The secret of not being judged



“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there is still going to be somebody who hates peaches”

Dita Von Teese

I’m a little bit older and a lot more bolder. I have had so many things manifest for me since really getting the ‘Law of Attraction’ light bulb finally switch on and I am very grateful for each and everyone one of them but recently I have been thinking ‘right enough is enough’ to myself. Stop pussy footing around.

I know deep down what my ideal life and day would look like and on one level I know it’s done ‘Ask and it is Given’ and on the other hand knowing can turn into hoping and hope is a lack of Faith.

I have read several times by several different authors so I am not going to give recognition to one and not another when I am not 100% of its origin but I heard it is just as easy to manifest a million dollars as it is to manifest a penny but the trouble is we don’t put so much importance on a penny as we do a million dollars and we think manifesting a million dollars is hard so we put more weight and doubt on the probability that we do on a penny and then the penny pops up.

This weekend I planned to take my daughter out to lunch and briefly I imagined where I would take her and where we would sit. In reality I wasn’t expecting the normally quieter lunch spot to be filled with Christmas shoppers which was a curve ball. No matter, we queued quietly and awaited our turn to be called by the Maitre d’.

Just prior to his arrival he escorted the previous group to some high bar stools at a shared high bar. Not what I envisioned and I then remembered by original vision and saw ourselves seated at my table of choice. The Maitre d’ came over and escorted us in the direction of the desired table and then ……. did a body swerve to a less favourable table. ‘That was not in my plan’ I said to myself and my look snapped to my planned area where I spotted a waitress clearing and cleaning the table. “Excuse me. Could we sit there instead?”

“Yes of course Madam”.

Maybe not exactly as planned but isn’t that the way with most things in life? We may need to accept we may have to take a few detours but if we stay confident and don’t give up (Never Give Up) we will get to our destination.

Right that was easy, a few second subconscious vision manifested. Is it really that simple?

After dropping my daughter home I had the prospect of a hungry partner waiting for me. Hungry enough that patients had flown out of the window so takeaway it was then. What has this got to do with a box of frogs? The venue he had chosen has rubbish parking and is always extra busy on a Saturday evening. I also needed to pick up some milk at a convenience store two doors away and in the mist of storm ‘Clodogh’ I didn’t relish parking up the road and having to tackle an extremely busy road. Could I manifest so easily again? Could I put in a cosmic order for the perfect parking place? Without even being able to see possible spaces I indicated to park as I drew closer and there on the end was an even more perfect parking space.

Boy it is easy. Right ‘Missy’ time to chase those even bigger manifestations now and stop in the words of Dusty Springfield ‘wishing and hoping’. Read the right books. Listen to the people who are successful doing what you want to do.

Earlier in the am I came across a person called Amy Porterfield who used to work with Tony Robbins and helped him work on his book that sounds like ‘Money Master the Game’ and Tony had always advised Amy – if you want to do something follow, listen etc to the people who are really successful at doing what you want to do and learn from them. I’d bought this book and many others that I read people had read bought and used and credited to their success but I never really invested in them enough as I had invested many other books.

‘Well you know what you need to do then ‘Missy’.

After our takeaway I spent the rest of my evening reading Tony’s book off my kindle app and started highlighting my favourite bits and one of them was the quote above by Aristotle.

I have been quite a fearful little chicken for the majority of my life but now to live the life I truly desire I have to take risks, put myself out there and there will be people who won’t always agree or like what I am doing but I cannot contemplate a life doing nothing so that I avoid getting judged and this thought reminded me of Dita’s quote above.

There is always someone who won’t like peaches so you might as well get on and do it anyway  ………. unless you don’t want to get judged.

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