yet completed the full picture of how to move forward on my own Personal Area under the domain name I mentioned earlier.
That’s not to say I won’t because I have already created so much when at first I only had an idea but ‘no idea how’ and I have seen so many synchronicities happening to evidence to me it will manifest and these digital assets are already out there and can be purchased right now and people can already join my Team “The Freedom Empire Builders” but I haven’t at present found, for me the perfect umbrella how to market it all under that domain name that I purchased but what I have found at present is certain people seem to be moving in the same energetic thought process that the “Hit Em Up Method” may not be the way forward any more but instead of being frustrated that I have had this idea for such a long time and kept it to myself in “Faith” that it will manifest in perfect Divine Timing and these people who appear to being having a paradigm shift, because they are more in the public with a larger following and it may seem they moved their first. The Energetic Transformation excites me as a species.
When Edwin C. Barnes as discussed in Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich first had the burning desire to become business partners with Thomas Edison he was in no position to implement it but he was not willing to compromise on his vision and he was not discouraged about the potential amount of time it may take to fulfil his desire.
Seeing the change of outlook in these people and I am sure more will follow fills me with even more Passion for MY Vision. This evidences to me that this energy soup we are all part of is evolving.
Talking of evolving …
What ideas have you NOT acted on because You could not see how it could possibly manifest or it seemed so far out of reach in time, space and reality?
I tell You now. You don’t need to know how. The fact that you had the Inspired Idea is enough to know it is possible and if You act on Any inspired action step that seemingly “Just Pop’s in Your Head” I am convinced the ways and the means will follow but first
You have to start !!!!
How do I know …
A couple years ago (or more, I’m not counting but I knew I was in LoveDucks) I had this Vision of a totally location free automated way of doing business and Network Marketing in a non spammy authentic way with an added twist but when I expressed My Full Vision to some people they weren’t getting my ideas and giving ideas of their own that didn’t align with mine and weren’t able to help me in the way I thought they would and I admit I ‘was’ a little frustrating but it is ok because I heard an amazing quote since that said
“it is ok that other people don’t understand what you are doing because the vision was given to You and not them”.
I heard Bob Proctor make that Successful People have Multiple Streams of Income Quote Years ago when I hadn’t even made one income stream apart from my salaried job and had no idea how but …
Since then, when I wasn’t trying to force it synchronicity after synchronicity have lined up showing me how and a year ago I didn’t know how to create a sales funnel or a Lead magnet or Landing page and at first it took me months to learn these new skills but now I could do it in minutes and I have gone on to learn even more skills like how to start a Podcast, build a subscription platform, Membership sites including an exclusive one for the “Freedom Empire Builders” and though I am still building some of these assets and My own Freedom Empire, now I can teach others how to build Theirs in Their own unique way and style.
People talk alot about branding but I believe we are Our brand and everything else, colours logos etc are just gravy. People buy People not a perfectly executed Logo design.
When Frank W. Abagnale of “Catch Me if You Can” fame was asked how he managed to teach a class of University Students for a whole semester when in fact he was meant to be a student himself before getting caught his answer was “Simple. I just stayed one chapter ahead” he took the book set out for the curriculum home and simply read one chapter ahead of the rest of the class and taught it back to them. My point being.
There is something “We Are ALL” Passionate about and because of it we are just one chapter ahead of someone else also Passionate about that subject and we can teach it back to them and they would be willing to pay us for our knowledge to fast track them ahead on their own journey doing what they love and loving what they do and why shouldn’t we be financially rewarded for the skills and expertise we have. We do it everyday ourselves to people like trades people that fix our boilers, repair our cars etc and when we find a really good one we hang on to them like goldust and even more. We recommend them to friends and family because we care about them and we want them to have, like us. Excellent service too. PS: This is just Network Marketing.
It’s time to know Your Worth and dust off those Dreams and Ideas and just take one tiny Inspired Action step and trust the Universe will Conspire to Make it Happen.
When we want to fly from London to New York or even travel from London to York we don’t need to see York first before we leave home. These days we trust our navigation systems to lead the way and the same is with Us. We are all built with our own Internal Navigation system ….
Our Intuition and that’s why my Vision is to be the “Intuitive Networking Coach” and Teach people how to do Network Marketing and Business a new way Using Transrational Techniques and move away from the cookie cutter DMO (Daily Method of Operating) and build our businesses from as Dr Hew Len would call it from a Ho’oponopono perspective ~ Zero.
If Your Intuition is crying out to know more about what all this is about? Do not hesitate to contact me
The easiest way to contact me is by grabbing my free gift at mywakeuphappy.com where you can get my Life Changing Morning Routine and join my email list (feel free to unsubscribe at any time) and just email me telling me you are interested in learning more about Intuitive Networking and starting Your own Passion Based Business or otherwise think that is a pfaff and want to know more asap just email me at alisonkparsons@lawofattractionlover.com
I look forward to learning about Your Own Freedom Empire Building ideas 💡 and hopefully helping You on Your Journey.
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