In this episode I explain why pooh motivates me to see what I don’t want so I can know what I do want and how contrast is natural and it is also good for us to focus our Intentions 

A year previously from recording this episode I was just dealing with my shop being vandalised and I was taking a Training by Russell Brunson called One Funnel Away Challenge and during that Training and with everything else going on I had an epiphany 

Despite going into OFA to learn how to build a Funnel for my Brick n Mortar business and to promote an Online Course I was building based around The Law of Attraction I suddenly saw how Funnels could be used for Direct Selling, Network Marketing product based businesses without the Spammy “Hit Um Up” method as I call it of trying to persuade Friends and Family to join your opportunity or adding complete strangers on social media in the hope they will join or buy from you 

I had come across a lovely lady while being a student of Marie Forleo’s B-School who had a stand alone business and brand of products and services and built her Network Marketing Opportunity products integrally into the fabric of her business who introduced me to the book The Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and from that moment on I was sold on how this type of business would be perfect to build a business in the “B” side of the Quadrant as Robert calls it and create recurring income and location freedom 

Only one issue. I had been in a product based Network Marketing Opportunity when the Universe presented me with one and following the remit from Bob Proctor that successful people have multiple streams of income when I was opening my Brick n Mortar business but because I was always trading time for money in my Brick n Mortar and I was encouraged to do “The Hit Em Up Method” which I felt very uncomfortable about and never seemed to get much time to get rejected again and again I gave up 

As if validation of my observation there was some bonuses Trainings and I am the type of Gal who hates to think she is missing out on vital information and unbeknown to me within minutes of having my epiphany I was watching a Training of how to use Funnels for Direct Selling Network Marketing Company however the Trainer said before you run off to recruit yourself make sure an Opportunity has these things!

So I downed the duck I was working on and grabbed my Journal and took down the notes he was suggesting. I won’t go into today, what happened next because that is just to Miracles to say in brief here but because I set an intention the perfect Opportunity found me but at that point in time I also wrote a list of other things I wanted to achieve and I used the circumstances I currently did have that were less pleasurable as the contrast for knowing what I intended to manifest and the not so pleasant, cold, dirty, badly maintained shared toilet for the shop owners is one of the them and feeling vulnerable to vandalism.

Initially when I made my contrast list I focused on taking one of the products in the range based around weight loss and building a funnel for that and perceived myself not facing another Crappy Christmas however I have had many obstacles that became detours in the right direction in 2021 and fuelled by my own experiences of having a physical time bound business where you are trading time for money and my passion for Digital Assets, Online location Free Multiple Income Streams and my love of the book The Cashflow Quadrant and the “B” & “I” sectors I am predominantly Coaching people in this area and my Funnels are actually based around this and how to turn Passions into Online Incomes despite still having my Brick n Mortar myself.

I am have surrendered to the outcome and am Trusting the Universe has a far better plan for Me than I could ever envisaged for myself and is usually the case however last Christmas did certainly make me reevaluate my business practices and only do the types of bespoke orders I enjoy and not do the types that were not bringing me pleasure and because of that I have had the most pleasurable, stress free Christmas season and the Youths ….. they disappeared !!

Maybe they only presented themselves as the Universe needed to knock me over the head with an unpleasant experience to make me stop and take stock and use the uncomfortable situations and the contrast as a springboard to my next level on Transformation and to this day I am eternally Grateful for all these experiences

In this year I have started my Brand Fabulous Freedom over Forty and I now have this podcast The Fab Over Forty Show, I restarted my blog The Law of Attraction Lover, I have created The Law of Attraction Lovers Club I have created some Digital Assets and Funnels like fabulousfreeom.live and I am building a community called The Freedom Empire Builders helping people create Their own location Freedom Passion based Businesses.

I am sure there is still some things I have left off And thanks to my Health & Wellness Business an unexpected bi-product finally finding something that helps keep things moving in the right direction … if you know what I am mean 😜

If this product sounds like something that may interest you please don’t hesitate to check it out here or if what I said about getting it wholesale as well as every other product in the range instead of paying retail check out The Freedom Empire Builders

Hopefully this podcast has encouraged you to sit down. Take a good long look at what is not working for you right now how you would like and use it as a contrast list and write on one side all the things you don’t want and then on the right hand side write down what the best case Scenario “opposite” of this situation would be and then look at that list often

Or even create a card called “What’s the alternative” and write down inside the things do don’t like and use these as fuel to keep moving towards you best Desired Outcome

Love and blessings 🙏

Ali #theloalover
xoxo