If it looks like a duck it may not be a duck

Everything will work again if we unplug it, including us

It’s a journey, not a destination and even when you try to trick yourself to think You have reached a destination it may only be the beginning of another journey


What I love about Gabrielle Bernstein the most is something she said in one of her books Super Attractor that has stuck with me and has been especially relevant recently


Someone said to her they felt like a fraud in their profession  because they still had a lot of fear and working out lots of personal stuff. How can they help others when they still have hard times and The Gorgeous Gabby replied that they were working on their 7th book and still a head-case (her words)and admitted to a Live audience they had been out of alignment a few months and while they may have their face on books and a mic in their hand they still need constant spiritual support


I loved her honesty and authenticity and when I need spiritual support I make a Beeline for Gabby’s books Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back on audiobook and listen on repeat and implement many of her tools


I learnt from Gabby that things that show up that are less than favourable are universal assignments and they will keep coming up until we deal with them


I learnt something similar when I took my Ho’OPonoPono certification before Christmas and I know the most productive times in my life have been when I surrender


I made a decision I wanted to clean and clear some stuff so I wasn’t suppressing these assignments and stay on the Universal Merry Go Round of same ol same ol


What I hadn’t anticipated was the amount of Sxxt that came up when I started to work on cleaning myself and I suddenly boom 🤯 I’m in the similar situation as the Lady above


Instead waking up happy and using my gained knowledge to support others I needed it on myself big time


I actually advocate Social Media Omnipresence for building an online presence and business as do most of the people I follow and respect and they also say consistency is key


Just put your game face on every day and Go, go, go !! Something about this doesn’t resonate with me


I feel authenticity is important and I actually have on my whiteboard “Only market in alignment” and at times my conscious (intellect) was saying post,post,post but if I tried I physically couldn’t and this felt congruent to me NOT to post. It felt aligned with Zero (Super-consciousness)


This morning I was listening to Joe Vitale’s Attractor Factor on my commute and Joe said something as if to validate this point (there are no accidents in the Universe)


When we write an email, a marketing piece, book etc we put our energy into it good and bad and people can FEEL  it and we attract or repel customers and clients so I saw this as we could post as much as we want as many times a day in as many places as possible but if there is some negative underlying probably subconscious energy going on as we produce the materials, whatever shape or form it is in we are literally wasting our time taking that Action, Action


While listening to Gabby’s Super Attractor the other day I had a lightbulb


I have been Manic Manfesting and I didn’t even see it

(Manic Manifesting is doing something out of desperation or panic instead of alignment)


Like Gabby says fully in her book and I mention briefly above. We may know all the tools and what to do and even seen fabulous results in deliberate creation and  people may see us or come to us as the Guru and we can still get out of alignment


Usually when we least expect it and not even recognise we are doing it
There is no out there. Out there is just a reflection of what’s in us and everything we need is in us. We are own Guru’s and the answers are in us … if we only take the time to unplug and tune in but this action, action, action content, content, content consistency is king paradym doesn’t allow much time for unplugging


Recently I asked The Universe a question about long term personal finances and what inherited blocks I had over money subconsciously to clean and I felt intuitively to carry on with my day and I could FEEL the answer would come


The Universe is speaking to us 24/7 but the trouble is we ask and then get to busy to listen (no unplugging)


But this time I felt assured


I had been listening to Mabel Katz’s incredible book “The Easiest Way” repeatedly since waking up in an unexpected bout of Fear and Overwhelm on New Years day


I woke unusually to the prospect of a New Year hot and full of panic
I say unusually …..


It used to be the norm as I dreaded the prospect of a New Year because I hated my life so much until I changed my life by implementing one small change so this feeling felt abnormal to me and one I had forgotten I’d even experienced previously


I write and talk about that one small, easy to apply change often but if you haven’t guessed it or come across me speaking about it feel free to ask


I actually FEEL that this old feeling was being dredged up because I had been Cleaning and Clearing old limiting beliefs using Ho’oponopono and set an intention to deal with some old Universal Assignments once and for all


Christie Marie Sheldon calls these “Love Gifts”


Christie says when you want to change and clear out some old junk (beliefs) The Universe brings to the surface the things up you need to clear out as a gift to say here you are this is what you need to clean
Incidentally I had been using a lot of Christie Abundance block sessions via Mindvalley as well so it should not have been such a shock


But here I was in fear and overwhelm with the inability so it seemed to “NOT” let it get the better of me and I know more than anyone because I tell people enough about it that when we get in fight or flight all the problem solving hormones we need to find the answers to a problem shoot down to our legs and heart so we can run faster away from our supposed enemy (tiger) and we lose the ability to think rationally so we need a calming tool like breathing


In that new Year’s cold light of day “ahhhhhhh” moment I did manage to catch a few slow breaths and asked the question “What shall I do?” and instantaneously a voice in my head said “Listen to Mabel’s book The Easiest Way and I grabbed an earbud from my bedside cabinet and started there and then and I carried on throughout the day with one earbud in while I went about my business


Every night several things come to bed with me …


A long cold drink … or maybe 2, my Umi bluetooth earbuds, my ipad for reading books and my iphone for my alarm and listening to guided meditations etc and if there is an emergency with my elderly Father or kids etc.


I know some people say you should leave your phone away from Your bed but like old limiting beliefs, unlike what some media articles may lead you to believe, you can Train you brain in new ways and not to jump into social media ASAP in the Am and it’s essential it is close by as I mentioned for personal reasons


It is second nature now NOT to look at social media or emails or alike until later in the day until I have carried out my morning routine despite having it close by because setting my mindset is my main priority especially when it’s getting tripped up


But I digress. So there I am still listening to Mabel, day in day out and I ask the financial question and go about my business, still listening in one ear and then ….


Mabel tells a parable about 3 old men sitting outside a ladies house and she thinks they may be hungry and invites them in. They ask if the gentleman of the house is in and she says no. They say then they can’t come in without him there. Later when her husband comes home and she tells him what happened he says invite them in and they tell her they are “Wealth”, “Success” and “Love” and only one can come in. She needs to ask her husband which one can come into the house?


When she tells her husband he says invite “Success” and she says no let’s invite “Wealth” but her daughter who was listening says no invite “Love” and they decide to listen to their daughter and the woman of the house asks which one is Love as they would like to invite Love into the house
One of the Gentleman says I Am Love and stands and starts to walk in to the House and to the ladies surprise the other two get up and start to follow him and she says “you said only one of you could come in” and Love says “If you invited Success or Wealth into your house only one of us could come in but when you invite in Love, Wealth and Success cannot help but follow”


Mabel added “When we do everything for money everything feels difficult. It comes and goes quickly and escapes from our hands. We have to do what we love”


I was doing other things at the time and only half listening. Mabel’s audiobook is only about 90 minutes long and I have heard this parable several times but this time something made me go “Hold, Up”


I stopped what I was doing and relistened and I felt a sensation in my gut so I stopped to tune into my body to see what it was trying to tell me
I advocate that now is no better time in History to take what you love and monetise it online and the key is in what you are Passionate about and I still advocate that and in 2021 I was working on many things I am passionate about and felt most aligned to but with my ventures in to Ho’oponopono and my learnings about the three states or Super-Conscious ~ Conscious and Subconscious and setting goals usually comes from the subconscious and old memories and fear based programming running our thinking and the best way was to come from Superconscious and follow Inspired Action.


All that felt completely aligned to me like when I heard “Everything is Energy” and “Successful people have multiple streams of income” both true  but now I felt actually more misaligned not having the old underlying fear based patterns driving my goals or any goals at all however I had seen more than enough evidence as the now recently deceased Dr Hew Len said that when you surrender you allow the Universe to give you something more incredible than you could ever believe with your limited imagination and I wanted to surrender my goals to limitless potential


What’s my point to all this ?


When I tuned into my body the penny dropped


There was my answer to my financial questions


I thought I was doing what I was doing out of love and it certainly felt blissful when I was creating it and I was definitely Passionate about it but really underneath what was driving it was not love …


It was the old subconscious fear based limiting belief about money running the show


I certainly was doing what I loved and loving what I do but underneath I was thinking if I have this many clients or sell this much product I will make x£y$z but mentally skimming over these thoughts and definitely not acknowledging their true motives


I had a vision of what I thought I wanted to achieve and saw this as just the next step in my Transformation but in truth I was trying to run away from something I no longer wanted and outgrown and to achieve the thing I wanted to achieve I required “In my eyes” a certain about of passive and recurring income for its fulfilment


The Universe knows when you are trying to run away from something and that energy is not a productive energy. It’s usually desperate and scared and motivated by lack and when you have a motivation of lack you are focused on lack (even if you are not aware of it) and when you are focusing on the lack of something you create more lack of something because your attention is the absence of the thing you desire even though you believe you are focusing on something else like a new car, relationship, career or money


You can use Your intellect (Consciousness) all you want to tell Yourself You are thinking one thing but the Universe knows what you are truly FEELING subconsciously


I FEEL there is more to it running my show. I know I grew up surrounded by a lot of poor money mindset and there is also a lot of ancestral poverty consciousness in my history and I still hear poverty mindset speech all the time so there is a lot of old data as Dr Hew len calls it in my subconscious programming still running, I am sure on repeat and I know “Cleaning” as he also calls it will be a lifelong process but that’s no biggy now I know the Tools


Thankfully  using the tools I have been most aligned to I feel things are finally going in the right direction and I also see and FEEL this is because I am entering a new chapter on my Journey and those Transformations are in alignment with some of my intentions I thought about a few months ago


Now I appreciate what looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is not necessarily a duck but a Phoenix in disguise


I set an intention and a whole lot of Synchronistic events occurred which told me it was in alignment with my Higher Purpose and then when some things didn’t manifest in “My” Desired timeline I decided to Trust and Surrender in Divine Timing because when I do it shows up better that I can ever create on my own however because things got a bit scary and yucky I lost my ability to see “This is it. This is the manifestation (Transformation) in process”


As if a thumbs up from the Universe I heard this, this morning by Bob Proctor


“Everything that happens in Your Life is Moving You towards Your Goal”

That word “Everything” really resonated with me and I felt a shift in my being “Everything” is moving us towards our goals even if they look like Sxxt covered in glitter is our greatest gift


Yesterday I FELT I know what ever has been happening and is still happening. When I look back on this I will be so grateful to this period in my life for the lessons and Transformation and twice in that same day I heard personal stories of people who were at Their lowest points and didn’t want to be here, now see those periods as Their greatest gifts.
If you know someone who may need to read this post or learn about those publications that help me personally please feel free to share this with them …


And following my own Inspired Action I am launching a new book about being bullied and using The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono to overcome being bullied and when I tuned in to my intuition to set the launch date the 14th of February kept coming up and initially I disputed it and when I checked in again and the same date came up I smiled …
Of course the international day of Love 💕


I have made it my mission now. Whatever I do, do with love or don’t do it at all


I have unplugged myself, rebooted and cleared out some old software and downloaded a new exciting version. Version 2022.0 😍


Remember If you know someone who may benefit from an unplug or maybe any of these book titles I have mentioned above please feel free to share this with them and my New book The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono to Beat The Bullies is available now on pre-order. Just tap the title to take a look


Whatever You are doing Have a Fabulously Attractive Day and if it’s not going how you would like remember to take a breath and unplug and say it is all happening for me xoxo

Ok ! I admit it. I’m a fraud

Yep, I admit it …. I’m a fraud !!


Disclaimer: before I go any further I am not trying to recruit you


I am just expressing something that I felt inspired to express that may help you the reader but it does discuss in part network marketing something that I am part of and believe has amazing potentiality but yes I admit it has its flaws (usually the people who act inappropriately and give it a bad name but those dudes are in all walks of life right) so can have a preconceived bad reputation


So I am taking part in something called a 90 day run at the moment and we are being asked to carry out some tasks that are completely against what I stand for and what I don’t like about the industry and I feel are outmoded but Inspired Action caused me to join and one of my invested mentors Marie Forleo asked that we be open and NOT say “Hey I know this already” and because I knew I was closing myself off to what I felt uncomfortable about I was in actuality doing exactly that


closing myself off and saying I know this already when there could be something massive there for me but I am here to tell you now


I’m a freud


because as well as being open to the challenge we are suggested to just do what the Leader of the Challenge says


Ahh but I know in my soul that may not be the case with me


so I am a freud


A freud to being open and a freud to the challenge


Or am I


As well as being open we are not sheep and we are entitled to have discernment


Why


because we are all infinite beings with infinite soul missions so we can’t all fit into one box


All trying to do the same thing because “Simon says” is denying our true purpose


It is not coming from Zero


What is Zero


In Ho’oponopono we are taught there are three levels of state or consciousness


Consciousness

Subconscious

And Superconscious


Subconsciousness is where we store all our memories (data) and they are like records playing over and over again whispering were are not worthy, capable, strong enough etc etc etc. It is what creates our fears and doubts,  anxiety


but it is just memories playing on a loop


It is not real but it is a “Reel”


Our job if any, is to get clear or clean of these memories and get back to our superconsciousness or Zero where we are clear, perfect, our true selves and have access to unlimited possibilities


How does hearing having unlimited possibilities sound to you instead of playing old fearful memories of doubt and insecurities


Sounds amazing right !!!


Now who wants to get clean ????


In a minute I’ll give you a couple tips how to start but first I’ll tell you something miraculous about coming from or being at Zero


From that state without being encomboarded by our memories our soul has an opportunity to speak to us


To whisper inspiration in to our minds


That tell us what action step to take next


Tells us what is right for us and what action steps do not align with our true being


Discernment


Why do I tell you this and what does it have to do with a 90 day challenge and being a freud


Honestly when I heard about the 90 Day challenge I had fallen in to anxiety and overwhelm from something as simple as the Festive Season


Those few days had taken me out of my usual patterns and I felt lost and not sure which way to go


Totally unexpected 😱


I had spent a fantastic few days with my partner using the time to clear our house of clutter and in a way take our house back to zero which I feel intuitively is creating a vacuum for something I was desiring to manifest


And I went with the flow and enjoyed the process but at the same time when I went back to my normal daily routine or tried to those few days were enough to knock me off course and allow the subconscious fear based memories creep in and cloud my judgement




Thanks to Ho’oponopono I started trying to drown out the noise in my head and practice simple Ho’oponopono techniques and initially it can be a battle with the two states and we have to use the third state, the conscious mind to focus on the and carrying out the practices especially when the data mind seems louder and there is no evidence of being at zero


but Zero is always there


always with us


the key is no expectations


Just practice and try to listen to the voice of inspiration and I saw a post about an opportunity to join a 90 day challenge group from another Leader that was not my upline and something in me from zero sent and inspired action step to comment on the post


shortly after I received a message from the said Leader


Now I am in it I am catching up on all the videos being accountable and turning up or the trainings as much as Possible and taking notes on the actions steps to be followed


but honestly I will not be a sheep


I will be open and present and I have got some gold already that I wouldn’t have got if I hadn’t been open to join by saying I know this already and it is not my cup of tea and I will probably try some things that I am not a fan of purely for being open to new opportunities because I trust that Inspired Action nudged me to join


When I was taking my Ho’oponopono training the Trainer Joe Vitale said go to zero as often as possible and then follow those nudges however crazy they seem


I call this Inspired Action and following inspired action after reading the book The Secret coincidently where I came across Joe is what changed my life


And I am currently studying and reading Mabel Katz books that I came across via my ho’oponopono training and when I woke on New years day with an overwhelming sense of fear and dread and tooks some deep Ho’oponopono breaths and then laid quietly and tuned in and asked for guidance and the Universe spoke to me from the whiteboard and said listen to Mabel’s audiobook “The Easiest Way: Solve Your Problems and Take the Road to Love, Happiness, Wealth and the Life of Your Dreams”


While walking around physically clearing house with my partner unbeknown to him I had one ear bud in with my phone in my pocket and I was listening to Mabel over and over again for hours, days in fact and I still am but a different book now and that’s where I got the tips I am about to share with you that I used to quiet the chatter in my head and yesterday the 7th of January just as Mabel advised if we do this I had a major breakthrough and feel like the clouds have broken and sunlight has come flooding through and along with that I feel like a funnel again and Divine Downloads and ideas are like, the sunshine flooding through and I literally am writing this at 5 am after being awake since 1am noting down whatever is coming through


I am not saying it will work as quickly as this for you but what I would advise as Mabel was encouraged to do as she speaks about in the book I am currently reading is “release expectations”


Expectations raise fear and anxiety


Read on if you want to know what those tips are:


One of those downloads was the title I am a Freud


I may feel a bit of a freud because I have joined the challenge but know deep down I will not carrying out all the tasks to letter if at all and it may be that some will be a springboard to do the opposite or validate my reasoning why I feel some of the techniques while I am sure will work for some are outmoded because they come at a price and don’t resonate with my personal philosophy that hard work is bullshit and not necessary especially if you follow the Ho’oponopono ways and in that way it may seem inauthentic so I am a freud to the process


But I reiterate we are not sheep


We are Infinite Beings with Unlimited potentiality and only acting out in one way is stifling  that gift but I am not saying there are not gifts in the challenge so I am remaining open practicing zero and acting on inspired action and oh yeah documenting the findings in another Inspired Idea I had to write a book in 2022 following my progress and logging my results of aiming to stay present and detached aiming to minimise expectations and not setting goals so I can share with others my findings on that journey and show what is possible with Ho’oponopono


Talking of which those Ho’oponopono tips


In Ho’oponopono there is a Ho’oponopono Prayer that goes “I’m sorry please forgive me thank you I love you” as pictured above so feel free to save the photo and or save it as a screensaver so you can see it often and repeat it to clear you own house

When we say I’m sorry please forgive me we are taking full responsibility for what is in us subconsciously, those old memories playing on repeat and to forgive ourselves for not knowing they were playing and therefore creating the less desired outcomes in our lives


Sidenote: This does not mean guilt of Any, any kind !! See below ….


In my 5 step Program The G.R.E.A.T formula™️ created before my Ho’oponopono certification I talk of my love of Responsibility and is what the ‘R’ stands for because I believe when we take responsibility it gives us the power to take control back for our life and not be a victim where no power exists


By saying this we are clearing and cleaning those memories and saying “No more!!”


For me Thank You I love You is thank you to that uncomfortable situation like my anxiety over the festive season for showing me I still have some old memory data playing that I still need to clear and I love you because cleaning this gives me the opportunity to  get closer to Zero and a more peaceful abundant life


Years ago I read a book by my hero Wayne Dyer and in it he used the phrase “Let go and let God” if anyone was the eptimany of Ho’oponopono practices of detachment and no expectations it was Wayne and I always found by using this phrase I found peace even though I am not religious


I see God as the creator of all things with no denominations


It is the creator that makes trees grow and winds blow and our heart beating and our lungs breathing while we sleep and in Mabel’s books she uses Let Go and Let God and and Let go and Trust


and when I felt really overwhelmed I kept repeating the Ho’oponopono Prayer and “I let go and trust I let go and let God”


Above I mentioned the Whiteboard this was something Dr Hew Len who is featured in the Training I did and who was also Mabel’s Trainer and who Mabel took over from when he retired mentions and I love the analogy and I won’t discuss it here but by letting go and surrendering I feel I am allowing myself to access the possibilities of the whiteboard


All things far greater for Me than I could ever anticipate


Let me know in the comments if you have set your sights on a goal or set an intention after learning about The Law of Attraction and it hasn’t manifested and you have felt yucky and then when you least expect it something far more miraculous than you could have ever anticipated shows up effortlessly after a weird series of events or synchronicities ?


That’s what can happen when you remain open, coming from Zero and why I am not a fan of hard work trying to manufacture outcomes that are limited compared to what the Universe has in store for us


I hope these words help you when the subconscious try to take the wheel


Even just repeating thank you over and over again or thank you I love you will have a profound effect


The First and to me the most important part of The G.R.E.A.T Formula™️ is ‘G’ for Gratitude and there are scientific studies now advocating the benefits of Gratitude which coincidentally was the first Inspired Action step I took in 2010 when I read The Secret


Write 3 things I am grateful for first thing in the morning in a journal


It is so profound it was even mentioned in Grays Anatomy the other day and I love how Life has Transformed since I started my Law of Attraction journey in 2010 because of The Secret and was afraid to discuss openly my love of LOA to where such things are spoken about openly and advocated by social media influencers movie stars , musicians and Oprah


Let me know in the comments you successes and even non-success stories in the comments and I would love to share the success stories on my blog and help the people didn’t achieve the success they desired


I have just had another Inspired  Action idea …..


With Your permission these could be featured in my 2 books I am currently working on. The one I am mentioned earlier as I document my surrender goalless journey in 2022 and another book about The Law of Attraction and Beyond with Ho’oponopono


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Let Go of Expectations & Fall in love with Inspiration

Have you ever like me, felt like a freaky geek? A black Sheep? Never Fitted In ???


I have never sent on a chain message ~ 😱 Yep OMG !! It was me that broke it !!


I never accepted an ice bucket challenge


I have never bought matching Christmas PJ’s


Not saying there is anything wrong with these things .. it’s not just in my nature


I don’t feel inspired by these things


But what I did feel Inspired by were Goals ~ boy did I love a Goal and December 2020 I set some Magnificent Babies but …..


If you have seen some of my posts you will be aware of the Law of Attraction but for a long time I have been aware of something


Some Goals Manifest and some don’t and usually the ones that don’t have massive expectations surrounding them and when you notice something you expect isn’t manifesting you can become focused on lack


When you focus on lack, you manifest “The Lack of Something You Desire”


But this is easier said than done not to have expectations but thankfully in the latter part of 2021 I found something that I believe has the answer I was looking for


I know what I have instore for myself 2022 is different from many of my peers


I am now in 2022 trialling The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono


I have NOT set any goals, I am going back to Zero, I will aim to stay in the present moment as much as possible, act on Inspiration only and practice detachment daily


There is more involved to this but if anything I have said resonates to You and You feel inspired to find out more about The Law and Attraction and Beyond with Ho’Oponopono do not hesitate to leave a comment


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